₦airaland Forum

okoroemeka:
only a naive man can expect to marry a virgin in this era that 70-80% of 16 yr old are already knacking and sucking,real men value respect and loyalty not the mileage on your pussy

Do you know why the KINGS OF OLD (aka REAL MEN) had a harem of virgin wives?
You are looking for loyalty from someone who can't make sound judgement about men?
Loyalty from someone who has smoked shisha and weed?
Loyalty from someone who jumps on any PHALLIC to make a quick buck?

ANYWAYS, GOODLUCK...

South African blacks are a COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME. Don't bother us with that country abeg

Because unlike before, guys now have options.
Unlike before, girls bring no value to a relationship except sex.
Unlike before, girls are not traditional and approachable.
Unlike before, girls don't know how to respect a man even if they would say NO.

Guys are beginning to realize that women are overhyped and the ROMANTIC HAPPILY EVER AFTER IS SIMPLY A FANTASY.

Soon, girls go dey pay bride price. It is well

Well, guys for nairaland get a lot of experiences to learn from o.
I really learned a lot from this post and it has further re-enforced my belief that I was right to give women only my spare time and money all along.

Hassanmaye:
Haha that's how they born basters Yahoo boys who will kill them for rituals, allow the fools please

I know lots of guys from very good families who are into cyber-crime and I know lots of individuals from broken homes that are extremely responsible to a fault.

Society is not black and white.

Have your baby mamas but take care of your children and be actively present in their lives. What the children choose to do with their lives is entirely up to them. The best you can do is be consistently present to lead them right.

If you like, go and marry a washed-up and repentant prostitute, that's your problem.
If you marry these ladies, they will so frustrate your life due to their previous experience with very toxic men.
These girls have a high probability of being promiscuous because it has become part of their nature.
They are also looking for the best deals and would easily leave you for another guy with more resources than you.
Guys, you can't go out there to fight the world for money and come back to a troubled home.

THE WORLD IS HARD ENOUGH, DON'T ADD ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WITH ONLY PROBLEMS INTO YOUR LIFE.
I AM NOT SAYING THAT VIRGINS ARE INNOCENT O, I AM SIMPLY SAYING THAT THEY DON'T COME WITH SUCH BAGGAGE.

Make money make women respect you o.

Na the only language wey ladies, even young secondary school girls, dey understand these day.

With money, you make the rules and they follow.

Na man wey no get money dey complain say women dey play hard to get. No be hard to get o, them no wan date broke man

luminouz:
You can rest in Amadioha's name. Irresponsibility is coined by you lots when you wanna get married and are looking for who to use as your retirement plans. Men benefit nothing from marriage. Men are waking up from that shiit. You will remember my post when shiit hits the fan

Thank you for not falling for the EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. You are a real man

TheWinterBird:
Nobody cares where you did your masters. The UK isn't the only country in the world. The U.S and Canada also exist and are actually better for industries like engineering. Please refrain from quoting me again.

Make I laugh. You can't get a job in the UK but you want to get one in the USA or Canada.

Aaaaaaaaahhh. Having a big dream is not a bad thing as long as you can back it up.

I am seriously rooting for you.

See as you no get sense. You put your talk on PUBLIC SOCIAL MEDIA and you no want make person quote you.

NA YOUR FATHER DEVELOP NAIRALAND ABI

Zeal0000007:
ok I'm a marine engineer, our job is offshore base. We are ship crew . We carry out operations and maintenance of ship machineries onboard a ship I just acquired my license.

Marine Engineering is a tricky one. If you have the right certifications (which are very expensive) and a few years experience, na job go dey look for you. (ALL OVER THE WORLD)

If not, nothing for you o.

TheWinterBird:
Why don't you lower yours or why're you coming at me with this tone? So my saying the OP should try applying for jobs abroad is a problem for you or wetin be your own? Because I don't understand the discouragement you're trying to cast in here. There are engineering jobs abroad that offer visa sponsorships. In fact, I just looked up some now and the first posting I'm looking at is for a position in the U.S that says, "Hiring multiple candidates" and "We ARE willing to offer visa sponsorship for the right candidates!". I won't make a suggestion for the OP if I know it's not possible, but of course this is dependent on other factors of his (e.g. finances). If his results are good (they will likely ask for his transcripts) and he can gather some money that he'll need, then this could be possible for him. In any case, this is merely a suggestion, and he can either consider or ignore it. Either way, I wish him good luck!

You know dey ever hear word, I did my masters at the University of Aberdeen and I can tell you for a fact that those guys don't care about your AFRICAN CERTIFICATES (there are exceptions though, like IT and medical sectors). But there's no harm in trying, as long as you are very intelligent because there're no short cuts over there.

I AM JUST GIVING YOU MY 2 CENTS.

Holluwhakemmy:
Your last sentence so shall it be in Jesus mighty name 🙏

And let the children of God shout a double AMEN!!

AMEN! AMEN!!

Holluwhakemmy:
You are not serious yet? Are you not the one fighting for him why dodging again?

Why I no go dodge?

IF WOMEN FIT BREAK THIS FINE BOY HEART, WHO AM I?

I sanctify myself with the Blood of Jesus. Any spirit of ROMANTIC LOVE for women should flee from me.

onumadu:
The girl said something important, and I would rather focus on it.
She said that all the men that are currently patronizing those girls will in the future start looking for "wife material".
She then said that all of those men MUST marry someone with such past whether they like it or not.
Remember she said 95% of girls out there, which leaves us with just 5% (according to her street statistics )
You see why I attack virgin hunters here?
Today those men would be spoiling the women by patronizing their deviance and tomorrow they start looking for virgins to marry. I dey laff.
If men in society don't patronize these women in their devious craft, would they continue? My smart guess is NO!
So, before you look for virgin tomorrow to marry, make sure that you NEVER EVER engaged in any hook-up or thunder will visit you.

Dey play, you think say the virgin go just fall enter your lap abi. Na from sampling them na you take dey find the virgin na.

EVEN THE VIRGINS DEY LOOK FOR EXACTLY WETIN THE RUNS GIRLS DEY LOOK FOR, COMFORT.

THEY ARE SIMPLY SMART ABOUT IT.

TheWinterBird:
What brand of engineering? You shouldn't have that much difficultly finding work as an Engineer. If you are, then apply to countries outside Nigeria.

Lower your voice abeg, because there are no jobs in Nigeria and foreign jobs would require a foreign university certificate and work experience.

Holluwhakemmy:
OK no problem you can join him too

GOD FORBID BAD THING.

I AM NOT THE COMMITMENT TYPE AND WILL NEVER BE, EVEN IF I FINALLY MARRY.

DER NO DEY CARRY WOMAN MATTER FOR HEAD, NA SHOULDER. AS E HEAVY U SMALL, U BEND THE SHOULDER SIDEWAYS MAKE E DROP.

THE ONLY THING I WANT IS , OFF PAYNT.

Holluwhakemmy:
Do you know the said man physically?
when and where it happened?
If he value himself he doesn't need to be crying just because he was rejected by his girlfriend, this is the time for him to struggle so history won't repeat itself.

But when a guy does it, women will start with the "ALL MEN ARE SCUM" tag abi

SInce it is a girl, the guy should man up or move on or it's all a JOKE.

Kobicove:
If you're broke just know that your own is finished where ladies are concerned

I pity broke men because I have been there. When you are broke, women will so BROKE-SHAME you to the point that everyone in the entire neighborhood will know that you are broke

LISTENING TO THE REDPILLERS SAVED MY LIFE BUT THAT'S A STORY FOR ANOTHER DAY.

That's why I will always advice men to go and make money

JessycaB:
Don't date kids in men clothing ladies!! This is the kind of things that occurs when you do!

Smh

She is just a kid and you should be encouraging her to build a career for herself instead of looking for more mature men who are probably much worse than the kid who broke her heart.

Women should learn to be a little bit logical from time to time. IT WON'T KILL YOU

Dooohh, No cry again. It is what it is.

Na small pikin sha. This one suppose dey read her books, not following one boy or the other.

Anyways, a man is allowed to have preferences and YANSH is always KING.

CyrusVI:


I like this. left to me, I would even want men to stop talking to ladies with no bum or the ugly ones.

In the last place I worked, i dont respond random greetings to from small ass ladies and the ugly ones, I discriminate alot against them.
I know its not their fault, but its not my fault either.

As for short ladies, they are at the bottom. I get angry seeing them laughing. Like Whats funny. That gene shouldnt be passed on and you're here laughing

She should go a rich man with poor taste

Holluwhakemmy:
Fake story as usual

It is now fake abi. You see a grown man crying and you are trying to call it fake because women don't want accountability for their actions.

SEE THE MESS THAT YOUR GENDER CAUSED. IS IT A CRIME TO BE POOR AND IN LOVE??

tete7000:
Now I can read through your story and I understand why your mind is conditioned to think the way it does.

CONTINUE ON THIS PATH O. I LOVE IT. AT SOME POINT, YOU WILL END UP ON THIS SAME FRONT PAGE AND I WILL BE HAPPY TO COMMENT ON YOUR MATTER.

Na guys like you na women dey like for as back up or to pin belle for him head.

NO SAY I NO WARN YOU

tete7000:
I definitely know who is dull between the two of us. It can't be me, never. It is surely you who doesn't know the difference between an ideal and a circumstantial situation.

Hahahahaha. I grew up in the streets as well as amongst oil workers. Nothing you fit tell me or know about life.

As long as you are not a robot and have money, women will come for you. In those circumstances, shit happens.

YOU LIVE IN YOUR FANTASY WORLD OF TELEMUNDO WHERE A SINGLE GUY SEES A SINGLE GIRL, FALLS IN LOVE AND BEAR CHILDREN.
DON'T WORRY, NA THIS SAME NAIRALAND YOU GO COME CRY.

Doooohh, No cry.

I think say women no dey break FINE BOYS HEART O.

Anyways, you should be happy that she left because she clearly belongs to the street where you would be appropriately taken care of.

tete7000:
You have suddenly jumped from making categorical statement about people being free to having children outside wedlock to a advocate of women caught in abusive marriage. If you want me to talk about abusive marriage, you need to first make categorical statement about where what you consider an ideal place for a child to grow, a divided or a united home? When we have agreed on this, then we can talk about anomalies that can arise in the course of human existence. Mistakes should never be used to define what is ideal... Never!!! Only confused minds use mistakes to redefine norms.

You dull o, I swear. Your argument is that a man must be with a woman because of the child(ren). I am simply telling you that there are a range of circumstances where that is a NO NO.

If you can't get a simple argument, STOP TALKING ABOUT ETHICS BECAUSE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT IT.

I have told you that there are a whole spectrum of REALITIES but your strong head wants to take ONLY ONE.

NA PEOPLE LIKE UNA DEY ABORT CHILDREN. YEYE

tete7000:
Moral to you is religion. You know anything about conditioning in psychology? Have you ever read ethics in philosophy? Most of you are illiterates thinking you know something about things you know absolutely nothing about.

Ok, Mr ethics. What of women who are in abusive marriages? Should they die in such marriages because of the children?

THIS IS SIMPLY AN ETHICAL QUESTION.

EreluRoz:
Delete this comment

Why should he delete something true because it makes you uncomfortable?

tete7000:
Your opinion, you are entitled to it. Mine too, I am entitled to it and I am not withdrawing what I earlier wrote.
Mistakes can happen and they remain mistakes. That they happen doesn't mean they should be used to redefine what is normal.
Once people begin to use mistakes to justify abnormalities, their sanity is already being altered with. Every child needs to grow up under the same roof with father and mother, and everyone who genuinely loves a child should strife to ensure that no child is deprived of this benefit.

You no get talk. If you wan preach, go the RELIGION section.

tete7000:
The fact that you accept that raising a child outside a home where a father and mother live together is ok already put a question mark on your sanity.

When you don't have sufficient evidence to back up your arguments, you turn to insults.

Sometimes, shit happens and a child pops up. People bear children out of wedlock all the time.

IF A WOMAN DOES NOT WANT TO END UP A BABY MAMA, SHE SHOULD ONLY HAVE SEX WITH DECENT MEN WHO ARE WILLING AND AVAILABLE TO BE FATHERS AND NOT JUMPING FROM ONE IRRESPONSIBLE DICK TO ANOTHER WILLING TO HELP FOOT HER BILLS.

As long as the man is in the child's life and caters to the needs of the child. THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.

DonBenny77:
slowpoke because you wan Bleep ashawo no mean say you go sleep daybreak for Olosho quarters.
Are you homeless.
Only a fool would leave the comfort of his home and go sleepover constantly in Olosho room and bold enough to tell us she still serves the public when he's around.
Na wah oh!
Abi you get accommodation problem

Eyah, why your body dey bite you? Abi you no get money to sleep for LovePeddler house.

Just because my home is comfortable does not mean that I don't find the breasts of a woman comfortable.

Since you called them public servants, allow them to serve public FOOLISH citizens like us wey fit afford am, while you can follow your private servants.

WHY BODY DEY DO YOU AS IF NA YOU DEY GIVE ME THE MONEY?