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PoliticsRe: Jonathan Steps Into Sambo’s N16billion Residence Contract Row by k2039: 9:36am On Dec 22, 2012
Sincere 9gerian: It is obvious that the president doesn't even know much about the N16billion Sambo's residence contract. For this same issue, the 'retardinhos' have attacked, abused and cursed GEJ. Do we really expect one man to know everything and be involved in everything? As far as I'm concerned, there are institutions and those institutions should do their work and where they fail, all attacks should be directed at them, not an 'omnipresent' president. In this case, where the contract sum appears too high, the senate committee should do their work(which they'r already doing), the budget office, ministry of office and other parties concerned in the project should also do their work. Where foul play is suspected, the law should take its course.
But I completely understand the retardinhos. It is always convenient for them to blame everything on an 'omnipresent' president so as to score cheap political points
GEJ must have approved the additional fee at the FEC meeting.

So your point is baseless
RomanceRe: We Need More Black Men Like This... by k2039: 9:30am On Dec 22, 2012
ChopUrMoni: [size=16pt]I'm sorry... I refuse to comment on this thread. Read or don't read. Comment or don't comment. I have learned from my previous post that a lot of people don't like discuss just fights and insults. I don't have the energy. Peace [/size] lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
You just demonstrated to us all that you are mentally unstable.

Why open a thread when you knew you werent ready for the debate.
Christianity EtcRe: Where Were You On 21-12-2012 by k2039: 9:20am On Dec 22, 2012
This news is overated, I didn't even know yesterday was 21st.
RomanceRe: We Need More Black Men Like This... by k2039: 9:14am On Dec 22, 2012
They were dating for the ten years, they got married after ten years.
They were both commited to the relationship, so what's your point.


Besides this is one out of I billion cases.

I can date you for ten years but dont expect me to propose to you and wait for a month without you telling me you are in.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Is The Nigerian Dream? by k2039: 9:08am On Dec 22, 2012
Corruption reduced to the bearest minimum.

Efficient judiciary.

Good education system


Constant supply of electricity


Job availability

Security of life and properties

Efficient hospital system.

Infact the Nigerian dream is a REAL nation that is very close to IDEALITY.
RomanceRe: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by k2039: 9:05am On Dec 22, 2012
jhydebaba: It works in this order...

1. S3x
2. Relationship
3. Friends
Certainly, if this is the order, then trust me, I will never proceed beyond one.

I don't need to compete before winning the gold medal.
RomanceRe: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by k2039: 9:01am On Dec 22, 2012
rokiatu: I like dating first and then best friends while dating.
Gbamest.

Why on earth should I have to wait for a girl for a decade before she says yes(waiting is a big risk on it's own, when I'm not even sure she will say yes), besides she will get comfortable with being friends and friend zone me.
RomanceRe: Do You Believe In "Friendship Before Relationship?" by k2039: 8:50am On Dec 22, 2012
[quote author=lola.luv]Yes, I believe in being friends before dating.

Personally, I don't give my trust easily. It is earned and you earn it when I relate to you as a friend, seeing how you treat others apart from me.

That way, the roots of love grow deep in the fertile field of friendship.

Most times, we are all too quick in jumping into a relationship, then we find out nasty things about the person, we find out we are not compatible, the person is insultive etc and then we start thinking of how to quit.

But as friends, you access this person to see if their worthy to be let into your life.

Any guy that asks me out, I request we relate first as friends, but I give him a SPECIFIC time he could expect an answer.

Pretending is out of it because he doesn't know what I'm looking for. And I'm the type who can tell a person's character by hanging out with them a few times.

#myopinion.[/quote]I need the time frame before I comment on this.

A year, 3 months, how long, how specific is your time.
PoliticsRe: Seriously, I Think We Should Devide by k2039: 8:47am On Dec 22, 2012
Get a knife and do the division, waiting for my own share.
RomanceRe: 'lost Love' by k2039: 8:46am On Dec 22, 2012
hyper gig: Chill man,its just a write up I conjured up..its fiction all tru
Out of the abundance of the heart the hand types, I just hope it's what you say it's.
RomanceRe: 'lost Love' by k2039: 8:40am On Dec 22, 2012
hyper gig: Not so sure.
RULE 1: Never overate any girl.
RomanceRe: 'lost Love' by k2039: 8:38am On Dec 22, 2012
Goldieluks: Huh?? I hope your not planning on committing something.....?
I will give him the go ahead, in fact I will authorise the suicide mission.

Any guy that cries that Love sucks is extremely and completely stupi.d, and any guy who even thinks(not commiting, just thinking) of suicide deserves to be shot.

Their are over a billion potential girl friend and wives for every single guy. In fact Isaiah 4:1 put the nail in the coffin.
RomanceRe: No Girl Love Me, They Love The Money by k2039: 8:33am On Dec 22, 2012
Use the girls that love you for money, it's called trade by barter.

To find the other one, pretend you don't have money, any girl that chases without it, definitely loves you, but I doubt if their is really any girl who doesn't love money.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 1:04am On Dec 22, 2012
Sagamite: You didn't know you were suppose to be a real man mugu that takes all the risks while she avoids all risks? grin
gringringringringringringringrin

In fact asking them out is a risk on it's own
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:50am On Dec 22, 2012
mimifonwon: i think its because some women have become for sale for highest bidder and sex is easier to get from easy girls, so the men dont feel they have to chase anymore, all some of them have to do is flash money signs and these hungry babes just spread open. No morals+ no respect for self+ easy life= easy catch. And dont generalize on men and women, but personally if i like a guy I like to be the one to dine and wine him, maybe its my controlling nature, but I dont find a guy that comes after me attractive, its better when i am the one that approaches- Personally, then if the guy fancy me then we can go from there.
I'm a free agent, you can approach me.gringringringringringrin.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:48am On Dec 22, 2012
Sagamite:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPzDLGfyjw0
I just watched the video.

Relationship 101: Set your priority right, first make money.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:43am On Dec 22, 2012
dick hardener: that's fat lie if u are strongly attracted to him, u can't afford to loose him. This is an imaginary scenario. Man A comes to u,, u give him a hard time demanding he waits till infinity while Man B comes u,, stunning, wealthy, coolheaded and classy, ur dream man. I swear on my life u'll never keep him waiting or stress him out.
I concur.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039:
freecocoa: Abeg I'm tired, see time and I'm yet to get ready for bed, now I have to reheat my bath water just cos I'm arguing with you guys, mstcheew.

Anyways I've said my own and y'all can decide to jump from one girl to another if you like because you can't be patient, as for me, I've already got a man and I'm good with him. Incase you are wondering, yes he chased me for a while.

Una goodnight.
Goodnight.

Think about it, I ask a girl out, I had to wait for atleast 3months after which her response was negative.

That simply means I lost, wasted my time, money on airtime, dates, I can go on and on.

So mathematically speaking with preference on probability, I will only exhibit extreme stupidity to wait for a girl knowing their is always a chance she may turn me down.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:30am On Dec 22, 2012
Billyonaire: Are you kidding me ? This topic got 10 pages of attention ? Jeeeeez, this must be one hot topic.
My comment on the thread will probably be up to a page.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:24am On Dec 22, 2012
shymexx: The bone of contention is; what difference does it makehuh

Finding out the basic things is just a fallacy, there are too many fakers out there, trust me...
Besides people are dynamic, they change with respect to situation and time(except in rare cases where their is a constant called principled center living where you can be sure they wont possibly change, but frankly the principle centered ones arent that hard to detect, you can see it from their lifestyle)
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:21am On Dec 22, 2012
shymexx: GBAMEST...

And the more successful you become, the better the quality of chics you'll attract...
I just hope the guys will learn to comprehend simple statement like this and channel their energy to be more productive in life.

I concur.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:11am On Dec 22, 2012
freecocoa: I'm supposed to know all I think I should about you in a week abi?

You best move along cos you don't want me.angry
I certainly wont be approaching a stranger, so she should have known some basic things about me.

Besides you can't know me well enough in a century, real life situations are dynamic.

But you certainly can predict how I will likely behave in a real life situation(though their may be deviation), I'm principled centered and that's all she has to know and work with, expecting to know anything more than that it's only a waste of time.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:02am On Dec 22, 2012
pc guru: chasing babes is not my thing because i have too much debtors to chase instead grin
gringringringringringringringringrin
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 12:01am On Dec 22, 2012
freecocoa: Okay then, how short a time do you think asking and accepting should take?
My offer is valid for a week.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 11:49pm On Dec 21, 2012
shymexx: Lmao @ the bolded...

Well said - imagine chics also giving useless rules like: no kissing on the first date, no sex for the first 6 months etc. like it's going to make any difference whatsoever... Guys are frustrated and most can't be ars.ed anymore - and they'd rather chase "other things" with greater returns than chase women... At the end of the day, when they become a success in achieving those "other things" - they'll get more women with ease...
That's the real issue.

Become succesful, have money, a good career etc and the girls will chase you, in fact you have a wide variety to choose from.

A reasonable person will rather focus on achieving success in life than chase a girl.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 11:46pm On Dec 21, 2012
teeowl: Valuable men all know that there is no girl that is the ONE! They know that there is an abundance of good girls that fit their criteria as long as they are willing to make the effort to meet them. A valuable man would rather make a phone call to 30 girls 3 times than make a phone call to 1 girl 90 times.... In the first case, he learns a lot about female psychology and at the end of the day, his chances of being the kind of guy that his dream girl also likes improves drastically. As for the 2nd case of calling 1 girl 90 times, he gives up 100% of the control to the girl and has no say in the interaction! Valuable men are fiercely aware of that fact!!!!

A VALUABLE MAN CANNOT PURSUE A GIRL FOR 2 YEARS... BECAUSE HE HAS THE LOOKS, SOCIAL INTELLIGENCE, INTERPERSONAL SKILLS AND FINANCES TO GET THE KIND OF DREAM GIRL THAT HE WANTS!

A valuable man CANNOT purse a woman for 2 years... Can u imagine C.Ronaldo, Usher, Tyrese, Trey Songs pursuing a woman for 2 years?.... IMPOSSIBLE!!!
She knows that too and that's more reason why guys like that don't eventually get them because the girl sense he is suffering from a low self esteem.

And for those who get them they lose them easily later because they realised what they waited and chased for so long was overated.

A guy with a good self esteem understand know girl is worth overating, what simply makes a lady a lady is the hole in between her legs.

You here the 'real men'(mumus) say things like she is the nicest(if she was, she wouldnt stree him that much), she is intelligent(as if she is the only intelligent female in the world), she is the most beautiful, I can go on and on, but in reality the statement just reflects plain and simple stupidity.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 11:36pm On Dec 21, 2012
freecocoa: Why would you make conclusions on something you know absolutely nothing about?

I replied the topic based on how the OP asked the question, how do you know the men who "pursue" me are not valuable because they may have stayed on my case for a period longer than what you think it should be?

A man should stay on a girl's case for as long as he feels he should, if a man genuinely loves me and wants to pursue me forever who are you to say he's got nothing to offer?
He will only demonstrate extreme stupidity at that.

Between Freecocoa and K2039, we know a guy who waits for a girl who doesn't show the interest that she wants him is not just only stupi.d but also suffering from low self esteem.
RomanceRe: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by k2039: 11:30pm On Dec 21, 2012
teeowl: The problem with ladies is that they have unrealistic expectations of men...
Any girl that wants an intelligent, confident, suave, handsome, rich and tall man to chase her for 2 months or 2 years needs to start believing that one day PIGS WOULD START FLYING WITHOUT WINGS!
gringringringringringringringringringringringringrin
When their are thousands of lady flocking after him.

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