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Fleeky, office romance can be difficult to end amicably, seeing as you see each other everyday. You need to tell him you need time to figure out what's best for you and you'll appreciate if he can respect that. Once you get some breathing room, it's easier to think and build a firm resolve.
All in all, put you first and follow your heart.

She's now well enough to respond?

OP believe the tales at your own peril. She probably even slept with the guy more than once, and willingly too. Forgive her, wish her the best, and move on with your life. If you stay, you are signing up for a lifetime of hurt and heartbreak.

Please feel free to crash their marriage. Your reward is in heaven.

Meanwhile, find something productive to do with your time as monitoring who shags who in your neighbourhood can never increase your bank account.

Young man gerrarahia and go focus on your education/craft. That's the 'orgent' advice you need.

@OP very soon, you'll say you saw a guy ontop your woman and its her colleague who mistakenly fell on her naked. Smh!
Your boo has a boo, a boo, a boo

This guy wants to build an African monopoly.

Impressive

Mynd44:
My friend just said it will get to a point where before sex happens, we will need to sign a consent form, have two witnesses (in case it a twosome, three for a party etc) and a camera just so you are sure you ain't raping no one.

So if you ain't sure it is rape, get a consent form.

50 shades of gray

AfroKnight:
Bro. You took it well. I respect that. At least you're not the one getting married to a lady who had a secret guy right up to her wedding day. At least you don't have to worry later on if your children are really yours. You certainly won't be the one to avoid her if you guys meet at the mall or wherever.

Hey you know what? You got the better part of the deal.

Words of wisdom.

OP, it will hurt, it will take time, but you'll move on, and you'll be glad you didn't end up with a *****

If he feels so insecure about it, why not discuss it with her? I mean locking of her apps. As for not storing his number, we store numbers so we can remember them innit?

My problem with this is some women are for the most part financially irresponsible. You have no savings, you're dependent, yet you are willing to spend 200k on hair.

OP you're clearly just as jobless as the people you've listed. What's with the stalking? You be monitoring spirit?

If you're asking people to be confident, then that's good advice and should apply to everyone, good looking or not. But if you're asking people to be snubbish cos they look a certain way, then that's incredibly shallow. Are you shallow mister?

Shit just hit the fan. You may need a lawyer soon

The last days are here!

You're looking for someone to assist you commit a crime. Come on gerrarahia

Kai. What a shame

OP next time quote your source. This story has been posted on nairaland before. Plagiarism is punishable under the law!

http://www.browngarri.com/love-story-could-blood-be-thicker-than-water/

@ OP, you've loved and you've lost. Just move on. He has begged for your forgiveness. Whatever joy you derive from telling the other woman will be short-lived. Besides, what's to say she will not forgive him? Just count your losses and move on!

Ce sera sera

This guy is a core Tinubu boy! Another coup by Jagaban the chessmaster!!!

@OP, you have very poor writing skills. SMH!!!

Epistle!

In the movie, the new girl gets the guy. But this is not a movie my dear. Walk away, else it will end in tears!

Miss Gurgle

There are very few women in the world who are truly beautiful.
Very few.

When you look for that beautiful woman
you must look deeper then her physical beauty.
You must look past her many physical attributes, past the shape of her body, the curve of her hips and the way that she responds to pleasure.
Past even her attentiveness to your needs,
her response to your advances.

You must look deeper inside.
When you look at her mind,
you must see the beauty of her intellect,
the power of her mental essence,
the love that she radiates, and that special person that she is.

But, even that is not deep enough.
You must look to her personality,
that which has been forged through the fires of life, the rigors of hardships, and the pain of physical challenges.
That personality which reflects in her eyes, and will glow with its shining life.
It will be like a star, that in the evening filament twinkles and the humor of her personality will flicker into your awareness with joyous abandon.

But, even that is not deep enough.
You must pass even her personality to reach into her heart.
Her heart must beat with a passion, she must pulse with love.
Her blood must flow carrying to her fingertips the messages of her love.
Written in tender touches for you alone.

Even that is not deep enough to discover the truly beautiful person.
To be truly beautiful,
to really surpass all others,
you must glance into her soul.

Surrounded by her aura,
cradled in her essence,
this is the place of true beauty.
Its reflection sharper then the wildest rays of an aurora.

A soul of true spirituality.
Forever tranquil, in the endless memories that each time you meet her impress themselves into your heart.
Herein lies the purest beauty, herein lies...Miss Gurgle!

Wailings!

jedyjedy:
D story is too stupid to be believed.

You will be surprised what people endure in the name of love.

Hmmm! How about downloading a call blocker App and blocking the dude. Or maybe changing your line. Never give such people the opportunity to get close enough to hurt you again.

Mumu talk

Mr. Dapo seeking to secure his future

Stereotypes ti po ju. No right or wrong approach here tbh. You can hold out for 10years and he still leaves you after he hits it. And one night stand fit turn lifetime parole.

The reason why a lot of women hold out is cos the sex is their trump card and there's not much else to offer the guy, so hold out for as long as you can to keep him around. If not, why should it matter? (Unless you be v-yansh)