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heniford2:
that is why its good to have a writing agreement stating the type of thing you want your workers to do or don't, you employ a maid you should be specific if your the one feeding her you and sheltering her does not mean ur in charge of her life you should have a writing agreement to always be on a safe side

Where do you base?

SweetCunt97:
Me I'm available for kindness o. I don't abuse kindness

I dey fear you. As your cunt sweet like this,the speedometer go be whao.Guys take cover pls

OFFICIAL336:
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No mind that guy

See,I have to tell her to mind her business because that was what so many people told the other guy that complained about his sales girl.Hope you get my drift now?

humilitypays:
I gain nor lose nothing with their attack. Remember, nobody can stop reggae because reggae is life

Wat a bam bam.

humilitypays:
The most difficult thing to do in our present world of today is raising a girl child.

Many girls are sexually wild between the age of 17 - 24yrs.


Some from 15 - 24yrs.


They fvck any guy that presses their mumu button.


That your teenage sister, niece or daughter, if they tell you how many guys she has fvcked under your nose, you will marvel!


This is one reason I fear having female child, I love female kids a lot but fear of what may happen to them always make me moody cos its not even about good upbringing.


I saw with my own eyes in a general compound I lived some many years back in Lagos, a very popular Pentecostal church pastor's daughter sneaking out at night and when its raining heavily to go fvck some guys in the same compound.


That girl should be around 16yrs.


Not only her, I also caught other teenage girls sneaking out at odd times to go fvck different guys in the compound. Some smooch at the staircase.


The guy that repairs my generator have also caught one rich man's daughter in my street back then fvcking a house boy from another compound in her fathers house.



Many ladies reading this too, if u can be honest to yourselves you will remember how you were fvcked silly by different guys in your school, church, mosque, compound, lesson class, workplace, etc while growing up. It is common with ladies; they become sexually wild earlier than guys.


Guys start late, but girls start very early and will look very innocent and homely u won't even know not suspect their ways

Truth but my hand no dey when dey go attack you here oo.

heniford2:
what am saying both the first and the second one has no right as far the lady or the guys its above 18years to interfere in his or her private life and the people supporting her to sack or encourage her to keep digging or spying on someone private life are sick this only happens in Africa you can never hear about this overseas.

ok. So in all they should mind their business? What if anything happens to any of them while in their custody,who takes the blame?

OFFICIAL336:
The girl is her business

I know bro. Sarcasm

heniford2:
Nigerians are beautiful people with stupid mentality i saw that topic people will usually want to interfere in someone life just because he or she is working for you and we Nigerians don't see it as something as i am know imagine my employer spying on my privacy naa money making gems be that for me oh he may sack me buh believe me if he did not pay for privacy intriguing then his lucky, people should know your right and know ur limit with your workers set limit and rules while employing people

What you said here does not collorate with my question.

Raulboy:
Happy Sunday people.....I might sound Corny but am a very jealous type this morning I escorted my girlfriend to the junction of my street to take a bike after a rough night ( you know what I mean...lol)....feeling like the igwe in my area....on getting to the junction there's one bike man there and we know how okada riders do ( 2 passengers) my girl got on the bike ....cause of the weather and no church everywhere was dry no passenger to carry ...so he took her alone.while I was waving and watching her go a tall build guy stop the bike ( going in the same direction) knowing I was still watching she shifted in the middle like a sandwich....she could have gotten down and let the guy take the middle seat ........now I can't get that picture out of my head .....anybody been in this same situation?

No. Maybe a shovel. Idiota like you. So okada man no go make money because him carry your girl? Why you no pay for two persons instead?

timekeeper1:
U shud mind ur business

How far abt ur cunt now? Op there is no more pain again with condom

Hmm. See person wey been dey Hala me.lol

See HYPOCRISY. This one house made dey Bleep 100 guys and she is free to sack her Because she can put her in trouble. No abortion yet. The females here all supported their fellow woman the op.
In another thread,the op is a guy. The sales girl slept with 5 different guys,had and abortion is planning the second one.
The ladies comments and some foolish men here said the op is interested in the girl and wants to sleep with her. Other said the op should mind his business that it is the girls private life.
My question is please,what is the difference between the two since the other woman can terminate her maid's appointment based on her private life but the op who is a guy cannot terminate the appointment of his sales girl.
Can anybody put me through?

ono:
I am appalled by many of the responses I have read so far on this thread. It is a sad testimony of how bad the societies of the world have gone astray. How far the Devil has taken a stranglehold of the conscience of many.

I dare say that many of the people who said this man should mind his business and not open up to this poor girl are themselves guilty of promiscuity. They have nothing to offer. Their lives are totally dominated by the Devil and foul demons.

That said, my dear OritaIbadan brother, please politely ask to see this lady in private. And I hope your own life is one that is exemplary. If your own life is not, sorry, you have nothing to offer. Christians today forget that we are the Bible that unbelievers and sinners read. It is not enough to just preach the Word, you have to live it.

If your own life is exemplary, and you have some genuine iota of compassion left in you, then call aside this poor lost lady and tell her what you did. Tell her you want her to know that you love and care about her future and that's why you took that bold step. Apologize for going through her phone and Facebook account but that now that the deed is done and you have seen what you shouldn't, you are now going to try to advise her as a father and brother. She's already living a fake christian life anyway. So, there's a basic christian doctrine and teachings she must know. Take time to let her know the dangers of ending up in the Lake of Fire (I am assuming you are a genuine Christian). Let her know how her life is precious and how Jesus would gladly take her back if she repents of her evil ways. You can pray to God for direction and help to see this poor soul restored.

Remember, the Devil came for these reasons: To steal, kill and destroy. Christ came to set Man free.

God bless you.

Thank you.

mgtow:
Ndidibabe, please ignore a lot of these idiots saying thrash.

Henford2, justbehave, Amotolongbo and the rest of your likes, you guys are very stewpeed.

Disgusting filth!

You made the right call sending her away, to avoid stories that touch.

Hey don't be too fast. My comment was sarcastic. I made it to tunt the "mind your business advocate". Sure you read their comments on the thread where the guy was complaining about his sales girl wanting to do a second abortion?If you did,you would ve understood why I made such comment.

bender:
Just spoke with her and seems she is genuine, I think the best way we can help is if you can get a bricklayer close to you to quantify the damage don't to d walls and a carpenter to quantify that of the roof and you can paste the quotations here, so people who can help can send whatever contribution they have, as we help others may God help us to build our own houses too

You see how the world would have been a much more better place if we all come together.But no,we all claim to be clever and start making unguarded utterances just to show our stupidity.If we all start minding our business,who will even listen to her not to talk of helping out? My brother,thanks for this and I believe we should all come out and be of help to our fellow humans even if it doesn't really affect us directly. By so doing,we will
be makeing the world a better place for our children. God bless you.

Fearlez:
quite the opposite!!! Africa is behind the world because of how sanctimonious and hypocrital we are as against how productive we are.

Every advanced countries in the west wouldn't care what their employees do outside their official hours as long as it's their personal life.

How very ignorant.

Pls can you answer this? Was she right to be using an office phone meant to be used by other staff to be assessing her FB account during working hours? Why didn't she log out after such act? If any of your staff is found to be rapist through his FB account,will you still retain him?

timekeeper1:
Just bleep off.. Don't make her more sad..


If everybody is mindeding their business, how do we comment on nairaland??

Ask the mind your business advocate nah.

eni4real:
If she is confident enough, let her mention all sexcapades and numerous abortions if the hardworking man will not withdraw the bride price!!!

Men don't commit abortion, stop likening men to women on sexual ground!!!

Men don't have wombs or tubes that can be damaged from abortions!

And, he who pays the Pipers.......

Stop replying this hypocrites. When the issue of rape came up and men started saying we also get raped,they laughed over it and said it is not same as women being raped. Why are they now making a comparison. Do men abort? Do men get damaged pussy? Do men get damaged womb. So now,we are all same? Hahahahaha

timekeeper1:
Stop. Abeg

So we should not mind our business for some people and turn blind eyes to others abi?. What a HYPOCRISY.

Ariza:
JustBehave my admirer,will you ever learn to counter opinions cognitively,You rant more than you make sense. Perhaps you will do me the pleasure of going through my comment on that thread for better assimilation.

BTW only if you focus more than on your mental capability than your trantrums, you will realize how much you have missed the points in the post you quoted and how unrelated it is to the post you referred. And then I want you to know I may not be responding to your future posts because I'm beginning to find your emotional outbursts annoying. It takes you nothing to counter an opinion without acting like one whose balls are on fire, I believe that, prove it!.

Bleep you. Hypocrite.Any body saying the truth is hated. He or she is always ranting because that's how it sounds to the ears of hypocrites like you.

timekeeper1:
But guy stop it.. I understand why u are saying mind ur business but pls stop constituting nuisance on dt bjprint again... Just stop it....


I saw the thread of that Sales girl, sumtyms I just wonder why people are so mad.. After all what dt small lady is doing, they are telling the guy to mind his business..


Cant we advise people younger than us, shud we just leave them to do anyhow.

I tire for naija people

So what make hers different from the other guys thread you all where screaming "mind your business"?

vandp:
Must you repeat the same words severally? Stop constituting nuisance all over the place.

All the hypocrites and mind your business crew have been caught up in web.

timekeeper1:
Can u just fvck off... Must u intervene in every thread u see.... What is ur problem sef.

So you can't mind your business again on this? Hypocrites

Shebi a lady dey talk say house don fall and she needs money. How can we be of help if we all start minding our business? May God help her.

bjprodint:
church gate,bakassi road,around kurudu market.f.c.t.abuja.i will pick u up when u get to the market.just call me

We are now minding our business Kpele

bukatyne:
Hahahahahahahaha

Now this is funny!

Saw someone was a Christian Apologist. Being Christian is no longer enough.

We will all mind our business till our brother brings home the serial abortionist and street LovePeddler.

Or our sister calls the professional heart breaker her sweetheart. Or we know he has sweet talked several girls to their doom.

I have realized that some discussions are not worth my time on SM or in real life.

There is a proverb: Were dun wo, ko se bi lomo. 'it is fun to watch a mad person dance however nobody parays for his/her child to be mad.'

And it plays out over and over again in SM and even offline.

Every business minder will do so until it affects them directly.

Modified:

Glanced through a few pages of the thread and it was sad.

Hopefully, the OP does the right thing.

If that babe dies in his store, there is no soap he will use to wash himself.

You are a very honest woman.God bless you for always saying the truth.

Ariza:
Well you all are ignoring the fact that sometimes this order "Mind your business" comes when the supposed 'interferer's life isn't STRAIGHT. I can't imagine someone with loads of faults trying to intrude into another person's life.

Didn't the Bible advise us to always try to remove the logs in our eyes before trying to remove the sparks in another?

When you want to play a moral coach be sure to have a high moral standard yourself,then no one will direct you to your own deficit. At least that's only reasonable.

But in a society where morality is expected from a certain gender, where people who are supposed to uphold morals are the ones destroying it.
Where acts that depicts morality is seen as slowness, incivility or weakness
Where morality itself is limited to what an individual finds suitable and achievable at convenience
Where act of morals is not celebrated ,or encouraged or appreciated.
Where morality question is only raised for selfish reasons... Lol Then it is expected for such demands to exit.

I even find it funny that no one talked about this "Mind your business" issues until it is about a Boss and A loose sales girl. I guess Morality is limited to "closing legs" for Nigerians. Pity!

Ariza my love,will you just shutup there you hypocrite. Where you not the one that said the op is interested in her because he wants to caution her? We all should start minding our business and see where it will lead us.

Let all the mind your business crew remember to mind their business when their sister brings home a serial cheat as husband or when their brother brings in a serial lovepeddler and abortnist as a wife to be.

skymight:
Help me. My gf is pregnant. I promise to make the story fast and short. I met this fine and beautiful girls just a week ago and we feel so contacted very quickly so the point that I ask her out that particular day and she accepted to date me. I love her a lot and she love me too. Telling the truth if I am financial stable right now I would have marry her. I intend to marry her when the time is ready. We are both in out early twenties. Fast forward, On Monday her aunt went to hospital to see a neighbor who is sick and her baby sister is sleeping so we decided to see each other since from her house to mine is just 1 minutes walk. We live very closely here in GRA. So we had a quick sex in my room( because we no do know when we are going to see each other unless talking on phone, she hardly comes out of the house) and I did not use condom coz I see her as my real girl friend and future wife. (Nah here devil enter) So when I am about to cum I pull out and release on my bed. Seriously we did not even last one minutes coz she is in a hurry to go home so as her baby sister will not wake up and start crying. She enjoy it lol but I did not coz that is just first round but I am OK because she is my girl friend.

So when we finish I told her to use the bath room and wash up before rushing home which she did. We keep on talking on phone as usual. So on Thursday and Friday she complained of weakness and serious tiredness join with running stomach which I advised her to put salt inside water and drink to stop the running stomach. (that is what I use to do whenever I have a running stomach I learn that from my late grand mom). So yesterday being Saturday I notice her attitude change due to how she responses to me. (I notice the attitude issue first on Friday night but she apologize saying her body is reacting to something she can not explain but the Saturday morning was worst). Since that morning till night she refuse to pick my calls or reply back my messages. Finally she pick up around 9pm after I keep begging her to pick my calls at least to know the problem with her. She picked and her voice was low and she was crying too that the running stomach pain is too much and that she is seeing an early period (I think she mean blood) instead of 13 or 17 that she usually see her period. She was still crying telling me that she has notice all the signs of being pregnant accept vomiting. (She google the signs) She told me told me she feels vomiting ooo but it is not coming out.

(Now the news that puts me in a thinking mood) she told me that she feels and think she is pregnant. Right now I am confused and she don't know what to do either. I told her to do a manual pregnant test to know if she is truly pregnant she said she don't know how to do that. (me I don't know too just hear they do it at home) She has refused to pick my calls again. Before she hang the call she told me that she don't want to have a baby now either do I. (Her aunt is a retired director on revenue board so if she finds out her trust on her will be gone and she will not train her in school anymore) We do not plan for any of this to happen and this is even our first sex (She is not a virgin ooo either do I) Please help me we can not afford to have a baby now. Just both of us that know about this. Please what should we do now. Is there any drugs that she can take to flush everything out since it is not up to a week.

You are free to insult me and I accept all the blame but please help advise me with the drugs to buy for her. This is the first time I am experiencing this. I don't want my family to find out because if they do I am dead. I beg everyone to help me with a drug to buy for her. I have seen people get helped here. Please doctors in the house help me.

Hey!! Bleep you.

Ojuri20:
If I see someone removing your phone or wallet from your back pocket, I am not going to call your attention to it because I'm minding my business.

If someone is lying against you and I know what the truth is. I won't be a witness because I'm minding my business.

Stupid hypocrites everywhere telling you to mind your business whereas they're desperately in need of someone else help.

You dey mind the fools?

IamHonourable1:
For goodness sake you said that she's 21,which means she's old enough to think for herself.Besides how does that affect your business?

You are not honourable at all. Was she supposed to use an office line to log into her FB account and forget to log out? She made herself his business the day she started working for him and being stupid to be using an office line to be doing her private matter.So Mr shutup if you don't have sense.

sassysure:
Funny thread.

An important question was asked here but nobody had the right reply for it.

Did she mind her business by using office phone to conduct private business e.g. logging unto Facebook?

The reply to this determines the reply to the other.



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Non of those hypocrites can answer that.

Dessyguy:
You are very wise. I'm even shocked. what's mind your business about this?? The girl needs help and a good advice or counsel will change her. They would not say same if it was to be their relative.

They are all Hypocrites.Dont mind them