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amosexy:
Oh I gat no case now becos I'm lady or What? I'm seeing A guy doesnt mean I'm strewing him  and I didnt even start untill I discovered he was misbehaving.

Should I just fold my arms till I'm 40 and keep praying that he stops misbehaving ? Cos i dont know what u mean by I'm even worst ooo. If i'm your younger sister and for the past 7 months my BF has bin acting funny,What will u adivce i do?

Two wrongs doesn't make a right, so stop complaining,

gloriuss:
@poster, but seriously how can one do something, but not want that same thing to be done to them?!
Not only does it defy the law of KHARMA, whatever you sow, you shall reap! So as ur doing ur own, dont complain coz he is doing his!

please say that again and again, she must be having a bad dream

amosexy:
Gator

you know how it is nao, we went to school together and up till the time we were serving,he wasnt like that, he was a loving and caring guy.I guess his problem is that I might be seeing someone abroad and I told him I wasnt even though I am. Why cant he just change that status ,that is the only problem I av with him. My status was on single but he was the one day suggested i changed it and I did.

u can't eat ur cake and have it, u got no case, u are even worst than him

amosexy:
In a relationship with a guy for almost 6 years and on facebook his status read SINGLE, while mine reads Engaged.Whenever I opened his page,all I see is pictures of different beautiful ladies,could it be that they are just friends or he's dating them ? I've told him to change his status but he wont .

How will you feel n What will you do if you were to be in my shoes?

Don't blame facebook, he is to be blamed, 6yrs and he is still putting up single?
He need to make up his mind

chiejik:
Are u sure u looking for ur friend or urself?

Tell us something abt ur friend, how old is she? what does she do?
U can even post a pic, IF u want, then application will pure in

habaaa how can you say such a thing? she is 27 and attractive.do you care

Just want to know, nothing wrong in looking after a friend, i care abt my Nigerian sisters offcourse.

Are u sure u looking for ur friend or urself?

Tell us something abt ur friend, how old is she? what does she do?
U can even post a pic, IF u want, then application will pure in

Tracey121:
He must have been a bad liar sweetie ha!!!! right now I am dating 5 ppl and I saved all their numbers in my phone book as "Baby", "Love", "Love of my life" u name it and then when they see that I saved their names as that they loose interest to go to my msges coz they know that I wont save them as Baby and all the crap if there was some1 else, last week I was with one of them and left him with my phone, the next thing when I come back he was all smiling with my phone in his hands, reading the msg I sent to one of my guys and he thought I sent it to him coz it says Baby, and when he dial his number Baby is written on the screen so he asked how come he didnt get the msg, told him it was probably undelivered, easy as ABC and XYZ LOL,

Enjoyed reading this

rokiatu:
good so what is the point of this topic?

To help us catch those cheating gfs, (4me) but for others is to learn how to cheat. free world, u make ur choice

Tracey121:
You and ur questions!!!!! It actually means I do it but preferable with the right ones not with anyone
Is that enough to get u off my shoulders

not really, u need to be studied like a book, cos u got alot upstairs, lol

rokiatu:
fixing the relationship or breaking it, which one is better?

Do the opposite to fix it, while the other way round is no no no for me

rokiatu:
what is the importance of this post?

The headline says it all

Tracey121:
Dont even start associating me with that b1tch hey, whatever she does is Despicable and another thing I dont cheat, never cheated, never have a serious r/s but flings with no wings and no no no, Not one nights stand, my Pupu is too way precious to be tasted by any opposite sex I come across with, LOL
So since ur one woman who have tried everything in this world I assume u have tried that too and u got busted, tragedy

Well, does that mean u don't do men?, ahahaha

sexybabes:
Dont even try the list sweety otherwise u will get busted 1st attempt, lol!

I guess u talking from experience, u and Tracey know one or two things abt this cheating game, ahaha

sexybabes:
@justwise
did u say 2 women? Lol!! some men lost count on counting how many they have,
@Tracey121
In this 40 yrs i'v known u, I can proudly say "Liar", Lol!!

yes 2 women, i believe in one at a time, no point having my leg over too many of them while in rela/ship.

@tracey, busted!!!! hahah

Tracey121:
Wow hang on buddy, according to my interpretation there 3 types of r/s
1. Serious
2. A fling
3. A Fling with sexual intimacy
And for the past 40 yrs I have been having flings and the good thing about them is that I can have those flings as much as I want and as many as I want without being attached or committed to anything whatsoever

Please don't held me captive with the above statements ok, Just go and figure out, No more questions from u coz I see ur this close to squeezing the truth out of me

Hahahaha, u are such a character, carefully chose ur words, well i know where u coming from, i keep the remaining questions

sexybabes:
That's good for you.
When I used to have a man i used to catch him by the time he start exchanging numbers wit some1 else b4 he even cheats. Lol!!!

Seriously there is no point trying, i rather work out my rela/ship or end it b4 jumping into another one,
I never cheated, and if i'm cheated on then she is out ,

i don't see the point cos u can't never share ur love between 2women.

My ex knows this pretty, and if i met somebody 2moro, my policy will still be the same

kenforum:
Yes my friend,there is an age barrier in obtaining a student visa.You should not be more than 25years to apply for a student visa unless you want to do your masters and above.Good luck.

Where did u get that from? i never heard of that . Got my student visa when i was above 25, tell me where u got that

sexybabes:
Excatly, if u need that list that means you shudn't be cheating in the 1st place, I think so 2, Coz men get caught everytime they try, Lol!

lol thats y i never bothere to try cos i'm a bad liar,

Tracey121:
Yah I do see ur point and if u were I'd be giving u 5 now, I never have a serious r/s so I never cheat, but I have had more than 3 ppl thinking I love them at the same time

HMMMMmmmm u never had serious rela/ship? does that mean u have had more one nitter then?

U can post my 5 , haha

yjay:
oh why thank u justwise! cos i noticed that women usually get bashed here on NL when it comes to discussions such as this!

No prob Yjay, i said that judging by some of ur responses here,

Tracey121:
Oh My God, what does a person have to do to get rid of inarticulate dumb asses in this world

Now u see my point? Told u that ladies does it better

ubreal:
caugt my girl frnd in bed with my best frnd this mane, iam so confuse what do i do

Give both of them red, shame on the soo called bestfriend

GEW:
true very true. i have said it before but for visible pregnancies and babies most people would never know naija women have sex especially the holy holy ones.

hahahah GEW, God u got me cracking up here, our 9ja girls can pretend hey!!!!

I'm pretty sure that u know that women does the covering thing better, if men were that good at covering up then we wouldn't be leading the cheating table as u accused us.

Just admit it, women are good at it, though i know u are not one of them

yjay:
but its the truth justwise!!!! when it comes to relationships - women are more faithful than the men, i'm not saying women dont cheat but u cant deny the fact that the men folk are more susceptible to cheating!

I understand what u are saying, but i think the game is changing now, yes men gets the accusing finger most cos we are not good at covering up, we are bad liars, women are just expert, they are good at covering up, eat and wipe mouth,

Tracey121:
And there is only one thing that change a man's behavior and that wud "He has or Got another womanliness to mess" and trust me its always that or maybe he is hoping to get the new womanliness soon so he is paving his way to a new womanliness and now he wants his wife to be out of his case

Tracey maybe  u are right, it could be as well that ur sister pushes him away, he found a shoulder to cry on, it could be both ways,

Personally, when i'm hooked with one lady, nothing, i mean nothing will make me look elsewhere,
Just ask urself, why did him change? He has being treating her well for 10yrs, why the sudden change?

@Yjay

cos women are generally perceived to be more faithful when it comes to relationships & commitment issues!

I don't think so, days are gone when anybody will believe that

Tracey121:
Tough Situation that has been happening to my sister and I have never been able to pin down how to deal with it, I guess most guys turn to be monstors once they are comfortable around their women, I mean I cant handle that to my own sisters how do u handle it to ur BF or Husband coz those ppl tend not to listen and be stubborn, I think those kinda things requires both teams to sit down and talk about their concerns and how they can go about it but that isnt easy when the other party is as stubborn, guys can be a lot of work and stress at times and again some1 stands there and say get married so that u can be unhappy maybe? some things man just get out of hand, I mean my sister is been married to this guy for 10 yrs and [b]he is been treating her like a queen and all of a sudden he changed to this monster that I dont even know myself[/b]But Seriously now U shudnt have switched off the TV not in front of his buddies

Maybe ur sister under-estimated him, she is used to been treated well, she failed to appreciate that, she might think its automatic to get those juicy treatment. He will not just switched off and start being nasty, something triggered it