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nana228:No, I am referring to cases when the spouse eventually finds out and HOW THEY HANDLE IT. Do they forgive, stay in the marriage and move on, or they remain unforgiving, bitter, get separated/divorced and move on. Or do dey feel miserably-trapped, unable to forgive, move on BUT stay in the marriage? Maria never forgave Arnold. She is stil LEGALLY-MARRIED to Arnold. She has to some extent moved on with her “old-new“ lover. The case of Arnold and Maria is quite complicated. |
liberalchick:Oh no! I am referring to cases where the spouse EVENTUALLY finds out while still married, like the case of Maria and Arnold. You are referring to the other case, where Mr. Beana was TOTALLY in the dark. ![]() |
postmann: ![]() LWKMD!!!! You will be very goooood at writing “literary KPORRNO” I swia. See as you juss dey describe “ya fantasy”? You still dey alive on and offline? ![]() What have all these got to do with this thread? ![]() Those days don passsss wey I go siddon for work dey type crrrrrap to posters like YOU on and off NL. Glad I can wait till my days off to read nonsense from posters like “YOU and your ilk”, who can’t stick to topics without interjecting “personal mis-feelings” into every gaddem thread they show up on. I don really give a piece of ratzzzarse what you think about me. I thought you would have grown up by now. Very entertaining. ![]() Please, have a seat at the very back of this thread, till your “SUCRUTUMS” have something to offer on this thread besides my “vulva” to fantasize about. ![]() * I tok am say some men go shed tears on and off line when woman begin play the same game * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ky42q5dnp2k
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It is not as easy to walk away in MOST CASES. I think MEN are less tolerant and forgiving than women. I also believe it is more difficult for African women to walk out of a marriage when the man has an insane amount of wealth. Much easier in western cultures. But the case of Arnold and Maria not finalizing their divorce AFTER NINE years? I wonder! ![]() |
Alero3Arubi:Shey Na “research” you want? ![]() You want “focused” interviews from NLanders? Where do you expect to get these interviews from? There are already sooooo many topics online about this. Just trying to share them: Ok. Let us wait for the “focused interviews” on NL. Good luck! |
A case of 2 CHEATS in a marriage? ![]()
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DontBullshitMe: ![]() This goes both ways. Wait till I bring the woman with “love children” in their marriages. Women bytching will be child’s play. Men will shed tears on and offline! |
ifyalways:Wooooow!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Aminnnn ooooooo!!! Nne kedu? Was wondering about you. O ga di ri gi mma! Iseeeeee!!!! |
. . . . . PHOCK LESS!!! Save your energy for job hunting. |
In some ways. But in most? Negative! I keep only 20%. The rest I throw in the garbage. The ability to adapt to various circumstances and the cultural heritage(the arts). FINISH!!!!! African upbringing stands for: Patriarchal DOGMA? Chauvinistic MEDICRITY? Nauseating MISOGINY? Religious VODOOISM? Lackadaisical WORK ETHIC? Domestic, physical and sexual ABUSE? Gender INEQUALITY? Spiritual POVERTY? Cultural PREJUDICE? Lack of SELF PRIDE and REPRODUCTIVE CONTROL? Ethnic and religious BIGOTRY? Intellectual and Financial ILLITERACY? Control FREAKISHNESS? Relationship/marriage ROLE CONFUSION? Sense of ENTITLEMENT? Poor COMMUNICATION SKILLS? Inability to GIVE AND APPRECIATE LOVE? Materialism and VANITY? Amoral HYPOCRICY? Virginity RITUALISTS? Homophobes and Sexual DEVIANCE? LAWLESSNESS? Psycho-Social MISFITS? Poor ROLE-MODELLING? Political SYCOPHANCY? Lack of personal PRINCIPLES? Civil COWARDICE? Corrupt GENETIC POOLING? Unpatriotic PSYCHE? Low SELF-ESTEEM? Poor COPING MECHANISM? Hell To Da No! Tufiaaaaaakwa I say!!! |
This is TWISTED! ![]()
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This is WHAT I DON’T understand! https://www.google.com/amp/s/news.amomama.com/amp/190268-arnold-schwarzenegger-confirmed-that-mar.html
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A major screw-up indeed! How can a MAN of this status perform this kind of BLUNDER? With a family and everything going for THEM ALL? Maria was PREGNANT WITH HIS CHILD! ![]()
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I absolutely love the fact that Arnold Schwarzenegger never abandoned his son, but he hurt his wife and children badly. Arnold and Maria separated and yet to finalize their fivorce. Maria already moved on and has a new boyfriend.❤️
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Case study:Joseph Beana. This was the ULTIMATE BETRAYAL!
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Only 4 years ago. . . .
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It is only been 4 years. Barron Trump has grown into A HANDSOME, TALL young man.❤️
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Your #4. Identity, social construction and meaning. Like I started earlier, depends on who you ask. It is all here: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/oct/02/the-desire-to-have-a-child-never-goes-away-how-the-involuntarily-childless-are-forming-a-new-movement |
Your #3. Stigma. From whom? From Where? ![]() This should interest you. ![]() Is this the kind of stigma you are referring to? ![]() https://link.springer.com/article/10.1186/1471-2393-13-72There is a tendency of society to blame the woman for failed conception [13]. Consequently, the accepted norm is that infertility in a couple stigmatises the wife as barren and the husband as sterile. In this manner the implication of sterility presents men with an opportunity to abandon barren wives and de-stigmatise themselves by opting out of childless marriages.https://academic.oup.com/socpro/article-abstract/33/4/268/1644853?redirectedFrom=fulltext |
Your #2. Religious and Spiritual Effects? ![]() What religions are you using to illustrate this point? How? I can’t fathom. Please, explain. ![]() |
Your #1. Marital Relationships. In these 2 articles for example, childlessness is NOT a reason for marital strife. . . . . Only in places like NIGERIA AND CONTINENTS LIKE AFRICA. . . . . Where marriage is SOLELY for BREEDING PURPOSES.✔️ https://bestlegalchoices.com/6-common-causes-of-marital-problems/ |
These are the impacts you identified. Please explain how and why, so I can understand. Alero3Arubi: |
Alero3Arubi:Ok. My experience again. KanwuliaExtra:NO IMPACT. A STALEMATE! Simply put: ONE MAN’S CURSE IS ANOTHER MAN’S BLESSING. I work and live with all kinds of married people with mixed reviews on having children or not. At the end of it all. . . No difference. |
Besida:Ok. I have stated mine. Over to others. KanwuliaExtra: |
Orgasmcoach:
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Alero3Arubi:I read it and the title is misleading then. More like a QUESTION, than a research. Even when there is ONE child, you still include the couple as “childless”? ![]() Please this is strictly for those who have relations who are childless, or couples who are experiencing childlessness at the moment or have experienced childlessness at one time in their life. Alero3Arubi:What exactly is the purpose of your research. All research usually have a PURPOSE STATEMENT. I don’t see any. Just your own THEORY. Where are your statistical data? ![]() No research here o. You already have a conclusion.
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No madam. YOU starved yourself. Simple. In this day and age? ![]() A man or woman will be sex-starved? I-N-D-A-B-O-S-K-Y! Nor be to “cum” and “go”? ![]() Very easy! |
Yes. Just like “miscarriages” are spontaneous abortions that close the wombs! They can always be re-opened WITH THE RIGHT KEY! ![]() |
Alero3Arubi:That has a cure too. 1. Surrogacy. 2. Adoption. 3. IVF. In this day and age, childlessness REMAINS A CHOICE! If you want BIOLOGY, you can get BIOLOGY! |
Plead:Dash you an ID? All have Kanwulia in them. Negative. No PMs please. |
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