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yetunsbay:
Ur advice is needed pls I met my girlfriend via social platform & we both in long distance relationship.

The problem is her phone got faulty which within me she's awaiting I provide her with another. Financially, I didn't hv the capacity currently and in some couple of days we'll meet physically.

Do I need to present her a gift or rather extend her with an amount to repair her phone ? Which is best or if there is any other idea

I'll be awaiting ur response

If I call u mumu now, u go vex. Ordinary decision, as simple as deciding on gifting a girl u cannot make. How will u be able to raise and lead your family, more so your generation.

Awon agbaya

alphaNomega:
You DON'T like to cook. Sweetheart, that's almost like a man saying I don't like to work.

You are not the kind of girl an above average guy would be proud to call his wife.

You played yourself sis. Don't feel bad, there are many unmarried women today and they have not died.

Alphanomega, u will not kii me

Sagamaje:
Is it possible for a law graduate to delve into I.T or programming? Will he or she be able to secure a good job with it not looking at the foundation as an Art student. Plz Gurus in the house I need your advice.

Absolutely . As long as basic secondary school maths isn't a problem, go for it if it interest you.

ireneidiva:
Stop flogging someone's child. If you can no longer handle her, send her back to her parents. Beating her is just wicked. Injure her and it becomes a police case.

Who told u beating someone with love is an act of wickedness. Even your own children need beating once in a while .

Just to add to the long list of advice, your case looks exactly like my ex's

I met her, we confessed love. Say all the mad things, but she avoids me in public. At first I reasoned maybe it's because she claimed to be a born again.
When I react to her attitude she apologises, but things quickly got bad and she wouldn't even care anymore.

No excitement, no romance, nothing. Yet, something in my warped head told me she would make a great wife.

Luckily for me she dumped me. Double luck for me, I found a girl that was mad over me. This new girl even lives in fear of me dumping her. Before long our love was over the moon, the kind of love I never had.

Then I sampled her on social media. Then my ex chatted me up. I made an evil grin, time to crush her.

But these days I don't even care about hurting her anymore . I just don't give a Bleep about her. Her chats comes in like disturbance. And she wouldn't stop trying. Sometimes my girl friend and I have a good laugh off the chats...

Funny how thing could spin around. But my only advice is that you've made the mistake. No human should subject another to such life. I'm sure she's so dumping you once she has the means. If you can, consider cutting her off. Move out of the house and try and get your life together. If you cut her off, she's gonna come begging you. But you have to be willing to cut her off and even treat her with contempt.

Be mindful of the fact that this only reflects economic misery. If you factor in Misery resulting from terrorism and lawlessness, then you can already know where we should be

Your friend is an idiot. Pesin father that cleaned up her poopoo, paid her school fees, trained her to become what she is today, then one idiot would come and tell her not to wash her father's cloths.

I think the pesin that needs advice here is that innocent girl who should stay far from such irresponsible grown boy.

If them no drink free beer wetin dem gain

buhariski:
bro I've checked myself very well and I used to ask myself some question like why am I getting rejections and what is it I,'m nt doing right. though I have some flaws I can lie u. I no b ugly guy oo even when I was still in my state then I've had many advances from d girls. some girls confessed they're tripin and some fall in loved with me. that year for school during one of the semester exam a girl once kissed and romance me in the presence of over 400 students and a lecturer. she did it on the platform when all eyes was on us dat day I was not conversant with the girl. I only knew her to be a course mate. A friend to my guy girlfriend kiss and romance me in presence of my girlfriend ask her why she was acting DAT way ,she said she can't resist my look .I had to make her apologize to my girlfriend dat day. today is not another story . na me come d hussle for woman I don't know if was because I change environment could it tribal differences, language barrier and some other factor I can't understand.

The reason you can't seem to woo girls and they don't find you attractive is because of porn. The only thing they liked about you then probably was your look. Now, too much porn, poor nutrition and hustling has wrinkled your fine face�� plus you're now so skinny with no freshness.

Now, fine you no fine. Great physique you don't have. Money you don't have. Nice and appealing dress sense you probably don't have. Now to make things worse, you like fine girls, the type wey get better nyash and perky boobs. See your life.

Two things, you must take one . Either you lower your standard and start dating girls way bellow your desire, who can't say no to you, or you quite porn, eat well, go to gym and work up some muscle while investing some money on good clothes. Do this for just three month and see if girls won't start rushing you

Most people make the mistake of underestimating the cost of attracting your desired woman . It's steep bruh. But the good news is that we all have what it takes prime ourselves and live a richer and fuller life.

MissRaine69:
I was giving an example to illustrate a point but your mission was to just shoot from the hip and not look at that context of what it is I was talking about.
Yes I am feminist raised by a father who is feminist and a mother equally so. Their parents shared the same views .Gender bias exists.

Glad to know your dad is a feminist . But at least we all can agree that you can't come up with a single agency that pays men differently than it does women for doing the same job.

You used ' pay gap' phrase, which is a beloveth feminist phrase . Yet they can come up with any instance where such partial exist

MissRaine69:
Know the difference between gender equality and the biological differences that exist between the sexes.
Being paid less for doing exactly the same job as my counterpart is discrimination based on gender. Now in future take some time to broaden your horizons. For the sake of the future generation.

This one swallowed feminist agenda wholesome.
We both are Nigerians, give me just one agency both private and public where women and men do the same job and get paid differently.

It's time we start using our head and not let the media think for us. Over and over, wage gap has been proven to be false.

Again I ask, show me just one instance in Nigeria . And i

She may have poorly worded her thoughts, but nonetheless, modern feminist are the most stupid people alive. For the records, feminist are not fighting for equal right, instead they seek domination and male subjugation . Exactly what they accuse the 60s man of, they want for themselves

A classic case of the black slave not wanting freedom, but aspiring to become the master.
Look at where we stand today in the world, the woman has all manner of law and social program dedicated to her.

We have almost lost count of the number of days dedicated to women. The judicial system is steeply tipped in favor of women. Women entrepreneurship programs financed by global agencies are uncountable. Women enjoy special attention and privileges in both private and public sector. I'm in the tech industry and as a woman, the world is ripe for taking. Just come up with any silly idea and the global media is falling on themselves to promote you. Scholarship and grants for women are in their dozens

In all of these you don't see the man call out women for enjoying special privileges because we understand the challenges of being a woman. But regardless of all this, feminist still won't stop breathing down our necks, they want it all, because for all they care the man is a pig .

Wait for the only one day dedicated to celebrating our brave and courageous fathers and watch how low life single parent feminist take over the media to remind us how they are the fathers and rain abuses on men

hamid6249:
Skin colour caused this humiliation ......whites hates us blacks with passion , some of them show it while some fake love us

White hate u, then go back to your country. Blacks, like Arabs all over Europe are very lawless and would play the racist card to get away with crime.

It's possible the police man was misguided and acted badly. But police in Africa do worst things to fellow black citizen and I don't hear people shouting racism.
White so hate the black man, but the immediate past president was a blackman. So much for hating the black man .

Same black men complaining of hate can never give a minority tribe, regardless of qualification the opportunity of becoming president because of deep ethnic biasness and stupidity.

Pointblank , if the white man hates you, then go back to your shithole country and deal with the lovely and way-more civilized police in your country

People who can't stand up and protest against God forsaken leaders in their country , come to another man's land and be forming they hate me after breaking a law

Indispensable85:
Hate him or like him,i think his re-election has proven that the man is popular in his state. He polled over one million votes to retain his seat.

Rightly said. We know. Bloodsuckers love anyone who aid and supports their 7th century barbaric ideology .
Why do you think they hate atiku but worship bihari and abacha? They love darkness and hate light

Sirjamo:
Even me self, na car charger I need now. I dey inside Young shall grow dey travel go Asaba, we don near Ewu junction

ruffDiamond:
bloody lie from Satan pit if hell! this guy,no matter weyin u dimwit call him was main the main brain behind the success of the original plan b!I ve come across nigga like 2 faced idiot and betrayal !their kind can steal destiny for this workd

Blackface stooge, I see you too don high

Now he's sounding like a broken record . Get a life dude and move on.
Let's face it, if tuface didn't do African Queen , he would still be super super star . Tuface rolls out hits after hits year in year out. The guy is brilliant and talented regardless of his poor academic background

Blackface on the other hand, can't come up with any hit 15 years after. Where then is the evidence you did African Queen . Abi his inspiration dried up after he did that?

In a bid to slighting those who voted for next level, we should always remember that they where hundreds of thousands of people who voted the other way.

iluvdonjazzy:
since is a female teacher, am not surprised.

your head dey there.
most primary school female teachers are feminists who hate on innocent young boys for just no reason. They abuse and rough handle the kids any chance they find. they detest that the male pupils cant be as gentle and coordinated as their female counterpart, hence unleashing of aggression towards innocent boys.

Listening to most of the comments here shows we are not remotely ready for change. We all want security agencies to be at the top of their games, yet nobody wants to risk giving them a tipoff .

These days of readily Internet availability, you could sit at home and tipoff efcc, Sara, and related agencies .

But the point I want to make is that we have to change the deadly culture of 'me just dey mind my business o'.

Human trafficking , terrorism, drug peddling , some of the most heinous crimes against humanity are busted by good citizens who dared to stick out their necks for fellow citizens.

At the end of the day, it's not really you minding your business , it's just you being a coward

olujastro:
How ignorantly ironical Nigerians are!

Under OBJ and Maurice Iwu, election results were written in bedrooms and announced in Abuja while collation was still ongoing in some states. Nigerians didn't protest

Now proper elections are being conducted and INEC is ensuring that every single person's vote is factored in before a winner is declared, hence the inconclusive declarations. But my ignorant countrymen are protesting instead of praising INEC and PMB.
Ignorance is indeed a terrible disease!

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Modified: As expected, the ignorant people will quote me with insults.
If you don't want any inconclusive elections, then tell the politicians and their thugs not to disrupt any polling units.
Cos if they do, INEC will cancel those places. And if the margin of victory is less than the cancelled votes, INEC has to declare inconclusive because unlike before, every vote now must count to produce a clear winner.

Talking about obj and Maurice iwu, forgetting that the last general election recorded zero court redress. Giving the transparency of that election , nobody had any reason for shouting foul.

The same pattern played out in pdp's primaries. Compared that with APC's that was marred with irregularities and broad daylight rubbery.

We ought to make progress. You should compare what we have now with 2015, an election that recorded Zero ballot snatching, zero post election legal actions.

Hello guys, I'm 25. I've an aunty who lives in Germany and wants to send me an invitation letter.

I don't have any million in my account. I currently only have 700 thousand naira in my account . Please do I stand a chance of getting a visa? And what kind of visa can I apply for.

Please, any advice would be appreciated . Thank you all.

What do expect, when just two weeks ago Amaechi was in the state threatening fire. This is the result.

nobody should be fooled. The inec chairman has shown to be bipartisan so far and it looks clearly he isnt willing to rig this election in favour of APC.
They cornered him, using the head of logistics(AMINA ZAKARI) into shifting this election. Recall oshiomole already acused the inec chairman of taking sides with pdp. Removing the inec chairman now would give APC the chance to fill in a hatchet man that will deliver the job by any means.
PDP need to read the lines carefully and resists APAC'S plot at all cost.

Cute little baby

Antipob777:
Hahahahaha, madam now na morning for you.

Your organ must eat that fresh boob's.

Cossy is a cheerful giver with no insurance, no processing fees, no Admin charges.

For what exactly are the Democrats and their media outlets fighting Trump ?

For speaking out against the EU and their globalization agenda the seeks to flood Europe with millions of Muslims migrants , threatening the security and the life the people?

Security of life is the first duty of every govt, the influx of drug and guns through the Mexican border ought to be seen as an emergency considering the damage it does. Eventually the wall will go up and that would be another victory for sanity .

They hate him because he is an opposite of all their demonic ideals,
Promoters of family disunity, haters of men, family, God and societal morals. they celebrates of lgbtq, thinks everythi abnormal is courageous,

But the truth is that the people want their sanity back. They want their conservative life back. They want their families headed by a man back. They want their religion back. They want their culture and identify back.

This isn't just in America but all over Europe . The well meaning people if Europe have awaken, and one by one, they are purging the society of insanity .
God bless and protect Donald Trump

Mccullum:
Trump believe much in stubbornness at the detriment of the populace and most of his decisions hunting him that is why he reluctantly compromise and continue to appear like epileptic decision maker in the stage of international power politics.

Macron - France described him as unreliable partner.

Funny you have to join Donald Trump and Macron on the same line regarding international politics .

Macron that has become a joke of a president both at home and on international front.

Trumps foreign policies has been a hit back to back. U guys watch too many CNN Democrats hate mongering channel. But the good people of America see beyond the rhetoric of the main stream media, good bless then

NessaBoo:
He didn't have a choice, the polls were strongly and clearly against him. He thought he could bully his way to get a wall.

This man is not enjoying his Presidency at all, Waiting for Roger Stone to flip like the rest of the people indicted

He's battling on all fronts.

Sorry Ma, but u seem to be watching too much CNN, fake news channel. Same people who wrote him off first time. Trumps reelection is so certain.
He made a promise to the citizens and he's doing that.

The rise of the nationalist populist movement all over Europe started after Trumps emergence, and now you really think the people suddenly SO HATE him

hisexcellency34:
Thank you Nancy Pelosi and other Democrats. The man thought he has craze but met his match. I wish Saraki and co can do same here

Trump has no craze, he is fulfilling the very mandate for which he was elected. Eventually the wall would go up and the man would have accomplish every campaign promises he made. #respectfortrump

yes those guys harassing her are no better than her. But we have to make the case that indecent dressing of this kind in public domain is some sort of sexual harassment in itself. Imagine you were walking down the street with your little boy and some LovePeddler comes across dressed up like that. Obviously you harassed his impressionable mind.

There is a reason walking down the street naked is a crime even in America. by extention, scantily dressed is some form, if not worse, of being naked.

abokikhalifa:
See the way all this politicians dey fly come ball for Lagos . If only they invested and worked on their state .

At least balling in lagos is still Nigeria, unlike your principal that balls in London with tax payers money