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Brymo:
Nope

Let say the roles were reversed! You best friend which is mostly likely a girl beeped your man you have been dating for two years! and she doesn't tell you! will you be mad or no if you find out from your man instead??

So I just met my Best friends GF two days ago! He has been with her for about Two Years now! I instantly remembered dating her shortly before she left for Nigeria at the time. We dated about 6 or 7 years ago and we dated for about two months or so. if you were in my shoes! Would you tell him or wait for her to tell him??

2buff:
LOL
Woe betites the man who follows love advice from a woman.

Small time now she will tell you to "buy her a gift whenever she yells at you" or "Just smile and look at her when she slaps you".
You're going down a deep hole kid. You had better find your nuts before its too late.

Why will she give you good advice when she herself knows that she misbehaves and would like to turn any man she "advices" into the kind of pitiful creature that tolerates her excesses so she can have her way? Go and learn from men who are successful with females.

You I am a dude, right??

bigiyaro:
First u get the money, then you can have the power after all these, u can get all and any p u s s y.

Its sad! That should not be the case! Everyone is different I guess.

tayoxx:
So I have to wait til I'm 55 before I go see fine geh marry

In Nigeria! If that is when you anticipate getting rich and all then YES! Sadly!

MarthaK:
Ok

MarthaK hates arguing!! hahaha!

Especially in Nigeria!! I have noticed alot of beautiful women dating less attractive men! I am sure this comes as no surprise to many but i still get this little confused look on my face when i see a woman thats stunning in so many ways coupled up with a less attractive man. I am certain many will agree it COULD BE because of money, security and maybe maturity! All i can ask myself is how this class of women feel knowing they are not dating the man of their dreams? Do they wonder if they could have done better when they look at this man everyday or just say f**k it, I have money and security now?? I understand this is tied to the nigerian economy somehow. I strongly believe if these women had a good dream job or a great source of income then these class of men will never be an option at all! I cant imagine happiness in that kind of relationship! why? because the man maybe wondering if this woman will love him with or without the material things he has to offer and the woman just wants the security to last long! and if that goes then the "love" goes as well! Plus!! this man can also get another woman the same way he got you! agree or no??

kakakoshina:
1. Why do you love me?
2. Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with me?
3. Will you do your best to keep the romance alive?
4. Will you grow with me, and not away from me?
5. Will you stick through the rough times?
6. Are u willing to loss some battle in order to keep Peace?
7. Can you promise to put us ahead of everything else?
8. Will you be a great parent?
9. Will you be sure to remind me how much you love me regularly?
10. Can you promise to do all you can to keep that spark alive?
11. Will u support me when I can't carry myself?
12. Will you promise to continue to pursue your personal goals and dreams?
13. Will u not allow yourself to let Go?
14. Can you promise me that if my time is cut short, you’ll continue to live on for the both of us?

marriage is not a damn contract! Anyone can anwser these questions but not everyone will promise this and not break it! Keep God in your prayers about this and let him give you that garantee! Only God can give you that garantee not a woman.

This is not always true! I kno some girls who act like a full packaged hoe but never had sex! Some of y hem just want to explore to a limit and not feel left out!

Def loaf - try me
rick ross - moving bass
Bunji garin - differentology
kid ink - body language
aaliyah - one in a million

I almost agreed with this post from the age "9" till until I read the rest of the post! This is total garbage in my opinion.

I don't believe it's a big deal to ask a man out! Just do your part by asking him out and leave the rest to him.

3cycle:
If you love your woman, don't bother reading/taking 2buff's advice else you remain single till 50.

Listen to Justmag, his words are divine

thanks!

We are not safe

rawpadgin:
that's not a bad question if u ask me

it depends on who's asking?? A gold digger?? Or wifey material??

sylvalord:
and what difference will that make? as long as she senses that you are scared to lose her, she will continue exploiting u

I am never scared to lose someone dats already lost! My eyes are opened when girls start act shady!

sylvalord:
Hello sissy

I am no punk! If i don't like her or wat she is doing...I'll tell her straight to her face.

2buff:
Imagine after you write your essay finish and all she manages to respond with 1 hour later is "K".
LOL who's time have you now wasted?
Or you have never seen foolish girls who will decide not to contact the guy unless he begs her...for doing absolutely nothing.

To survive dating in this century, you need to be confident enough in yourself to know that as one drops, another one enters.
That confidence will be evident to her as well and she will know that there is a limit to what she can do before SHE herself loses you.
She must always know fully well that your relationship style is not the "begging" type. That though you love her, but whenever she wants to leave, the door is wide open.


If you no dey understand wetin I dey talk give you, you never arrive.
Dey pursue woman up and down and be a slave to their emotional rollercoasters if it works for you. All the best

ohhhhh I hate when girls do that shit! After writing a long message just to get a "K!" I delete them asap even if they look like halle berry! FDB! !! I agree with you though....I think i work on the same principle! I have never approached a girl in nigeria in my life before but I still manage to meet girls somehow! I feel girls out in nigeria work on a different principle that will never work with me. When a girl runs thru about 6 clueless dudes they think number 7 maybe the same. I believe you have to show these girls that you are all man! I have heard tooo many bad stories that gave me a lifetime worth of fear of some nigeria girls! I have a friend who has spent soo oo much money on some girls and they judt use him like slippas!

2buff:
Better stop encouraging bich-assness.
If you dont believe men also need to do yanga, you are sadly mistaken

The same psychological games females play on guys can certainly be used by guys as well.
It's not only guys that should be "afraid to lose" their partner.

There is absolutely nothing wrong in females calling their boyfriends. The ones that form "he must always reach me first" are not serious and will continue to be unserious if the guy continues to be a bich. You better learn.

Real bitchasssness is playing games! A real man will msg her and tell her how he feels. These pointless games is child play.

Pride will kill a man. U better msg her before she msgs someone else!

Take her ass to the gym and church and your problems are solved.

I have decided to remain single or date other african girls cause these hoes ain't loyal! And look at that ugly duckling with a fish mouth talking about more boyfriends. We are finished!

Chai! People on nairaland are mean! Lmaoo. See bashing!

missberrypop5:
if she likes you, tell her to send airtime for you. She'll do it ASAP.

If she likes you, she'll buy garri and groundnut for you.
yeah yeah.

Hmmm! In 2014?? Yeah right.

stinggy:
Very appropriate. You're young and virile.

Next time after unzipping her, ask her if that'll be all

MA NIGGAA (DENZEL VOICE)

It means 5 things to me
1. Your girl could deny deny deny when u ask her what it means
2. It probably means what u think it means
3. This dude in the picture has a death wish (if it was me! )
4. It means he feels he may have hurt her doing whatever
5. It could mean a thousand more things.

I swear this website is full of potential stand up comedians! I just died reading this!

EroticAngelina:
I wanna know..it can be sexual something or love something. what are the little or big things girls do that make your knees weak, in other words, that make you fall in love or become interested in her?

For the girl that i love? Its When she never changes especially when things are bad! When i lose a job! When the money goes and my honey stays the same!

Two wrongs don't make a right, it just creates a fight

ireneony:
dear that is not true. I have a friend that slap a guy and she thought the guy will never hit her back because the guy is so cool headed, to her greatest surprise the guy beat her up. she told me she will never hit a guy again because they are unpredictable

When I say understand I don't mean "assume" he will not hit you because he is cool and maybe quiet or whatever attitudes that cud possibly make u believe he will not hit you! You have to have a dialog! Talk about it! Make sure he understands you will not stand for it no matter what! If he hits you for whatever reason. You will be out the door. Make sure he understands what that can do to a woman emotionally and physically!

There is so much to consider if a man ever hits you! I personally believe there should be no forgiveness after a man hits a woman for whatever reason. You are not a child that needs discipline! You have to understand that You are a woman who chose to be with this man out of the billions and millions of people in the world! He needs to understand what he can lose and what he has. Just like you chose him you can chose another no matter how wonderful he is. This perspective will only make sense to people who are deep in a relationship!

I think we should get married! ....only few will agree with this. I personlly believe you should understand your bf enough to kno hr will never hit you.