₦airaland Forum

Reflect7:
COLONISED MUMU.

So African culture in your colonised head is 'idolatry'?

FESTAC was done precisely to rid Africa of stupid, brainless mumus like you.

Evidenx:
This festac was what enthroned Satan in Nigeria, Today Nigeria is one of the countries that Satan have office in. I speak by divine Revelation.
From 77 till Nigeria began to go downward. Because people in their ignorance welcome the devil to take over their country.

IntelChief:
My elder sister is around 32 years and still not serious with marriage. Her only focus is on making money and she had been very successful in that aspect. She has a well paying job and is not only comfortable but also supports me financially sometimes.

But I just can't imagine why she is not disturbed about the fact that she is still single at her age. A lot of guys I know had been approaching her but she never accepts even a relationship offer from them, talk more of marriage. (And am very sure that she is not a lesbian or any of that).

As a church guy, I have seen a lot of women stock in this not being married thing and jumping from one church to the other seeking for husbands. Some of them, out of desperation, fall victims in the hands of fake pastors and sharp guys. I really don't want my sister to go through such.

Initially, I wasn't disturbed, but right now, this issue is burning not only me but also my aging mother. My mother had even stylishly urged my sister to go get married on several occasions. But she won't.

What really got me mad was when I was discussing with my sister some days back about her future plans. She told me stuffs like planning on travelling abroad for greener pastures, bla bla bla, but made no mention of marriage.

Honestly guys, I am tired. And as a man in the family, I am thinking of changing it for my sister. Am planning on threatening her that if she doesn't take the issue of marriage serious, I will go physical with her and teach her some lessons. But the issue is that she is my elder sister and I have some respect for her. And my action might end up affecting the bond in the family.

princepee:
a hustle oo!
When you have money you will have power,
Women will queue to be your wife, even highly educated and seemly feminists, will not mind to be second third or even tenth wife!

I most be Rich!

Nlanalyst:
There are no Village people in Manchester.

Greenwood's problem is lack of self control.
May he rot in hell.

Ilekokonit:
Once husband and wife sleep in different beds or in different rooms, the marriage is almost over and may not last for very long

Husband and wife have no business sleeping in different beds or in different rooms.

The excuse some women give is that they are nursing a baby who must breast feed through the night and thats a fair point but at some point, the baby will stop feeding on breast milk and at that point, the baby can go and sleep in his or her cot and not in the parents marital bed and after some time he or she or they if twins have to go and sleep in their own room and let Mum and Dad have the needed private time so that they can bond if their young marriage is to survive long after their children have left home (which they will someday).

But the mistake a lot of women make is to over prioritize their time with their baby / toddler to the detriment of their marriage. Why go into a marriage when at the first sign of a baby, the wife imports the baby permanently into her marital bed under the guise of breastfeeding and in some cases even when the child is more than 3 years old, he or she is still sleeping beside the mum at night and often times the man has been stylishly shunted to sleeping in another room and even if chairman wan nack during the day, the 3 year old child is furiously banging on the door for the parents to open the door because the child has been made to always feel he or she has to be beside the Mum.

But wives who want their marriage to last will know where to draw the line and give unto Caesar what is Caesar's in a TIMELY manner.

A word is enough for the wise woman who wants her marriage to last way past when the kids will have left home to start their own families.

virginprincess:
She did the right thing,nobody is supposed to be happy with buhari, not after all the sufferings and pains he and his evil govt has put nigerians through.

virginprincess:
She did the right thing,nobody is supposed to be happy with buhari, not after all the sufferings and pains he and his evil govt has put nigerians through.

mperornero:
I thought it was kick against indiscipline (KAI)?

Samantha123:
I don't know, it just never crossed my mind.

purehustle101:
Love is a mental disorder.. wake up and stop dreaming.

leody:
Pls guys don't get married again stories of marriage i read the previous week is up to like 7 wetin happen?
You guys should stop getting married every Saturday to avoid this stories.

successmatters:
He looks good in this picture, he must be around 67 years old then.

VKN23:
The bible made reference to a lot of things considered as a sin
But is there any way you can tell if smoking is a sin as there is no reference of it in the bible

mightyleks:
Are you jokingly saying Arsenal did not spend? Highest spender last season.... Still spent this season.. . Bro money is vital

Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted with the word of God but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( He can/will help you). That is if you're even a christian.