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There are excuses for staying but NO REANSONS. Once you understand your worth. You will leave. The common excuse I have heard is "the kids!"....I have seen parent successfully parent without living together. Domestic violence is the height of a mans weakness!

Period get lost like chibok girls

Blackett:
If he can answer number 2 convincingly, the rest is history.

You already know! Even if he beats her to the ground just make sure you can pay her medical bills right after.

fyneboi79:
checkout my username,fyneboi79.As at when I joined NL I was on d 79th girl and now I am above 100 babes and I tell you.......they never want to leave. I leave them.Maybe because you are so dumb that u just can't imagine why you will be so unwanted even by the pepper selling babes. Its not about looks but skill.So pls learn and migrate and your story may change




Thank me later

Okay! The Almighty endowed one. Congratulations on your achievement. Lmaoo @ pepper selling girl. When i have a reason to brag about all the girls i have been with. I will come find you. Congrats again!

Blackett:
This is rubbish. In as much as I have my reservations for what these ladies do, I don't expect anyone to stay in an abusive relationship cos of some _stupid sex. The Nigerian girls I know don't like to be tied down by one man, especially in their dating stage. If you like, give her the sex, if she finds someone with more money, pele o. She doesn't mind even having_sex with you on her wedding eve, but leave you they can, and they will.

Dont mind this OP. This is what happens when one man meets one dumb ass girl and then he assumes every girl is the same.

When you choose to be a housewife then those are RESPONSIBILITIES not WORK.

I am so sorry to hear this just understand NOT every man is like this. Don't hate meen for a long time.

I get worked up about topics like this. Does she love u? Does she treat you like a man? Does she treat like she is serious about you? Is she everything you want in a woman? If the anwser is yes then leave that shit alone. She should be more sensitive about that and not you. Grow a pair!

If she is doing this because her friends aren't doing it. Then you have alot to worry about! A woman who makes a lot a of decisions from their friends opinion and not their own is a risky one. Make sure you have insurance. The day you get down on your knees she may say "no! Let me ask my friends first!"

If she is a girl you have feelings for. Emotions are high right after sex. One wrong move can leave a bad impression. So be careful how you act right after. Take note of the following.

1.Don't just pick up your clothes and leave. Like nothing happened
2. Always kiss her forehead to tap into her emotions
3. Dont concerntrate on the tv or your laptop like you just didnt have sex.
4. Now if you made a movie, make sure you don't forget the camera in the corner.
5. Don't act like you have some thing very important to do right after sex. She may feel like you are trying to ditch her. Wait a while before you leave.
6. This is the best time to be a GOOD LISTENER, don't just pass out and sleep. Wake your asss up

Desperation and approaching a man are two different things.

Number 3...I don't agree with. The woman I will marry will take her health and fitness as serious as i am. So that won't be an issue.

After she laughs at my first joke then the panties drop.

Blackett:
Bro, that's the worst and most overused lie on earth.

lmaoo. Ikr. Girls in denial.

Blame it on nicki minaj and Kim Kardashian

Blackett:
Nope. Especially girls with the "he's just a friend" lie.

Lmaoooo. ..I know the type

Monicasque:
well honey its fine if he wants to talk. I will definitely be there for him. But he just mustnt expect me to talk abt mine. Coz God knows m taking my secretes to the grave. I cant risk certain things.i just cant my sweet

Lol! I wonder what your secrets are even though i know its none of my business. Did you kill someone or something? Maybe I should stop asking questions in case I could be next!

falconey:
must you cum?....isn't it the function of a dude?

what Did you just ask that??

You better cry too and tell her it's over. No sense in staying miserable!

Woow. You just messed it up for all the girls around nigeria. You just revealed their best kept secret. Now i have truly learnt something today. ...why check for another females blood stain though? That's a bit nasty!! ...I am sure some guy here will assume a girl maybe on her period when she is not laughing at his wack ass jokes..

seriousbabe:
Can't you be serious for once

I am always serious.

Lmaoooo. Ya spiritual wife must be from a porn site.

Monicasque:
hehehe no honey.in my line of bzns i have had to ruin many lives and hurt many ppl. Sometimes i just try to hide a few things so dat i dnt seem evil to him. Dats wat i mean by lying. And i knw also dat he is no angel. So i dnt want to know his skeletons, coz mine r more. Its better if we let sleeping dogs lie, coz if he were to find out the whole truth abt me, hell would break loose. M nt gona lie to u dear, m no angel, i have many lies and secrets.so bcoz i cover up mine, i dnt wana dig in another, coz i might nt like wat i wil find.just da same as i know he wil nt like some of the things i have hidden

I understand what you mmean. You rather be safe than sorry. Don't ask too much questions and hope he would do the same. Now! What if you meet that man that loves so much because he is doing everything you want right. And he is willing to accept everything about you and he holds your hands one day and looks you straight in the eye and promises to tell you absolutely everything about him and if you have any questions about him. He would tell you without a second thought. Do you think would open up then or would you think that's a lie as well? Or you think it's too Hollywood?

SleekyPosh:
The only relationship that there's no lies exists between the corpse nd the coffin

Hahahhaha!!!

striktlymi:
I am not sure there is, I may be wrong though.

I think what is important is that both parties strive to be truthful and open.

Anyways, its one thing to lie and another to be a liar. The gravity of the lie may also be taken into consideration.

I agree but you know most women get very upset once they find out you lied about something. They will find it hard to trust you after that. Once they start losing that trust then that relationship will go downhill from there.

asadike:
no longer hard dear, have mastered it.

I hope he stays truthful then, 100 percent if that's possible!

makazona:
mine is 98% lie-free.
#fact

lmaooo! 98 percent is not possible in 2015.

Monicasque:
The truth told with the worst intention is worst dan a lie. Loving someone means protecting them from hurt. I dnt knw if wat m doing is right or wrong, bt there r so many things i hide frm him bcoz i know they wud distroy dem if he ever found out, and i know there r certain things which he keeps frm me, all in the name of protecting me. I dnt dig hard bcoz i know i might nt like somethings i wil find out.so i simply enjoy wat i have.wit its lies n secrets,bcoz i dnt wana ruin wat i have.so yes, it is possible to lie.more dan possible actualy.hey u can hate me if u want, m just talking frm experience. The trick is dat we both pretend to b honest with each other, even though i know we r nt

So you know this! Then how can you really trust him that way and have a truthful relationship? It would be bad to settle for what you have because it's the best you can find for now.

asadike:
I myt not be in a relationship now but I have resolved never to lie in a relationship. After al, u will not kill me, if u are pleased with me being truthful u stick to me, if u are not, u get d fork out.

That's good and I hope you find something like that. You may have the intention to stay truthful but it will be hard.