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Top Eleven manager was my first facebook game I enjoyed so much. Playing against different people from different parts of the world, competing for players in the transfer market with tokens. The 2015 version comes with a 2D graphics with improved display. But I observed that it is very difficult connecting to their server here. Am I the only one experiencing this or is it a natural occurrence. What can I do? I have re-downloaded several times |
misspicy:It's bound to happen but I try my best to keep it in check |
The deadly Boko Haram sect has left a letter at the scene of
the explosion that killed over 50 people at a market in Sabon
Gari, threatening Borno residents to join the group or die.
Local vigilante said threat letters at the site of the blast
cautioned the locals to wake up and join force with the
terrorists to fight ‘Holy War’ against ‘infidels’ or face more
attacks.
Wakil Modu has said that, the warning letter supposedly written
in ‘Hausa’ by the insurgents advised the people that, fighting
the cause of Allah is a holy business, which all who believe
must wake up to join in the blessing of henceforth.
The vigilante added that they have reported several times for
action to be taken principally at Talala and Ajigil area of
Damboa local government area, where it was considered to
house Boko Haram members, but nothing was being done
about it.
He said: “ Last week a Fulani man brought a report, which said
that he saw a Boko Haram member with sophisticated weapons
and a tanker. When he told us we went and reported but
nothing happened. The attack on the market, we got a hint, but
the market is an open place people can sneak in. We are still
calling on government to do something because this is the third
time the market is being attacked although this is the worst
attacked so far .” President of Chad, Idriss Deby recently disclosed the Boko
Haram now had a new leader. He did not say what had
happened to Abubakar Shekau, but said he had been replaced
by Mahamat Daoud – who has not been heard of before. |
I'm still friends with my ex, I find nothing bad with that especially considering the fact that we were friends before we dated. A bad relationship is not equal to bad friendship . |
Clearly shows you are a retard |
We all want to believe in true love, and in
happy endings. We all want to be believe
that we will find a partner in this life,
someone to constantly love, trust and build a
life with. But is there such a thing as destiny,
fate, “written in the stars,” meant to be?
Probably not.
Whether or not you believe in destiny—truly
believe in it—may be affecting your
relationships and the way you approach the
possibility of love. It may even affect your
behavior toward your partner in a long-term
relationship. What if our belief in destiny is
actually preventing us from finding a partner?
People who believe in destiny think
“everything happens for a reason” and that
they are being guided by fate no matter what
they do. They believe that despite their
choices and behavior, they are destined to
end up in the same place, with the same
person. It’s fate. Written in the stars.
It’s a romantic notion that takes the onus off
people. It makes you believe that our choices
—bad and good—don’t have far-reaching
consequences. It doesn’t matter what you
do. This breakup/make-up/meeting has
happened for a reason. We don’t have to do
anything. In relationships, this kind of
thinking can do way more harm than good.
Studies show there are two kinds of people in
relationships: those who hold growth beliefs
and those who hold destiny beliefs. People
who hold the belief that a relationship grows
and changes over time and that it requires
constant work tend to be happier in
relationships and have longer-lasting
relationships.
On the other hand, people who hold strong
beliefs in destiny and fate tend to cut and run
when struggles happen in a relationship,
because they take domestic difficulty as a
sign that their match isn’t “meant to be.”
They’re more likely to end it earlier. Destiny
could actually prevent you from domestic
bliss rather than guide you toward it.
Because here’s the thing: relationships
require work. There are days when you won’t
feel ooey-gooey, lovey-dovey toward your
partner even if you still love them as much as
you ever did. But on those days, it’s hard to
look at them and think, “they are my
destiny,” because that’s a romantic, sappy
sentiment that burns so bright at the
beginning of a relationship, but has the
tendency to fade after the honeymoon period.
And even if you’re happy, committed and in
love, you may second-guess your relationship
simply on the basis that you want that
feeling of “destiny” back.
You think: what changed? Why don’t I feel
like that anymore? Because it’s natural, not
because some cosmic force is telling you that
there’s another destined love waiting out
there for you. So you sabotage a good thing,
believe in something better, and lose what
you had.
There’s no perfect relationship. Even if you
do believe that “everything happens for a
reason” and that the universe has a plan for
you, once you find your “soul mate,” it won’t
be all joy and laughter every day for the rest
of your lives. After the fulfillment of what you
call destiny comes the work to keep this
person in your life, and destiny can’t do the
legwork for you.
Even if you believe someone is perfect for you
doesn’t mean they’re perfect, and it doesn’t
mean you’ll always feel like they’re perfect
for you. Perfection doesn’t exist, and it was
some quote falsely attributed to Marilyn
Monroe that went, “Imperfection is beauty.”
Despite not having been spoken by Miss
Monroe herself, there’s some wisdom in that.
Better to believe in beauty and choice than to
believe in destiny. Better to believe in the
fruits of your hard work and your love for
another than in fate and soul mates.
A certain episode of Friends comes to mind,
where Monica tells Chandler she doesn’t
believe in soul mates. She believes that, and
I quote, “What I do believe is that we fell in
love and that we work hard for our
relationship.” If you listen to no one else,
listen to Monica and Chandler. They are the
oracle. They carry all the knowledge.
I think it’s much more romantic, realistic and
astounding to think of two people finding
each other, falling in love and caring enough
about what they have to work at it every day,
than to think of an invisible force drawing
two people together. I think choosing
someone is more amazing than being
destined to be with someone, and that being
chosen is lovelier than a force picking you for
someone else.
Trust yourself more than fate.
By LISA LO PARO
http://www.popcrunch.com/belief-in-destiny-may-be-hurting-your-relationships/ |
I'm not supporting Obama and his endorsement of gay marriage. But if we are so fast to criticize this movement, we are all saying gay marriage is sin but so is pre-marital sex but that didn't stop you from doing it. Check yourself first! |
Buy her a joystick handler manual, next time |
Ladies always wanting finished goods since the inception of time. |
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E don be for her be that. She must be ready to dance to the beat she made. |
Posting shit thread like this |
Makes me remember this song When we ask our Government o,when dem go give us lite Dem say na 2010,we don dey wait 2010 since then But now the waiting must end Cuz 2010 don show,oh-oh-oh I want to be like Moses,eh Show my people dem to the promise land But then i notice something,people wey try am don dey underground I see dem i ja Look dem from far Me i fear this Government people Rise up Naija Raise ur Apa Tell them you are tired of the evil E don tey wen Fela don go o(2x) So the leaders are after the doe Choose themselves like Mini Mani mo Tumbo tumbo baskelebe See dem eye like dey shak kelebe See dem pickin dey comot kelebe Poor man pickin dey rush olele I see dem i ja Look dem from far Me i fear this Government people Rise up Naija Raise ur Apa Tell them you are tired of the evil Gbogbo owo lo n kolobi Won de TV won soro gidi Se wo ni,s'emi ni, a mo na gidi We dey follow follow dem like zombie Shey na today(na today), Wey we dey wait(we dey wait) Go buy candle ,go buy candle Shey na today(na today) ,wey we dey wait(we dey wait) E lo r'abela, E lo r'abela o I see dem i ja Look dem from far Me i fear this Government people Rise up Naija Raise ur Apa Tell them you are tired of the evil Yes boss,M.I with the flow boss No more yes bosses its no Boss No boss so long u scope us Why you eat green like locust So ur masses live low cost Hunger,poverty choke us You say there's a new plan for u There's no light,how you gonna show us All man just fightinh,thinking,fu-el rising ,money sinking Phcn so blinking ,Phcn to the fighting I keep on singing,writing People voting,we coping Country broken,leaders heartless Open my eyes,still darkness Its about that time That i spit that rhyme That can touch that mind Who can tell that friend Who can take that stand We can reach that end Put your lighters Up,they cant fight us down Light up naija dis 2010,The futuristic sound (cuz 2010 don show oo) |
Please, I need clarification on what the 'share' link is used for. I know the 'like' is to signify you like a post, but the 'share' Can someone explain? To crown it all many people use the 'share' button without really understanding its purpose. |
True but not always true! |
Spoilt your day |
What is this? I'm joining too. Official winner confirmed by CNN, FOX NEWS, BBC NEWS and NTA news :-D |
Ask Oliver Queen for the way out in Arrow Season 1 |
Why would you compare stage performance to video performance. MJ all the way! |
homesteady: You are lucky that she did not hiss at you sef!Did he say he was talking to every girl he met that day? |
Wtf!
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Abeg, what do I need BBM for when I could just continue to enjoy the comfort of whatsapp messenger. It's got MORE USERS than others messengers. |
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Imagine, ASUU strike never concern them. Na iPhone again. October 1 will mark 3months without reply from FG. Na we students go double cross and steal those phones as ransome. |
Jxt_mayor: 2013 range rover i guess?What word in ancient don't you understand, Abeg explain to him. |
If everyone in Nigeria should donate 10 naira each, it won't pay off just a debtor money, na wa o |
A bird in hand is worth more than two in the bush. |
Dyt: And wat is d big deal if he buys her everyth?You go fear RUNS gal. Confirm gold digger. |
Marry you by force. Oga, run for your life. |
Marry you by force. Oga, run away for your life. |
Maybe he's trying to control his libido, looking at your pretty eyes makes him damn hot and he doesn't want to ask you for IT. Probably he thinks it's too early or he's raised the issue before and you refused him. |
I'm playing it successfully. First of all, check if there's no error on your power ISO. |
Can someone explain? To crown it all many people use the 'share' button without really understanding its purpose.