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Is cheating a crime?
Everyone has the right to cheat!
If other parties are so-aggrieved, LET THEM LEAVE! Free world.

Simple!

Romangalactic:
I love this summary
Are you Taurus or Gemini?

Naaaaaaaaa. . . .


https://www.allure.com/story/libra-zodiac-sign-personality-traits

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Romangalactic:
That particular info caught my attention. You have the attention of my attention, I am aroused

Now, that is what I am talking about. This is why REAL men are turned on by me. No stress, no drama. I get them plenty. No time to waste on just one.

Since i came to that house no one has ever complain of such Event until now. I told her to enter we told her not to be afraid, i even read the bible from book of psalms and prayed for her. I told her she can go back to sleep but she refused saying she is scared. We allowed her stayed with us till land lady came back.

Unbelievable!!!!!
You sef dey act like “ boy from a village”!

You are a “tad weird” yourself.

Since then i stop taking her Seriously. It was the next week that this corona lockdown became necessary.

Really? You stopped taking her seriously INDEED? On what grounds?

What exactly is this thread about?
You only shared 2 MAJOR aspect of your character DEFECTS.

1. You are VERY IRRESPONSIBLE.
2. You lacked PROPER UPBRINGING as a child.

Too late to learn either at this point.
I expected that at YOUR AGE, you would have explored other options than your “preferred approach”. In SANER countries with child labor laws, such observations would have been reported to the appropriate authorities and have the USELESS guardians who employed an 11 year-old as a domestic-servant ARRRRRESTED.

Did it ever occur to you that this child is extremely disturbed and needs help?

I really can’t blame any of you. I blame the heartless “GOD” who keeps bringing hapless children into the gonads of men and women who could never afford to take care of them.

That child is DOOMED in a SHYTE-HOLE like Africa with all the so-called “churches” and “NGO’s” littered all over. Very unfortunate.

Surprise-Surprise!
Show me A NIGERIAN PASTOR and I WILL SHOW YOU A RAPIST!

Awon “annointed blokoses”!

Like the men will stay home to eat the food?
Can’t the side-chicks cook?

Always looking for domestic slaves to abuse.
Sheeeeh!

1. USING MATRIMONY TO ESCAPE POVERTY.

2. REPLICATING MISTAKES BY USING WESTERN/EXOTIC TEMPLATES OF MATRIMONY.

3. GENDER ROLES CONFUSION IN MARRIAGE.

4. WOMEN BEING MORE EDUCATED AND INDEPENDENT AND THE INABILITY OF BOTH MEN AND WOMEN TO ADJUST AND COMPROMISE ACCORDINGLY.

5. THE APPLICATION OF LUDICROUS RELIGIOUS AND ARCHAIC TRADITIONAL DOGMA THAT HAVE LOST RELEVANCE IN MARRIAGE.

*domestic violence is only a secondary factor resulting from the above factors*

Romangalactic:
I am going to list some Nairalanders who have intimidating personalities as well as those who only act like they do. This is from my observation and personal experience with some of them.
The list below is not exhaustive and you can add or edit as your spirit leads.

Nairalanders with intimidating personalities include:
Risenphoenix


Kanwulia


Sagamite
Crackhaus
Coogar
Biglittlelois
Illamina
Ubunja
Romangalactic
LadyHyppolita

Nairalanders who only act like they have intimidating personalities include:
Plead
Martinez69
Pocohantas
Bukatyne
Cococandy
LordKO
Ybaby
iLegend

Merahki
ChoccolatE



Please add or edit as appropriate.

Yup! You are very correct! I can only speak for me. I have NEVER encountered ANY on or offline that I felt intimidated by. Not even MY PARENTS! I am EXTREMELY intimidating. My tone of voice kpa-kpa! Nothing feminine about my voice.

One thing though, I ALWAYS HAVE LOTSSSSS OF BETA MALE SUITORS AND ADMIRERS. . . For 3 reasons.

1. Extremely genuine and KIND to ONLY THOSE WHO REALLY NEED HELP! I am NEVER FAKE! If I wanno “do” you, . . . . No “bible or koran” can come between that. . . . no emotions attached unless it is WORTH MY TIME. I won’t even dial your number after I PHOCK YA AZZZE! This heart of mine is not the kind “fools” can break!


2. I AM VERY INDEPENDENT AND HARRRRRD-WORKING! Shegggggey! I NEVER ASK MEN for ANYTHING! I love my own stuff. Any man dealing with me should KNOW his responsibilities. He does NOT have to tell me MINE, so what is there to discuss or argue about?

3. I am soooooo FUN to be with. Always positive, full so life and lots of laughter. NEVER A DULL MOMENT. A man is never a property or a trophy so I have no reason to be JEALOUS OR PETTY when it comes to “other women” matter. No stress at all. I put my MEN on a verrrrrry loooooooong leash to “piss around”, but when I “blow that whistle”. . . . Dog MUST enter house ke. I too love to “waka”, so wetin consine me? First to taya, please gerrrrrrAT!

I keep only very FEW male friends. I don’t keep “female friends” because I don’t do “emotional baggage”, gossip-clubs or unnecessary competition/girl-drama. I have no interest or patience for all that CRRRRAP, plus I love to MIND my business! My eyes RARELY see tears even when in pain. With females, it is EXTREMELY difficult to find ladies who relate on the same intellectual/emotional frequency as I do. No, not talking about being superior. All about compatibility.

If you CARRY A BIBLE, KORAN or ANY FORM OF RELIGIOUS BOOK you hypocritically tout around in your life, we can’t be “friends”. I am very allergic to PASTORS, chauvinists, misogynists, anti-feminists and traditionalists. I only associate with FREE-THINKERS like myself.

In the final analysis, OF WHAT UTILITY-VALUE is a person or group of persons on or offline to my life that I have to care about what they think or how they feel about me?

ZERO UTILITY IN MY LIFE ONLY MEANS ONE THING!

Go to hell!

1. You Read Other People Quickly

Your intuitive abilities are strong, and you form accurate impressions of people within seconds of meeting them. Dishonest, ignorant, and bigoted people can’t hide their true nature from you and this makes them nervous.
You aren’t afraid to call out bad behavior when you see it, and are quite capable of putting obnoxious individuals in their place.

2. You Get Straight To The Point

Have you often been told that you are “too blunt”, "too insensitive", or even “too honest”? If so, your personality might be intimidating to those around you!
Whilst most people like to ease into a conversation with small talk, this isn’t your preferred approach.
You’d much rather focus on big, important, or even abstract issues rather than what you had for lunch, the latest celebrity gossip, or your next-door neighbor’s vacation plans.

3. You Often Find Yourself In The Minority

You don’t conform just to meet the expectations of others, and you don’t go along with their requests if they don’t sit with your values. Because you pride yourself on being an independent thinker, it’s likely that you are alone in your opinions from time to time.
People with low self-confidence find you intimidating because they can’t understand what it’s like to validate yourself instead of looking to others for approval. You’ll also be unsurprised to learn that unintelligent people also find it uncomfortable to be around you, because they soon realize that your IQ far exceeds their own.

4. You Don’t Make or Accept Excuses

You don’t whine about your circumstances and you don’t see yourself as a victim, even if everything is collapsing around you. There is no place in your life for people who moan and complain.
Although you can be tender-hearted and kind, your willpower can make you appear resilient and tough, which can be intimidating. It’s not that you lack sympathy for those going through a hard time, just that you have no patience for people who would rather wallow in their own misery than take action.

5. You Find It Hard To Tolerate Stupid People

Your open-minded attitude and capacity for critical thinking means that stupid or ignorant people really get on your nerves. Perhaps you sometimes catch yourself thinking, “Why don’t they just read a book once in a while?” or “There’s no excuse for being that ignorant!”
Although you are quite capable of being polite and patient, you find it hard showing this because you have no desire to pander to the feelings of those who can’t understand high-level logic and concepts.

This is ME!

1. I can read people before they blink. Never WRONG about people either. I see their beyond their souls. I AM RARELY CONNED emotionally or financially. My senses are paranormal to say the least. Always sharpened when I encounter predators. Always on alert and I always self-educate about actions and consequences. Extremely resilient with a strong survival instinct. My only goal in life is: self preservation!

2. I am BLUNT to a fault. Can’t be a PASTOR, politician or a diplomat. Only CON-ARTISTS beat about both bushes and forests, because they thrive in chaos and confusion. I always go straight to the point. I am not the “sensitive” kind either. I usually can take way more than I dish out because my skin is way to thick to care about the antics of detractors. My feelings are rarely hurt and never for long. I easily forgive, but I NEVER, NEVER, NEVER EVER FORGET!

3. Oh dear! Majority? I can’t stand “group-think”! I always like to be UNIQUE and different. Being the majority is always dangerous. I like a balance. That’s how Jesus was killed too! By a “ majority”. I can’t stand groups, gangs, sororities or fraternities. Give me “a minority” any day, anytime. Minorities always think better than a majority. Minorities never STOP observing, asking questions or fighting for freedom equity and justice. The majority act like an oppressive CULT, with a baseless sense of entitlement. They reason I can NEVER do religion or politics.

4. I don’t like excuses when they become CHRONIC recipes for FAILURES. Learned enough from my own experiences. I can’t stand LAZY PEOPLE, weaklings or WHIMPS! I can tell people who genuinely need help and do not waste my time on those who wallow in self-pity. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. Must we all like “SATAN” or “JESUS”?

5. As for “STUPID” people? I constantly have to PRAY for strength. Just like you deal with CHILDREN. I can be stupid too, but I rarely make it a permanent condition. Dealing with disabilities of ANY kind will test my wit’s end and stretch it to the limit. I know my limitations will be lack of patience. I usually get help from a qualified care-giver or defer to superior authorities in those areas. I can only be around physically/mentally compromised people for so long.

I already know.
Most men suffer ED after a few conversations with moi. In fact, most have to smoke some “weed” for courage to navigate my mountains and valleys!

Most women avoid me or call me “a bully” when they can’t focus on issues at hand or feel inadequate.

I guess being raised by a single-dad has a lot to do with it. My mother is a classic AMAZON! OMG!!!! You can never WIN with her. So my gene-pool is a SUPER STRONG and DOMINANT personality. Blame the “GODS”!

I think like a man and do not act “like a lady” sha!

No apologies! I am doing just fine!

Good news. People like us have no self-esteem issues, don’t give a quarter of a razzmatazz what others think about us, cannot be bothered with “emotional-instability or care to be liked or loved.

We just care for only those who care for us, and our love and respect HAVE TO BE EARNED! No, we are not NARCISSISTS! We just get often misunderstood.

Datz all!

Ambode, see your mate fighting like a man!
Win, lose or draw!

Cowards in human skin = AFONJAKASSES!
Tueh!

Bini is to Edo as Northern Nigeria is to Nigeria.

I don’t like OSHIOMOLE, but BINI political ruffians should be man - handled for a change.

Na only dem get EDO state of GWOR-GWOR PIPO?

Imagine having the UGLIEST governors in Nigerian history and they can still make noise?
The greatest of all insults is to choose between OSHIOMOLE and OBASEKI!

Edo state is a big disgrace!

Verrrrrrrry UGLY BAZZZZZZARDS and BUZZZZZZZARDS!

Romangalactic:
I noticed. Your activity here has reduced tremendously when compared to your heydays.

Oh yeaaaaah!
Then I used to work nights and used NL to keep awake. For the past 5 years. . . . No addiction abeg!

Sleep is MOST important for my OLD age, and I have a lot of catching up to do. Makes me younger, less psychotic and more focused on the MOST important things NL or social media can NEVER offer.

Only when a man has become a LIABILITY to the woman. After all, it takes 2 to tango!

Not applicable. Only show up when I am idle.
Too many series to binge on Netflix, Hulu and Amazon Prime. The Spring-Summer weather is beautiful outside . . . . Too much to do outdoors too!


Those days are long gone!
I am addicted to my family and my JOB!
Nairaland is NEITHER, so. . . . . KPASH!

Personally. . . . . I was neither financially-insecure nor unhappy before marriage, so I did not get married for WEALTH OR HAPPINESS.

I got married FOR CONVENIENCE and I have remained financially-secure, HAPPY and the marriage is still SUPER-CONVENIENT.

Material comfort can equate to happiness for some and I see nothing wrong with that.
Comfort brings me happiness. I bring my own WEALTH to ANY MARRIAGE. Marriage is only for convenience.

You can only be unhappy in a wealthy marriage if you are CURSED or MENTALLY-HANDICAPPED!
Na “man” I go chop?

Marriage does not bring happiness either, so why suffer DOUBLE PUNISHMENTS in poverty?

I would rather suffer in WEALTH! At least I would not be starving for food!

Men are learning to marry UP too.
Good move. Show me the money jor!

Know yourself nor be curse sheeeeey?

I lied I lost my virginity riding bicycles.

Always trust your instincts!

Daz why the marriage lasted half a century.
Old-school/Christo-Sharia marriage NOT realistic NOW OR IN THE FUTURE!

Not an equitable composition in my opinion.

Ishilove:
I look at Maria, and I look at the woman Arnold cheated on her with, and I shake my head and wonder at men...

I tell ya!
Unforgivable!
The Beana-woman moved up the ladder, go born for a whole movie-star/governor. Arnold “go down low”!

I am sure the Beana-Husband dey happy sef! At lease his wife cheated with “beta dog”!

Na Arnold and Maria collect the MAJOR DISGRACE.

Arnold was tired of “pretty and classy” women, only a “she-bear” like this “URSULA”-looking woman could get “it up” in the bedroom. Time for a “beast”!

How old are you please?
He will soon step up his game and start phocking your azzzze! Watch out.

He is gradually making you his “bytch-woman”!
Na so e dey take start o!

cococandy:
ibkayee is sharp

Oh yes!
NL, like every concept in life has the same evolutionary principle of weeding/sieving the wheat from the CHAFF!

Like a diamond in the rough!

NL has been a HUGE DUNG-HILL for MANY YEARS! Water don level. Now, we can see clearly and CYBER-AGBEROS are becoming extinct.

Same way you train your DAUGHTERS!

When you meet THE RIGHT BOY OR GIRL!

It is extremely important to co-mingle with the opposite sex as early as possible without sexual activities of course. This prepares the young mind for the foundations of understanding how emotions and impulses affect self control and the decision-making.

KanwuliaExtra:
Now I have had enough time to reflect and deliberate on this subject matter, I am of the opinion that it may well be possible to forgive a spouse for bringing a love child into a marriage.

However, the reasons will depend on STRICTLY 2 factors.

1. A history of having unprotected sex and chronic cheating.

2. The circumstances under which the love child was conceived.

Every case has the underlying themes of infertility and betrayal.

If I were married to a man like Arnold, who has an extremely VULGAR disposition in dealing with women, I WOULD ACT NO DIFFERENT FROM MARIA SHRIVER.

Maria was from the “Kennedy Family” and she fell for “Conan, The Babarian”. JFK was NO BETTER than Arnold. Maria was very used to men in her family who could not keep their pants zipped up.

The whole scandal STUNNED her. To make matters worse, it happened RIGHT UNDER HER NOSE, ON HER MATRIMONIAL BED!

pocohantas:
The effort ehn! Damn!!

You are TOOOOOOO FUNNY!!!!!

Are you surprised? You wonder why cultism is rampant all over Nigeria.

You know something I have noticed with AFRICAN, FEMALE/MALE-SOCIOPATHS especially on NL?

When they “gbadun” you, they have no healthy means of expressing themselves but to verbally attack or body-shame you. They keep trying to intimidate, bully and terrorize you. . . . Just like their fathers did to their mothers!

Hiahn! Many NL IDs (male and female) are notorious for such behavioral disorders on and offline. It only exposes their altered mental status and A DEEP-SEATED level of inferiority complex.

Any time you post something, they can’t wait to unleash their acrimony or venom EVEN WHERE YOU NEVER ADDRESS THEM or they never have anything constructive to deliver.

Most chauvinistic, misogynistic and anti-feminist personalities can’t stand it when you remain unperturbed by their gimmicks over the years.

I would have been all over such posters in my past NL lives. But now, I am experiencing so much love, peace, prosperity and the highest level of spiritual maturity, I could not be bothered.

After 12 years being on NL? I have seen it ALL!
Very entertaining!

pocohantas:
“You must fight me...”

“I know I am vibrating your cunt guitar saxophone intricately inadvertently krinkrun krankum”


When it is not that you are mad!

Oh my world!

Now I have had enough time to reflect and deliberate on this subject matter, I am of the opinion that it may well be possible to forgive a spouse for bringing a love child into a marriage.

However, the reasons will depend on STRICTLY 2 factors.

1. A history of having unprotected sex and chronic cheating.

2. The circumstances under which the love child was conceived.

1Sharon:
Kobojunki is back

Did he/she ever leave?

ericsmith:
You gat me laughing so loud, infact if your spouse does not fart careless around d house & you guys make a joke about it, there is no love.

Love is always there. But the “sexiness”? GONE! Extreme familiarity between couples brings them closer, but at the expense of romance.