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If BOTH spouses are aware of each other’s RIGHTS to “freely mingle”, it is not “cheating”.

Forsaking “all others” was never in MY/OUR marriage contract! ❤️ THE REASON I CAN NEVER GET MARRIED IN ANY CHURCH OR MOSQUE, with one DIRTY pastor or iman coming close to me in the name of “cursing my marriage”.
I can’t marry a “forsaker of all others” either.

Open marriages rock!

Na “religious” marriages dey shout “cheat, cheater, cheatest” because THEY ARE HYPOCRITES who chant vows and make promises they cannot uphold or keep LIKE THEIR “GODS”!

IN HIS OWN IMAGE AND LIKENESS KE!
Try not to serve a “jealous GOD” las las!

Yeye dey boooooom!

Larcardii:
na why dem dey kill some of Una...so u don't want someone dat loves u...

Is that what you gathered from my “opinion”?

I repeat:

KanwuliaExtra:
Dear Nigerian husbands. . . . . . ❤️


Please, PAY THE DAMN BILLS and TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS. As in 50/50! I am fine with dat! That is what love and respect means to moi.Simple.

Not asking for much abi? I can love and respect myself with or without your help.

Thanks!❤️

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UyaiIncomparabl:
You are really stepping on toes too much these days, EXTRA EXTRA.

I think so too.
I barra watch it before I further enrage the anti-feminists and misogynists.

So lucky to have escaped “Nigerian Rapists”!
I can see them in tears on and off NL.

Nothing like better BLOKOS with MONEY!
Ya mama born you well.
Thanks for keeping all that in Delta State, close to home.

See fine fresssssssh “kpekusaaaah”!

Abeg, COVID nor dey reign for Africa again.
Find anoda dissis to take chop government allocation e jorrrr.

When she can bathe herself. Unless the daughter is physically handicapped.

Go siddon!
Smelling-t*t*-mouth.
See face like high-way-robber yown!

Any Malam from Niger or Chad can dust Tinubu to oblivion. There are MOSLEMS and there are MUSLIMS!

Abi Lagos mosque and Zamfara mosque na the same?

Na wah oooooo! RAPE EVERYWHERE.
Nigeria is not only the poverty capital of the world.

Rape capital nko?


Awon “Pasto Fat Oyinbo” please REPENT!!!!

Too many drug addicts in Nigeria I swear. Na ordinary eye?

eni4real:
No married woman will type this

You mean no WOMAN not married to a Nigerian man?

There are many married Nigerian women on Nairaland o. Let them come and share what their eyes, noses and ears have perceived all in the name of marriage.


Oya o! Wey awon “trust and obey” Chrislamic housewives of NL!

I don tok my own.

omoharry:
..Funny enough there are some guys that very loving and responsible.Its just that they are few and they love people that do not love and appreciate them. I believe some good loving and well brought up guys are available but they are like diamond that we have to look very well .
However, the nuisance and the irresponsible ones are available every where.They are the regulars Joes' in and about town and in churches. Dont worry, Love will come to you and do not let some irresponsible nuisance to make you think it does not exist among Nigerians men.

Abeggggggggi!
I don tok my own o.
Love and respect gwa kwa okwu dia!
I nor wan dem 419 LIE-LIE LOVE!
Respect with a woman SLAVING to to earn income, maintain home and raise children with ZERO assistance from the philandering, “loving and respectful” oaf of a husband?

I don hear!

That 1% you are talking about, I haven’t seen o.
Including the oloshi I have in my house.

All about economics.
Who is paying = who is marrying.
Simple.

Dear Nigerian husbands.
I don’t want either LOVE or RESPECT from y’all.
Reason? You are quite INCAPABLE of such basic emotions. Please, stop deceiving yourselves and acknowledge you are not created to give/receive love or respect.

Please, PAY THE DAMN BILLS and TAKE CARE OF YOUR KIDS. As in 50/50! I am fine with dat! That is what love and respect means to moi.Simple.

Not asking for much abi? I can love and respect myself with or without your help.

Thanks!❤️

And you are surprised?

Blame slavery, colonialism, ethnic-bigotry and RACISM!

Please, BEND THE KNEE ON for THE BLACK RACE!

Poverty is always a cure for infertility!

That picture is definitely not from Kaduna. Please, show us the real “shyte hole” picture.

When “GOD” created MEN. . . .?
Women became sitting ducks!

Foster homes? I never support. Only a few with decent humans to care for troubled teens.
What a shame.

For a lady without a high school diploma, she speaks remarkably well.

So sad to have to do cocaine at 11 YEARS OLD!!!!

Muhehehehehe. . . .

Dis woman sef! She is married to an anus-fingered husband and she is still making noise?
Instead of her to hide in shame?

Was looking for “the consequences”.

Wow! ? Already answered with TWO of my old IDs.

KanwuliaJara:
AlRRRRRRRRRight!!!!!
One of my IDs don land here!
Nothing more to h-add!

I REPEAT:

Gambrosia:
BECAUSE DENSE NIGERIAN MOTHERS AND WOMEN IN GENERAL ACCORD THEM SUCH PRIMITIVE 'CULTURAL PRIVILEGES'!

Upon all. . . no thank you o!
The more you 'submit'. . . the more you are seen as a fool!
No wonder women age in marriages. . .enough to look OLDER than their husbands or husbands' mothers!

What can I say. . . take a monkey ourra the bush. . . THE BUSH will always remain in the monkey.

What do we have left? BUSH MONKEYS!

Uyi168:
..
This one is already getting emotional over matter wey nor concern her...
Nawa..

Na me you wan take drag dis dull thread to reach page 3?

Getting emotional indeed. Over an over-flogged, drrrrrry topic?


Please buzz of my mentions and keep your “funky genotypes“ off my ID.
Thanks.


*like me dey come NL with uselesss recycled tory about ancient, genetic, blood craw-craws from cyber nonentities phew*

❤️

The man’s reaction is most puzzling.
They are not compatible. Period.

ZeroShenanigan:
Without checking your profile, I know this a female voice.
This is how majority of you always sound.
If I come come over here to seek for an advise during those period, people like you will ask me to go ahead without thinking of the implications.
Did you see me mention that I'm perfect? I'm a career also, AS. If I have known this earlier, I will insist on a relationship with only AA. Please, I can't stand any negative comments this moment as I'm a kind of guy that will never give a damn about your derailing opinion. I believe so much in God's will as well human personal endeavor to achieve whatever you desire. Gbogbo epe to ba she, o ma pada so ri e ni.
I bring out my story for others to learn ni. Only God knows what will happen later as I'm only contemplating divorce which I have not done yet. How many SS children have you helped to survive if you want people to continue breeding sickler?

Oh hell! You are already IN IT!
Deal with it and stop whining.
What implications with a child on the way?

I will insist on a relationship with only AA



Only God knows what will happen later as I'm only contemplating divorce which I have not done yet. How many SS children have you helped to survive if you want people to continue breeding sickler?

And who says an AA like me would wanno deal with you? You are extremely IGNORANT, immature and annoying.

The only lesson you can teach anyone with half a brain is to get a PROPER EDUCATION before discussing common sense issues on or offline.

I will not respond to you more than I have, since it would really be a waste of my precious time.

All the best!

GarfieldDenny:
In fact, women's nagging is a unique way to express intimacy. Women occasionally nag a few words, one is concerned about you, two is to want to attract your attention, remind you to ignore her. A mature man should know that the beloved woman suddenly becomes nagging, which is to alert you: she is upset, she is neglected, she needs your care, your coax, your love.

Absolutely 100% correct!
Just like when men become abusive!
It goes both ways.

No, you are not suffering from any medical condition. You are just cursed. People like you should only date and marry CULTISTS.

Simple.

Buuull Shyte! You are even “a copy cat” too?

How do you handle what?

Why in the world would you follow a man you are not married to, TO A REMOTE VILLAGE in this DAY and AGE?

Please IGNORE the LOCAL TOUT, and tell your family what YOU HAVE BEEN UP TO, so they can at least prepare for your disappearance or funeral.

WTF?

Please, there is nothing to be unhappy about. When you choose to be with someone, there are no inconveniences. You work through your problems together and build a formidable network of coping mechanisms.

Life always throws curve balls. I always welcome the challenges and try to deal with them as positively as possible. Yeah, it will be tough, but I don’t think I would want to be with anybody else, because I CHOSE to be WITH YOU.

You are frankly not ready for a relationship, not to mention marriage. The only reason you feel unhappy is that you are SELFISH and you lack INTEGRITY!

You are doomed to be unhappy in any relationship or marriage you get into anyhooooo. People like you always see the imperfections in others, while turning a blind eye to their own MEGA-FAULTS.

You lack resolve and will quit when the going gets tough. Are you the “GOD” that created people?

If you can’t accept your situation, please man up and leave the relationship. Hopefully, the next marriage won’t have BARRENNESS, HIV or CORONA as your excuse to be unhappy.

Shior!