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fabulousmann:
u really don't knw women lk u claim, they won't gossip abt one another there they will only gossip abt ppl that are not there

Danbam:
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There is a diff btw "wisdom" and "knowldge"....y nt let ur dictionary do justice to dt

laykorn:
Lol. It's always so funny to me when people talk about PMs. How will I send a girl a PM when I'm not sure if it's her picture that's on her profile?

How will I PM a girl when I'm not sure it's even a female running an account?

If I open an account, and start posting my kid sister's pictures, will I get PMs too?

The whole idea of the PM thing sucks to me sef.
Ayamlaykorn

ireneony:
most of them are pervert

UjSizzle:
This is what happens when men begin to confuse themselves.

A woman who is interested in a man's money wouldn't date a brokeass dude to begin with

A woman who points out to a broke and jobless guy she's dating the state of his domestic economy everytime they're in a squabble is probably frustrated at his inability to get something going. It is no crime to seek some level of financial security from a guy. She doesn't even need to ask for money; just knowing it's there sure as hell doesn't hurt.

Despite what the world chooses to believe now, men will always be (or be seen as) a cushion for women. Be it financial, emotional, physical or whatever else exists in this world.
Security is the word.

mentorandfriend:
Ladies, these 5 things are in themselves not exhaustive, but they should be foremost in your mind as you consider a man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Watch him for these. I found it interesting because I'm tired of hearing stories of emotional and financial abuse, and wife batering too. It spoils my day; so I thought to share what I found with my nairaland family. The original article was first written by Pastor Dunamis Tunde Okunowo of Kisses and Hugs club. Enjoy reading.
1. Look for the fear of God.
The first thing to look for is the fear of God. This is very important. I say fear of God because the word “born-again” has been misused. Everybody is born again today. People become born again momentarily to get what they want. People give their lives to Jesus in order to get a wife and after they do, they collect their lives back from Jesus! It is no longer safe to assume somebody is God’s choice because you met him or her in church! It goes beyond that. This is why you don’t fall in love with somebody you met two hours ago. You cannot fall in love with somebody you do not know. Love comes with knowledge.
2. Look for focus.
Focus is important. What is the man focusing on in life? What is his vision in life? Who does he want to become? What is the person’s idea of marriage? Is the person serving God presently? What is he doing now? What does he intend to do later? What are his plans?
3. Look for consistency.
Consistency has to with his habits and patterns. Does he have consistent spiritual habits? Who are his friends? How does he spend his free times? In the bar?
4. Look for utterances.
His words are representations of the intents of his heart, …for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. (Matthew 12:34b KJV). His words would reveal his heart. Ask a lot of questions and listen to what he says. This is why courtship is important. Courtship period is not the time to get physical sexually, it is not an alignment of the bodies, it is an alignment of the minds. So before you give your consent, ask questions.What is his concept of serving God? You need to know all of these so that you will not walk down the aisle and then three months after, you want to run up the aisle and out of the marriage. That will not be your portion, but you need to “shine you eye” well! Stop falling in love helplessly, without thinking! Don’t be desperate to the extent that anything that comes goes. When you are desperate, men can sense it, and they may take advantage of that. You don’t have any business in the bed of man that you met few days back! How will you keep your respect and dignity intact like that? What will your relationship with God become? You are not a philanthropist, so stop donating your body and opening your legs generously for whoever wants! Nay!
5. Look for submission.
Is this man submissive? Who can you report him to when there are issues? Does he have a pastor or mentor you can report him to? He is not supposed to be the alpha and the omega that you cannot report. Is he accountable? To who? You know, I have counseled a few married people, and the issues are so serious and it is really very sad, when I ask the wife, “who does your husband respect?” and they go like, “Pastor, he respects nobody, not even his parents!” Now, that is not a good spot to be… Listen to me single ladies; never commit your life to somebody who has no authority figures over his life! When you do that, you have eliminated any external options when it comes to conflict resolution. It means the issue must be solved only by his wisdom and standard and that wisdom can be outright foolishness. That standard can be very warped. So, be wise! Too many ladies have been abused in their matrimonial home, with the husband brazenly beating up the wife and even bringing another woman into the house, and the wife looks on helplessly, because NOBODY can talk to him! It can really be unfortunate! When you are at that point, your only way out is to pray…and ask God to have mercy on the foolish choice that has been made. The mercy of God can turn things around. God bless you.
http://kissesandhuggs.org/devotionals/what-to-look-for-in-a-man-that-you-want-to-spend-the-rest-of-your#sthash.xMorGAzl.u1K8NTtW.gbpl

VickyyB:
Some women are allergic to broke arsè.
Same way you might dump your girlfriend for a better one.

ireneony:
I don't believe in love cos there is no love. Everyone should stop deceiving themselves.
There is nothing that can change my mind about this

All guys;
Lie
Cheat
Manipulative
Dishonest
Bad



Yeah I mean it
F##k them guys

talk2riel:
Family, friends and foe

laykorn:
oyya upload your own make we hear!

I don't sing bro but I know I can Rap!.

VickyyB:
Stop inflating yours, and giving yourself hope that all NL girls really care about ego massaging.

laykorn:
E no easy to sing ooooo.
My first time singing anyway.

Ayamlaykorn

VickyyB:
What should i use this info to do?
Mtcheeeeeeeewwwww

anonimi:


I guess one must be a confirmed mumu who is too LAZY mentally to read, study & understand the Bible to follow these scammers who parade themselves as gods to their clueless followers.

MissMeiya:
Anyone who says the only terrorists are Muslims are verified rétards.

The Ku Klux Klan is a Protestant terrorist group. The Christian Crusades are the most well known forceable religious conversion in HISTORY. The Nazis killed and tortured millions of Jews. Zionist Israel's invasion of Palestine. The list goes on. @Tinubu was kind enough to quote EXCERPTS FROM THE BIBLE that support extremist Christian terrorists.

Those people aren't "real" Christians, but the Muslim terrorists that get denounced by major Muslim leaders, are real Muslims.


The number and level of mórons in this thread defies belief.

ROZZAYY:
Yes sir! Nd till date I've had no cause to regret ur friendship, ayamm honoured to have u as a friend and mentor.

VickyyB:
95% of NL guys bash women.

ROZZAYY:
Lolz but honestly wat is wrong in sending pms, op I think ur assessment abt nland babes r wrong, @ least not all. I send pms to guys, who I would like to be friends with and we have flowed and remained friends doesn't mean I want to fu*k dem, I have my man as for receiving pms let's just say some guys go abt it d wrong way, hence d dissing.
All in all dis is a no cause to open a thread my 2cents.