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LaurelP:
I've come to realise that men don't really like wooing or befriending ladies who are very confident. Ladies who can speak up at any place and time and aren't afraid of anybody.

Such ladies are often single and don't get as much attention from men as the more reserved ones. I know of this lady who is very beautiful and has assets that every man would love. But this very lady is just too confident; she doesn't care she can walk up tok anybody and strike up a conversation, she says her mind the way she feels. As in, she no send anybody! Infact I was in a seminar with her and immediately she came until the end, everybody already knew her.

I realize dat men are usually intimidated by such ladies. Why

misszainab:
Oh...you want gals to tell you how they feel about you so u could call them cheap abi?

Harbosede02:
Itz nt right bt its ok.

ammyluv2002:
Very wrong, dearie

NaNaYaaah:
Okay..i personally believe that if a woman likes a man, theres nothing wrong with her approaching the man. I wanna know if yall think its an abormination..i mean we in the 21st century...

Culiarme:
Hello nairalanders, this is my first major post and i want to use it to plead with most of the ladies out there. Please stop collecting unnecessary gift from guys be it cash or kind. My reason for this plea is because for some time now have been coming across post/quote by guys who think they dont need to woo a girl,all they need do is make money and girls will flock around them not minding their short coming. I dont blame most of this guys cos that what most girls do. At my age have dated few guy none of which have ever ask a favour from, is not because i dont fancy nice things or want to look good is just that i believe i have what most people dont have 'CONTENTMENT' . If i cant afford something, i go for what i can wihtout having to beg, If you are a guy and you think this way,i feel sorry for you cause you are as useless and empty like the girls you hope to attract(no insult intended) and sorry for the epistle

PinkObsession:

PinkObsession:

BreezyRita:
And when will you speak good of the good ones? Or you're telling me you haven't met one?


Yea What else do you want in a relationship?
Maybe your dog can give you sex too.....
Neways, you guys should stop thus B.S
Women are women! Wherever they are.... Oyinbo or not

Taleeysun:
you also should not generalize because of the bad eggs you'v met

PinkObsession:
True

ifynairaland:
Having observed all these rules, can you boldly say that girls are chasing you?

ireneony:
I will not sugar coat the topic, am just telling the simple. of all things abroad he only told his aunt to buy a cologne. can't you see he is very suspicious.

KizzyyRae:
Omg...I luv Colognes x0 much... That's on my top 5 list of presents you should get me.. Like y would she say that?.. Or maybe she's not really hygenic..cuz if u knw you're a clean Freak..(Like me) you wouldn't be that insecure..

debosola:
O.p are u sure it was perfume u got her and not Air-freshner. Lol

ireneony:
if I was in her shoe I will say that too. is just like when your girlfriend buy u toothbrush and toothpaste, how will you feel?

chymystique:
This is the Dumbest question ever! I thought you said your gf is working so why can't she buy a phone for herself.. Are you her father/husband?.. And for that matter you are even asking if your gf should collect the phone from the other guy that is asking her out to pay later cause you are broke. Do u think that's feasible? Oh do you think the guy will buy the phone for your gf just like that with no strings attached when you yourself knws he likes her? Think am guy, is that not the height of your foolishness to even reason it AND whose phone was she now using to chat on whatsapp that she had to ignore your messages?


Later you will start lamenting gals are blah blah blah.. Ur gf shld take a chill pill till u can afford to buy her phone or she buys it herself @ least there are affordables smart phones of 10k...