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@mrbrownjay, have you ever had se..x with an underage kid? Lol, why am I even asking, who's going to answer such a question.

Uyi Iredia: Big lie ! An 11 year old can't give birth.

Lol! What an ediot!

nollywood20: The founder of the second largest religion in history had a nine-year old wife he was banging and she was only 19 when the prophet died mysteriously at 63, but she never conceived due to an undisclosed infection until she died in bondage.

The Last Testimony of Bilikisu

I was still a thumb-sucking child with milk teeth
I could use my tongue to lick every tooth in my mouth
Then one midnight he came to my father
I saw the mole on his right shoulder
When he carried me on his laps
He gazed into my curious eyes
And my father left me in his arms.
Later he took me along to his own quarters
Where I joined the others in their harem
Where the little women were forbidden to scream
No matter the agonies of the rites of forced motherhood
They must offer their maiden heads to their manhood.
He called me the divine Princess of his Purdah
The Chosen One and sacred muse of the Ulama.

~ From The Prophet Lied

Lmao! Wtf?!

freecocoa: Don't misunderstand me please, I NEVER said "walking funny" is only proof that something went down, I only gave an example. You ask how a mother would know that her child is being abused without the child telling, like seriously? Okay let me tell you, my mother used to check whether my sisters and I were still virgins till my elder sister left for college, my mum still bathed me like I already said at 11, she would ask me to open my legs so she'd wash that place properly, with the kind of relationship I had with her, if someone was touching me inappropriately I'd have told her as she kept drumming it into our little ears then, a responsible mother would know my dear, like a jewish proverb says "only a mother understands what a child does not say" there's no excuse whatsoever for that woman, she failed woefully and as for the little girl, well it was "sweeting" her and she was probably getting little gifts from those men hence her not saying anything.

Come on!! So, because her mother did not constantly check her to find out whether she was a v!rgin, she failed? Like seriously, how many parents do that? Again, checking whether the hymen is in tact will not always give you the answer because many people break their hymens well before having sex due to rigorous activities especially in Africa. You blame the mother because she's a beer seller and there's a stereotype in place. Do you know why she's a beer seller? Do you know her story? Do know whether she's working as a beer seller to provide ways and means for her family?

Mothers always drum things into their children's ears, there is no way a mother will wish harm upon her child. With all the drummings, society decides what decisions the child will make. Many parents do their utmost best to keep their child on the right path but there is so much they can do especially when the kids get exposed to society.

I will not sit here and blame a parent just like that because I do not know her story. But I WILL definitely put the blame on these men who feel the need to put their ornament inside a little girl's private part, a little girl who probably only just started menstruating.

Now, tell me, a 5year old child gets abused by a family member, she doesn't tell anyone. Is that because she's enjoying it? Or the mother failed again? She failed by leaving her child with a trusted family member. Do you think parents go around thinking their children are being abused? No, because a parent cannot imagine her child being abused, it's just something they cannot comprehend.

I want to hear from you in the next 15years. I want to hear about your teenage children. I want you to tell me you failed woefully because with all the talks you've drummed into them, they still went against it.

Believe me, it will happen. There is soo much a parent can do.

freecocoa: Chi mu o , kandi what are you talking about? Tell my mom I phucked a man at 11? For the records I didn't have 5ex till I left home for college, having said that, this is a child we are talking about here, what business does a child of 11 have with 5ex in the first place talk more of trying to hide it from her mother? Granted kids sometimes f00l around with stuffs like touching each other in the privates but this is often done with kids their own age not full blown ogogoro drinking men, if this kid had a good relationship with her mum or if her mum was responsible and caring enough, she'll know her baby of 11 is being abused on a steady basis by 5 not 1 but 5 men, just how does the mother get off as not to be blamed for failing to protect the said girl? let me even tell you that if this girl was not enjoying the act already, she would have said something sooner.

I never once said not to blame the parents, my point is the fingers are not being pointed at the men who had sex with this little kid.

Exactly, ofcourse you will not tell your mom you've had sex, whether you did it before school or after. It's absurd, especially in our culture. Yes, a mother should know their child is having sex but how will she know if the child has not said anything. What will the mom do force her to talk? HOW?!

Walking funny is no proof you've been abused. These men knew what they were doing but this child's mind is still young and it's easier to manipulate. Women with mature minds get twisted and turned and fall for the bullcrap of men, imagine an 11 year old girl?
So, it's ok she's getting ravaged by grown azz men because she's enjoying it?
What?!

omfg!!!

fukcwitme :
Lol google it, they have the video on it. Its disgusting!

lmaoo, seriously?!!!


*runs to google*


"Bobobyinki, what does this mean : wa kawasaki , ko wa gba goody-goody?

Idowuogbo: U no about dat ish kandi?

Apparently, d chick died d next day from internal bleeding. Some crazy mudafuckers out dere mehn! Imagine persin wey get trapezium head dey insert head inside...Ouchhhhh! *grabs kpecus*

Wait so it's true? Oh, shyt!
In fact, I shouldn't be surprised, when women have inserted fishes, bottles, ornaments and cars pieces inside them, why won't they insert someone's head.
lmaoo@trapezium head

freecocoa: I'm not only blaming the mother and child, if I start talking about the hopeless and useless men, that one no go end.

I'm more concerned about the mother cos I feel a responsible mother should be able to be up to date with the life of her 11 years old baby, for crying out loud kandi, when I was 11 my mum still bathed me on some days and if there was any change in my body she would know. This woman kept this girl at home for 2 months before taking her to the hospital, meanwhile the girl has already been pregnant for 4 months before her mum got to know.

I remember when I lost my virginity, it was really painful and walking was a bit hard that day as I was still hurting, how can this irresponsible mother not notice any change in her daughter's body or movement after she got deflowered? Its not as if the girl was r@ped, she was sleeping with 5 men for feck's sakes, the woman failed as a mother if you ask me .

Please, tell me, does your mom know every bad thing you've done growing up? Let's say your mother noticed the way you were walking and she asked you, would you tell her you just phucked a man? If you lied and she doesn't suspect anything foul, does it make her an irresponsible mother? Each generation tries to outsmart those above it. Even if a mother is involved in her child's life, she won't know every single thing if the child doesn't want to tell her.

I promise you, unless you've had a young teenager you won't understand how hard and frustrating it is.

Ada Nri1: That's another. But you know paedophiles will always b peadophiles. I am not absolving the pervs of any fault. Its just like blaming the devil for your sins.

What the phuck!! Paedophiles will be paedophiles? *face palm* You know what I don't blame you, I blame the society you have been brought up in where a big fuss is not made out of someone sleeping with a child. The parents will just give you the child to marry.

You won't understand until you've had a child and that child is being sexually abused.

BoboYekini: what decadence.
kandii, wa kawasaki , ko wa gba goody-goody

lol, what's this?

fukcwitme :
I want double fisting, both you and Idowuogbo's fist in me at once

Lmao! My boyfriend thinks we are effing disgusting!

lol

Idowuogbo: Fist? Na! Lets do foot in.

Kandi, u do fist, I'll do foot.

No, use your head. Lmao, I actually heard about a case where a man shove his head (don't know how true) up there and died.

Sisi_Kill: Amazing isn't it?

I don't even care what the men are saying. ...one expects only boorish and cave man mentality from them. It's the women's responses ranging laughing to hisssing that is just beyond appalling. Tomorrow they will turn around having hissy fits because men don't respecting them. How can they when we treat each other like rubbish. This is an 11yrs old child oh! How do you see past that number to start spewing nonsense about good for her, she learnt from her mother??!!

I suppose it is only natural seeing as the article itself is on places the emphasis on the number of guys who slept with her and not the girl's age. In a sane society the headline would have ended at pregnant. ...

11 YRS OLD GIRL GETS PREGNANT!!!!

God really really help us.

I thought the exact same thing. The ironic thing is women are usually the victims but are actually less sympathetic in cases like these than men. Especially, court cases where a woman has being raped, it's usually the men who sympathise with the victim. Women tend to find faults as in what was she doing there, why was she drinking etc. It's crazy!

Idowuogbo: Naaa! No 3somessss. I'll rada have ur azz to mi myself alone. *zooms in on her coochieee* wow bish! Get rid of ur amazon! Yucky!!!

lol

fukcwitme :
Only if you join the party

I hope you bringing the KY Jelly

do you want to get fisted?!

fukcwitme :
Ooooo baby! You aint tell me that before! I thought u were gone use them fingers. *pushes binger away and jaywalks over to kandii and bends down for her*

You been a very bad girl!

binger: she doesn't like strapons,she prefers the real thing*sticks tongue out*

I know what a woman wants.

fukcwitme :
I knew I shoulda called you but that niggah binger had a chocolate lollipop that had me dikcmatized

but, but I've got a chocolate strap-on.

fukcwitme :
Im angry at you cus you left me bending over all day waiting for you. My back hurts!

lol, why would you bend over and wait when you could have just called me.

You're welcome!

My question is Why the hell are you guys only blaming the child and mother?! What about the fricking MEN?!? How can men take advantage of a small child who hasn't even started secondary school yet?!


Fricking Africans!

Ada Nri1: Who is to blame?
Parents: for lack of proper supervision @ such an early age or Teachers: for late sex education or the girl: for lack of descipline with which to say NO to premarital sex .

What about the big men sleeping with these children?

WOOOOOOW!! Men these days!! Na small pikin nyash una dey follow?!! Nawa ooo!


This small pikin sef, for her to concentrate on her studies and being a child, she's there opening her legs for men. Children are growing up soo quick these days.