₦airaland Forum

mizzkeji44:
That is the mentality of most nigerian guys,they believe if a gal have tattoo on her body,she is bad.

too bad for them!

theorbiters:
having tattoos on ur body is a sign of irresponsibility both for the guys and ladies. Why wud somebody decide to draw on his or her body abi drawing book don finish for market? Trust me, if she can think of having a tattoo on her body then she can think of doing something crazy to u

and having tribal marks and cultural tattoos is perfectly fine?? I have responsible female friends who have tattoos and are well behaved! Some happily married with kids and have been with their husbands for a long time. Some tattoos have sentimental meanings, a connection to a loved one after passing and a complete appreciation for body art!

Yes it does! I don't judge!

Why do some nigerian guys spot a girl with tattoo or piercings and get turned off by it or assume they could be hoes or prostitutes?? Is that like a hoe identity card in nigeria?? I did date a girl with tattoo and piercings (where the sun don't shine ). I say this because I had a bunch of guys spot a girl they liked but as soon as they spotted some tattoo on them they changed their minds and assumed the worse! Guys! Would you date a girl with tattoo and if not! Why not? ? I clearly don't have a problem with it!

lasheez:
Marrying a boring woman like seriously.So what Phobia is it called?

BOREHOEPHOBIA - A phobia of a BORING HOE!

I think it's normal! My fear is marrying a hoe or a boring woman! I always suggest that people take time to know their partner well and don't rush into marriage!

No man or woman should be a lone! Single people are just preparing to be in another or their first relationship! Most people are single because They getting over someone, getting their money right to deal with their ideal woman (atleast some men do!), they want to taste other women or men before they meet "THE ONE!", and more!

ireneony:
some persons are not ready for relationship nowadays, cos they don't want stress from the opposite sex. they want freedom, no one to control/monitor them. but in the long run, they need a companion. the singles might say they are comfortable with how things is right now, but I bet u, u wish someone is there to;
encourage you
put a smile on your face
be there for you
most importantly to love you.

my question is,
is it good to be lonely/single?

and to buy you bugatti and Gucci bags abi??

Not all women are the same! It's just hard to believe that all women are not the ssame when the percentage of gift loving and money hungry girls are really high!! They are some women who are independent and satisfied with what they have and all they want is for a man to love them and for them to love them back!! Sometimes I just laugh when I read posts where some guys are trying to get all the money in the world before they can appraoch a girl! It only tells me what kind of girls they have been or will be dealing with! A real woman will hope you have a job or trying to get one!! That hustling spirit is a turn on or a plus for a real woman! I say this because women who appreciate that is the kind of woman I have been dating! So when I see a bimbo asking me for a recharge card and you don't know me personally! I just laugh. For those saying "i am just kidding myself!....just remember this "when the money goes while you honey stay?"

Culiarme:
is it okay for me 2 say dis? 'i luv u'. Women shuld b independent.

of course! Love u too! because u agree with me!

If I upload my pic! Some girls will become single.

major466:
No.1 is true. Nigerian ladies hate flowers.

are you serious Why

That's what I have been saying to all these niggass chasing these recycled african barbies! Please! Look beyond the bleached skin, boobs and ass and feel her heart beat!!

bobbymishark:
in london,its no big deal as its somfin dat hppns normally. But in naija,girls form too much even if dats wat dey really want. Mayb dey shud get more exposure

Exactly! Same in the united states! They need more exposure.

mikeson12:

claireshan:
alright keep searchingu will definitely find her one day

AMEN to that!

olexjay:
I think she stay cos she never forget the rules of marriage which one of it was "For better for worse" and maybe she's still staying to see if the man gonna change.... I just don't like the aspect whereby a man will turn his wife into a punching bag, every man should be able to know that woman will always be woman, when there's a lil argument or misunderstanding they will always wanna be in the post of being innocent and won't stop abusing, in something like this the man should just take his cloth and walk out without saying any word believe me when he left the house the woman gonna keep thinking over her acts and realize her mistake... Then to finish it all the man should still calm the woman at night when he's back home.



Believe me there are lots of ways to teach a woman/lady without beating her.

1) Try getting home late by hanging around.

2) Don't eat at home, try eatry for sometimes.

3) When u wanna sleep face the wall.

4) Greet her and make ur tv of device ur bestie when home.


Believe me she gonna come to senses

sounds like some stubborn head thing! Lol! U may lose your woman and it could work too. I mean...I believe people abuse the idea of "for better or for worse!"

iamodenigbo1:
Love as they say,but real men don't lay their hands on woman.,my dad never did it,I never did it to my younger sister,nor my ex'es.it is bad on the part of the man and stupidity on the part of the woman.QED

I couldn't agree more! No woman should experience that. Because that scar will stay with them for life. I rank it as high as statutory rape! .

Harbosede02:
U mean obsession??

How??

claireshan:
Y?

have you seen Lions and deers get along?? Nope! Because we are not the same. I have not found the kind of girl I am looking for.

I do not condone men beating up women at all! Because i believe that girl could have been my sister or my mother. I am very sensitive about that! I had a friend who got beat up by her bf a few years back. I knew this girl for the longest time at the time. She never said anything about it each time we talked on the phone or thru chat until one day I decided to visit on her birthday to give her a gift from my family! I get there and I spot a red eye on her face and broke glass all over the floor. I tried to ask what happened and she says "we had a little argument!" There is nothing little about a big lump on your face! I literally got physical with the man and the rest is history. This happened in 2009 and they just broke up in 2012! We kind of lost contact because i lost respect for her because she chose to put up with constant beatings for stupid ish! This happened in the US where you can easily be locked up for that shit. Now! Just about two weeks ago. I heard of a similar case in Nigeria and I understand that there are sooo many women who chose to put up with this. All I want to kno is WHY DO WOMEN STAY?? WHY DO YOU TOLERATE A MAN WHO WANTS TO TURN YOU TO A PUNCHING BAG WHAT DO YOU TELL SOME ONE LIKE THAT??

alabiyemmy:
where r they?

Please! He should let us know. Because I gave up yesterday on these bimbos!

8. You have not gone to church yet and you need Jesus!

angelTI:
Holla at dead machine? God forbid!

hahaha...am dead!

If its a girl that's wifey!
1. In the bedroom:I like her looking small wearing my t-shirt or jersey and nothing else!
2. Outside: tights and sleeveless shirts
3. Business attire: there's something sexy about that.

if it's not a girl I am wifing or dating
1. I like her naked

I think it depends on ya sensitivity level and who the person is! Is it an ex? A friend? A work mate?? A crush??

Some ladies will rather have a man with money knowing money can not buy love and then complain when he starts cheating on you or using that money to control you. Why not have a balance in the relationship! You have a job and steady income and he does the same and let real love flow. At the end of the day! Take money out of the equation and the couple won't know how to act! Love is an unexplainable feeling that only few have experienced because of some barrier like money. Imagine if these girls were fully independent in the full sense of the word independent!! Do you know how useless your money will be Most men are intimidated by an confident working class woman because they know their money has no power and they have to give that woman a good reason to date them. What sensible working class woman will ask their husband or bf for money for weave, recharge card, or basic stuff like that? You could buy stuff for that woman and she will be more happy about the gesture than the item itself. This is not to say the item had no meaning! What I am saying in essence is this! The economy of nigeria is partly responsible for some womens dating preferences.

Khalessi:
I never dated a broke guy. I've an expensive taste. I don't need your money but you need to match my status.

I have an expensive taste as well but why shud your expensive taste be another man's problem? I don't have a problem with spending on a woman as long as it's not a bloody REQUIREMENT from her.

No woman will smell my money until I smell her heart! It's a jungle out here! You have to run through some gorrillas, lions, bears to just get to queen charming! I am patient enough to find miss right and not miss money!

Blebleswag:
Go and work and make money and dont b lazy, mitchewwwwwwwww.


This is hw u wil get married n u expect d woman 2 také responsibilities of d families.

he is just talking about taking money out of the equation and explore love.

When u give your 100 percent to a girl giving 50! And issh don't work out. Ya heart will break like glass! Now if it's d other way round then maybe not.