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The signs are there but do what ya heart says!

Annypie:
hmm,call it luck or fate.

buh,u still hav to make dah effort to answer d door,let it in,and be a good host.

At the end of the day....I can only speak for myself. I kinda made a personal choice not to chase anymore. Or at least for now!..after talking to some female friends who openly admitted that girls of today now have more than one bf and it's perfectly normal. And these bfs play different roles. Shit closed my heart for business!

Annypie:
but loads of introverts lyk u,are married na.

see hun,love wuldnt come knocking,u hv to somehow make some efforts..mayb its dah next door neighbour,dah babe in d supermarket,in a gathering..and so on,buh u wuldnt knw if u keep moping,and wallowing in wishful thinking

deres somebody for everyone...u just hv to start searching..goodluck!

Hey!! sometimes love CAN come knocking and you may not have to go knocking, and you may knock the wrong door!

sweettease:
You have the wedding fever singles have just after attending a wedding. You'll probably get over it soon, I know because I've attended 5 weddings within the past 3 months and I still have one, two Saturdays from now .. my dear, be sure it's what you are ready for and want and not just the fever and what people are saying. Good luck sha

hmmmm!

EX 1- ORDINARY PEOPLE - John legend
EX 2- These hoes ain't loyal - Chris Brown
Ex 3 deuces - Chris Brown ft tyga
Ex 4 to the left to the left - beyonce
Ex 5.. hmmmmmmm....

MrCork:
....brother...I don't mean to sound rude but ma profffesional opinion:

....u need yor brain physically replaced wit Panasonick battery's & to be honest...callin u stweeepid will be an insult to stewpiid people.

..u spent 15 years sleeping wit prostitutes & instead of testin yor sef for aids,sifilis or gonoria....u worrying about kissin an innocent university girl and then eventually destroy her life...abi?..... U think that makes u a real man?

...brother it's a great thing u not in London coz I get mofos like u locked up.

...please take this as a compliment & contructive critism to help yor mofo sef (no ooofense)

Ouuuuch! He told him. Lmaoo @ calling u stewpidd will be an insult to stewwpidd people!

Why are people acting like beings single is the best thing ever! It's good to be single but it has its disadvantages just like a relationship.At the end of the day, No matter how bad ya past relationship was or is, the fact remains that "Everyone LIKES to be single but LOVE to be in a relationship!"

Church!

ILOVEMAKONNEN FT DRAKE - TUESDAY
WEEKND FT SCHOOLBOY Q - OFTEN

She is living her life happily. let her be!!

sharijeb:
Love, and inspiring a man to fall in love with you
forever, is all about you being able to receive love.
Most of us only know how to give. We give for lots
of reasons - because we're taught that's the way
to get to a man's heart (it isn't) because we see
other women do it, and because deep down, it
feels uncomfortable and scary to be vulnerable
enough to really get love.
“A man is actually turned off when he gets
more from you than he gives.”
A man is actually turned off when he gets more
from you than he gives. When you shower him
with affection, attention, dinners, gifts, and always
go out of your way to drive to his place, it makes
him think of you as a mother or a friend instead of
inspiring his emotional desire for you.

Wooow! This is a huge generalization and sounds like someones bad experience. I feel you shud get give as much as your heart feels u shud. Some men just appreciate a women's attention and effort and some men will take aadvantage of it and misuse it. Understand ya man!!

Hmmmm!!! I have seen people have all that and they still aren't attractive

why?? they don't have the basic stuff to be completely attractive! A girl that looks as attractive as Tyra Bank from a far can be a Shrek when real close!

To be completely attractive

1. Don't stink
2. have decent fashion sense
3. Get ya make up and hair right
4. show some sense of independence

Justeenaleo:
I rather Become a rich woman straight up!!
Everyman to himself

Well. ..u can become dat after marrying a rich man

mercielizzie:
Cos d more d merrier!!!

Smh!!

Baddestguyp:
each bf caters for different needs and gals want back up for their bfs

back up for thier boyfriend?? Are men hard drives now?

benega:
This is a topic most girls won't like 2 see because the truth is bitter. But it has 2 addressed becacuse its a scourge that's now eating very deep into our social lives that even our younger girls now begin see it as the norm. I won't lie my sisters all have more than 1 BF my cousins too, even my female frnds the same thing. Of recent I discovered (thru snooping) that my steady GF was also steady with lyk 2 oda guys WTF!!! when I comfronted her with d glaring proof she broke down and started sobbing and saying dat she don't luv/sex them that its only me she luv/sex and that if I break up with her she'll die I 4gave her but with the trust gone its only a matter of tym b4 we part ways. But what is d cause of this; is it that our naija babes are capable of falling in love with multiple men? Or it linked 2 greed (oliver twist, wanting the best of both worlds?) Whatever be the reason ladies should know that 4 d most part guys aren't dummies we know.

Only one reason son..."THESE HOES AIN'T LOYAL!!!"

lynpetra:
na ladies o.ladies.Oh see as babes just dey lie for this threa.Women impress other won first before men.The quest to look better and hotter among ladies don land many Inside babalawo pot of skulls.My man doesn't even know how human hair looks!He doesn't check my shoes and clothe tabs to see if its designers!Thank God say i no dey F§K again for Peruvian,brazilian,,togolian,European,ethiopian and finally Chinese Goat hair again.Now na to plait thread.Infact i go soon shave the hair.I rather spend the money y on grooming my pubic hair like oyakilome's.

wooow @"public hair like oyakilome"

Agreed but The Purse tho Nahhhh!! I could careless about a purse!!

SmellMyFart:
Give me her number lemme ask her.

U may wanan ask for picture of her before u call a scarecrow!!

perry2020:
Do u like her?
Do u want a relationship with her?
Don't just do it coz u feel she is bored or might want it,u never can tell she might be thinking of something else and also might be thinking what ur thinking,u know ladies re hard to predict,you might make the first move now n she might think you wana take advantage,why don't you guys try to communicate more and discuss more intimately,then you can Atleast know what's on her mind,just take it slow.goodluck.




From kissing now to the main thing after you will scatter the place,dnt say bt I dint ask her out or your nt interested again,besides I thought they said sex is for married couples.

Sex is for married wetin hahaha!!

Brah!! You are slipping!! all these signs and u still asking all dem questions?? This already sounds like a love story! issh almost had me in tears but I am a Man! lol! The girl invited u in her room and her roomie dipped for yall! U better be kissing this Gurl by the time u read this. Grab her face and be like "I might die tmrw, so here", then lean in and kiss her.

Arva:
Slap u ..

What if he is handsome?

[quote author=ELGREF post=27096172][/quote]That's the gospel right there!! Preach brother! Preach!! Well said!

Dating someone u will not marry is like driving a car with no gas in it...."its not going anywhere!" Then again....some people have married people they never thought they'll ever ever get married to. So u never knew!!

pasqal09:
1. He calls you for only sex
He won’t take you out: movies, dinner but can ALWAYS find time to have sex. Girl he's using you for one thing and one thing only.


2. You've never met his friends
People in healthy relationships meet each other’s friends and family. And If you haven’t met them and they live in the same city.., you have a problem.


3. You only hook at your place
He doesn't take you out on any dates in public and only wants to meet at your place. Does this sound right to you?


4. He never shows up when his supposed to
Let’s just say he does make plans with you, but constantly stands you up with no explanations or apologies. RED FLAG!


5. You have no clue where he lives
He knows where you live and comes often, but you have never seen, been invited to or been in his place. Ask yourself: What is he hiding? A girl? Wife? Kids?


6. He refuses to make you guys official
If you've dedicated a lot of time and effort into a dude and he doesn't want to commit, perhaps it’s because he already has something else at home!


7. He hates it when you take his picture
Of course he's scared a photo of you two might randomly pop up on social media.

So if any of these is similar to your case. Then you should know you're nothing but a SIDE CHIC!!

I bet some girl just read this and realise she's some side chick!!

ogahlouiskid18:
…When she walks for miles to see you.
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…When she says “sorry” even though she didn’t
do anything wrong.
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…When she cries because she still loves and
misses you.
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…When she still tries to get you back.
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…When she no matter how much you have hurt
her still loves you.
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…When she stops her argument with you to
save your relationship.
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…When she continuously makes you feel special
and tries to make you happy.
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…When she is upset but does not tell you as she
thinks she is annoying you.
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…When she wants to leave you because of your
rude behavior but she is not able to do so…

Hahha! What movie did u just watch? They lied!!! Girls like that are currently sitting on the right side of father in heaven. They don't live around here on earth!!

Afrok:
... Well such relationship is a NO for me except I see a bright future for both of us.

No sex is fine, but No kissing?? That's a dark future brah!!

Afrok:
hmmm... Going for next one isn't bad either, she made her decisions, op makes his too, so if he can't cope with her decisions, then he should waka.

what kinda relationship involves no kissing? ? Is that what's good these days? People really do that? Dats shud be illegal and any girl dat demands or seeks a no kissing relationship shud do some jail time!

Afrok:
Hmmm... Op I think ur own better she dey give hug and kiss, seems U missed threads where guys are begging to be given tips on how to get a kiss from their babes.
If she can give U hug and kiss, I think that's a pretty good step, just try and be heating things up from the kiss coz trust me kiss na good weapon to initiate the real deal.

In other news, if U can cope with her decisions and U love her with the intention of marrying her, I think U should respect her decision.

wooooow!! Is this a legit advice? Brothers can't get a kiss from a grown ass woman In this day and age?? Hell nah!!! On to the next one!

Elantracey:
My husby wouldn't be soo jobless at that time.

I sure hope u are saying that because u are already married!

Elantracey:
My husby wouldn't be soo jobless at that time.

I sure hope u are saying that because u are already married!