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KanwuliaExtra:
Now I have had enough time to reflect and deliberate on this subject matter, I am of the opinion that it may well be possible to forgive a spouse for bringing a love child into a marriage.

However, the reasons will depend on STRICTLY 2 factors.

1. A history of having unprotected sex and chronic cheating.

2. The circumstances under which the love child was conceived.

pocohantas:
The effort ehn! Damn!!

pocohantas:
“You must fight me...”

“I know I am vibrating your cunt guitar saxophone intricately inadvertently krinkrun krankum”


When it is not that you are mad!

1Sharon:
Kobojunki is back

ericsmith:
You gat me laughing so loud, infact if your spouse does not fart careless around d house & you guys make a joke about it, there is no love.

postmann:
It's so difficult for you to honour your own "BYE" that you have responded twice to my posts afterwards. I'm afraid I must have strummed the 6 strings of your emotional guitar, leaving you breathless and incapable of self-honour.

COUGAR? Heard about him and how he smashed the hearts of you wanderlust-ful and wayward women in the family section .

I'll let you run free with the cùnt self-flattery.

ibkayee:
I agree that women are more encouraged to be expressive with their emotions.

By the way, I had a typo, it should have been 'Women handle pain better than men', not 'more', just to clarify

Whenever they say women handle pain better, they're usually trying to say it stings women less 'naturally'. They're aware of the pain it can cause, but they use it to justify the impact on men vs women cheating.

First of all it can be argued that no matter how much we are raised to accept/process certain things, a natural emotional response oftentimes outweighs the 'logic' forced upon us, even if your feelings are masked..or 'rationalized' in your 'own way', you still feel it.

Secondly, not everyone is the same, so it's impractical to paint all women with this brush. Same way not all men that cheat do it solely because of physical desire, it can be emotional too, and vice versa for women. At the end of the day, it still hurts the same way, but they know this, it's all mental gymnastics

postmann:
VISION 2020? Inspired by the late General Abacha, are you? Huahahaha!

Alas! It's 5 months gone already in 2020 and it seems like it's the same sad old story --- your VISIONs are still a mirage. Nothing has changed much. Your confidence is still built around "having a job" and dwelling in a different time zone. That should have been the expectation from the first couple of years after you and your roaches-infested undies escaped poverty by migrating overseas after selling the last ancestral piece of land that should have been inherited amongst your 6 male siblings.

Your personal routine/job is of no relevance to anyone. It beats me how you're quick to divulge little personal details on the internet.

Between your brain and your cùnt, i can't tell which is softer.

Tinyemeka:
To a major extent, the income bands of people tend to be determined by the level of their cerebral aptitude.

If you're smart with above average intelligence in today's world, you're very likely to secure a well paying job or run a successful business. If you're very smart, then it's very likely that you'd have a lot of good options to choose from as far as very well paid jobs are concerned. E.g Doctors, architects, investment bankers, fund managers, data scientists, even engineer ex-boyfriends, etc. For some of these people, acing exams, interviews and so on just happens naturally without much stress. Because they were born smart.

Conversely, the not so smart have got the odds stacked up against them and would have to really work hard to make an impact. Unfortunately, they were just born that way. They didn't get to choose their intelligence level.

Biko, it's not that I'm making a case for the not so successful to blame their (mis)fortunes on their aptitude levels - hardwork is very relevant - but one's natural intelligence also plays a key role. I think.

Tinyemeka:
Like seriously?!

I'd always thought you were a single sugar mummy.

No offence.

ibkayee:
Stop using this myth to make yourselves feel better about doing the very same thing most of you admit you can't handle.

Women handle pain more than men', what does that even mean? Are we inherently predisposed to handling emotional/mental pain more than men? How come this only applies when you want to justify cheating?
Women do not naturally feel any less hurt than a man would. They're just raised to accept it more.

The menstrual example is just...ridiculous lol

Just do your cheating and go, without all the mental gymnastics to justify it and make yourselves feel better

cococandy:




Why thank you!


Laughing at the minion part.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1389861/amp/Arnold-Schwarzenegger-love-child-Biographer-says-dark-truth-emerge.html?ico=amp_articleRelated

This extraordinary snapshot is the most startling illustration yet of the brazen manner in which Schwarzenegger betrayed his wife, Maria Shriver, who had no idea that the former governor had fathered the child during an affair that saw him and the housekeeper regularly making love in the marital bed.

After sleeping with her boss, Patty would even dress in Maria’s high-priced designer gowns, decorating the outfits with pieces from her employer’s cherished jewellery collection.

The revelation that Patty, a trusted housekeeper and friend to whom Maria confided her distress at Arnold’s philandering, not only made love to Schwarzenegger almost on a daily basis, but also gave birth to their son Joseph, now 13, has made headlines around the world. But as the former muscleman’s biographer, I am not in the least bit surprised.

cococandy:
That’s what I think about when considering leaving or staying. I dislike living in rancor and bitterness so if I say I’m going to stay, there’s has to be acceptance and it has to be from the depths of my heart.

How does that work out? Invite the kid for thanksgiving and Christmas? Big happy family? Make conversation with the other woman?
“So tell me Lisa, how did you meet my husband?”

Surreal

Yet the revelation that he has fathered a love child barely scrapes the surface of the real Schwarzenegger — an immoral, arrogantly reckless man with a monstrous attitude to women and a propensity for having unprotected sex.

Actress Jane Seymour claimed this weekend that Schwarzenegger has two other secret love children. The 60-year-old told American TV station CNN that she was ‘not remotely surprised’ by news that he and his wife Maria have separated.

'His fondness for sadistic practical jokes, his delight in humiliating women and his belief that he is so physically blessed that the rules of normal morality don’t apply to him has been known to me since 1988'

‘He was obviously jumping the gun before everyone else told the world the news. And from what I gather there will be lots of information coming people’s way. I heard about two more children. I met someone who knows him well.’

https://www.google.com/amp/s/pagesix.com/2019/06/29/arnold-schwarzeneggers-kids-turn-their-backs-on-dads-love-child/amp/

postmann:
It would have been more honourable stepping out from the shadows and make your entreaties in the open rather than employing your lousy reserve psychology.

I'm not here to revive/or satisfy the unlived cravings of old bitties like you, but to point them to where they once lost track.

postmann:
Of course you do give a damn! All narcissists and social media addicts like you do give a damn about their PP.

Waiting till after work to reply to my jabs was a monumental achievement and you needed to share it online too!

And someone said she's a feminist! Mental vegetable!

postmann:
How does it feel editing your post several hours after posting it because it pales in comparison to the post it was meant to dismiss?

I know the feeling of inadequacy has been an age-long companion of yours.

cococandy:
It’s not more painful when it’s them. They are just entitled and believe their feelings are more important.

Women are usually told to suck it up and forgive

cococandy:
30 years is truly not a joke. Something like this will shock you. Would I leave after 30 years of marriage?
Hmm. Serious question. Honestly I don’t know either. I’m guessing it depends on the general state of the marriage at that time. Like...

how is everything else?

Do I still like my spouse?

Is he or she actually sorry about it?

What would I loose or gain from a divorce at that point?

What will it cost me? (I don’t play with my money.)

Am I ready for an open marriage? If you’re having kids with other people, don’t except faithfulness.

In fact after 30 yrs of marriage, am I still sexually active with him or her? That would influence other decisions too.

I can’t know until that time comes.

Ishilove:
What is with the cheating triangle? Is it that they just wanted to taste one another's privates because me I don't understand.

pDudd:
Hahahahahahahahahahaha. No entity o. I'm just a long time fan of yours.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2087151/amp/Mildred-Baena-Mother-Arnold-Schwarzeneggers-love-child-divorces-husband.html

Arnold has secretly been supporting Mildred and their son for years.

Earlier this month it was rumoured that the actor and his estranged wife Maria were calling off divorce proceedings after they were each spotted with a ring on their wedding finger.[/Arnold has secretly been supporting Mildred and their son for years.

Earlier this month it was rumoured that the actor and his estranged wife Maria were calling off divorce proceedings after they were each spotted with a ring on their wedding finger.