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iAmCharis:
I live in the same Nigeria too.
Well, I get you.

Good.

Kachisbarbie:
Yea. You're definitely the first person I have chatted with in this life or on this forum _ that's why I won't hear word again on this forum?
You talk to someone OFF-LINE, then your brain feeds you to always refer to it ONLINE? I've told you what I wanna tell you, ain't gat much time to dilly dally today.

Well that's left for you and only you to know.

Whether you know it or not (which I doubt you don't) you show aspects or bits of yourself whether offline or online.

iAmCharis:

The bolded got me rolling on the floor

If money was the only thing everyone considers an incentive, the world would be worst than it is now and definitely boring. Like very boring!

You mean some words from your parents or from elderly people or from some family members/friends can't and won't move you?

Dude, I hope you saw in the post you quoted where I bolded "THIS IS NIGERIA" right?

And to answer your questions, words are just words. Be it negative or positive. I hope you get what I'm saying.

Kachisbarbie:
it really pisses me off to the marrow when you come up with that typical whatever. You don't know me up to cm dear, so drop that shiit.

Abeg make we hear word joor! The words you spew here, or, the words you've been spewing since we started chatting here is enough for me to have an inkling as to the kind of person you are. You love to dilly dally, give people abstracts and try to play 'the smart girl' but when someone redirect all what you direct at them back to you, you always never seem to like it. This you've shown me countless of times.

So please don't come with at me with that teen drama attitude.

Kachisbarbie:
I am so not in the mood to do cyberspace argument today. I need energy to validate my man

If everything were about "cash"_ we won't have TANGIBLE and INTAGIBLE ASSETS.

Yes! Typical you. I suppose your tangible and intangible assets can not be converted to cash right

Griffon:
An Incentive is a thing that motivates or encourages one to do something. Validation on the other hand is getting feedback from others that “what I do and what I say matters to you. You hear me. You see me. You think of me. You thank me. You acknowledge my accomplishments. You appreciate my efforts.”

If you cant spot the correlation in the two then I'm sorry I can't help you. Incentives must not always come in money form, get your dictionary and come good on this debate.

Dude don't twist words with me. Kindly re-read what kachisbarbie said because that was the cause of this debate. This was what she said

Kachisbarbie:
If humans don't need validation, why do we have/need promotion at work. Why not sit on your desk, do your work, don't get promoted and convince yourself you're the fhucking best.

Now based on the embolden, I ask you what the end result is in correlation to what kachis.barbie said?.

Griffon:
Validations are like incentives, they give you reasons to work better, smarter and harder.

We must welcome them, just as we must welcome criticisms, they are there to spur us up.

It must not necessarily add a penny to your account.

To you validation are like incentives. To me, its not!. Never forget, in Nigeria today, money is the highest motivating factor, not kind words. Any incentives that doesn't add a penny to my pocket goes through my right ear, and comes out via the left.

Dude, amidst all what you said you must learn to be very practical in your analysis, THIS IS NIGERIA People tend to work harder when the pay is better than work harder when they're given just kind words of encouragement.

Kachisbarbie:
Understanding is deep nne.
The thread is not in anyway encouraging laziness, no sane woman would validate a lazy man. The thread is directed at real men who are trying their best, but somehow the society and ladies around them think otherwise.

They say they don't validation, try saying the men in your lives are the only reasonable men on earth and watch some of them come for you like an anticipated prey.

If humans don't need validation, why do we have/need promotion at work. Why not sit on your desk, do your work, don't get promoted and convince yourself you're the fhucking best.

The difference is at work we get validated so we can get paid. Promotion means increase in salary, its that simple, but when you get validated by people does it add a single kobo to your account?

Mogidi:
Muhammandu Buhari=Minister of Petroleum, biggest minister in Bubu's govt.

Scam of the highest order.

I bet his scam can never be compared to that of the PDP!.

SeverusSnape:

How come you're always first to comment in any nonsense thread eh? I thought your blood is now full.

TjNoobsaibot:
LMAO . Noin like that but i do find her amusing.

Well I want to believe its because she gives a good head! Perhaps we might nickname her "headmistress" LMAO.

TjNoobsaibot:
What do you have against me bro?

Absolutely Nothing.

PunkyVeer:
What I'm going to give you is a good headbutt

Think I just puked at the back of my throat reading that.

I wouldn't mind the headbutt, as long as you're headbutting my d1#k, we cool! And its a good thing you didn't puke on my d... That sh1t is messy.

llaykorn:
I did that so you would not run away a second time. At least, it's not that easy to run away from a marriage in Nigeria

SAys who? Tonyebarcanista, FFK, Atiku and many others have been doing it oh. LMAO.

PunkyVeer:
It flew right over my head like a coockoo bird. You must be new to it, let me teach you a thing or two

Hihihi. Whatever @ the last line. Are you gonna believe him is he says it's good or bad?

Sure! You can teach me a thing or two by first giving me a head, and let's see if you're a good header.

Whether I believe him or not isn't your concern, or are you afraid you give a lousy head?

PunkyVeer:
Duh! I have to speak TO HIM before I can speak FOR HIM. How would I know what to say if I don't 1st consult with him before making a public statement? Through telepathy? I have many talents but mind reading is not one of them

And of course you didn't get my sarcasm. . TJnoobsaibot how is her 'testing the microphone' is it any good? LMAO.

PunkyVeer:
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He said I'm coming to see you & you asked WTF is wrong with him as if he was talking nonsense. I'm not him, I'm his newly appointed spokesperson.

I didn't know answering a question with a question was a "classic Nigerian" thing. Noted. I learned something new today, onderwyser

All the more reason why I asked WTF is wrong with him because, last time I checked, its non of his goddamn business.

And since you're his newly appointed spokesperson, I sure hope you're not speaking to him rather than speak for him. LOL.

PunkyVeer:
Answering a question with a question. Bad teacher

No not bad teacher, classic Nigerian! Only a Nigerian answer a question with a question. Besides, when did you become T.Jnoobsaibot? I invited you, not him, so why take bring him into this, or are you him? A she.male? LMAO!.

PunkyVeer:
What do you mean what's wrong with him? Didn't you invite me for a private lesson in Lagos?

And when did your moniker become TJnoobsaibot? I didn't know they featured you in Mortal Kombat? Or are you Sonya Blade in disguise?

TjNoobsaibot:
LMFAO Punk.yveer!!! All.4naija, diz dude dn turn phil collins for ur e-baby o M sure Joseph.1832 ain't gon tak this. Punkyveer is on her way to him. LMAO

Noobsaibot or smoke or Chameleon or whatever your moniker is, WTF is wrong with you?

PunkyVeer:
Well, I don't find Somalian men attractive at all. And yes, they have bad protruding teeth, which they brush using a stick. Maybe you were just fortunate to meet one belonging to a family with good teeth.

Well so do I! Why on earth would I find a somali man attractive when I aint gay

Somali women on the other hand....