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my votes:
abpatrick
laylow
Ekwah
nelly ghengen
xavier

The thread has been massively derailed. Some folks deserve to be ban.

@Op, it's called fooling around, I don't expect the other party to take it seriously.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I am guessing 12[/quote]I thought as much.

Not romantic at all.

I'm sure you wanted someone to suggest you put rat poison in her food and that's what I'll suggest.

[quote author=Mr knowitall.]Ive sent my unclad photos to plenty women and ill continue to do it.....snapshot or not....[/quote]

SniperInADiaper: This is bullshit.. If he has NO issue with it at the start then he needs to stand with it throughout. If the issue will come up later then that means there is already an issue with it.

Goofball, for your small mind, you have spoken well abi. Mtchew.

People are always blind initially when they are in love, but I can assure you that after their first major disagreement the guys eye will be clear and opened, then you will know people do change and that the age factor which wasn't a big issue earlier will become a big issue later.

Op, me I warn you o, since you are afraid that he may cheat on you when your body begins to wear out, then I advise you just save yourself unnecessary pain, though that doesn't necessarily mean marrying someone who is older will guarantee that he will not cheat on you.

But trust me, four good years isn't beans.

doomsdayII: If virginity is d pride of a woman so that when they loose it, they become dejected, what is d pride of a man so dat when they loose it too, they become useless?

How old are you?

Op, Are you willing to die for Nigeria, we can as well use your blood for atonement of Nigeria's sin. Nce you are ready to lay down your life, then lead the revolt and frankly if you look back you will see me right behind you.

There is no way you will call for revolution that certain part of the masses won't be a casualty and Op 'he fit be you'

[quote author=Mynd_44]Yes I can.[/quote]The question the Op asked Is;

Will you PREFER to marry a widow

braine: My sister, theres nothing wrong with it. So far he has no issues with that, I guess you two are good to go.

Which doesn't necessarily mean he won't have issues with it later in the future.

See your life.

Why would I prefer to marry a widow when I'm not insane. There is nothing wrong in marrying a widow(ofcourse they need a husband to), but when it come to preference, they are not at the top of my list.

Badt guy, I pray you get infected in the process(that's if you are not infected already sef).

You have to find a way to see them reason along with you. Get in touch with people you know they respect so much, so they can help you talk to them.

I'm not in support of someone going into a marriage without his parents' consent.

Think about it, if anything goes wrong in the marriage, you probably won't have a family to fall back on.

You just have to make them reason with you, give them examples of good hausa people that you know of and like Vikin said you also have to consider your parents' point of view, maybe religion is also a reason and trust me it may really a big deal for your parents.

Age is a number, but it does count ultimately. If she has fears about the age difference, then it will only be stupi.d of her to still go ahead and even more stupi.d when her fears begin to manifest.

I don't know the reason, but one thing I know is that they flirt for the same reasons male corpers also flirt around.

Titeb: I'll really appreciate it.. [Tosinomoniyi@ovi.com]

Check your mail

Titeb: i've been having that problem of confidence and shyness all my life and its killing me.

I could send you some ebooks that will help if you drop your email

[quote author=mr.drizzy]I dnt even knw why u guyz are talking rubbish..if u have d money to buy a 160 or 100k fone u buy it(aslong as ur nt doing dry fasting to get d fone)...theres nting bad in buying a huge fone for ur girl,see as all of ina stingy..isnt it ppl dat dash ppl car free,talkless of ur gf..NIGERIANS THINKING EH!.and besides he was only asking which fone u think is beta.nt the money crap..if u cnt advise him den keep ur critics to urself..abegi @op as i said b4 the z10 is there,u could also get her galaxy note 1,zopo c2,htc one x+ and so on..all depends on the kind of girl she is,hope that answers ur question![/quote]Don't tell me you fell for this guys cheap publicity.

You think he couldn't have asked the girl for what she really wanted. It will only be stupi.d of him to buy the girl a phone she won't appreciate, my point the girl is the only one in the best position to answer his question.

Like I said in my earlier post I know the OP

k2039: Besides, I just have an impression that you are just trying to attract attention to yourself with this thread and that makes you even dumber if that's the case.

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[quote author=Mynd_44]Must you say that? Don't you know Lemonsweet is watching? [/quote]She is a great observer

[quote author=Mynd_44]K2039, meet me offline oooooo. Seems I have to beat some sense into your head if you don't edit that list you called vote

power of being friendly at work.

#Team selling point[/quote]Are you high on weed?, I just returned back your list. I simply quoted your post.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Where is that K2039 sef? Make he come vote ooo[/quote]Mastroescro
Abpatrick
Lay low
Nelly Ghen gen
Ekwah
Xavier
Miccodb
Ekwah
Ijogz
Djeasy

Shollypopz: He's not a kid. He just lacks the ability to articulate himself and he seems to have problem with English. I think he's intimidated by her age, hence the jittering and bad communication skills

Ok maam, I agree with you in all totality.

Op, you have a lot of work to do on yourself. Self confidence and communication skills is all you need.

dopeJemi: u be wizard

Not just a ordinary wizard but that of the first order.

You remove the nose and breath with your mouth.

[quote author=gree-die]U must be a newbie... Greatgod never writes anything without ending it with may God help us all. Even if she quotes a comment just to insert d grin emoticon ;DShe must still write may God help us all.
Just try to overlook it, it's a fault in her.

Of we all needs God's help and grace and not just wen we are dying but der is something annoying about her should I say siggy??[/quote]Abeg leave my Aunty alone.
We all need God's help.

Godson201333: You too like s..ex see your HEAD

Se.x is the principal thing, In all their getting get se.xual satisfaction. K2039, Chapter 3, verse 1

Olarewajub: @k2, so you are saying a teen can understand the mystery of love. Right?

I never implied that in my post.

All I implied is that if a teenager understands what Love really is, then he can be in love, but if in fact he doesn't understand then he is not fit to be in love.

Eventuallym it all boils down to your definition of a teenager and besides if you know for sure that a teenager cannot understand the dynamic of love, then from my post it's certain he is not in love.