Sixfiguresmart:
Happy to get an oil and gas job. Dream come true. Everything was perfect with me. 3 years into my job, a new boss showed up. A light skin Nigerian male. His wife and kids were in Canada. I visit the gym 3x per week.

He requested to go to the same gym. Pretended to work out and asked that I mentored him. It all happened fast. I thought he was responsible as he was married. He started touching my body inappropriately. Caressing my chest holding my arms. Thought he was enamored by the muscles only. I would somehow break him off and redirect him to the session.

Then, after work it was about meeting me, talking to me, confiding in me. Initially, I was happy to build a close relationship with a boss. Of course, that's my career growth right there.

Not until, this night, he invited me over to his lounge. As soon i arrived, he undressed to a G-string, I was dazed for real. He tried to kissed me. I blocked it. Then, came the love, the feeling, and sex plea. So, I took my leave quickly. Felt disappointed and betrayed. I told no one but my bestie who laughed over it and made a mockery of the whole thing. Telling me that he would have busted his ass for the money.

All I needed was my job and no drama. He advanced toward me several times. Showered me with expensive stuff. I rejected everything he offered. I couldn't shake him anymore, no hugs, nothing. I felt truly perplexed cos he was very connected and has brothers and relatives in top positions in Chevron. I met with him, talked to him man to man politely. He told me he had been in it since he was 14. I asked him if he would love that life for his kids. He said, no! So, I told him that I have a faith, a conscience and a commitment to my God. That I would not entertain homosexuality. So, after more attempts, the hate set in.

Well, my final year in Chevron was horrendous until i finally got axed 17 months after my new boss showed up. I moved on with my dignity but with a bigger lesson in life. I kept it a secret for many years. Only my bestie new about it.

Many men are victims. People hardly believe the few who cry out. Many will question the authenticity of my history and blame me afterall. Making it harder for the next man to come out.

Many argue that they will beat, hit, or punch a man for advancing toward them. There are consequences. Read your room. Justice hardly comes in a world of injustice. Sometimes, the best thing to do is walk away.

you could have reported him to HR for harassment. I am sure chevron has an anti-harassments policy.
Be comforted in the fact that ALL jobs will end one day and thank God you left this one with strenght and well being intact.

SparrowLeague:


Don't say like that bro.

There are many other Fields south are filled up......yet we in the north are not complaining

Provide your proof.
Government in a federal republic should reflect federal character not what we have in Buhari's government.

Nepotism leads to incompetence because the more qualified person is denied the position in favor of a relation or tribesman.

The gross incompetence demonstrated by Buhari's government is directly related to Nepotism and appointment of only northerners into leadership positions.

The worst problem is that the dominance of the northern hegemony in power does not help northerners because it is difficult to hold your unqualified brother accountable for something he was not qualified for. He got it simply because he was a muslem from the north and nothing more.

The result is that very qualified and brilliant northerners without 'connection' are denied opportunity to contribute to national development and to the development of the north.

Despite Buhari's lopsided appointments in favour of the northern Muslim Fulani, there is more poverty, insecurity and suffering in the north than anywhere else. And the nepotic appointees lack ideas and skills to solve the problems of their own people, talk more of the whole country.

Nepotism is corruption that is worst than the worst form of corruption because it affects everything else, negatively.

LeoDeKing:
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You didn't vote him because you weren't expecting anything from him, so shut it and let him do his govt the way he wants.

Or are you expecting him to start favouring you because you insult him from morning till night? It doesn't work that way.

Kindly campaign for your Peter Obi in peace and leave bubu alone.

This is a careless statement at best!

Datikwerreboi:

Na Amaechi get APC ticket

I have a strong feeling Ameachi will end up being the president after Buhari if PDP no win.

I know that Buhari will betray Tinubu in the primaries - for sure!

Iyaebe:
Set to wed since last year, we are tired of waiting

Dm?

Iyaebe, lets start this journey in time ooo

BoredBerry:
Church bells 're ringing!

Oh god! Where do I begin? How do I shower praises on my darling without revealing his identity? No words could do him justice!

Berry has fallen helplessly inlove!

He's a Nairalander... He's so sweet and totally badass and extremely intelligent and exposed and incredibly goodlooking! Unlike many men here...

He and I used to argue here... But I've always liked him! He's so funny... And stubborn but that's a trait I really appreciate... He's such a man!

I'll create threads on him and our relationship as often as I can!

VPN11:


Im not a member of Forbes magazine.
Get yourself a copy ;2022 latest edition.
Studying in Nnamdi Azikiwe University; doesnt make you Igbo (Nwafor Igbo ma na ;Igbo si ;Onye ahala nwaneya; anyi ma onwe anyi; Igbo anagi efu na mba; Oje mba ewe iro )
Our generation want the unification of all Igbos; far and near ;indigenous in 11 states of Nigeria; furthermore ;the unification; of indigenous Igbos outside the shores of Nigeria; Large ethnic indigenous Igbo populations are found in Cameroon, Gabon, and Equatorial Guinea.

Thank you

11 out of 36 states are Igbo states!

That thing dey really shack pipo ooo.

onumadu:
Let us see how the enforcers of sit at home will gun down people who went to church to pray.
The day you come between Igbo and God is the day you are finished.
Clever strategy.

They will gun dem in church and nothing will happen.
They will say it is DSS that is doing it as usual.

It's a ruderless boat. No strategy, no leader, no focus, just e-motions and destruction,

Will Smith's ATM dey with his wife.
The shit some simple men do for pussy, ehn. Even devil dey shock.

Mum is a woman; Wife is a woman; Step Mum is a woman!
Think with your brain not your dick or emotions!
Congratulations for your twins!

ashewoboy:
Na wa hoe. She is even a single mother.



Authority: don't be a simp.

His parents, his choice!
He can go ahead and kill them too.

Their global president is Will Smith.

We4all:


Dude, I am not getting married.

I hope so!

If you manage to avoid marriage, then you are the smartest of ALL men, honestly!

advanceDNA:

.

Women don’t simp to that level...never

Thats why the highest you’ll get is boxers, singlet, 5k perfume, or their body which they got freely from nature...If you get more than that, it’s your money they used in buying it for you..or they have overflowing cash...like Beyoncé or cardiB

woman will take loan to open shop for her man?? Or take loan at the office to buy car for her husband from her hard earned salary.?? E no possible.....na only one woman fit do am...she don die 3214 years ago...

If they fight another woman for for you, it’s not about you ....it’s their source of money they trying to protect..

Na men like to behave like Mumu...

I doff cap for you, bros!
Jesu!!... it couldn't have been stated better.
This is eye opening.

We4all:


A woman didn’t submit to her parents who trained her to be what she is, it is one yeye husband who paid peanuts as bride price you expect her to submit to.

You guys make marriage seem very difficult and like slavery. That word ‘submission should be scrapped from the dictionary cos misogynistic men like you are misusing it.

If any dude tries to use that word with any female relative of mine, I would advice her to divorce the nut case asap.

When you finally get married, you will know the real meaning of the word - don't worry and don't hurry!

Just to really help here, the real meaning of submission is not in the dictionary!

Abeg no vex oo

nedekid:

I hope folks understand that in the next few months, people will feel the absence of these loan platforms. The quick money to solve issue will not be there. Nigerians will only get acess to loans from conventional banks and that is almost impossible unless you have good credit rating.
The only other option will be family and friends. I assure you no friend is willing to help anyone in these trying buhari times. Default rate is high so quarell btw friends is not needed.
My paddy as I write is asking me for 1m till month end that he will add 50k ontop. I bone am ignore the message. Na my tight paddy oh.. But I don't want the wahala of chasing person. Before he would have gotten that money from 2 loan apps easy.

There was life before the loan apps so life is going right on without them!

You have correct sense.
Let the old man find a companion to talk to and share time with.
Someone to fetch drinking water for him and to help remind him take his medications.

Oluomofx:
Dear nairalanders, I lost my mum recently due to illness, will you advise your 83years old father to remarry a 60yrs old woman to keep body and soul due to loneliness.

Very stupid capitalists!

You pushed the comedian to defy Putin with the promise to help.
You have abandoned the mugu and the first thing you want to do is TO PROFIT FROM THE WAR THROUGH THE INTERESTS ON THE LOANS.
Waka there!

LINTUNE:
iyaebe is quite young na, barely in her early 20s .

Thank you... Iyaebe, can I send that dm now?

VOsimhen144:
Lol . I dash you.. Feel free to marry her, I nor do again. She don old. Her kpekus don slack

Thank you jare!
You are a good guy

VOsimhen144:
Congratulations!!

Iyaebe this could be us but you don clock menopause.

Iyaebe na ma bae ooo

Miracle112:
Talk talk talk until next US president take over than change back to nothing happen. That's how US political system work.

By the way.. I have a standard unisex saloon for sale located at very busy junction in Portharcourt.
Very standard with up to date facilities.
3.3m price

where is your location in PH?

Kai, Iyaebe - you know say you be my babe but why you dey do like this in public?
did you not read how she victimizes people that refuse her advances?

Iyaebe:
What's his business in what she does with her body? jealousy is eating this one up

post=111425530:
Igbos swines , if dem born una papa papa well,
Make una kill anybody wey commot to do their legitimate business.
Na Amadioha and Ogun go take una blood bath tomorrow.
Cannibalistic swines.
Devil punish all of you and una generations for the innocent lives y'all caused to die, especially our relative, Miracle Nwobodo .
Continue To REST IN PEACE DARLING.
All your killers and their supporters will all die brutal deaths in this life.

Kai Mr. man, you used to be more moderate than this, what happened?
You must be kind to all, especially, the less deserving.

south east has to work for it like everyone else, otherwise na heartache!

DrGoodman:
Sorry, but its the turn of the South east.

South south has ruled foe 6 years.

TarOrfeeek:



Women are peripherally useless

Imagine a woman was Governor
And her Husband has an office

Office of the Husband of the Governor.

It sounds like something a truly useless and unintelligent person would crave to represent.

Women are not useless, oga me!
The play a very important role of providing the right level of distraction needed for a man to excel.

The fact is that marrying a woman of high status does not uplift a man's status while a woman's status is upgraded if she marries a man of high status.

The husband to the queen of England is not the king; while a wife to a king automatically becomes the Queen.

That is why a man does not marry a wan for her accomplishments, money and status because it constitutes no upward mobility implications for a man.

I think Amaechi is a sensible choice!

seunmsg:


MURIC is an irrelevant group of irritants with no support in the SW. The group is only popular on social and mainstream media simply because divisive narrative sells a lot.

Ok

seunmsg:


Shut it with the southern Muslim crap. We don’t play politics of religion in the SW. Both of them are eminently qualified to be president. We are in a democracy so they should both go into the contest and test their popularity.

There is nothing wrong in having legitimate ambition. We don’t need to demonize one to promote the other. We should encourage both of them to make sure the contest is free, fair and credible.

Obviously MURIC is not a Yoruba Muslim irritant!

faithfull18:
Lol, this is a reminder to men who think they have monopoly on cheating.

Well, I condemn cheating by any of the parties, stay faithful to your married partners, stop sleeping around.

No, You don't!
Be yourself!!!

Candidlady:


Samson said the same thing! Abacha said the same thing. Yeah Adam too said the same thing! You get my drift ?

No.. they both did not say that!
Samson and Abacha na blue pill Dem be. Men have open eyes since then.

Na boys dey use girls now... hope you gat the drift...

Na play I dey oo

ImoleNaija:


To check if she's not Saphiere abi

Saphiere is in sifia pain ooo... Time dey go for the fine girl

Peace081:
God please remember all the females too on this forum, may this year not pass us by, do a quick work. Amen

It can't be all the females here ooo..

Just the reasonable ones like you!!!

You dey chyke girl and she go dey do some nairaland nonsense.

when you comot hand she go begin claim broken heart for ontop the heartless person wey she be..mtcheeew

As you no get heart, wetin I come break na

Some na witch even as I no call name, one of them must reply me!!!

Watch and see