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Crown Prince: Which of the family?
His own family, the Ex family or his wife to be family?
Please wedding is on the first week of october

He tells his mother first,then his own family.

His own family will take it from there(Trust me his family will know what to do,,whether to cover up the story till after the wedding or not)

His family will definately invite the pregnant girlfriend to discuss her terms of condition,so as not to distrupt the wedding.


Trust me everything becomes easy as soon as his family knows(even if everyone is against him,his mother wont)

sexkillz: [color=#000030]This is the true life story of my best friend.

He fell in love with a lady. The lady in question had a boyfriend who travelled out of the country. The family of the lady and her boyfriend were well aware of the relationship. The lady was honest enough to tell this my friend that she was in a serious relationship with a guy abroad and she has plans of marrying him when he comes back. At this time, the boyfriend has spent 3 years already abroad. My friend did not give up. He continued dating this lady. The D day arrived, the guy came back after 5 years, and by this time, my friend and this girl had dated for 2 years. She told my friend her sweetheart is back and the relationship had to end. My friend took it in good faith.

The day she met with her boyfriend after he came back, was the day she broke up with him. The guy had changed after 5 years, and already had a daughter with a "whitey". . . She felt nothing for him anymore. My friend had already done damage to her heart, and she swore never to leave him. Fast forward 12 years later, my friend is married to this lady, and they have 2 kids.

Now, while i am not saying your story will turn out the same, you have to understand the damage long distance can deal to a relationship, and use it to your advantage. Be there for her when she needs you. Be her trusted friend and confidant. Do not pressure her to date you and allow her to make her choice. Do not give up.

If the girl is not worth it, discard whatever i said. But if you deem her worthy, fight for what you already have. If you have made an impression on her already, she will not be in a hurry to forget that. Yes, there are many fishes in the river, but not all of them are edible. Why should you give up on the one you have supposedly caught?

Back to my story. My friends wife told me in her husband's presence that he was the least handsome out of all the men she dated, but she fell in love with his personality. . . I learn alot from that couple daily.

So, OP if she is worth it, give it a try. Don't expect her to forget him so easily bro. With time, you will make her forget about him completely. . . Your choice.
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Poster I pity you,if you go dey hope after wetin sexkillz tell you,the chances of you getting that girl is 0.0000001%.

My 2cent:move on or else you wil be left dissapointed for the rest of your life,even sexkillz said it is unlikely.

Dont come to the romance section to tell us she later dumped you.
I TOLD YOU

Did anybody tell you or complained to you that she is missing.

People just like making mountain out of a molehill

Tell him to call a family meeting,and he should just repeat what he told you to them(exactly how he told you).


Simple as A,B,C,D

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I dont care whatever the wife did.
This is absolutely unnecessary for any sane mind to do.That man deserves to be killed by a firing squad.
Some individuals are just so heartless.

I cant beleive this nincompoop professed to love this woman at a point in his life.

I hope he is made to pay for this by being hung on gallows or facing a firing squad.

We dont need cretin's like this in this world

[size=14pt]PARTY Democratic Party

CANDIDATE Barack Obama [/size]

I just hope the son of bit*ch who did that is caught and sentenced to death by firing squad

You didnt do anything wrong.

Dont mind her,if she wanted a relationship she should have called a spade,a spade and not playing mind games with you

[size=14pt]Muslims only claim to be a peaceful religion where they are the minority, but as soon as they get the upper hand they turn into the hateful murderers that they are.

If Islam is a religion of peace,their followers wont be screaming ALLAH-AKBAR(ALLAH IS GREATEST) while dragging a lifeless body on the ground.

If Allah is greatest,then you dont need to fight for him[/size]

GBAM

Her chances of being faithful after three years is 0.000001%,and decreases by a fraction of 1/1000000 every single year after that.


Summary:it is possible but very unlikely

Jobless ACN,how her whereabout take concern una.

[size=12pt][/size]Matthew 7:15-20

The Message (MSG)

15-20 “Be wary of false preachers who smile a lot, dripping with practiced sincerity. Chances are they are out to rip you off some way or other. Don’t be impressed with charisma; look for character. Who preachers are is the main thing, not what they say. A genuine leader will never exploit your emotions or your pocketbook. These diseased trees with their bad apples are going to be chopped down and burned.

OP YOUR MESSAGE IN FULL


I never knew until I started debating on nairaland how really to read the Bible. My approach was to try to read through a book or a letter or read through the Bible. Why? Well, um, because it's good to read the Bible as a Christian. See? No real reason. There were many "why's" that I had very poor answers to until I met a Christian who could not separate faith from reason.

I had only recently been brought into the understanding that God had reasons for doing things and it seemed He wanted me to know them. And that scared me! I was walking alone in that till I met you. With you, I took off like a rocket and the Lord started to open up incredible things to me

I have learned, for instance, that we are even to examine critically that inner feeling that we trust so much to tell us whether someone is a child of God or not. We are to look for those things that are found only in Christians as proof that they are indeed. I have learned that we are not to be afraid of asking why an interpretation of the Scriptures should be accepted considering that a part or parts of the Scriptures appear to disagree. I have learned to accept everyone who says that they are Christians as though they truly were and treat them as such because if they are not true brethren, that treatment will show that they aren't.

I have learned that my day job or career is God's ministry of love to the men whom my life touches and that I should pour all that God has made me into it. I have learned to not be afraid to be tested, for whatever fails and cannot stand a strong test is not worth holding and that which is true and acceptable is found in letting go the unworthy. This is why I submitted the proposed framework of my plans to your intelligence.

I want you to be strong too. To be like a rock. To be unafraid of braving the tearing storm and rending earthquake. To not be so intimidated by them that you fail to hear the gentle whisper when they have passed.



If nairaland is anything to go by, there is very great trouble in the Church. It is not new to us but we may have become inured to it. We who are true believers should not be difficult to distinguish from the false especially at the time when that which separates us comes: the time of fruit.

I allowed myself to be accused of pride and arrogance before on the forum because I was afraid that the revelations/understandings being entrusted to me were beginning to make me proud. The result was that I nearly started to hold them back and stop giving them. Do you know what would have happened? Many whom I do not know would have gone hungry. Terrible. And that while I had that which would have sustained them and built their strength for battle.

I allowed false compassion to cost me resources entrusted to me for the Church. Another very terrible thing. There is a reason why Jesus said to give your message and, if you are rejected, to SHAKE OFF THE DUST OF YOUR FEET AND LEAVE. Why?

Because there is far much more to do than just try to win one person. The time of the Gentiles is almost done. The important thing to our Father now is that we make sure the things which do remain not focus our work on bringing in unwilling ones. It is a willing, heart-hungry Church that has washed her garments and made them white that He is coming for.

[size=14pt]You are number two on her list and you will remain nuber two,and their is nothing you can do about it.


My 2 CENT.
If you are ok with being nuber 2 you can stay with her,but I can assure you that when the real owner comes you wont even just be relegated to the bench but you will be relegated to the feeder's team.

So forget about the girl and move on,their are millons of girls who are better off than her.


And on you thinking she loves,you only deceiving yourself,when you love someone that pesron becomes your piority.
Trust me you are not a piority in her life,you just an option.

Trust me you far important than one girl making you an option in her book[/size]

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]ah so your mother also na virgin?[/quote]Do you really have to show your stupidity.

seriallink: @Ijawkid & k2039, thanks. But you know, some christians think it's wrong to question God's wisdom. I have a friend who use to tell me that.

It all depends on your relationship with Him,do you relate with Him as God or Father.

I relate more often with him as a father,so I question Him as a son.(If I relate with Him as God,ofcourse I cant question Him,I hope you get what am trying to communicate)

Any day any time,if I still have to choose a university in Nigeria,I will always choose my UNILAG.

Proudly Akokite

If you can access nairaland from your phone or laptop,google shouldnt be a problem

I dont care what the article says,I think the article is meant for the atheist on nairaland.


As far as am concerned whether science proves that the earth is 6000 years or 4:54 billion years,it still doesnt change the fact that God created the heavens and the earth.

He is my Father,and I question him.


He responds to the one's he wants to

Well,I cant really answer this question,it is trickish.
My wife will definately take in on the night of our wedding(am a good striker and no matter her goal keeping skills,she must conceed a goal.lol).

Seriously,giving birth is not the only reason why we get married,but trust me children are necessary.

blink182: Shut up your mouth, do you know all of them personally.

[size=18pt]Someone call 911........

Nonsense[/size]

Tell the pope that