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greatwaters:
Yes, I agree with both of you even tho i have no idea what you guys are talking about

funny you...............................not

macof:
Pls toph can't lava bend. No need to stretch this overboard

Without? Why should Bolin not use lava?

fine she can't................ I meant without toph lava bending she will end bolin and his lava bending

though am not yet married but I will definitely have a dog before marrying so that my supposed spouse will know my stance and love for dogs if he likes animals and don't mind then fine......if not then he can go, it might not be simple but it has to be done anyhow.
I feel those that loves animals (dogs especially) are good people while the non animal lovers are cruel, sadistic and insensitive people. therefore I don't like them around me.

lordprogress:
common guys toph against bumi what a joke bumi was made earth kíng because he was the strogest not by birth point of correction eve bolin against toph toph stand no chance she wil be soaked in lava not to talk of the crazy king bumi toph would be done even before the fight start comon she is blind and got no chance against bumi. make una nr underestimate my sokka because asamì go collect

I agree sokka will tame asami

but toph! oh please!
toph will end bumi though with difficulty and as for bolin he stands no chace against toph, what makes you think toph won't figure out lava bending in minutes if she feels like..... without lava toph will end bolin in seconds...

the name game ........... judy!
judy judy bo budy banana fada fo fudi


I like all the seasons of it.............Jessica lang is a very good actress and the evans guy is my favourite actor.

damn this series rock!!!

no 3

if she really want to be naked she should go for it instead of beating around the bush

I bow for this chick sha


but it aint ma bizniz

koppa:
haba,who told you so,what if that was how the Op felt about a friend's dog before getting his...

its just a feeling o, walai I never felt any Nigerian (apart from my mom and me ) could care for dogs until I came on nl pet section.

Am so scared for dogs in people I don't really know care, even people that claim to like dogs are not exempted until am 100% sure.

leksmedia:
Thanks , infact over 15 people have begged me to give them q puppy when she litters

abeg don't give them any puppy
just because you are taking care of your own and shes pretty that's why they are fascinated with her, but they don't know the dedication you put into her well being............ PLEASE no give them o!!!!

please people don't insult toph beifong............abeg na my madam o

but I disagree with appa besting naga
appa is a herbivore beast whose strength comes from its ability to fly, then its just heavy but on the other hand naga is a polar and a dog! why would you look past that people

naga will finnish appa with its fangs and claws , appa is just flight and weight while appa its diving to hit naga, naga can dodge and deal a strong paw/claw punch on nagas belly and if care is not taken on appa and naga is on blood rage, naga may just clinch her fangs on appa's neck and 2, 3 minutes appa would be on the way to the spirit world.

respect the DOG!!!

I hate saw like mad!!! whats the idea of mutilating people for freaksakes.jeesh!
but my best horror movie that still scares the bejezus out of me by mere remembering inspite of seeing it like 19years ago
the ghost and the darkness!!!


*still shaking*

the gates was a very nice series about a a man and his family, the man was a cop who got fired but fortunately got a fancy offer as a cop in an estate with accommodation and the likes......... everything seemed perfect until the man stumbled upon vampires with an adopted human child, werewolves at loggerheads with vampires, a succubus teenager, witches and he has 2 deputies whom one of which has no heart and her kind of person is still a mystery. hurt me lots when it was cancelled

legend of the seeker really hurt me, no ordinary family oh boy!
VEE 'we are of peace.......... always. men these oyibos no try at all when they cancelled it,
for the series I don't mind their cancelling

kyle xy............. it started good but I started loosing interest as it seemed like the writers were getting clueless on how to proceed with their story lines

one tree hill......... common they should've ended it already.

there are more but these are the ones I remember

Image123:
I'm also happy and free, despite being allegedly misguided. My conscience deems it fit for me to serve God and believe Him. Only hypocrites feel there's no heaven and yet are not at ease with people like me.

@first .......good for you
@last ...............not at ease with your kind! oh please get a grip!
people like me just simply get tired of your type of people, jeez!

saaedlee:
You don't eat meat from a particular animal doesn't mean those who do are cruel, its probably your tribe or culture that forbids certain meats, hence ur displeasure at people who eat your pets!

Don't get me wrong, I get the message you are preaching; not torturing of animals before killing them.

But, I do believe that YOUR scientific belief of unstable emotions due to the non-presence of pets is NOT completely true! On the contrary tho, I support the theory that serial killers are of unbalanced emotions and most of them actually began practicing their MO on their pets.
Hence, PETS doesn't make us emotionally STABLE!

IREMAINADOGMEATLOVER

that moment when you don't know what to say.
you're kinda right.

teamisupportcannibals.

Image123:
Of what benefits are your being rightly guided, at least you agree that i have bliss?

death can come anytime, so I have to live my life as my conscience deems fit, am happy and I feel free.

only hypocrites feel they really want to go to heaven but to die is not on their happy list.

dalaman:
I used to think like that but not any more, I live in Germany. The people here do not believe in God but they are doing morally better than we Nigerians that mostly believe in God. People can and have been thought to be morally upright and find meaning in life without any need for God.

hmn ok if you say so, but I heard the president (or so) of Germany is a deeper life lady, is it true?

GOOD DAY NAIRALANDERS
I will only be a hypocrite if I say I don't eat meat.............cause I do and I love eating meat.
but I wont be caught dead eating the likes of; horse, camels, donkeys, cats, and etc. most of all DOGS!

but its saddening when I come across people killing animals like goats and rams (never came around pig butchering at all)

during the salah eve I couldn't hold myself back from correcting my neighbor's kids, I noticed the rams being kept for salah butchering were being tormented by these little devils, I call them devils cause if you see the tormenting its enough to use an iron pole to design their behinds.

but we cant really blame these kids, many of us has done it when we were kids. we learnt from the adults around us, our parents as well. so these kids are doing what they learnt from the adults (us) and parents too.

don't we think?
why torture these animals bought for slaughtering before killing them for their meat, it tells that we are wicked with black raging hearts.
how we treat our pet animals tells a lot. there are lots of people with pets for no reason but "my neighbor has a dog/cat" , "oh Paris Hilton was spotted with a Chihuahua so I have to get mine cause she's a role model"

there's this scientific belief that people with pets actually have balanced emotions, and I go with that belief based on my personal experience. since I lost my dog, my emotional balance has been on a rollacoster and I cant wait to have another dog to put it on track.

I never knew we have dog lovers (I mean real dog lovers) until nairaland created a pet thread for it and I must say am impressed with how they care for their dogs. I just hope people learn from here and practice what they see.

please if you don't like animals, don't be like a Nazi/racist and go all out to kill them, leave them be; cause it only means you are evil by nature.
if you want to kill a chicken, goat, etc. and don't know how to go about it please remember it hurts the animals youre slaughtering so get a professional to do it for you.

finally do unto others (animals) as you want others to treat you. karma is a biatch.

the only justice to get is to arrange for his punishment cause in Nigeria there is hardly any justice for the common man not to talk of an animal.

johnydon22:
[b]Was looking outside just seating and looking at the activities outside. My eyes were drawn to a dog who was struggling to scratch the back of it's head but couldn't reach it, it even tried scratching the itch on the floor but from the way it continued struggling i was sure that didn't work either.

Another dog that came along and within seconds it had used its teeth to scratch exactly the point of the itch on the other dog.

I was touched by the act of kindness even a dog that we consider a lower animal in intellect could exhibit and what made me smile was: These dogs know nothing about a threat of punishment if they fail to be good but they help each other because they care about each others well being.

And yet again; Barely 2 days ago i was seating just outside my yard in the evening and saw a little boy of maybe 5 years running.
Turns out he didn't want to share his biscuit with another, his mother came out fuming with anger and yelled at him.

"If you don't share your biscuits then you are a son of satan and you will go to hell where satan burns people forever"

I was shocked at this, i was infuriated but i couldn't say anything. The little man didn't share the biscuit but anyone who looked could see the fear and guilt in his eyes, the fear that he was going to burn and the guilt that he was now the son of a satan.

Yes the mother thought she was impacting a sense of morality on the young one which brings me to my question.

Is it right to threaten Children with the image of hell?

I remember telling a pastor who wanted to preach to me "You cannot tell me about morality until you and i have agreed on what we see to be moral. Because to me frightening children with burning in order to instill morality is abuse, disturbing and wicked"

The idea of a hell is one that can be found in the world major religions even in far ancient religions like Egyptian religion.
Where such concepts are used to ensure submission to the moral dictates of the religion.

I was raised in a Christian home, i remember at a very young age right from the time i learnt how to talk we were moulded in the church, we were taught that bad people will burn forever and good ones will go to heaven.

When i was still in primary 5 i got to kiss a girl for the first time, Childhood love and stuff i was 9.

I know the fear and guilt that haunted me because of that one act, not just for few days but this guilt lingered on in my mind for years.

The guilt that i have broken the commandment of God, the fear that i have increased my chances of going to hell, this mental image tortured my young mind, haunted me for almost more than 2years.

Could you imagine a little boy living with such trauma instilled by psychological fear of an abstract concept, my parents never noticed i was passing through this because it ate me deep inside my mind and i know they thought they were doing good by trying to impact morality into my young mind with the use of a hell or heaven. They too are also victims of this indoctrination so i wouldn't blame them.

But our young ones are coming up and i keep asking is it ok to frighten them into submitting to our idea of morality by using the threat of a hell and the promise of a heaven?

I remember telling Urheme, " I was a victim of this cruel threat if i subject my kids to the same psychological abuse will simply be an act of idiocy on my part"

Teach the young ones the very essence of goodness which stems from being good because they want to be good.

Because it is good to be good, show them goodness and kindness.

Teach the young ones to be nice to people because it is good to be nice to others.

Hypatia of Alexandria said "To teach superstition as truth is horrifying, the mind of a child accepts them and only through great pain or perhaps tragedy will they be freed of it.

To my young ones i am strong in my conviction that i will never teach them to fear anything, they will never grow up with fear of anything.

Not the fear of me, not the fear of any deity or the fear of a mythical burning furnace.

I can only teach them to always think but will never force or impose on them
what i want them to think, they are the ones to decide and make their
choices when they are old enough.

I intend to raise them to "Be Good for goodness sake" i intend to teach
them to place humans first before ideas.

To look on the scientific method and consistent logic in other to make sense of the world.

I intend to show them that only their actions towards others is what makes
them either good or bad and nothing else.

I intend to show them that their nature as humans is not fallen, broken or sinful but very beautiful, intelligent and strong.

And i will never teach them myths as truth or fables as truths But rather i
will teach them myth as myth and fables as fables and reality as reality.

The young minds know nothing like hatred, intolerance, racism, sexism,
indoctrination, bigotry, homophobia, prejudice, misogyny.

They do not yet understand things like Love, tolerance, joy, compassion,
acceptance, human decency, empathy, integrity, beauty and truth.

nor disturbing emotions like fear, greed and jealousy.

For the first and most important formative years of their lives they will
only know what you teach them.

So choose well.


I know some might be asking will your children be atheists too?

The answer is "NO" I am an agnostic atheist and i will neither raise my kids as ATHEISTS or theists because that will also be indoctrination of the young minds into my own ideology.

No i will let their mind be free and for them to decide what they believe or what they don't when they are grown enough to do that. .

I cannot decide for my Children, i will simply show them the world as it is and their decisions should run their lives not mine....[/b]

am sorry for quoting this lengthy post, but I want to get your attention.
though am not a fan of religion, but I think most humans need religion to keep them in place.
there are many lost people in this world, their thinking is " how am I suppose to live without God?", "am not always like this, the devil got into me and I did what I did", "am too scared, there must be a place for me on the afterlife, I can't just die like that". etc.
it takes a lot of guts and one has to fight their inner demons to be free from this fictional belief of a God! if not they become more lost and resort to anarchical behaviors that will inconvenience the lives of people like you and me.

in this life, there must be a balance
good - evil
life - death
love - hate
happiness - sadness
etc.
imagine if everyone started thinking like you and/or me, as humans we will always look for problems to create and solutions to solve them. so its necessary to leave these so-called religious people for us to learn from them to better ourselves and for amusement.........lol.

I bow o Miz Janet. and that image guy or whatever his monica is......... is just plain misguided and I suggest you free him in his ignorant bliss or else you will just get intellectually exhausted

Op you forgot the teething kisser

This one is one of the worst kissing a guy can ever give to a lady.
One minute you're expecting the lips and the slow sucking, teasing kiss then the next minute his teeth is scratching at your upper and lower lip skin like it's made of crocodile hide!

Ayafsuffad! Smh

soonest:
Is it that you don't know that these contraceptive methods you mentioned can fail? Mistakes happen that's why it's a mistake. She never mentioned abortion, all she needs is words of encouragement.
Op, it has happened so just try and look at the brighter side of life, may be your greatest child, have heard testimonies like that. Pls 6 weeks after you birth this child, go for a more reliable contraceptive and still follow safe n unsafe period o! All the best

Yes am aware but the op didnt mention it.

greatwaters:
Lol, i knew u'd say that. We need to chat

Believe me








We don't!

greatwaters:
Yea, we should thank the helper, but the 'sky daddy' helps too, doesnt he?

No.

Ofcourse everything/everyone has a price!
*You love your wife/gf you got to treat her nice, you love your husband you got to treat him best.
*you love your mom you have to obey and honour her, same goes for dad respect.
* you want to pass exams you have study for it.
*you need a job, you have to be trained for it.
* you need forgiveness you have to offend.
*you need money, you have to work for it (olosho go open leg and rich pikin go ask parent. No be work?) .
* to advoid prison/purnishment, obey the rules.
*to eat you have to cook.
*to born pikin no be to do the do?
Op every tinny tiny thing and person has a price. Google cause and effect theory for expanciation.

That's all.

OP hw you feel is natural,
But think of what your friend is really trying to tell your GF, probably he's seen how tight you and your GF are and thought he should let your GF know the kind of person you are and how to guide you from frenemies who only like you for what you do for them and forget you when they feel you're useless to them. Am telling you this based on personal experience my mom was/is kindhearted so whenever she wants to help, I'm always quick to dissuade/caution her because of the betrayals she got as payback. I don't believe in afterlife rewards.

Your GF was harmless and being straight with you when she told you what she and your friend discussed so I won't treat her with suspision if I were you. But doesn't mean you shouldn't prepare your mind for the worst.

The best way to live this life is to let your gut instinct guide you then sometimes let the good heart co-guide.

Mr man get your facts right for petessakes!!!!

Michael Jackson had re-vitelegro which is a condition of the skin's natural pigmentation not fully and evenly distributed(that's my personal definition o).
Google is your friend dannit!

Some people.jeez!

*singing*
All ma eneb*tches, dancing and rolling on my husband's thing, amadioha faya make e burn dem.



Some ladies here that are more realistic than the op has said it all.

As for me oh K9 don't take crap from anybody, he cheats he should not let me know or so help our marriage. Him papa!

Ok let me understand this.... What exactly do you want?

Do you want some abortion advise or just plain old "God is in control" advise cause to me from what you've listed abortion is the answer if I were in your shoes. But first how far off in pregnancy are you before you consider that option.

And biko why is it that inspite of all the education we got on biology in secondary school and then healthcare adverts on Tv most of us women still prefer the ancient method of contraception kwanu?
Someone just listed the options
Condom
Iud
Pills
Injection.
Aren't you educated?
Am so tired of people addicted to putting burdens on their head so they can feel pitied.

allanphash7:
Nice one to the doctors







No one will praise the doctors that made the successful surgery but will rather praise some of their scarmmers MOG

As in eh, that's why most of the people that can help (doctors most especially) don't feel like helping others because instead of thanking the kindhearted helper the helpees give the credit to sky daddy. Smh

apoti:
So the husband cannot cook when he comes back from work, but he expects the wife to cook for him when she comes back from work. If the wife works and brings in some money to help the family, the husband should also help with some of the housework. It's also not an excuse for the woman to be lazy, she should try cook and not buy food all the time.

My wife cooks for me most of the time, but there are days she's very tired or she finished late from work. I would do the cooking for her and even put our daughter to bed. My wife is not my slave.

Oga stop lying I don't like it.

If true na to kidnap you be that. Lol

chreldb:
lol @ bolded. i see what u did there. Nice pun. . Since this ia a Micheal Jackson thread.... All i can say is that i understand why you choose to 'keep it in the closet' .

*shines teeth* cool