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Admin401:The guy is unbelievably stupid. at the end of the day, people like him end up raping their daughter. |
the world of today hate truth. You become the enemy for daring to speak truth and sense to a people drifting into self destruct. Imagine how easy it is for fools to turn the honest point those men were making into 'sexualizing a child'. The parent of that child already sexualized her. we copy every garbage from the west, forgetting we are a peculiar people with different culture. It is easy to blame it all on the rapist out there. But we should be freightend because the number of cases are getting exponential and this parent would never want to admit any fault. We have to back-track. we glorify porn, and indecency and wonder why rapists are on rampage. God help us. |
The op is a disgusting slime to dare to defend such barbarism. if that was your daughter would you approve of such unholy union? You said she wasnt forced because, in your defence, a huge sum was paid as dowry, shame on you. Continue to live in denial. It goes to show you have no idea what forced marriage means. |
kereman1:ROMAN'S wrote the bible? Shows how shallow you are and secondly, how you know nothing other than bible stories you read as a child. |
Alcohol consumption was not condemned by the Bible . The problem is with going drunk, and u hv to let the user worry over that. Healthy rounds of bottles in an evening hangout is by far the only form of entertainment young adults still enjoy. Why would you wanna take it away? An adult male's life is so boring. He lives for everyone else but himself. The only one time he can go out and have a hearty and healthy chit chat with friends, enemies of merry want to still take that away. |
I would always think hijab wearing doesn't do anyone harm and should therefore be left to the individual or group to decide what fit them. But on a second thought, hijab has the effect of polarizing people. It clearly and loudly splits the classroom into muslims vs others. This is not healthy for the unity of the school and the society at large. The argument is that hijab is the Muslim child's identity. But that then is the problem. The school doesn't want pupil splitted into various groups and identities: 'US' VS 'THEM' kind of thing. In my opinion, the MURIC fuels this madness. This group is working tirelesly to destroy the years of tolerance the south west enjoys and that group must be cautioned. |
success is not an exact science, but doing somethings would greatly increase your odd. First on the requirement should be great work ethics (Ability to see out a task). Gaining that discipline to stick to a task until the end is only possessed by a handful of people and those who do inevitably achieve success. with discipline and great work ethics, you can get your life in motion hoping for success. But what is going to bring you success is spoting opportunities around you and being able to act on them. Now this is smartness. A lot of people have great and smartly thought out ideas, but how many of them have the capacity to implement. Only a few can successfully execute a big idea, and that knowledge comes from years of hard work on the background. So, you can see this whole thing is nested. HARD WORK! HARD WORK! A third major requirement for big success would be building networks. We fail in most things because we are not in the circle of people with the capacity to execute great ideas. Again, in the years of hardworking, building bridges, evolving, you build network of people you can assemble to execute great ideas. Still, this whole thing comes down to great work ethics. Nobody wants to associate with you if all you do is sleep in your pyjamas all day and think of great ideas. Be smart for all anybody cares, nobody achieves great success without working out their asses. The idea of being smart and achieving success is just the imagination of lazy individuals. if you want to be successful, your surest means would be by inheritance, being born into riches. But if you are like most of us, your only chance is to get up and get hard. push yourself. burn your fingers. Master a skills, a trade, whatever it is you are doing, master it. If you dont like what you currently do, look for something else, stick with it and master it. Be the best of what you do. Then, success becomes inevitable. |
Businessideas:Niggar get a life, a little fun never hurt anyone. How much do you think they spent in all to get this much publicity. Sterlin bank is definately creative with these adverts and they are getting all the publicity at the lowest cost while also helping to crack up Nigerians. I totally support this style of campaign. |
Yes we are hypocrites. Yes we refuse to assent to gay marriage. the sanity of our society and the kids unborn is important to us. The same love and affection we enjoyed with the opposite sex we want our children 50 years down the line to experience. Even in America, public sex is still an offence, why? Sanity needs to be protected. If we open our ourselves up to foreign influence, we would wake up one day and have to make our children understand that sexual affection should be for the opposite sex only. And yes, gay isn't natural. Some will argue that is who they are. That's how they feel. How they didn't make themselves gay, and all of that... But then, there are men who only have deep affection for children, both male and female. We call the pedophiles. Even pedophiles have a case: this is who they are. why would they lure kids and face the strong consequence of life imprisonment if caught, if that isn't who they are? Some men have deep feeling and love for family members. That's how the feel. That's who they've become. What about people who love animals. They get aroused just thinking of doing it with dogs and horses. If you think the animal lovers are in the minority, do a sub redit search. Tomorrow, they too will question the position of the world not let them express their free desire towards animals. I love my dog. This is who I'm. I should have the freedom to express myself. As african, we have got a lot of things wrong. But on this one, we have to stand firm against the enemies of sanity and morality. Do it in your closet, we look the other way. But when you sell it on our streets, don't blame the government. |
Richdad50:The hard truth we must all reckon with. |
Throwback:Therein my friend is the big question nobody addresses: in the cas of false accusation, the accused suffers even more than a rape victim. The whole world vilifies him, and he's pained to the soul knowing he is innocent. Who even cares to listen to him? The crop of so called suffisticated girls roaming the modern world are vile and desperate. The "man" needs to be protected. #sayno to false accusation. It's Cr7 today. It could be you tomorrow. |
BigbamoAYO:Death penalty for rapist. Very lofty idea. Who's going to be the judge? Human I guess. Then u had sex with a girl the next day. She thinks u cool and started loving u. Then she finds u with another girl, and because you don't really give a shit u ignore her. Then she feels heartbroken and embittered and all out to get vengeance. Of course you raped her. You're going to deny that u did. But the medics are going to find a remain of your semen in there. If Egyp had that law, Joseph's dreams would have been cut short my brother. Think . Thousands of men destroyed everyday day over rape. Who speaks for them. |
I think tape is the new cool for most women. Just look all over you, celebrities again and again being accused. The problem with this is, it doesn't matter if u are guilty or not, once accused you are stereotyped. The judge hates u. The society condemns u. Have u ever thought about the plights of someone wrongly accused. One can argue that the thousands of innocent men wrongly branded rapists everyday suffers even more. Now who speaks for them? Who even care to realky listen to their own story . Someone would still come here and say Cr7 raped that desperate girl that was all over him in club. |
Sirheny007:sharap sex is outrageously overrated... It's even worse when love is not in the equation. You fvcked a random chick, then what? |
Obierika:check your statement ten years later. FYI, blockchain is a disruptive technology. It will define the future. Venture capitalist are throwing in money in truckload. Rather than sitback and criticize, if you are remotely fascinated about finance and tech, I'd advice you start learning blockchain as an insider. Without doubt, a lot of frivolous coins/projects are springing up, but so did a lot tech companies in the early 2000. The fact that most of the online companies that started in the early 2000 had no value, and crashed as soon as the bubble bursted, didn't stop tech companies from taking over the world. The likes of Google, Amazon, Alibab, Facebook, paypal, multi-billion dollar companies were birthed as soon as the dust settled. Make no mistake about it, universities are having courses on blockchain technology. venture capitalist are all excited about it. Those are the people through whose lenses we ought to look to have a sneak peek into the future |
Saribal... Last last, dem collect ... ![]() |
Eco99:Unfortunately she doesn't . Because you are 18 doesn't mean you can produce indecent videos and splash them on people's wall. If she kept the tape to herself no one would question her. It's about time we put a stop to elevation of indecency . This, no doubt would serve as a deterrent to others thinking of following in her footstep. Her parents sent her to the university to go and study not to go and turn a porn star. On a different note, Nigeria needs to brace up and tighten its laws against pornography. Everyday day we shiver at the unbelievable news of child rape in the society. What else causes that but porn addiction. You hear kids online talk about women in the most demeaning of ways. No regard, no love, totally irresponsible. Why wouldn't they, when they have watched again and again how women are sluts. Any responsible govt who cares about the preservation of the sanity of it's people, ought to put a serious check on pornography . Thank you |
GavelSlam:Supreme, you said. Except for prodigies, nobody is supremely talented. The results you see in Ronaldo is the product of a carefully crafted, nurtured and developed talent. You need to stand on the shoulders of great men to become one. The journey to the top is hardly a lone journey. |
GoldenCircle:England could pass for world's worst hypocritical nation. Last last they will cry a river. And for your information, people don't hate brazil. Only, Neymars overbearing attitude puts people off . Plus they've won it 5 times already. . |
This is got to be the best proposal from the Senate In a long time time. I keep saying this, what we need is gun control law that alows citizens to own gun. Just as nuclear acquisition deters confrontation by world power, so will this put evil muderers in check. Why wouldn't they keep attacking when they know very well most families don't even have a natchet for protection. We really need this law. We have to start defending ourselves . Peace |
@oop, I hope you read this comment. First off, I must tell you you are in a dip shit. But their is a way out. This one act, is going to eat your life out. Forget the blockheads up their commenting about how masturbation is the best thing that has ever happened to them. The problem isn't masturbation. The problem is pornography. Porn is the cause of your erectile disfunction. You are two years in the act, you are just getting started. The road is long, bleak and tormenting. The story is the same. Surge of dopamine. A minute of ecstacy. The withdrawal leaves you hopelessly empty like a walking corpse. We have all been there. Some of us got lucky and made it out of the dungeon. The the majority, their life is tied to porn . It takes virtually all a man has to give: your virility, confidence, focus , passion and even socialising with the opposite sex. I will tell you what worked for me. Not the usual blab like: will power, prayers, socialising. Those things don't work with porn. Two weeks later you would take another peek on indecency, and you are trapped again for six months until you fight it again for another 3 weeks, and the circle goes on and on. Take it from me, porn is the worst form of slavery mankind has had to devices. If you follow through my advice, you will come back here and write your testimony. It was on this forum that someone droped the hint. HackBook easypeasy. A free read online. That's the one book that saved my life. I tried everything else, same story, relapsed after 3 weeks. Now I feel I owe it to everyone suffering this scourge an exposure to this knowledge. https://sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home/ Follow that link and find your essence back again. Everyone can find joy, happiness, and peace again. |
Hey, I hope you are still reading. Don't get too hard on yourself. At least you realised there is a problem and actively seeking solution, unlike most of the dickheads who think wanking away their essence is the best thing that has ever happened to them. I want you to know that their is a way out. And surprisingly, it is so easy and painless. Someone on this forum carelessly dropped the hint. That one hint freed me from the class of internet porn and masturbation. All the advice up there , they are Noble, but they don't work. You need to understand that internet porn is the worst form of addiction known to man. Now you have lost virility, surfering PIED(porn INduced Erectile Dysfunction) , low self confidence , suffering and emptiness inside . We have all been there. And I can't think of a worst way to be alive. To save you the epistle, Google https://sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home/ Follow that link, it will guide you to freedom. It is a free read online. Make sure to complete the book, open another thread and give us your testimony . Now go get busy. |
AnonyNymous:for the biological and inherent need of a man to procreate, he gets aroused at such sights. Now what biological need informs the gay's sexuality? |
Kizito2nv:This corroborated my post. Because you never masturbated doesn't mean you should vilify those strugling with the act. Masturbation and porn addiction is harder to overcome than drug addiction. Again, I think the closes way to overcoming this is by joining a nofab. They give every reason, not just because your pastor said, why you should stay clean. Goodluck guy. And most of you quick to vilify, what do you really gain from tearing down an already broken fellow. You lots claim to be pious and christians, but with no love in your heart |
@op, if you are still reading, I'll try to answer your question. Forget about all those condemning you. If you search a bit closer you would find they themselves are not free of the act. Back to the question. First i must put it to you that you watch porn. even though you didnt mention that, but i know you do. A lot of people say all the good stuffs about porn, but trust me, it is the quickest way to lose the strength of your erection. You might not realise it, but over the years, you have taught your brain to only respond to artificial imagery as seen in porn. When you meet a real woman, your brain doesn't know what to do. This is the experience of thousands of guys battling porn/masturbation addiction. Don't hate on yourself. But you must try and google the danger of porn/masturbation or google "no fap". You will be inspired by what you see and the healthy support you get. There are lots of active communities online for guys like you. Trust me, the world is increasingly elevating porn as the best thing to ever happen to us, but in reality, every porn addict knows their life's essence is gradually eroded. #saynotoporn |
@op, if you are still reading, I'll try to answer your question. Forget about all those condemning you. If you search a bit closer you would find they themselves are not free of the act. Back to the question. First i must put it to you that you watch porn. even though you didnt mention that, but i know you do. A lot of people say all the good stuffs about porn, but trust me, it is the quickest way to lose the strength of your erection. You might not realise it, but over the years, you have taught your brain to only respond to artificial imagery as seen in porn. When you meet a real woman, your brain doesn't know what to do. This is the experience of thousands of guys battling porn/masturbation addiction. Don't hate on yourself. But you must try and google the danger of porn/masturbation. There are lots of active communities online for guys like you. Trust me, the world is increasingly elevating porn as the best thing to ever happen to us, but in reality, every porn addict knows their life's essence is gradually eroded. #saynotoporn |
jumia is doing everything right except the one thing they were supposed to pay attention, cunstomer satisfaction. This is a no-brainer, Amazon goes out of its way to ensure customer satisfaction. You can fool the people and sell them sub-standard goods sometimes, but one thing is guaranteed, they will soon kick your ass. look through the platform, most marchants have a very poor rating. Even the rating system is weak. JUmia forgot the trust in transacting online is tied to the credibility of the rating system. In my opinion, dubious marchants and indicision on the side of jumia to kick out bad marchants is the reason customers don't return. |
Most of the people here are completely missing the point here. This is a show of love by the conqueror to the conquered. Make no mistake about this, this is the stack olm effect. The people have an enemy who has unleashed terror on the land, they are helpless and at its mercy. Then suddenly the enemy shows the people love. They reciprocate by offer of allegience . That was how the Dan fodio won the war and at the same time the love of the people. This only proves one thing, Bihari is hell bent on perfecting the plans of the jihadist before he leaves office. I see dark days ahead. Brace up for war. The south and middle belt must come together to repel this raging storm about to sweep through the nation. While we in the south chest beat, the cleansing is perpetually carried out within Christian minority communities in the North. If we don't support these NOrthern minorities now, we would wake up someday to see these conquered people leading the jihad against us. |
This awe-inspiring. I felt so touched. Thank you Chinua for a worthy life. Thank you Sahara for celebrating our own. Solomonudofia: |
Optimistic comment from all. At least we can all be serious for once. Again, good everyone agrees IT is the way forward. But there's a cliche'. Most young graduates would tend to look this way as a means to an end, then you will hear people make comments like can I learn enough Neyworking in 6 months? Or can I become a programmer in 6 months.... Not wanting to scare you, but there is a reason good programmers, web developers, data analyst, software designers are in short supply. The trade is hard (no sugar coating this) You don't dabble into this as per hobbying. You go into it whole hog like your life depended on it. You don't think 6 months, but let's say within a year of serious study, you may have made it to an intermediary state. Then your journey begins Learning in this field is never ending. But the thrill and excitement is super rewarding. With all these said, if you think you can commit just two hours everyday with eyes glued to your screen for the next 2,3 years, then this is for you. To get started, don't waste your time on roadside training, they are too watery and offer no value for money paid. Instead, explore courses on udacity, coursera, edx, udemy for absolute free. Make quora and stackoverflow your next love and in no time, you'll find your rythm. Welcome onboard. |
thegrace:my brother, you get to wonder the kind of people using this site. Anybody whose life means anything to should be so excited and appreciative of this. But what do you get? A generation that never takes anything serious because obviously, they don't know the place of skills acquisation in the society. Give it 5yrs more, they will be everywhere b blaming every politician for their woes |
