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ogugua88: Isn't a divorce considered a rainy day?

No one expects a divorce in the same token that no one expects a spouse to die young and suddenly or be maimed and rendered disabled. These are some reasons why people seek independent women, just in case.

About prenups, I don't think being sure has anything to do with it. A lot of divorcees were certain that their spouses wouldn't hurt them, and they ended up hurt and unprepared for post-marital life.

I'm sure I won't crash my car because I'm a safe driver, but I wear my seatbelt anyway.

Honestly, your post made sense. I remeber law 29 in Robert Greenes 48 laws of power where he said 'Plan all the way to it, taking into account all the possible consequences, obstacles, and twists of fortune that might reverse your hard work'.

What most people fail to understand is that we are optimistic about having a happy marriage but the fact that we are optimistic doesn't mean we shouldn't prepare for the worst case scenario.

They think they are exercising faith when they believe the will have a happy marriage but in reality it's just presumption.

Lordlexy: I pray you find the right man. Any woman who goes into relationship opting for divorce as a fall back plan, no doubt has hidden motives. You lack the concept of marriage. Marriage is for companionship and should not be viewed with the idea of calling it off because of some flimsy excuses. We all can make our marriages work if we want to, except in the case of marrying someone not meant for you. Lust and materialism is the major reason why some seek for prenups.

All she needs is someone who sees the world the same way as her and she is more likely to have a happy marriage than not (I'm sure she is being preparing for marriage already, reading books, listening to those ahead of her, she is not basing her life on presumption like most folks here and I can assure you that she will have a happy marriage than most folks on this thread).


Divorce and a sad marriage is predictable.

sarutobie: ^men with this kind of mentality are born polygamist and usually serial cheats.so because a good wife starts behaving 'badly' then the most reasonable thing is to divorce her and find another female to quench your lust? Marriage is not for fair-weather oriented people,there are bound to be hiccups along the way.one's ability to find solutions to their marital issues and not chicken out with divorce is the true mark of being a husband or a wife.Exept in cases of constant physical abuse and adultery,I don't see why couples who claim to be matured and married cant sit down and solve their problems..I thank my parents for showing me what it means to be a husband and a wife."Happy parents make happy children,happy family make happy country"---onyeka owenu & sunny Ade.

Crap 101.

Since marriage is for better for worse, physical abuse and adultery should not be enough reason to divorce then.

You just shot yourself in the foot with this post.

You disagreed with me to later agree with me in your post, smh.

Anyway I bet you didn't read this other post from me before attacking.

k2039: Just that I have forgotten my 'law of contract', but essentially some mistakes are allowed and can be overlooked but there are some that deserve a straight red card.

I'll do absolutely nothing.

Afterall money answereth all things.


Owo ni i je ' Mo ba o tan , Osi ni i je Ta ni mo o ri. I wish someone could help me to interprete it.

Logic will get you from A to Z; imagination will get you everywhere.

I don't.

Men cheat because they want to cheat. Anything aside from this is heresy.

After the first few minutes of the first meeting, you will over come your phobia.

Just face your fear, you shall overcome.

She want's to be a grandma.

ighoosagie: its becos I discipline myself wit food.
Check my profile n see if d person there looks lik someone who is carrying bags of garri, cement n rice at oshodi market

wetin I see for that your profile will result in pot belly.

Tovot: my goodness your are wikid,so any small funny behaviour na court things abi?

Just that I have forgotten my 'law of contract', but essentially some mistakes are allowed and can be overlooked but there are some that deserve a straight red card.

onegig: Abi na...Am suprised also and finding the comments of most people here as repulsive .


I have seen pics of some Nladers, although everyone is beautiful in their own way but they are not half as good looking or smart as she is.

*falls from mount sinai*

#lobatan#

ighoosagie: I don't work out , yet my 6 packs is intact

That's because you have been carrying bags of cement and rice



_{Don't take it personal, just joking.}

Tinkybabe: So much venom on this thread. .why are people just hating? Na wa
Op you're not looking bad and I must say you've got good genes to look that young at 24/25.

To think the critics don't even have a display picture on their profiles, very pathetic.

spongeback: I don't want to sound mean but the people here are making it sound like since I am skinny am less a woman. Sorry

On a more serious note, you are beautiful. Just that I'm not naturally attracted to skinny girls, if not I would have proposed to you on this thread.

Don't mind the bad belles, some of them have girlfriends that are weightless as a toothpick.

Trust me, if the thread was that of a fat girl, the same hypocrites would have spewed shi..t

I'll say you ignore them beuty queen.

adaobi123: He has my heart.



I've seen pretty big woman.

Beautiful woman come in different shapes and sizes

I bet she has not head of BBW's. Big Beutiful Women (I love them like crazy)

spongeback: All the most beautiful women in the world have you seen any fat one? Skinny girls rock be proud of ya self
#YOLO

I done dey support you since, but na here you 4ck up.

Forget about all those scam you see on tv, in my insanity I won't choose a skinny girl.

I like them extra large. I want something I can hold unto.

Bibol: The thing happened so fast. No lie came to my mind at that point.

Blessed are the liars for they shall always have a way where there seem to be no way.

7. HOPE FOR "HAPPILY-EVER-AFTER" BUT PREPARE FOR DIVORCE

This is the part I agree with the most. No girl will ever hold me to ransome, if she starts acting funny, divorce all the way.

As a matter of fact, I advise all men to sign a pre nuptial agreement before proceeding to marriage.

Evry human has both potential to behave like a swine or saint within himself; so a good wife can become a bad wife later tomorrow.

canalily: no o o o o ! ! My dear i disagree with you for this o o oh! If there is tru love nd a tru heart of forgivenes, nd a true mind for reconcilation, with that undastanding i dont think divorce should come into play. Our hearts are hardend! ! Thats y we pray for divorce! !

Walahi, I pray your wife doesn't hold you to ransome.

uj_sizzle: sharrap and go hook up with your ex babe. This one na Redmosquito league :X

You are sending me to Death Valley, you don't like me one bit.

@Bibol, you couldn't formulate a very concrete undetectable lie

@theSpark, wetin person no go read, hey.

Caracta: He would simply ask why i had to forward it to another person. I be messenger? And why was it sent to me in the first place?

You are a preacher of the gospel, you friend sent it showing that one of your friend had backslided and you in turn forwarded it to a friend, so that she can know about the development and start to pray for the backslider. You guys exchange the msg so that you can talk to the backslider (actually that was what I had in mind when I say your message)

ItsModella: na wa o, why does everyone keep asking me that? I've been around

Like seriously, you are a super star.

When I saw that question, I was like wtf, I thought I was the only one who observed.

The kind lie way Caracta put for ground, even with weed, I can't think about it.

I have to be tutored by her to think that way.

*I carry yansh for Caracta*

xynerise: Same as mine. But it seems you are good at lying.

I always tell the truth. Even when I lie

Caracta: Exactly. I just ignored his calls for days. Inmediate AWOL..then had to explain that my phone got missing and i just found it. I claimed the thief made several calls and send lots of sms with my phone. He said he trusted me enough to know that i wouldn't send such "immoral" (his exact word) text message.

TRUST is a very important factor.

*falls from mars*

Lobatan.

Mrs.Chima:
I texted Chima that white men rocks and it was meant for my friend.

Is Chima white, black, red or multi color.