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gloriuss:
thanks justwise. . . . .and AGAIN i say u are WISE!

Its all good , sister! keep doing ur thing, u got my respect

gloriuss:
ok well u guys should look at it this way!
From my own experience- i'd been with a guy for a year and a half that was "struggling", i paid for most things etc etc etc. Then when it really dawned on him that i was doing most of the work financially he began to feel sooooo uncomfortable and in turn began to misbehave which in turn MADE ME dump him!
I was ALWAYS optimistic abt our future and actually tried to motivate him to the fullest but apart from some ladies getting fed up with broke guys that havent anything to their name, those SAME GUYS start to feel an inferiority complex that makes them wild in all manners!
So its not only the ladies that are dumping men that are "struggling". . . . . . some guys that cant handle not being successful make themselves "dumpees". . . . . ,

I can understand where u coming from, though i must give u credit for helping him financially, not many girls will do that.

Respect!

xqwysyte:
He doesnt have to be spilling the benjamins. As long as i see he has great career/business prospects and he is hardworking, he is ALL mine.
As a matter of fact i dont like dating the 'too rich guys'.

U must be one in a billion

ramalot:
beware of scammers as you acquire this

They are all bunch of criminals. Paypal can't not verify Nigeria bank details.
All these pple telling u to call or email them are all scammers,

Stay far away from them, they will tell the illegal way of opening it, its stealling innocent pple's money.

Nigerians let stop this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

B4 u marrying him, make sure u sort this issue out else its going to get worst.

Sit him down and with every sense of seriouness tell him exactly how u feel abt this issue, this is the time to do it.

Good luck

dk4justice:
Hello friends!Its been awhile i'm not found of browsing i only come online once in a bluemoon. I will like to ask u friends a question which as been rumbling in my stomach.Please why do we? guys prefer to go for a slim ladies than those OROBOS.

How abt saying 'some' guys?

spikedcylinder:
Just in case you didn't know justwise, his lappy is his prized possession. One is not even allowed to touch the 360 degree air around it.

Hmmmm, Now i know why he doesn't want to mess abt with u

oyb:
abomination!!!!

@ justwise if you need any more education as to why ms cylinder is a dif breed of chick - there lies your answer. the gal knows how to hit where it hurts . . no whining for her - oh no - she go just deal with you

Point taken

spikedcylinder:
You're missing the point. . . . .

And the point is?

spikedcylinder:
What you want is different from what your parents think suits you. Your parents will definitely want you to be married an educated, financially stable person. Whom you love might be a different thing altogether.
My point is, don't blame the parents for wanting any of those things for their child.

Their daughter's happniess shld come 1st, if she loves him, wants to marry him, she shld be allowed to do that, its her life, her marriage.
Yes education and finance are gr8 but they will not make a good marriage life if the love is not there.

Sometimes parents shld step back and allow their kids to make their choices, make mistakes and learn from it.

softlink:
I am dating igbo girl for last 2yrs now, we both love each other. She told her mother about the affair, but she refused vehemently telling her daughter that she cannot continue with me cos am a yoruba boy, she is only daughter and she is going to give her to an igbo man. She told me further that it is abomination. What do i do?

Allow her mum to sale to the highest bidder IF the money is the issue here.

spikedcylinder:
An Igbo man with more money than you, perhaps? Which parent wouldn't want their children to marry someone who is financially stable within their ethnic group?
Whats your point?

Do u marry 4 money or for love?

blank09:
Help cheer me up ps

How can i cheer u up? let me know, free of charge

spikedcylinder:
Oyb, he doesn't know. If you educate him, I will pour water on your lappy.

Oyb please educate me

oyb:
rest assured, ms cylinder is a very uncommon chick , if u know what i'm sayin

Couldn't agree with u more

spikedcylinder:
Hmmm. . . . .what does it matter?

Not really, but its very uncommon for a Nigerian girl to have such view

spikedcylinder:
Lol. You can never be sure.

pls comfirm whether u are a woman or, ?

Kelvinj:
@justwise
so she haz turned in2 a man 4 hitting d nail on d head wel she is.

i'm still getting over the shock after reading her post

spikedcylinder:
No mind them. When they were asking the poor boy for money to do the hair on their own head dem no know.
They start cheating on him and the sharp guy wants a cut from the puxxy biznix and they are crying foul.

Hmmm check again if u are a woman

michelin89:
Wetin? Nor be the same blackmail una take dey collect allowance?


The guy say, if the girl nor pay, he go leave.   Oya na! The table don turn, abi?

U just strick the  point there, i'm suprised that its coming from a woman