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Jaylo79:
It’s usually in the first 4 days of your biometrics. If they delay in responding to them. They’ll send non-straightforward.

What actually is the embassy confirming. Is it the balance on the account or to verify that the account statement you uploaded is original?

[quote author=LustreChris post=67312058]OK.
Thank you Mr Non-naive.
Maybe it's Fayose that paid Fayemi to gather thugs to disrupt the process you will tell us here.

Bros, logically speaken how can Fayemi who it was alleged was heavily leading in the delegates count now turn around to use thugs to thwart the process? Common! Let's just leave the Fayose factor out in the disruption of the process for now. That is for some other time. Mind u as i type this i am currently living at Ado-Ekiti the venue of the incident o.

LustreChris:
What do you even know? What has fayose got to do with APC Primaries, ehn, una no dey taya. Leave him out of it. Make findings to know who is behind it and don't just jump into conclusion.

PS: I'm not a fayose supporter FYI.

Lol! You are definitely naive

Different strokes. Don't be ungrateful.
You make #100k as a young businessman each month. You are elated and grateful until you see a younger person who makes #1Million every month as salary. Then you lose your joy.
You are satisfied with your #50k turn over after two months of hustling and aggressive touting until you meet a younger person who receives a salary credit alert of #500k each month.
The result is always ingratitude. We become ungrateful for the little leaps in our lives because we are measuring ourselves by the pace and progress of others.
If you are a new entrepreneur, which means you are not on anybody's payroll, you must be wary of an attitude of ingratitude. You will face this temptation virtually all the time. You'd meet people whose lifestyle and income would intimidate your current status. If care is not taken you may slip into despondency and lose personal momentum.
One thing entrepreneurs and business folks must know is this; they are not equals with salary earners. This is not arrogance. It is the truth.
They should not be comparing themselves with 8-5 employees, even those who earn six zeros after a single or double digit number.
It takes ten times more effort for an entrepreneur to make what most employees make in one month.
Ten times more courage. Ten times more intelligence. Ten times more industry. Ten times more sweat. Ten times more strength and ten times less sleep. Trust me, an employee who makes ten times your monthly turn over is not your equal. You are far more superior.
Money is easy to make. Wealth is not. And the skills you need to make wealth are not acquired in an 8-5 job. It requires ten times more of you. Especially ten times more of your TIME, a commodity you cannot control as an employee.
A good paying job is the lazy way for smart people to make money. Just sit behind a desk, carry out instructions from superiors and get paid end of the month. You will most likely not acquire what I'd call 'Experiential Muscle'. This is the skill to Survive rather than Cope. The oldest skill in the book. A skill most employees would never develop. The old-fashioned Survival Skill.
But when you lose your joy because of others who earn fatter salaries you become ungrateful for your baby steps and consequently lose sight of your momentum. Suddenly your #100k profit seems like nothing. This attitude is dangerous.
If you are an entrepreneur you must always and consistently focus on your last turn over and seek to surpass it. Always push yourself beyond the boundaries of your last profit. This is how you stay positive and gain healthy momentum. It is not by looking at other people's lifestyles and salaries. They would demotivate you.
Always remember that the path you've chosen is the one less travelled. So different rules are at play and more is required of you.
If you check the first 100 Richest People on Earth, NONE OF THEM is an employee. All of them are entrepreneurs.

bamisepeters:
Unlike some selected men who believes they can get their better-half in the house of God, many other men don't look towards that direction due to one or more of the reasons below:

1. Fear of being monitored:

Many men don't like the fact that they are being monitored by a lady. They know that once you are attached with one lady in a particular area she will want herself to dominate everything that revolves around the man.

Even if the lady doesn't care about who the man moves or play with, he himself will want to thread with caution as he will not want to awaken the hanger of the lady he is in relationship with since things we don't even count to be anything may mean a lot to one's partner if not properly checkmated.

2. Pretense among brethren:

As we know that religious can make so many people look innocent, hence, to some men, it is dangerous to choose a wife from the church as you can not know the true character of anyone in the church.

Many takes the house of God as shield, so many things might have been hidden which will need serious familiarity before it can be unraveled.

Also, you cannot know the true attitude of the women till familiarity sets in which some churches might not even allow. You are seeing someone everyday, yet, you have not known the person in and out let alone someone you meet may be once in a week and even for few minutes.

3. Leaders Interference:

To so many of our men of God, once they sense that two adults are trying to get familiar with each other they try to interfere which is good not just for them but for the growth of the church as whatever happens will rather count for or against the church.

Most men don't want to go too far to the extent of making the leader to know about the relationship at the early stage as they might not have the intention to stay till death do them apart. Therefore, to avoid interference of any pastor, the man prefer to look for his kind of lady outside the church.

4. Fear of over spirituality:

It is almost a general belief that women serves God more than men. Some men don't want to look at any lady let alone approaching her in the church as they are afraid of having a complete SU who will take everything concerning church as priority at the long run.

Being spiritually filled is good but in this century there is need for caution so as not to open the eyes of your spouse to the world.

It is when some women are too spiritual they start monitoring the cloth they wear and every other thing that they apply for them to look attractive forgetting that they need to be in their best form to be relevant to their husband and that they can still apply everything and still look decent.

Source: http://www.bamisepeter.com/2017/12/4-why-most-men-look-outside-church-for.html

GBAM!!!

jay7:
Well everyone is entitled to his or her opinion but I have few questions to ask you.
(1) Where you raise in Victoria Island?
(2) Are you a graduate? if yes what type of car are you using? what is your monthly allowance back then? and if No where are you schooling presently? I would have love to ask mpre questions but let's start from here.

(1) I am not living in V/I and neither am i living in lagos, Abuja or P/H.
(2) Yes i am a graduate of Physics. I graduated in 2007. I have been working for 7 years in a bank. I am 36. I use a honda accord 2007 model and i am slmost through with my personal house.
I am experienced enough to know that u do not go into a venture(marriage in this cade) based on mere hope alone that things would be better. It is dangerous. Life is full of unforseen circumstances and u must plan for them. Saying some folks earn about N50k and send their wards to private schools is not a right argument. If they fo not have a legitimate business by the side which fetches them goid income then they are probably stealing.....My take

blackjack21:
One thing you can never be sure of is; wether you would be have more money tomorrow or you will fall off favor of money, you can only hope, and be positive about that tomorrow. so, YES YOU CAN!
you've to let go of fear and disbelief, and know that you can.
look beyound the money, look into yourself, look into your partner if all you see is "greater-tomorrow and greater-together", then ,by all means marry.
marriage is not necessary about how much you earn.

Did u just say marriage is not necessary about how much you earn? Sorry is the case of the person who follows this advise!!! No wonder poverty has continued to multiply in the land.

jay7:
I can't just help but laugh after going through the comments here, most of the people commenting here are probably still in school and are still been cater for by there parents so they know little about marriage, what is the minimum wage in Nigeria? "18,000". Let me use teacher's as an example there are some states where they pay teacher's less than 50,000 and they still went ahead to marry and enroll there kids in private school's, to the OP you will not remain on that salary scale for life my advice to you is if the lady is the understanding type please go ahead and marry her.

Despite attracting numerous likes, this is a very bad advise based on mere hope and not concrete plans fir future sustainance. This is a poverty mentality

Lordsocrates:
When you guys borrowed money to invest on ponzis no one heard, now go and pay back, you want to commit suicide, and some idiots will scream Buhari..

why did dey not comit suicide when it was 530 to a dollar ? why is it now that it is 370 to a dollar ?

you know why ? because get help worldwide has crashed..
#LeavePonzi dem no gree

Daft

AnonyNymous:
See guy abeg. . .this one is in no way similar to the examples you listed. This MMM nonsense is a way of trying to reap where you didn't sow, which is already wrong from the start. At least for failed marriages, people put in their effort and did things. Failed business involves you using your hands/brain to work. But bullsh*t like MMM is basically defrauding people while lying to yourself and your conscience that its 'mutual help'. MMM fr the start is a 'robbing Peter to pay Paul kind of business, so if you want to list the examples of people that have done successful things because of the money they 'earned' from MMM, then what will you say about the people that the money was 'stolen' from to make those dreams a reality?? MMM is for greedy people that want free money, that want to chop another man's sweat, and that's why I'm happy its gone. I can never support it because its a terrible way to make money. If you have gained just 1 kobo from MMM, you are partially responsible for the deaths of all the people that will commit suicide because it crashed. So take your nonsense and go. *spits*

You think u made sense but u are very ignorant about how MMM works. Have u researched the platform very well b4 arriving at your postulation that peter is been robbed to pay paul? Common stop spitting what u don't know and do more research......Thank you

ademega:
good write up as me dey find a nice car to buy now. I want to ask my people, please how real is the Nairaland adverts about selling cars. can anyone share is or experience? I am seriously thinking of buying from one of these Nairaland adverts. advice pls

They are real but it is up to you to perform due diligence. The current car i am using(Honda D.C) was bought october last year through an advert on this nairaland and i can tell u all what was said was how i met the car and there have been no major issues ever since....

Lanretoye:
what contribution did the boys he coached to glory make.many of them strive to make it to stardom through the national team amd wen they get there they never give back to their community let alone the nation.
we all knw that there was once a govt in nigeria,y now blame the govt for her responsiveness or otherwise?.
come to look at things (imo) late keshi(mhsrip) worked for his country and in a contractual capacity and is being paid the same way he was contracted by togo,waiting on the govt for burial right is only discretional and not obligatory otherwise so be it in future case of death of any team member or player of the super eagles.
As a matter of fact,i doubt a football body that is not bouyant enough to sponsor its team to a glorious event like the olympics will contribute meaningfully to keshi's burial other than accrue more motuary expenses to the family of the deceased.
The family of late stephen keshi is good enough to bury their son and they have done just that,lets all pray for the repose of the soul of the deceased and leave the govt out of this.
FAREWELL SKIPPO.

The most sensible statement on this thread.....All other statements i have read lacks broad thinking and depth...

V0lv0:
Hungry and useless girls. Instead of praying that God will bless you to buy your own car, you are busy praying for a man to buy you a car.

When that said man is done with you and he wants his car back then what?

Wow! Bless you lady.....

numericalguy:
Oluremi Tinubu is very steewpid for calling a duly elected and serving senator of the Federal Republic of Nigeria a thug and childish. That woman had no home training and neither was she brought up properly.

Dino Melaiye didn't call anyone by name and I don't see why Oluremi Tinubu should have launched such an unprovoked varbal attack on the person and constituency of Dino Malaiye.

The same eediot woman who was telling Dino to not insult other senators was the one to open her gutter and smelly mouth to insult a fellow senator.

I hope your hatred for Bola tinubu would not consume you soon.....Pathetic andnine sided comment from you...

Trapnews:
You are a liar from the pit of hell , where are the police when you need them ?

He is saying the truth. I know him very well, i have his number and also knows his residence ad well at Basiri in Ado-Ekiti. It is not compulsory he has to put on a red tie to show he is a staff of Zenith Bank,

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

I'm sorry to say this but if u are doing these for a lady u are yet to marry and who is not even sure u will marry at the end of the day then u are very stupid....When last did u even help ur mother or siblings?

mazimee:
While some girls are busy starving their Sorry self so that can lose weight and look sexy for a man, here comes a woman who isn't bothered about losing weight to look sexy. I won't forget the young man that accepted her for who she is and not for her figure eight stature.

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Moral lesson
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Never change who you are for a girl/man, a man/woman that will appreciate for who you are will do it without demanding from you to compromise.

Keep deceiving urself .....Let her don't make effort to reduce her weight okay! She go hear am later on....

SPDAZZY:
Yes, you will have profits but the root of mlm is in the network not marketing. And for you to have residual income(this is not immediate), you will need a team such that when your team is developed, it won't require little or no effort from you yet you earn a lot.

This could take at least 4 years to build and achieve. The beauty in mlm is not immediate, it is a gradual progress, just like any other business. It is not a get rich quick scheme.

Good bless u for this analysis. You understand how it works. Nigerians want quick quick wealth without learning valuable lessons along the way and yhat is why yhe country is where it is today. Nobody wants to build or persevere but just wants to enjoy. Life does not work that way....

igwegeorgiano:
instead of going into any multivlevels nonsense i will rather hawk kulikuli in ijebu land cos i know i will be better off in single level marketting than any multi level rubbish

Oya statt hawking nah! My peopke perish for lack of understanding. Most of the people talking ignorantly here are just ignorant of how MLM works and the benefits. I don't blame them but i blame the society that those not know the tenets of hardwork and working smartly and creatively to achieve your financial goals. I am a banker(marketer) and at the same time do AIM Global and i can tell u all that it is worthwhile because u have the leverage to tap into ur networks to gain financial freedom. Youths these days in Nigeria are wired up to be lazy and expect life will give them financial freedom on a platter of gokd, it foes not work that way. U must build the business gradually like blocks before u can succeed in MLM and the more u begin to succeed the less effort u will need to put into the business as time goes on because u would have also built other business leaders along the way. I attend to my AIM business everyday from 6pm after work to around 8pm. It is commitment, it is passion, it is dedication and so how can i fail. In MLM you succeed together as against individually which makes the task easier. You hold regular meetings, discuss strategies on growing the business, set weekly, monthly and quarterly targets for your team members etc. Check out your results using these strategies in 6 months time and u will be amazed on what u will achieve.....AIM Global is real and it works only for serious people and not the lazy ones.....Thank you

sdkalu:
I did so to my car 2 year ago, my car had not recovered from that shock. It was the Genesis of my car engine problem. I kept changing and changing until i left the car for up to 1 year after which my pastor redidcated the car and since then it is working but not like before. Up till this moment my car ac is not working etc.

I don't advice any one to do that.

Lol! I have washed my vehicle engine a coupke of times and quite frankly nothing negative hws happened till date. If anything the engine works better. I use a 2007 Honda Accord(Discussion Continue
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Mediapace:
Ushers ushing ushals,only God will save me from them,i don't know their wahala,dem no go even allow person rest.

I have like 2 experiences to share with you guys. Lemme start with the first one:

Last month during service,i allegedly sat where females sit just to gain attention,before i even sat,one of our ushers was like :

Egbon,eeti fi iwa yin yi sile na(You haven't dropped your old act yet?) .
I was like : wetin consign you,you na wan spoil market for me

That one went like that inorder to avoid distraction during service.
This sunday again,i took my phone out again hoping to check my FG & MENTIONS on Nairaland,immediately i sneaked my phone out like this,another usher came to me saying :

Alagba why now,all your babes will wait after service now,don't ping in church .
I was like :
So all this usher don ja.


My people share your experience jere,i'm very sure they would have embarrassed you before.


Note : I'm not saying ushers should not do their job o,just for fun

Hello....I am an usherin the RCCG and would have been sterner on you based on the habits you portrayed. When we are in the presence of God let us respect him please....

Kraspo:
I pray I am posted to Lagos to serve. With each passing day, I feel the "Lagos blood" flowing steadily through my veins

No big deal in serving in lagos. I served there in 2008/2009...

tuale4u:
devaluation will only make import easy for importers. d current system will promote local production in d long run. All d people asking for official devaluation is to make import of luxury and import of products we want to make locally cheaper. This will kill local production. We are currently importing luxury and other non essential product at 320 naira to a dollar. If we devalue to say 250 and free forex, we start importing them at 250 naira to a dollar. This will kill d motivation 4 local production.

we must bear dis initial difficulties to achieve local production.

i support PMB rigidity on this. Any attempt tp go flexible we will return to where we have been and Nigeria wont progress.

This is the only commentor that is enlightened and whose comments makes sense so far.....Others before him are just plain daft and short sighted....

joshua112:
you can budget like 7m depending on your finishings and type of foundation .it can still go less it all deoneds on your taste

O.k.....Thanks

Any idea of the cost estimates to build a twin two bedroom flats en suite. Urgent replies please

anonimi:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/2682938_img2015072826629_jpegfa206e5609ff464467c82ea736caee6a

You are a compound fool!!!

Ibelong2God:
Ladies and Gentlemen, Please give it up for the man who transformed the economy of Nigeria to become one of the fastest growing in the world,
the man on whose success buhari is still riding on,
the man who rejuvenated the nation's automobile sector and set the pace for massive industrialization,
the man whose policies made food so abundant that nobody noticed it was yuletide because there was no rise in the price of staple foods,
the man who was accused of corrupt practices, yet his policies is the template for those who accused him,

Ladies and Gentlemen, without further ado, give it up for the one and only,

You are a liar....

Wow! Sexy ride.........Introduce it to those Senators, House of Rep members, NNPC or CBN staff in Abuja and i am sure in no time, the N9 million would be resting in your account.....Cheers

osazeeblue01:
Buhari is not ready to work or make a difference. Buhari should have handle power or agriculture than pursuing petroleum. Criminal. APC SCAM.

Please keep quiey jare....Just criticizing for criticizing sake

Good day sir....I use a honda accord (discussion Continue). I notice that at times when i move on a hill, the vehicle vibrates ans secondly when i accelerate after a halt, it tends to jack before stabilizing as if fuel is not entering the engine. Please what might likely be the cause of this two symptoms.....Thirdly when moving it tends to make a slight humming sound as well but asides these issues, the car is very sweet and the engine supersound. I will appreciate your prompt response.I actually bought this car through nairaland and it is serving me well....Cheers