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@ poster

if your question is where you went wrong then im afraid ive got something for u

I

forgave him after a while but still didn’t find answer as to why he could distance himself for that long without any reasonable reason to someone he claimed he loved. His reply to that was Sorry and it would never happen again.

[b]if i understand this properly, u forgave him and things were smooth again
y go digging in the first place?

you disrespected him because you gave him your word that everything  is ok only 4 u to start digging whichever means u employed doesn't matter

now, a lot of people esp. the females re trying to weigh out his direspect on u and vice versa then i ask; what did u do when u were disrespected?
Ans; u forgave him ,the antics, circumstances and methods not withstanding.
obviously he has this formular that if he screws up, comes begging ,you forgive and take him back,by so doing it becomes his leverage and he is using it properly
another question; when all these were going on, he begs and u forgive, giving him more power.

i still have another question for you; do u think that the story of where he was the past three months was so cool yet he concealed it? of course, he knows it will hurt that's precisely y he Neva told u.  amidst the Enigma, u still forgave him, meaning old things have past away, proving his formular right.

now you re  trying to use his leverage to find out wot u have  forgiven, does it make u a liar or not?

i still heard some pple saying that he is angry because he was caught, of course not, because

1  he knew wot he did
2 he knows how wrong it was for him to come begging
3 he trusted his spouse to her words meaning; even if u get to find out, u have forgiven me


i still have to clear anoda issue here, y is it that ladies always think that its only infidelity that undermines a rel.ship which can tantamount to break up?

y i asked is because a lot of pple think dat to some pple, disrespect is not enough reason to break up,

let me tell u a short story;
i was going out with this gal for a couple of years within which i was studying her and bringing myself in totality to her,
one faithful day, i met a new friend that told me of a buisness interest that may interest her so i wanted to hook them up

i called her and she told me she went to my buddys bar, it was normal but just that the place was a bit out of town so she wasn't expecting me to come, i rescheduled the meeting for a later date and my friend left, in the hse i was bored so decided to hang out

i called her again and she said she was still there but i didnt tell her i was comming, on getting there, she was no where to be found i asked the bar guy and some buddys and they said they have not seen her.
like 4hrs later she appeared when i asked, she said she was upstairs using my reservation for something she was working on, i fixed her a drink and went upstairs, on getting there, there was no sign that sme1 has been there 4 a week,

i asked the hotel attendant and he confirmed my fears and told me that she just left ,that she just told him dat ''we'' will be using the reservation dat evening ,dat she almost coerced him to let her sign and affix date and time which cud ave been an unused bill on me so the attendant refused and told her he will clear with me first,

i went straight to the bar and asked her again, where she was the past 4 hrs she repeated the same thing, oblivious of wot ive done,
i reiterated again and warned her that this was not a joke she still stood her ground

on our way home, i asked myself these questions  

1  what is it that she has done that she lied about it
2  and is fighting so hard to cover it up?

i now gave myself a simlpe answer, it is bad enough that im not supposed to know i didnt care again to find out the details becos i knew that she can always cook up stories
i called her up the next day and told her that its over
and she replied ''just like that''

so many of her friends that called me said i was already tired that i was looking for a break up opportunity, but i wasn't bothered

i told my friend also who said im nuts dat i have everytin to loose, that we have come a long way, that family one tin one tin blah blah blah

within that period, i was still battling with d love i had 4 her and all that but i still was avoiding her calls

a couple of weeks later, i was watching a movie with my friend when he called his gf and she said she was home so jokingly he asked me to dress up so he can pay his chick 2 give me a lap dance so we went 2 see her though she stays close. on getting 2 her flat. it was locked we tried her number severally but no response though it was ringing, we went back to my friends place called all her friends but no one knew her whereabouts,
i was worried till the next day when i called my friend he told me that her phone was stolen so out of fear she left her flat for a cousins' place.

my friend bought the story but i just told myself, another cheap lie, how could they snatch ur phone in such serene Estate just 2 blocks from his place and nobody heard shit? i just felt like it aint my business. so i didn't even tell my friend only 4 him to call me in the office and told me that he saw the phone in her bag dropping her off on her way 2 work but he ignored it.

so the question is where were you the previous nite and wot did u do dat is so bad that u needed a lie to cover it up?
i just advised him to watch her closely,
few months later, one of our guys dat helped her secure the job told him that the news is everywhere that she is dating their CEO, dat his secretary caught them kissing in the hall way.
he now broke up with her when he came complaining, i simply told him he couldn't have ignored that phone saga.

everything about infidelity comes with signs, the more signs u ignore, the closer u are to a heart break also most gals re bad players simply becos they have not been practicing so they will always leave u with a clue.

personally, i care about my respect more than love, i see it that when you respect me, you have placed me where i belong and that gives me the emotional stability to grow affection for you, trust you then nuture it to love, so once you derail i may not be that generous to see the end,

oh!! did i 4get? while my ex was still sending me forgiveness text messages, she was found three times having launch dates with one looser that sees me as a threat in the office when i spoke with guy he told me that she told him that we re not married so she is free to do as she likes,
then i thanked God 4 working with the first sign.

Your case is quite different but i just want to clear that impression that not every thing you forgive even God himself does not forgive the sin against the holy spirit.

MY ADVIC;
YOU RE LONG OVERDUE TO BREAK UP



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@ olanajim

u said and i quote

However, before you return to him ask yoursele:
1. Do you really love this guy?
2. Before the picture panorama, did he show enough to indicate that he loves you?
3. What are your weaknesses, and what are his? Can it be improved upon?
3. What do you want from the relationship? Can you guess what he want from you?
4. Finally, every relationship carry a measure of risk, are you ready for it? If you can, then go ahead and work on rebuilding the relationship WITH YOUR EYES and HEART WIDE OPEN. That way, you won't be hurt again.

i strongly disagree with you
what do u take love for ?
some blanket people hide under to hurt the feelings of others abi
when an egg is bad it is bad there re no two ways to that
dont make this sound like one underscipted Nigerian movie, this is reality 4 christ sake

does her going back guarantee her happiness? the answer is no
the guy is a recidivist and as such should be treated like one
ur managing him all these while has brought nothing but pains
he is just spoiling another good mans chance

u re making it sound like the gal is less privileged or something that she doesn't deserve to be happy.

sometimes we men always think that the one that hangs around just belongs to us
funny men!!
you re sad because of the plans u have made,
because of wot u have invested
becos of the time she wasted which could ave been enof to hit one loyal Agbani
because of your Ego
becos u thought u had so much action that no girl could jilt u
becos u appear as an icon among your contemporaries and most of them c u as a role model, some even worship u as a semi God
then i ask;
wot if you were not like this;
i guess u shouldnt be cryn by now
take heart, the lord giveth and he taketh
know ye that
[color=#990000]ONE MANS' LOVER IS ANOTHER MAN'S HUSSY
another translation has it thus;
ONE MANS "SL" IS ANODA MANS "LOOT" [/color]

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Re: Fairly Used 2000 Model Toyota Avalon For Sale (full Option)
« #13 on: December 02, 2008, 07:41 PM »

educate me sir?
how's the avalon placed in the toyota line up?
above the corolla? below the avensis?above the camry? somebody shed some light please?

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Re: Fairly Used 2000 Model Toyota Avalon For Sale (full Option)
« #14 on: December 03, 2008, 08:09 AM »

Avalon is palced above camry because the 2000 model of Avalaon is costlier than 2000 model of camry but of the Avensis and corolla i don't know much.


One love

@Ajagx1

i strongly disagree with you that you rate car brands by their prices
i strongly believe that the car manufacturers look more at consumer needs in manufacturing their cars.


@trisurface

considering the Engine variations and specification, i think its  between the camry and the lexus.
the corolla repr. their standard 1.8l option
the Avensis 2.0
the camry from 2.2,2.4,3.0 $ 3.5 depending on the year
lexus from 2.5 to 4.5
the hybrid options notwithstanding
from what ive seen, the 2000 Avalon shares the same v6 engine with 2000 camry
but the interior is more luxurious than the contempoary camry,
i think the Avalon is a breed for the American market,

@ gold circle

I don't quite agree with you here! what do you mean empty junk?? Anyways, I'll rather buy a car I know is new and certified ok with warranty than buy a tsunamied car or a hurricaned car! wetin I wan use options do? I dey chop cruise control??By the way, who tell you say Nigerian spec no dey carry airbag??so make multi nationals begin buy 'tokunbo" cars abi? na you get sense pass all of them!

you will always know a kid by his actions,

Goldcircle, sorry to get a little personal with you,

DO U OWN A CAR?
DO U INTEND TO BUY ONE IN THE NEAREST FUTURE?
if the Answers are NO, then there are a lot in the Auto world that will forever remain an enigma to you

if the answer to the question is YES,then i will like you to look beyond your nose and understand y an Average Nigerian wants to travel abroad,
reason; STANDARD OF LIVING

do you know dat just a few policies here and there will give u a positive turn around in this country?
the fact that you are oblivious of events around u only makes you ingenuous but not asinine
re you indirectly telling the house that if by chance you re elected the president of Naija (GOD FORBID) you will give SON (standard organization of Nigeria) a pass? u wont have any reason whatsoever to reform SON?

SON has failed Nigerians woefully; just not long ago, the american Government had cause to order the chinese Government to call back tonns of substandard imports ranging from toothpaste,toys, pet foods etc.

now tell me, if it were in Naija, who even cares to check the standard of their imports. Not until a particular product wipes away 2/3rd of the Entire populace will u hear the Government running helter-skelter to profer an un existing solution.

Everyday on CNN, you see where Lagos has been rebranded from the commercial capital of Naija to the "COMMERCIAL ELECTRONICS DUMP SITE OF THE WORLD"

It goes beyond Cars, to drugs, clothings to every consumable in Naija. is it not normal these dayz for one to visit a grocery store with out hearing this one is the original while this one is the china or Taiwan.

don't you know the meaning of "STANDARD OF LIVING"?
transcends your economic status quo, luxury you can afford and availability of items.
it still encompasses the VALUE for that your money that you are spending.

how do u rationalize the fact that is only in Naija that an Airline operator travels abroad to acquire outdated,refurbished artefacts in the name of
aircrafts and still make you pay through the nose if he renders his service?

still on that, how do you rationalize the fact that most Airline operators in Naija will charge you more than 25k ($215) just to fly you from Lagos to PH Airforce Base in a DASH 8 aircraft that is not different from a hand glinder which im sure such aircrafts will not pass for a FARM PLANE in Europe or America for less than a 45mins journey.


the count is endless, the Earlier you understand that SON has failed us the better for you.

is your kind of people that the western society voted the most resilient country in the world where people suffer and smile, mix pleasure with pressure where out of your hard work u provide yourself with all basic infastructures, build your own house without Mortgage loan, secure it to an extent by erecting perimeter fencing cos no police, sink your borehole cos no water, buy and fuel Generators cos no light, incure medical expenses which of course is

a fallout of pollution without an effective health care insurance package yet the road that leads from ur house to where u get ur daily bread is untarred. what a country? where even the rich are poor in spirit of course they also cry in Naija.

who told you that options in cars don't matter?

don't you know that in 2005 when you were paying 3.6m for those dead corolla XLI options in Nigeria, that your mates in America re buying the XRS and LE options, outside the fact that the LE had a little luxury it was far less pricey than those scraps, not eluding the fact that it came with a powerful 1.8l engine that produces 172 horsepower while your TOY could hardly boast of 130hp and you tell me it doesn't matter?

re u still telling me that you dont know that the CE option of camry is more fuel Economical than the XLE V6 option while the later Enjoys more luxury and couthness than the former, same is applicable to all cars which is a function of their prices?
and you say option doesn't matter?

u said and i quote

I dey chop cruise control??

re u really asking a question or you re just exercising your Anonymous freedom of speech bestowed on you from the ANIMAL KINGDOM? is that the only difference you could find?


u said and i quote

I'll rather buy a car I know is new and certified ok with warranty than buy a tsunamied car or a hurricaned car! wetin I wan use options do

The scraps you buy in Nigeria, who certifies them? an African country dat is as hungry as yours will certify an Export vehicle, on what grounds? abi on whose account?
when they re grateful you have taken their burden Away.
Or you think that America is Naija that has license papers for smuggled goods dats y u think an average American will sell a disaster car without proper certification abi?

sometimes i wonder how long it will take people like you to make contact with Reality
I CURSE THE DAY THAT LORD LUGARD AND HIS WIFE PROPOUDED THE NAME ''NIGER AREA''

@ poster

mere mentioning these
shows you know exactly what to do

Am going to get thugs to go rape him, beat him blue black, burn up his car and harass him every time he leaves the house.

what then re u waiting for, permission? damn it
you have my go.
anything else?

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Need Serious Relationship (urgent)
« on: October 22, 2008, 11:28 AM »

Hey landers,
i'm a 25yr old chic, employed and looking for a serious relationship.
dude must be presentable with excellent communication skills and very employed too.
Reach me on 08038442329 (evenings only) Floaters, back Off !
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busted


you fucking d**k head pretending to be a lady.
Anyways, having a pu**y could be fun
used to be my fantasy when i was insane

maybe stop going to the Health section asking why u re having Erectile dysfunction