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ronald4lif:
Anyone who tries to make an ex jealous is living in self denial. They are trying to prove they have happily move on but in reality they are still longing on him/her.

Exactly!! The worst ones are the ones who feel that until they hurt their ex as must as they are hurting. They can't move on.

richommie:
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THE GIRLS

#yolo

lmaooo.

rokiatu:
Usually because they got dumped and they want to prove a point like, "look at me I look so good and am enjoying life without you"

When in reality they secretly want their ex back.

have ever been with a guy that was worth that much effort? Be honest!

valdes00:
Bros shift go front na, y u dey block my view

Lol.

Today! Someone made a statement like this.."I am going to the party with him and I hope my EX is there so he knows iI have moved on!!"....this is a girl! And about two other people in the room saw the sense in this statement. My problem is the person in question had no intention of going to the party until they discovered the EX was going.

Question!!

Why do people purposely hurt themselves like this? Why are sooo many people guilty of working overtime to make their ex jealous? If you say you are over someone then why does your actions say otherwise?

klark3:
Treat a woman like a queen, & watch her take u for granted.

I don't see any reason why a woman should be glorified, they are humans & should be treated as such.while will a man treat a woman like a queen, when she doesn't reciprocate.

This man sounds like he has been smacking every woman on sight. ....Yes! Some women may not reciprocate. You just leave those ones alone. One man's trash is another man's treasure.

giffty:
i'm not saying all guys lie,,,,,,buh i'm findin it difficult to trust evn d good ones .....i know alot of guys wil crucify me, i've offered myself as a sacrificial lamb buh i just need to know why

men lie, women lie.

tracyfemmmm:
Guys pls a word of advise no matter what no means no.
Even if you have been spending what ever amount it is that you think entitles you to her body.When a woman says no pls respect her wishes.Even if you are married she is your panther not your property and she has the right not to be forced into sex.Even if you are in the middle if it and she says no pls accept no.There is no justification for rape of any kind and if you participate in it God will surly give you what you deserve.

No to rape and violence. Pick on someone your own size. There are so many women who are victims of rape and abuse and they hide it behind a smile and make up. And you will never hear of it because of fear.

Alexpissu:
Go ahead, tell them everything you know. It’ll only take 10 seconds.

what?

pinkycute:
good idea DAT might be the reason ( I guess )

Yup! You just never know.

pinkycute:
Not loved

Why? Maybe he likes and respects you and fears giving you the wrong impression that he is sex driven.

justmag:
As long as it comes with some thickness then it's all right with me

its rare though

As long as it comes with some thickness then it's all right with me

Twaci:
True talk.

Just becos salt no dey for food no mean say I no sabi cook, I fit get high BP

lmaoo. Very true.

ivyT:
HIV no dey show for face ya know

it will show on her face after she comes home with that test result.

My list

1. Just because he or she likes a picture on your instagram, Facebook or twiiter doesn't mean he/she likes you. They just liked the PICTURE

2. Just because because he or she gives you ONE compliment on your appearance at work doesn't always mean she is interested.

3. There is a difference between dates and just hanging out. Tooo many people don't kno the difference.

4. Just because she wore that sexy outfit doesn't always mean she is a prostitute or sleeps around. Maybe she was just feeling sexy or wore that dress for her man! It doesn't mean she wants you to hit on her.

5. If you see a man you like and you are tempted to approach him DON'T assume he is a player and will play you, he is tooo good for you or he will REJECT YOU because he is HANDSOME and just because she is very beautiful compare to the women you are used too doesn't she will reject you or give attitude. At the end of the day. You will never know until you cross that bridge.

6.just because she has her own car, business, or money doesn't mean she will look down on you if you are not at her level.

7. A broke man today CAN be a rich man tomorrow and a Rich man today can be a cheater or wife beater tommorrow.

8. Just because he or she invites you to their home. Doesn't mean he/she wants to sleep with you. They may just enjoy your company. Friendzone stuff!

9. NEW ADDITION....Just because she has Gucci, prada, and very expensive designer stuff doesn't mean she is a gold digger or a possible prostitute. Know the difference between EXPENSIVE TASTE and a GOLD DIGGER.

10. Just because he has a big musclar or fit body doesn't mean he will be a wife beater. Maybe he likes being fit and staying healthy.

still thinking.......

falconey:
.............sometime they get sick of each other. Seeing the same man/woman everyday for years, the same shape,eyes,lips etc

so get a divorce! Life is too short to remain unhappy! I have cousins, friends and more that inspired this post.

This is an observation I have made. It may seems baseless to you but in my mind i am right about this. I have been around different couples from different countries and i have made a conclusion. I have seen happy couples in love and unhappy and tolerating couples. Alot of married couples in Nigeria seem to be sooooo unhappy! And i mean alot!!!!!...I know unhappy couples are everywhere but in nigeria...its a bit different because of the way they put up with each other. When i see them in public gathering or when i have a conversation with them about each other or something, I just don't feel the love there and some don't even try to fake it. It certainly feels like they tolerate each other! Maybe I just understand and experience love differently!! If i ever get married, I just don't ever want to be like that. What do you think? Insults are welcomed.

I want to experience love differently. I mean holding hands in public, even on bad days we make effort to make things right, evening walks, quality time as couples, renewing vows and so much more.

Maybe she just loves to cook and shares the meal with her coworker. Why would she be mad at that? Plus I may bring some home for her too!! Gotta share the love.

A real woman will say "don't worry! I'll get the bill!" Whether she likes you or not. There are bigger things to worry about than that. Now if he does it again then he is on his own.

liftedberry:
Here in nigeria
Any girl that will open and filthy and label her self a virgin,and still have a boyfriend or boyfriends is a bloody lier..

And my girlfriend will never every deny me of sex,unless she is just a friend..

And any female friend that deny me sex is a stranger to me..I don't know you..

Well said.

In a relatuonship!! If a girl has had sex before marriage but then refuses to have sex with you then she has some issue she may or may not have told you about. Maybe she wants to wait to discover that you truly love her before she gives up the goods. However long that is!!! I know some guys are stuck in some weird relationships like that. I can't do it if I feel I should sexually active.

In this age. Money buys love.

I will always chose love when I find her.

Forget if she is a virgin, the question should be, did this niggaa use a condom?

A girl bought me a brand new laptop and beats by dre headphone but she was not nigerian.

These girls. She just wanted it all on day one.

I think that's ok. The worse part is a man confessing to being gay. Women can't handle that shitt