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Magnoliaa:
Let me read out your crimes to you (others might see other things you've done wrong and point it out).

- Lols

What the fuçk is "lols?"
Like who says that?

- Called her Fumi

I don't know about others, but that would have pissed me off legit. Of all basic communication rules, this is literally the simplest to follow but you managed to flout it.

- Requesting for a video call

It's giving desperate horñy baskard. When you're not mad. From where to where? Exchanged contacts two days ago, and already want to do video call? When we've not even established any sort of familiarity?

STFU, who the hell made you the girl's lawyer. TAKE YOUR BS FEMINISM SOMEWHERE ELSE.

Duchexx:
So you brought our chats here..you this foolish boy. Simp😡

Laugh wan kill me o. Hahahahahahahahahaha

1Sharon:
Omg. You're one of those double texters. It's making you look desperate. She's clearly ignoring you, so just move on. She probably did like you, but your desperate typing put her off. How annoying you are.

This is why I keep encouraging men to not be gentle with women. Treat women the way you treat your job.

IF IT IS NOT WORKING OUT, DON'T FIX IT. MOVE ON

Magnoliaa:
You really could have saved us the back and forth and all the pretence of you being good, reasonable, caring about choice and facts and empowerment and what not.


If your response to me bringing up sex trafficking is that you don't care, then it tells me nothing except the fact that you're a bad person through and through. With a dead conscience.

May the fate of those women and the misery you add to them, multiplied by five, be returned back to you 🙏🏾.


You can fuçk off now. I'm done with you.

I don't deal with sex traffickers. You are ABSOLUTELY NOT BEING LOGICAL. Should I pay for the sins of sex traffickers because I am having FUN paying for sex. WHAT KIND OF LOGIC IS THAT?

Secondly, may your prayers be answered. If all the money that I have spent on sex is multiplied by 5 and given to me, I WOULD BE A BILLIONAIRE IN NAIRA.

TAKE BULLSHIT TO THOSE THAT CARE BECAUSE I DON'T.

Magnoliaa:
This is exactly the article for you.

You're the "good client purchasing soul". You're absolutely no different from the violent ones and I wish you nothing but the absolute worst.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/nordicmodelnow.org/2019/11/22/open-letter-to-all-the-sex-buyers-everywhere/%3famp=1

Stop your EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. I paid for services rendered.

Magnoliaa:
You're a fly following the corpse to the grave at this point, and you will not heed anything.


It checks out that you will resort to buying sex, because I am talking about meaning relationships and connection with another person, you're reducing it to SoCiEtY dOeSn'T cArE aBoUt MeN. I projected that you do not have any true friends or have people only flocking around you for what they stand to benefit, you're reducing it "people hate men, people love women." So basically, you have no control over your life? Or you cannot chose to curate a circle of friends that you positively impact each other?

When you thought I was man, you were screaming simp and holier-than-thou all over the place; now you're still making it about my being a woman. The fault is never your own.


Sha do better; I doubt you can, because no one who is good will ever pay for sex anyway, so it'll seem like I'm just talking into the void. My previous "encounters" with men who buy sex is from articles. Articles detailing their thoughts and beliefs and actions, you're the first sex buyer I'm interacting one-on-one with that's confirming to me some of the things I've read. And one of them is their lack of empathy. It's oozing all through your comments to me. You've called yourself selfish so many times I've lost count.

So my back and forth with you is partly not for your own sake. It is for anyone who might be reading them and contemplating buying or selling sex. Or for anyone on the "I'm not judging, it's just an harmless choice" spectrum of neutrality.

You can deny it until you're blue in the face, but buying sex makes you much more worse than the average man (who do not).

https://prostitutionresearch.com/men-who-buy-sex-have-much-in-common-with-sexually-coercive-men-new-study-shows-4/

You're not any different from the rapist on the street, just because you've paid money to have sex.

You know it; I know it, and the women you're using knows it.


Sex is not a right for anybody and (nuns/priests prove that) you can live a healthy life without it.

I do not wish you a nice life 🖤.

Mrs FEMINIST, You are a woman and will never understand. In your head, men have it easier than women.

As for whether society, especially women (FEMINISTS LIKE YOU) hate men and only deal with a few of us for FINANCIAL or SEXUAL purposes.

There's a lady who experimented being a man for a year in order to experience what's like dealing with a woman as a man.

GUESS WHAT, she was treated so badly that she killed herself in less than 2 years after the start of the experiment.

YOU ARE AN EMOTIONAL FEMINIST SPEWING EMOTIONAL GIBBERISH.

TAKE YOUR ADVICE TO YOUR FELLOW FEMINISTS. JUST LEAVE US AND OUR CLIENTS OUT OF YOUR NONESENSE

Almightyprosper:
How do guys manage those empty pussy

Empty pussy, you say.... Leave the empty puci for us to manage...

Some no get ten thousand to spend on REFURBISHED PUCI for this TINUBU REGIME.

ECONOMY HARD

LeopardX:
80% of the time, it's because there's no money.
But it's hard for guys to admit to that fact so they'll say it's because women are this and that.

But when money show, they risk it all: get married, have kids and hope for the best.

The probability of a poor man marrying is higher than that of a rich man.

The moment a guy starts making money, his standards for women further improves rendering most women useless in his eyes. Except he wants to marry a woman for other reasons best known to him.

Na broke and unambitious men wey no get choice but to manage the scraps wey dey street. They are the one's wey go say "make I just manage her because of children".

Augustine2244:
I can never lose interest in settling down,no matter the number of bad partners I meet, because marriage is a beautiful and honourable institution ordained by God.
My parents got married and had me, and so my own will and can never be different.
Only fools give up on settling down just because of a few mistakes in choice of partners..
Marriage makes you feel complete and fulfilled, knowing that there someone special you will grow old with, someone to offer you the invaluable COMPANIONSHIP at all times.

GOOD LUCK bro... I'm seriously rooting for you. I hope your experiences are far much better than the average person

Good luck and stay safe. Use a condom

Marriage is a scam that only benefits women. Except you know for sure that she is different and you can both tolerate each other, don't do it.

siofra:
She has the right to do whatever she wants with her body


Fūck you and your stupid thread

AS I WILL ALWAYS SAY AND QUOTE

"HER BODY, HER CHOICE. MY MONEY, MY CHOICE"

I SEE SO MANY SINGLE WOMEN IN THEIR OLD AGE... THESE GENERATION OF WOMEN ARE ABOUT TO FIND OUT THE MEANING OF LONELY IN A VERY HARD WAY

That went well... That man did the right thing... At least he can finally use this as the perfect excuse to walk away for good...

Magnoliaa:
😭😭😭😭😭

It is also your arrogance for me.


So it is either:
- You don't have anybody in your life to call a true, close friend(s)
Or:
- You use money to "attract" people to you. People stay around you for the benefit they're going to gain from you.


Omooooo. That's sad o. You're sad.

Women truly live in COOKOO land.. You really think that society care about men... No one truly care for a man except they are related to him or benefits something...

CONTINUE LIVING IN YOUR BOLLYWOOD FANTASY

Why would you even be serious with any woman who rejected you for another man even if it happened last week??

Magnoliaa:
And you must not know that sexual trafficking exists.

You are a FEMINIST... Now I can see where the problem is coming from...

TAKE my paying for sex as a means to empower women. If good guys like us don't go out to pay women and girls for sex, they would be more desperate and put themselves in arms reach to those who wish to cause them harm...

I have heard stories from these girls of how they or their colleagues got robbed, raped, thrown out of moving vehicles or even killed..

So you should be praising us instead of your feminist nonsense that we do take care of these girls when with them...

In two weeks time, when I'm back on land. Will be looking for a young yellow shorty to blast..

KEEP THE FEMINIST WORK GOING AND CONTINUE TO EMPOWER US WITH YOUNGER FRESH LADIES..

KEEP TELLING THEM THAT IT'S A GIRL'S WORLD, THEY DON'T NEED NO MEN, MEN ARE SCUM, THEY SHOULD HUSTLE FOR THEIR OWN MONEY etc...

WILL BE READY TO RECEIVE THE NEW FEMINIST RECRUITS WHEN I'M ON LAND...

Magnoliaa:
And you must not know that sexual trafficking exists.

One thing we can both agree on is that this argument is redundant... I am off to do MORE PRODUCTIVE THINGS with my time..

MY MONEY, MY CHOICE... YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE...

AS LONG AS I PAID YOU AND WE HAD A GREAT TIME, DON'T CARE...

Magnoliaa:
Why must you pay for this? Why should you pay for this? You will continue to pay for natural things other people enjoy freely, forever? Friendship, human connection, love, sex, a gist partner to have fun with?


At least with therapy, you know it is because one person has a problem that needs fixing, and it's strictly professional when you pay to have your problems heard and possibly solved. And that is understandable. But you will not agree that paying for sex and intimacy stems from the same reasons.

Yo, you are a kid.

Nobody enjoys these things freely. You spend time and money or you simply spend money.

I choose to spend money only and move to MORE PRODUCTIVE ACTIVITIES.

Don't worry, you would soon understand when some rich guy out there starts lashing your babe. All these nonesense bollywood hallucinations will eventually vanish and you would know that sex is truly transanctional.

HAVE A NICE DAY, KID.

Magnoliaa:
Jorion, you're shouting too much. I am only saying factual things (mixed with a good measure of shaming, I know) and you're exploding way, way more than I anticipated.

I can't even separate any point you're making from another.


Am I hitting a sore spot?

No, you are shameful, no matter how much you vehemently deny it. PATHETICALLY SHAMEFUL.

Can you hear yourself? So you think the opposite of buying sex is you begging for it?

If you don't buy sex, you must beg for it. Either one. You beg or you buy sex.

In your warped world, an in-between doesn't exist, an in-between where your likable personality or attractive body doesn't flatter just ONE person enough to want to have a fully consented sex with. One where mutual lust/healthy intimacy is shared. Pfft.

What experience do you have? None whatsoever. You have been simply preaching.

I have told you that you pay for sex one way or the other, time only or time and money.

All your nonesense about love just proves that you are either a kid, a simp or do not have enough sexual experience.

BUT THAT IS NOT YOUR FAULT AND I THINK YOUR CHOICE SHOULD BE RESPECTED.

THERE'S NOTHING WRONG PAYING FOR SEX AND HAVING A GOOD TIME. AND I WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO.

Magnoliaa:
But I do agree with you, though, that prostitution is old. And has always been disproportionately filled up with women. Poor, disadvantaged women at the mercy of men with monies, the ones who always need their sexual urges satiated. So it is actually the oldest form of oppression against women.

Men buy consent and access to do whatever they want with a woman's body.

It is not the world's oldest profession and so it is impossible for it to continue being the oldest profession. As for it continuing to exist, well, you may be right. Because of heartless men like you. That it is something that has been existing doesn't make it right, and neither does it changes the violence inherent in it.

You're just telling me "prostituted women have been suffering since the start of time and they will continue to suffer." That's all I'm hearing from you. You don't give a damn.

Murder has also always been in existence. People have been killing each other since the dawn of time, do you say killing is right then?

Let me tell you something that you don't know, nobody forces a woman into prostitution without her consent. Women usually engage in sexual relations in order to survive, that's just how it is. I am sorry to burst your bubble but paying for sex is way better than filling her head with fantasies and wasting both of your time.

I AM A SELFISH PERSON AND I DON'T HAVE TIME TO WASTE.

If a girl is attractive enough, WILLING TO HAVE SEX WITH ME for money and I HAVE THE MONEY TO PAY HER, there's no problem with it. There was a GREEK hoe I had sex with who would call me regularly to ask when I am coming back to the UK because we actually had a good time together including sex, massage and small discussions.

GLORIFIED SIMPS LIKE YOURSELF SHOULD STOP ACTING HOLIER THAN THOU.

Magnoliaa:
At least you have no problem with accepting that you're shameful. Stage one of grief passed.

You're now in the anger phase.

'I will continue to pay for sex', but you're not the simp, LMAOOOOOO. Who will tell this dude? Aww. You're so pathetic that outside of buying desperate and vulnerable women for sex with money, you cannot get sex freely, willingly, with a woman who truly loves you and wants your pleasure. Not the one who only pretends to like you for your money. How do you deal with the emptiness afterwards when you're alone at night, huh? With imposing your will on another woman, who you know cannot say no to you, because she's working for the money? It honestly makes you feel good? My questions are me assuming you have a conscience sha.


And don't yap at me. I have provided you with incontrovertible proof disproving that nonsensical claim. You can prove otherwise or continue to believe in a lie if it makes you feel better.

Dude, I am shameless. Nobody opens their body to have sex with someone if they are shameful.

Secondly, you speak like a child. Do you really think some men are stupid to spend 2 to 3 months of their lives and money trying to woe a girl for SEX?? ARE YOU FK'ing JOBLESS or a slowpoke?? Did you also try to use the love argument on me?? I laugh in chinese. Maybe you are still a virgin or something. I don't have time for your nonesense.

You are just mad because guys like us get to have what you are dying to have in the most effortless and time consuming manner.

Hopefully, you can have money and f as many bthces as you want someday. But I doubt it, because SIMPS like you have nothing to offer but chasing the illusory love. Continue to wallow in your SIMPful ways.

A WORD OF CAUTION: GIRLS DO NOT LOVE GUYS. THE BETTER YOU UNDERSTAND THIS THE BETTER YOUR LIFE WOULD BE.

GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS (MONEY) AND SHE WOULD LEAD YOU TO HER ROOM. HAVE A SMALL CONVERSATION WITH HER IF SHE IS WILLING TO SHARE AND EARN YOUR MONEY BACK. THEN GO BACK TO MAKING MORE MONEY.

NO I LOVE YOU
NO EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENTS (Except she's really good)
NO TRAUMA
NO MANIPULATION

JUST GOOD SAFE SEX.

BEFORE GOD, FEAR WOMEN... MARRIAGE == HEADACHE

Magnoliaa:
And this is a lie, by the way.

A big, fat, fuçking lie.

It's obvious you've swallowed all sorts of "intellectual placebo beliefs" and just regurgitating it to make yourself feel better about your actions- present or past.

Farming, hunting/gathering, midwifery, tool-making, shamanism, trading—these are the world's oldest professions in an arguably hierarchical list.

Don't take my word/people's opinions for it: make your own research.

Do you even know what an occupation is?? People paid for sex long before they started paying for food.

Whether you like it or not, no girl willingly submits to a man without receiving anything of value in return.

Even our ancestors, the gatherers were the same. Those who had the biggest kills got the best puci. Thats why the best hunters, farmers, fishermen, traders, kings etc had the best and most hoes.

I don't care what any SIMP says, I will continue to pay for sex. END OF STORY. NOBODY WILL BRAINWASH ME WITH THEIR HYPOCRITICAL MYOPIC MADNESS.

GOOGLE ''THE OLDEST PROFESSION" AND YOU WILL SEE PROSTITUTION FIRST.

FYI, sex has always been and will always be a service. Nobody gets to have sex empty handed. At least one of the individuals paid for the action to occur.

LoveUdie:
1. STARE AT HER WITH DESIRE
A woman feels wanted most by how her man looks at her. Men are visually stimulated beings so she will look to see if your eyes tell her 'I want you'

2. LET HER KNOW WHEN SHE TURNS YOU ON
She feels good when she knows she arouses you. If you are near her and with a hard on or thinking about her when you two are apart and find life in your boxer too hard for comfort; let her know. She wants to know she has an effect on you; even after years together she wants to know she's still got it

3. PRAISE HER BODY
Speak it, let her hear you talk so good about her sex appeal

4. NOTICE HER EFFORTS
If she gets a new hair do, a new dress, if she works out; let her know you are paying attention

5. PROTECT HER FROM HERSELF
A woman can sleep feeling sexy then wake up doubting her sexiness. One negative comment from someone can easily make her question her appeal. She might look at herself and not like her body weight, size or shape and she lowers how she views herself. In those times, affirm her beauty and sex appeal

6. RESERVE SPECIAL TITLES, DESCRIPTIONS AND WORDS FOR ONLY HER
Don't describe other women as sexy, hot, beautiful, a turn on; don't comment using such words on other women's photos on social media. Those words are not special if you tell them to other women

7. MAKE HER HUG DISTINCT
There is no problem hugging female friends, you value their friendship. But the hug you give to your woman should be tighter, touchy, most intimate, distinct from the hugs you give to others

8. DON'T DROOL OVER OTHER WOMEN
Discipline yourself not to be throwing your eyes on other women, ogling over other women's cleavage, hips, butt, lips, walking style. Focus on your woman

9. DON'T PRAISE ANOTHER WOMAN ABOVE HER
Never should it be that you seem more intrigued and captured by the beauty of another woman

10. KISS THE PARTS SHE CONSIDERS UNPLEASANT
Almost every woman has something on her body she is conscious about. It could be the size or shape of her boobs or bum, her stretchmarks, or even her love handles tyred up on her tummy. Whatever part you hear her mentioning in an uncomfortable manner, kiss it. Kissing it makes her secure, because deep down she is scared you might not find her as sexy because of that part of her body

11. AVOID PORNOGRAPHY
If you wouldn't drool over other women in the streets, don't drool over other women on the screen. She feels sexy when she is enough stimulation and attraction for you and you don't need to view naked strangers to give you a high. Once you get addicted to staring at porn stars, soon you will start lusting after women physically around you. It will be easy to chase after other women for sexual gratification because you chase after porn stars. Unfaithfulness is bred by lust on screen and in the streets

12. BRAG ABOUT HER IN PUBLIC
She wants you to desire her and elevate her to the highest special place, not just in private but in public too

13. EXERCISE YOUR RIGHT TO SUGGESTIVE ADVANCES
She belongs to you, so feel free to flirt her up, to grab her butt, to stroke her skin, to hold her waist; she feels legitimately yours when you take charge

14. KISS HER ALOT
Sexual attraction is linked to kissing. The more you kiss her the more she feels you desire her

15. TREAT HER GOOD OUTSIDE MATTERS SEXUAL
Don't only say the right things and treat her like a Queen when you are Hot and thinking of sex. Even when sex is not on your mind, treat her like a queen. If you expect your wife to make love to you good in the bedroom, treat her good outside the bedroom. When you are good only when after sex, she feels used

16. LET HER KNOW WHEN SHE TOUCHES YOU GOOD
If there is anything she does right to bring you pleasure, let her know. Don't let her struggle in knowing what to do to please you. When she sees you drowning in her touch she feels powerfully sexy

17. DISCLOSE TO HER YOUR FAVORITES
Do you love her in long tight dresses, bare backs, short dress, high heels, red underwear, thongs, lace, silk; tell her. Make her work easy

18. CHEER HER ON
When she twerks for you, strips for you, lap dances for you, wears lingerie for you; cheer her on, boost her confidence

19. BE FAITHFUL
Let her know she is enough. Have no other besides her

A woman can feel sexy but when her man celebrates her sex appeal she feels even more sexy. Man, she is not sexy for herself, she is sexy for you; fire up her sexiness and you will be the sole beneficiary of it..

All these for a woman And for this harsh economy wey some men no dey even chop 3 meals daily?

Magnoliaa:
Chi. I know you are not telling on yourself like this on a public forum?

Stop giving inexperienced advice... Prostitution is the world's oldest profession and will continue to be... I have fkd them in all shapes and colours, there's nothing wrong with it... As long as you both have a nice time...

Magnoliaa:
Why? You buy access to women's bodies and you want to be respected for it and not shamed?


No konji is going to kpai you. Have some fuçking self-control as the human being that you are or you masturbate! You will not die for not having sex.

Stop patronising prostituted women. Do better and be a better man.

Na so. Be a man before he rapes someone's daughter or girls starts to use him to play volleyball. Forget about all those yapping. SEX HAS ALWAYS BEEN TRANSANCTIONAL AND IT WILL CONTINUE TO BE.

carl90:
Meanwhile, patronizing prostitutes or runs girl on the regular is a rotten lifestyle.
Let me just assume OP just want to take some load off from his konji.
Still, the best lovemaking and sex remain the one you have with a girlfriend or a wife .

Will you keep quiet

Weretuntun:
how to make lost interest and hate sex, i want to focus on very important issues about my life.
god bless you all.

Learn programming and take it seriously... Sex will be an after thought because there's just too much to study

pazienza:
Please let's stop playing the Voltron game.
Our concern is only about Anioma for now.
The fate of Yorubas in Kwara or Kogi is non of our business and we don't give a f**king hoot about them. For all we care the North should keep them, after all the Yorubas don't wish us good in our battle to Reunite with our Igbo kin and kiths in SS.

As for Ijaw, for all we care, Yorubas should keep Arogbo and Apoi forever and never release them. We really don't care and will not speak for or against them..
The Ijaw i know have been working steadfastly to annex our Igbos in Bonny and Opobo, as well as making sure Igbo groups in Rivers state remain Igbophobic.

It's about time we started paying evil for evil. We must learn to play Nigerians by same rules they play us.
We defend our interests only and do so ruthlessly and we make sure we maintain tactical silence on other people interests, we don't go about playing the righteous equity game no more.
We keep our peace!

Ndewo.

When bonny and opobo take become igbo lands. Be very careful with your nonsense o.

mrvitalis:
Bini n ijaws are smart they know the only way to get Igbo land is to make those Igbos feel they are not Igbos

The day Ikwerre joins niger Delta Republic boom they would loose port Harcourt straight up... Ijaws would claim it instantly

Same with aboh n larger ika Nation

Wetin concern ijaw, bini and this matter now?

TUFIAKWA