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it means the input by each other differs.

A: I love you so much

B: you dont really love me as you should.

So A is claiming he loves B so much while B thinks otherwise(one example I could think of).

Sure, the relationship is in trouble as Omega25red, I concur and agree with his post.

If your boyfriend is B, you definitely have to show him and convince him you love him.

My mum is always my longest, I still spoke with her for about 40 minutes yesterday.
I speak with my best friend both male and female for almost about the same time.

My dad is always 20 sec, how are you, how is school, my response is always fine and that's the end.

My female best friend also spends so much on airtime speaking with me

So my best friends and mum get about thesame proportion of my time.

I get the drift of the post though, but it all depends on how many quality relationships one has

Morgan1092: Were u givn Terms n Condit. while registering on NL?

When you visit each section you will see at the top.

For example romance, www.nairaland.com/126136/nairaland-romance-rules

Morgan1092: But u knw d re lying

ofcourse I'm cute either way you look at it.

Cuteness is relative, I may not be the cutest but I'm certainly not the worse.

You will be free from ban when you learn to abide by the terms and conditions of nairaland.

slimyem: Na so!!
Ohun a ni la 'n naani jare!

That's the right word.

I laugh in greek, this news is overated, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, just as my wife and mother will say the same about me.

default user name for all my accounts, nairaland not an exception.

following, I will love to read peoples response.

Op, with 95% certainity it should make the frontpage, 4% would probably mean the topic has been trashed properly and the other 1% will mean your thread was lost in transit(the supermod didn,t get it).

For me, I definitely want to work in my field of study, but I'm still schooling for now.

Chokolee: I have decided not to make new resolutions ...i have not fully kept the old one's yet!

At times you need a compass to be able to know if you are on the right part or wandered away from your goals.

Since you didnt keep all for this year, I suggest you sit down and think about what went wrong and how you can be more productive in the comming year, that way you increase your effectiveness. You will achieve more in the comming year than you did in this, though for every goal their must be a reasonable plan to achieve it, if you stick to the plan then productivity will be higher.

Not that I achieved all of mine, infact this year wasn't one of the best for me, but I can only get better in the comming year.

Shollypopz: I think what u mean here is, I don't try..., I don't plan....., I don't intend.....

About time I started writing formally I guess, post modified.

Thanks, I will try as much as possible to write in a formal way before the informal way becomes a habit(But that will only make my blunders obvious since english is my tenth language).

Try as much as possible to have less disagreement with him, that will reduce the rate of malice he keeps since malice sounds to me like it's inherent in his blood stream.

You cant stop him from keeping malice except he realises the harm in it, but you certainly can reduce the rate.

So work on rate.

It begins with you, your resolutions are not precise.

[quote author=Mynd_44]You prefer this then right?

Virginity was rated then but and decency was high but pray tell who defines decency?

Virginity is no proof of decency dude I gave seen virgins who I will rather remain single than marry[/quote]We will only derail this thread, frankly I disagree with you.

Your assumption on virginity as it not being a proof for decency is only valid for this present generation.

Immorality is tending towards a downward spiral, technology has made things worse, so think about it, at a point in the spectrum morality was higher though not necessarily 100%, we will always have bad eggs just as we still have some good eggs now.

Mynd, dont quote me, that's derailing.

Shollypopz: Did u just make this comment to impress me? Ultra-Almighty-Enormous-Astronomic-Gbamification!!

We both agree on this, lol.

I don't impress people, that's just who I'm.

[quote author=Mynd_44]^^
Your generation? It has always been like this[/quote]Next time learn to quote me directly because it just might get lost in transit, I only saw this because I was following your posts.

On matters arising, it was better during the earlier generations, virginity was rated then, women were more decent then but now reverse is the case.

In your dream, this doesnt sound anything close to reality.

USarmy: The good die young most times because extreme goodness is weakness

Very wrong.

The good and young die young and also die old.

That someone dies young doesnt mean he/she is good.

King Solomon the Great in his own word
Seize life! Eat bread with gusto,
Drink wine with a robust heart.
Oh yes—God takes pleasure in your pleasure!
Dress festively every morning.
Don’t skimp on colors and scarves.
Relish life with the spouse you love
Each and every day of your precarious life.
Each day is God’s gift. It’s all you get in exchange
For the hard work of staying alive.
Make the most of each one!Whatever turns up, grab it and do it. And heartily!
This is your last and only chance at it,
For there’s neither work to do nor thoughts to think
In the company of the dead, where you’re most certainly headed.

larrymoore: k2039 stick to d option pls there is a reason 4 it thxs man.

That's the problem, I dont conform, that's my orientation and view towards life.

I can love and un-love, it's my choice.

The two statement are problematic and that's why we have a lot of people crying over heart break.

I love you because I need you
If you love because you need her, it means your destiny is dependent on her.
A need is a necessity, so if she doesnt love you, you will commit suicide or do something irrational.
That explains why a lot find it hard to get over a heartbreak.

I need you because I love you Infact I dont see any different between both, though this sound a little better though
The need is born out of the fact that I love you, so if I dont love you again, I can discard you because it will mean you are no longer needed.
I prefer this to the other because my destiny lies in my hand, if I deem it fit that you are no longer needed I can as well tell you to fvck off but the girl on the recieving end is in trouble from the on set of the relationship.

As usual, it spread like wildfire and unfortunately reached the desk of the vice chancellor who then took action

I smell lie.

[quote author=acidosis™]The answer is NO. You can get sex anywhere..but love is a 'scarce commodity'[/quote]Demand is greater than supply, definitely what this means is that most people wont get true love, too bad for my generation.

greatgod2012: For an upright and well-brought up lady, NO is d answer.

Too bad, we just have a handful of them left in this present generation

I will have to consult my pastor, I will get back to you.

I'm sure the OP meant the perfect will.

Good and acceptable will are based on our choice(based more on our knowledge of what is right and wrong), the perfect will is God's choice.

@OP, very true, I have seen many of such marriages, though not itch free, they have their own challenges too(I doubt if their is any marriage without it own challenge), just that God will provide a means of escape.

Basically, IMHO, sice God is all knowing, I believe He simulates ahead of us and provides each of us with the best and possible partner which will us the highest effectiveness and efficiency in life, My Opinion though.

ikaboy: i am sure he forgot another special adviser in the person of Timi Dakolo was supposed to travel with them also(Msheeeew)

i am sure he forgot another special adviser in the person of Timi Dakolo was supposed to travel with them also

Lol.
Was about writing this too, just wondering, first it was Timi Dakolo and now the others have joined the bandwagon. I'm sure their motive is either to generate publicity or prove that they were holier than the others. But for those who truly missed the ill fated crash, it goes a long way to reflect Eccl 9:11-12.
11 I took another walk around the
neighborhood and realized that on this earth as it is—
The race is not always to the swift, Nor the battle to the strong,
Nor satisfaction to the wise,
Nor riches to the smart,
Nor grace to the learned.
Sooner or later bad luck hits us all. 12 No one can predict misfortune.
Like fish caught in a cruel net or birds in a trap,
So men and women are caught
By accidents evil and sudden.
Wisdom Is Better than Muscle.

talk true: Na how many people this chopper for carry wey everybody dey thank God say in no follow?

Was about writing this too, just wondering, first it was Timi Dakolo and now the others have joined the bandwagon.

I'm sure their motive is either to generate publicity or prove that they were holier than the others.

But for those who truly missed the ill fated crash, it goes a long way to reflect Eccl 9:11-12.
11 I took another walk around the neighborhood and realized that on this earth as it is—
The race is not always to the swift,
Nor the battle to the strong,
Nor satisfaction to the wise,
Nor riches to the smart,
Nor grace to the learned.
Sooner or later bad luck hits us all.

12 No one can predict misfortune.
Like fish caught in a cruel net or birds in a trap,
So men and women are caught
By accidents evil and sudden.
Wisdom Is Better than Muscle.

None of the above.

For me, I love you because I chose to love you.

I also have days when God
communicates with me

You answered your question.

The key is to stay connected and in communication with God.