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[color=#990000]well, if u have money to be changing settees monthly,
bed, and other things dat have contact with the reality of that waist
den wot re u waiting for?

lest i forget;
buy a strap belt and ensure to use it everytime u re on top
cos if u fall, dislocation is inevitable.

HAPPY MARRIED LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!! [/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color]

ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!!!!!!!

why wont i laugh?

the only man dat smiles to the face of danger

when u had your upcomming rel.ship,
u left it because this dude has got some non living things around him
now the poor guy u dated for so long is gone and ur welcome to your marital hell fire.

how can u explain that you dated him for so long and u never figured him 2 be a womanizer, oh ! u thought he will change because u re queen elizbeth,

b4 i say anything, wot re the circumstances that led to that sham u call marriage?
how blind culd ur love be.

anyway, u need a male friend, u already have one, a sweet talking man collects your offerings every sunday,
collectes your tithe every month or dont you pay?
is time he delivered,

if this be a nemesis mind u that prayers wont even save u, because the heavens will be so busy dat ur prayer will get stuck on Angel gabriel's desk'

woe betide u if u try suicide, it wont work so reap the fruit of your labour.

nice ladies. justify your bad and cheap behavior. let me fill you in on something you don't understand. lots of men are pissed off by this sort of thing (giving what belongs to then as your husband to those little rascals) and while they may not be outspoken about it the way i am being, they have a plan to get back at you when you finally get married. it goes something like this: sleep with your best friend, sleep with as many beautiful unilag students as possible, sleep with your sister, have one or two other kids out of marriage, and generally screw as many chicks as possible (not to mention spend some of the money that should have come back to you on them) just to get back at you and woe betide you if you ever try to challenge his actions.
as far as such men are concerned, they are justified since at the back of their minds they see you as being just a slot who was lucky enough to get married to him.


yerima,
thumbs up!!!!!!!!!!!
thank God you know where the good meat is
CATCH DEM YOUNG IS THE RULE OF THE GAME

even @ 40, 17 is still allowed
child abuse is obsolete
well done broda
well done!!!!!!!!!!!!!

day walker,

u must have gotten more replies that u ever bargained for ,what an interesting topic.

from your tonacity, i percieve you re having some guilty prick, dats why it automatically became an issue dat demands your attention.

secondly, i also percieve that dis your brother pays or paid your school fees as the case may be,

for everybody in the house, why is it that whenever an issue bothers around sex, every1 panicks?
when will we africans understand what social liberation is all about,
you slept with her and so what?
where you the first? why do u think u will be the last?

that young man is your brother just by virtue of circumstances of birth nothin more nothin less, in other words; he could have been some1 elses' brother,
so wot re we talking;
casually TELL HIM,
if he pukes
ask him the following questions

1, was he expecting to marry a virgin too bad
2, is he 1? if not who re his victims? ghosts i guess

your mission to tell is reasonable only if u infected her with a life threatning
illness outside that i dont see any reason

if he has accepted her a non virgin in the first place, den whoever doesnt matter ,your brother should be thankful ,what if it was a hooligan from the gutters, miscreant, charlatan,rapist, rifraff or other societal never do wells, i guess he wudnt prefer them,

my advice;;

if he has a good sense of humour TELL
if he is uptight or the straight jacket type
SEAL ur lips

but if i were ur broda, i will laugh and buy u a drink aftaall shit happens

ur french sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

wot attracts a man to a woman is just the natural laws of attraction, nothing more nothing less.
whether physical, psychological or spiritual doesnt' matter, wot really matters is that d attraction is there nd the guy is making the move,
the next question is, hw is the young female handling it?

@ the onset she is never herself, either she is forming to be who she is not or "hyping"
herself like one angel dat fell down from the heavenly st james, @ dat verge, wot do u think the guy is thinking?
or perhaps they think that unbridled opressive social mentallity is attractive to us? "HELL NO"

every lady has got issues, either she is comming out of a heartbreak nd doesnt intend to enta anoda, or she has this guy she aint happy with, or she has this class of guy she wants to hang out wit , u hardly meet them without issues and those issues still come back to haunt the relationship eventually.

the worst of it all is the "hard to get Naija movie mentality" a guy accousts u nd ur feeling like one ini edo while u percieve him as one Ramsey Noah, her verbose and body language aint short of a movie script ,what Nonsense;

the humiliation, maltreatment, scorn, disdain and contempt that guys recieve from so called hard 2 get ladies is disheartening.
d irony is dat u wont know u re causing him pains,but u think he is persistent but he is just there to redeem his ego which uve hurt so badly or perhaps recoop the lost time and resources,

in the end u fall in love and he pays u back in ur own coin. mind ye dat when you play it long, anticipation or high hopes sets in. so if eventually he gets in and finds out dat after so much "shakara". u re just like anyoda girl he has been with, in his chagrin you re "HISTORY"
d way i see it, u girls re the architects of your problems so reap ye the fruit dat ye have sown.


my advice;


if u dont like him or he doesnt meet ur specs ,just let him go, tell him d truth he will undastand, if u cant say, then ur not an adult so stay clear the men's game

if u like him even if u dont get intimate @ the onset, but show him some acceptance
nobody gets hurt,
mind ye that some guys see it that their comming for you aint your right but a previledge dat needs not be abused.

know ye ladies dat the only sin a man wont forgive is the sin dat hurts his pride or EGO

of course they do;
just dat the complexity of the women folks makes
him insecure,
mind u evry lady has got issues