₦airaland Forum

lilnaomi:
abeg i hope u lot know it aint all women. me, i wud like if a guy has enuf money 2 take care of himself n not 2 get me gifts or wateva (dts what being daddys gurl's there for). if a guy has enuf money 2 take care of himself, look good, buy clothes for himself, he's good 2 go. i aint xpectin him 2 take care of me or wateva, juz love me.

but it wud be nice to know ur man can b there for u when u financially down. he can lend u som money n if u a self-respecting woman, u'll pay it back. dts what i think sha.

I do understand where u are coming from, though very few women have ur view.

scondy:
u know i cant help but wonder what happened to our mindsets.i`m tallking about nigerian ladies.we`ve really derailed and the worst of it is we are not aware.no girl would date a guy now except he is well paid.
come to think of it,it never used to be like that.what happened to love.
to even think that we`ve found a modern word for prostituition.we call it Runs or we call ourselves Aristo or big girls.
what happened to our morals,our values.
its time we checked ourselves and retrace our steps back to where we belong.

Glad that woman like u still exist.

ibejiibeji:
my boyfriend saw me in a colleagues car and has made up his mind that am going out with him and says the only way he can forgive me is if i pay a hundred thousand naira into his account. do i pay and we continue our relationship or do i call his bluff? we've bin going out 4 a while,i love him to bits and show him. i can swear he loves me even though he acts funny what do i do

U must be kidding me, just see ur doctor asap, cos u need a proper mental check-up

Davedavy:
Move as in long stay legally as a resident??or just  short stay from time to time?these are two different things.If you dont plan to stay in Spain,you will have to look for a way of legalizing your stay in any country you plan to move to as a resident  within the EU,moreover,you are allowed with your Spanish student visa to move freely within the shengen zone and stay in any shengen country for a period of 3 months legally.Which country are you looking at?cause not all the countries in EU are in shengen.

U said it all, let me also add that, going with student visa and planing to move to another schengen zone is a big gamble, cos u can't work or stay more than 3months as Davedvy pointed out, UK is not part of schengen zone, Just think long and hard b4 doing that

Bolarge:
My girlfriend beats me black, blue, turquoise and indigo for little or no reason.



_{How come guys don't own up to male bashing?
or we choose to believe it don't happen?}

Are u joking or wat?

bidemi007:
NA WA OHHHHHHH.

SOME GUYS NO GET SHAME,SO U GET LIVER TO COME POST THIS RUBBISH HEERE.

I GO TELL MODERATOR MAKE HIM CLOSE UR ID.

U NO FIT TOAST SOMEBODY WEY DEY UR AGE.
I GUESSS U ARE NOT MAN ENOUGH .
NA PEOPLE LIKE U DEY RAPE 2YRS OLD PIKIN .
***** his and walks away****

Do u care to know how old the poster is? His intentions is not sexual at the moment, did u really read his post?

akute:
underage dating , u no get shame

How old do u think the poster is?

apostleb:
Pls i need ur help. I have a girl of about 17yrs in SS2 TO SS3. I love everything about this girl. Infact i'll like to marry the girl. Ve thought it wise 2 keep my intentions 2 myself, until am ready, give a helping hand 2world her education and proper upbringing. What do u say?

Be honest, how old are u?

moji8888:
thanks to all NL, i have finally broken up with him, when he saw my post on NL he beat me blue black only for him to start begging of course. the last that broke the camels back was when he was quarelling with an okada man and i was telling him to calm down, he did as if he did not hear only for him to come to my house telling me a girl is suppose to support her fiance, and i got the worst beating of my life. after he begged me as usual but i insisted it was over. he told all that care to listen to him that i dumped him and of course tongues rolled. now he calls me crying on the phone to beg me but my mind is made up. my advise goes to all ladies out there who are in one abusive relationship or the other please leave, i know the fear of the unknown is there but God has a way of doing his own things. though am single but am happy that i left him. and i know God will give me my husband at the right time. thanks to you all.

Well-done!! u should be proud of urself, don't allow any man again to abuse u, now walk with ur shoulder very high.
All the best in life!!

[quote author=julian_H link=topic=300771.msg4241644#msg4241644 date=1248422145]I came back from a trip some time ago only to be told by my gf that an ex of mine who married some years ago was at my place with her kids and sister.

She (my Gf) promised her (my ex) that as soon as i was back that i was going to look her (the ex) up!

Of course i was not comfortable with that and did no look her up.

Did i F up?[/quote]Just don't go there, it will end in tears, she is married period!, nothing good will come out of it, just stay with ur gf

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topup:
It's not you, it's him, and it could be you if you continue to tolerate this. Depending on your relationship, you should be able to know what's going on.
From what I can see I would say that he doesn't feel that you're a convincing companion, he doesn't want to commit to you. After 6 years he hasn't proposed to you, or has he mentioned anything about marriage? It doesn't take 6 years to figure out if you like the personality of another human being and you finally want to settle down with this beautiful person. Secondly, after 6 years he hasn't stopped having lots of girls on his page, in his friends lists and on his wall? Then it means that he still likes to appear single and an active player/casanova. To make things worse, his status reads single as well, I mean so all those strange girls on his facebook think that he's up for the taking and they have an excuse to flirt with him too.

I don't know, all I know is that these are all bad signs, for me 6 years is worrying, six years of my life and it seems like the relationship is going nowhere soon, I don't know. It's not as if you're a teenager right??

I for one love my privacy but I do not lie. . even me, after a year or so would change the status, or even better, if I liked my privacy SO much I would remove the info from facebook, which is exactly what I've done, so you won't know if I'm married, single, divorced, homeless whatever!! Privacy is one the biggest excuses ever, "I'm in love with this wonderful woman, but I want no one to know." I wouldn't be surprised if the person who says a thing like that (and truly means it) never gets married, since married is a big public display of affection. Most people when they love someone can't wait to brand or tag the other as 'their property'. "Back off guys, she's with me." "Ladies, he's taken.". . ya know?

Has there been any mention of commitment, and not conversations you've brought up, but times he's mentioned to you about what the future would be like? How did he react to those types of conversations (if you've had them)?

Have u read all her replies b4 u draw ur conclusion?U blaming the guy alone, or u don't see her own fault

kok:
U no dey hear english e say banka, even if you no no wetin be banker atleast you see bank for dia.

Have u been sleeping?

clickjunct:
Hi House. I'm madly in love with a lady banker, though much older than i am, but she seem not to mind our age difference, neither do i.

I'm asking this question in order to find more better ways to prove to her that i really love despite our age difference.

So, have you ever dated a lady Banker?

http://emailjobs4u..com

Nope, where will i get one?

redsky1:
just wise - maybe its cos the parts they visit are similar to Lagos. I can think of a few in South London.

anyway like i said b4 nowhere is perfect or heaven - but i would rather do my shopping in sainsburys or tescos then have to drag myself to a dirty market and have people touching my hand and hitting me with a flipping wheelbarow.

plus i would like to buy products that are not out of date and not have to spend half a day putting my own money in a bank - WTF is that about.

Pple don't want to be honest, defending Nigeria will take us no where, lets tell the truth and face our probs.

redsky1:
just wise leave them

thats how someone told me that palms is like lakeside and bluewater and oxford street, i just laughed inside. when you try and tell them how very wrong they are u start to see the complex come out - don't have time or energy for people with a complex.

I don't know how people who have not even see the tarmark of heathrow airport can say that they "heard" that london is like this london is like that - when u call them foolish they shout - its like me saying that I heard in sokoto that there is a tesco's that is open 24 hours - I have never been to sokoto so i know how stupid that sounds.

Some Nigerians are funny, i just don't know how they start comparing london and Nigeria, i take it as a joke

afam4eva:
I've never been to this london but i just feel like i know everywhere there. I've never liked london because i feel they rip people off compared to america.

If i may ask which world class company like Mercedes, SONY, Mcdonalds, daewoo, toshiba etc do british people own. I've come to beleive that the british people are one of the most[b] lazy, stingy and racist species [/b] i know.

The chance of making it in london is very slim.

How do u know that if u haven't been to london b4? Are u making any sense?

OneNaija:
One Question I will love to ask those Londoner.What has London done to you? Are you selling Akara or Cleaning the streets of London.Yet you come back home begging for where to stay in Nigeria because you foolishly waste your time in another man country thinking that place is heaven.You are only fully yourself.Go watch youtube you will see how Nigerians Abroad finding money to come back Home. Those Londoner are greedy and selfish if you ask me.They want A nice place to stay and they don't want to work toward it.We call that Azetour in Ghana language that are you few Nigerians In London are.You can say whatever you like to me.I will still call your Nigerians in London fools and you must continue to be fool.I have travel to many Countries even in Asia.See Nigerians always proud of their country when they are there but Londoner Nigerians they will continue to be fools. Insult me but you will get more Insult from me.stupid fools. I dislike you london Nigerians believe me I believe there is few who is good but I know almost all of them are stupid if you know yourself write it down I am waiting for you Idiot.

U have a point but u have prob expressing it

ikeyman00:
naija

keep the flagin flyin

one day those morons still have to dddiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiie!!! obj, bu, u name

they will allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll dieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

make way for true soldiers like fashola

the north hmmm will soon know what the time is, cuz na so much illeteratecy will counter-effect their steady grip and sturburness in power

the igbos will now display the true niaja spirit the yorubas and the hausa are lackin

one day, i repeat one day, the time shall come,

but for now, let the ghana must go keep their game tight, that makes them like they are having fun!! huraaaayy,

let the yorubas and the hausa runnin nigeria like its theirs, kano-lagos rail way, when more people die on lagos-onitsha-ibadan way than hiv, when women die in course of labour huh

watch out!!!

Big fool

Monicaa:
Don't mind me It was his fault though.

Then does he deserve a second chance?

Monicaa:
I'm jealous 'cos I wish I was the one back with my own ex . How do u know i can give true love?

If the break up was ur fault then give him a ring if not then there is no joy going back, cos history may repeat itself

[quote author=Da_archer link=topic=300083.msg4235044#msg4235044 date=1248330021]@poster, nd u're even cheatin on him. Complainin he won't change his status, who is worse? U pips don't deserve each other! Wot nonsence[/quote]The point i have being making here, some pple over look that fact and keep talking abt status change

Angel4luv:
Am so hapy now. Am back with my ex-boyfriend. You never knew wat true luv is until u loose some1 u really luv. Its was simple to do that.

Depends on how it ended at the 1st place

amosexy:
@ gloriuss & justwise

Na wetin dey make me cry una dey take laugh abi ? God dey.
Una own sef go come .

No my own will not come, i'm bloody single, so free from sleepless nite, though less cherry, lol

gloriuss:
lololololol!!! Y'all are CRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAZZZZZZZZY LOLOLOL
All this talk of congo shining and eating cherry!!! Chei!!!!

Gloriuss na just those two words u picked out, nothing do u oo

amosexy:
You dont sound too blunt but just dat i didnt know i was cheating on him emotionally,i've alwaz tot u cheat on ur bf/gf wen ur kongo is bin shine.
Anywayz thx for ur opinion.

hahahaha, i don't know, but u sound too innocent, but onething is sure, u know ur game, kongo is bin shine?, u know alot abt it

amosexy:
Hmmmmmm,emotional cheating. So i'm cheatin,nao i know cos i must confess,emotionally am into the other guy but i could still walk away and will if only my guy will stop misbehaving.

@Justwise

Does seeing someone means eaten the cherry ? bros abeg free me oo.

U started on a wrong part.Facebook did not ruin ur rela/ship, both of u did, seeing someone could mean many things from , eating congo to just hanging out, just incase,

U asked for my opinion and i'm giving u one, sorry if i sound too blunt

amosexy:
He has my facebook account and he saw my Bf on it,he said I'm engaged and my BF is single. I hang out with this guy,he wants a relationship but i told him no but the truth is we hang out alot but I'm nt cheating on my man,I dont see mysef as cheating on him until I av anything serious with this guy.

U keep shifting ur statement, at first u said u are seeing someone ur excuse was that his character changed, then u went on and said u can't fold ur hands and wait, that u are not holy, now u are saying that the new guy hasn't eaten the cherry, i mean, u lost me

gloriuss:
LOL. . . . . . . justwise is WISE! I LIKE ur stance on this,

Madam, i no holy oh. . . .  . . i just try! But use some gut instinct and if U KNOW he's changed then abeg make una find someone more worth ur while oh! Abeg. . . . u no need stress!

Please help me out here, the sister is cheating and she is complaining that her BF status in fb says single? what planet is she from? Defintely planet F

mandiiee:
wow !! 6 yrs c'mon gurl!!  just pick up urself and move on! Time 'll heal,

Did u really read the post?

gloriuss:
aw man! and i changed the post aswell. . . . i felt i was being too harsh!

U are not being harsh gloriuss, she should wake up and smell the coffe, there is no evidence that her man is cheating BUT she is, its just status thing, yes his character changed,that doesn't mean he is cheating,

Why is she crying blood here?