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SourYoghurt:
hey Karleb, do you have to pay to use Leetcode?

No bro.

There enough free questions to study for 3 years.

Gerrard59:
Bros, I do it the Yoruba way. Tissue then I have a bath. The moment I defecate, I must baff. It is sacrosanct.

Are you saying you would have your bathe at work?

I like how this government pretend like they are serious.

ravensckar:
If truly you meant what you typed above, then, you've just confirmed their worry that you're still immature and not fit for marriage yet.

There's no point explaining anything to someone like you, it's obvious that you're under a Naija lady's spell.

THREE CATEGORIES OF PEOPLE THAT ONE SHOULD NEVER ADVISE.

1- A man who is under a NAIJA LADY's spell.

2- A person who supports Arsenal FC

3- A card carrying member of the APC.

Nonexisting1:
I have some time and in a good mood so let me drop this. You are not 30 yet, why the rush? You have a business that is paying well now but you are not sure about tomorrow thanks to our useless government. This is your opportunity to do some things before bigger responsibilities like children school fees start coming your way and stop you from doing them. Before going into marriage, make sure you're a man first and the first step to becoming a man is to have a place of your own whether in the village or in the city where you hustle. If you don't have the means, I can understand. If you have the means which I suspect you do, build a house and get yourself a means of transport before getting married. Not when your wife is in labour now, you'll be running around to buy recharge card to call Okey the keke driver. Women always push unprepared men into marriage and when the responsibilities that come with it are not met, they blame the same men. Your mother may also sense that you're not ready and is deliberately trying to slow you down. Sit down and draw a list of things that are needed to be done first before marriage. If your girlfriend can't wait until they are done, she is not for you. You're welcome for the 'thank you'. Now let me go ahead and make my dick available to this girl, she has been waiting.

Bros, God bless you.

I don't understand their obsession with marriage. This guy is just 29!

What do you think will happen to your business when dollar becomes N2,500?

Let's converge here again on Sunday for the great humiliation.

Another L

SourYoghurt:
good evening Karleb, you are one of the guys I look at to draw inspiration and motivation from. Big fan of your leetcode consistency.

About getting job, I to spam folks on Reddit like those guys who beg on nairaland (not annoyingly sha), I see a conversation I think i can contribute in, I do that and at the end, I promote myself and what I can do.

Also, if I find someone with an agency or someone who says something that points that they're a company executive, I cold message them and promote myself, However, it's a number game, and I am not getting paid their minimum wage but a fair compensation for my skill level.

Thanks man. Really appreciate.

They need to revoke the license of a lot of parents.

SourYoghurt:
hi Karleb, I used a disposable email to create this account. I do not have access to the email address linked to this account.

Hello bro. How are you doing?

I read through your dairy and I see you eat international gigs/jobs for breakfast. 😁

Please, can you share some tips. I'm a backend guy Laravel/PHP with little years of experience. I'm presently employed in Nigeria though.

Thanks man. I'd be expecting your feedback.

How are you bro? That was my message.

The Bible actually said husband and wife should submit to one another.

How many women can cope in a sexless relationship?

A king!

abduleez1:
The way Jonathan Majors career went with a puff is still a shocker to me. And yes, just like you've speculated, it's linked to his skin colour.
Ain't no way things remain the same if he was white.

Look at Gina Carano. Person wey no even get talent sef dem still get people wey dey support am. Mel Gibson of today still has support and people defending him. Even Celebs.

And that's why I like Kanye's no frills nonchalant attitude. See the way Adidas take sharply blacklist am.... funny enough he's the person with the biggest contribution to the brand. And them no reason am reach few days sef before dem take action. That action messed up their financials that year.

As for the Black Race ever getting sense..... I seriously doubt that. Not in my lifetime sef cos mugus overpopulate our community and can't see the bigger picture. Division will surely continue. Black people have this myopic mindset to things and always live for the now. Put a Black man in a place of power and the next thing he's thinking of is how to oppress others or revenge against those who have wronged him in the past.
Look no further than Barack Obama.

Bruh, sometimes I wish I was Indian. If God wan put me for third world country at least make he put me for serious people that knows their history and working to rewrite it.
India in the next two decades will be untouchable just like Israel and only have China to contend with.
Look at many CEOs of top Fortune 500 companies, you see Indians placing themselves in spheres of power. They're discreetly following the Jewish template. When they start creating and managing Hedge Funds, Assets Management that's when the full world control kicks off.

One of my guys here once said, when God created black man, he started laughing.

luminouz:
Karleb if you don't shût it right now ..I will...😡

Go fuccc.k yourself!

luminouz:
Shût ya ass up. You are a bitter soul. You came with all the negative energy and yet you blaming others for shiit

Suspect is an irresponsible male that cannot sacrifice his comfort temporarily for the better good of his own child.

advanceDNA:
Not buying him a car won't significantly hurt his father either too..he already gives him money monthly which is also a good thing like u are claiming the father did...
.. U are just guilt trippin the guy to do more than he doesn't have to do...it's not like he's a billionaire because he lives abroad .....

I find it funny that it's people that give so little that demand the most. I am sure that the mum would never ask him to buy her a car.

On God, what I hate most in this world is irresponsibility.

idahme:
Read through his article you would understand that his father is the reason he is even in this position, some of you are so entitled that the little deeds of fathers are neglected because he didn't do what is in your head but rather what he thought at the time to be the best even if it wasn't.

His dad sponsored his welfare, education to undergraduate level and if his father's decision while he is pursuing his postgraduate education affected him does it mean all the goods his dad did from zero age till he graduated from school is nullity?

Some of you guys who make this statement have never been responsible or accountable for anyone in your life. A typical entitled man who will vilify his dad when he doesn't have his own children and gets to understand when he is married with children. I also see dudes who also throw shades at uncles and then they become an uncle and can't do to the nephews what they expect their uncles do for them a typical case of do for me what I can't do for others.

Maybe you should take your rant to the irresponsible and entitled. I know a portion of my salary that goes to my siblings per month. I don't even have to do it but I know I have to because they are my blood. I also know how much I have designated from the salary I have not even received. They are not my children o.

It's why I absolutely hate it when I see dads who can't sacrifice their comfort temporarily for their children that did not asked to be born.

As an uncle, I have done more than all my uncles combined and I am just starting.

If you think training your own child to university level deserves an accolade. Then okay.

Man! Take this your negative energy away.

idahme:
Did you hear h say his dad sponsored his education to University level? If his dad mad other decisions which didn't favor him does it mean his dad didn't try for him? Did your father sponsor your education? If no why bring your hate to influence him?

Most of you guys who vilify your dad you will understand what your dad went through when you have your children

Sponsoring to university level is the basic. What was the father supposed to do, not sponsor his child to university level? Please, let's stop celebrating mediocrity.

If you are from an average home, you'd know that to be great, your parent have to sacrifice more especially when you have the potential.

Nobody forced any person to have kids. If you can't take care and sacrifice for your kid, why have them?

When I have my kids, after myself, they will be my greatest investments.

If care is not taken, Tinubu himself will start complaining.

If professors are earning less than 500k, I wonder how much these government lawyers are earning.

Use very hot water.

It would kill their eggs and kill them instantly.

amazinghands:
I relocated to the United States about eight years ago. My relationship with my dad has been strained and continues to deteriorate.

Background:
I grew up in a lower-middle-class family with both my mom and dad working hard. Everything changed when my dad started earning significant money. His newfound wealth led to a lifestyle filled with parties, women, and alcohol (to be fair, he earned his money, so he had the right to spend it as he pleased). He built a hotel and was barely home afterward.

2010:
While I was in college, I wanted to leave Nigeria due to the incessant ASUU strikes. I told my dad I wanted to study abroad. Initially, he agreed and gave me the funds to start the process. I was admitted to a school in Ukraine and secured a visa, but he later said he couldn’t afford to send me abroad. This decision felt contradictory, as his lifestyle said otherwise. (To be fair, it’s his money, and he has the right to decide how to spend it.)

2016:
I got admitted to a master’s program in the U.S. and approached my dad for help again. He told me to "cut my coat according to my size" and said he couldn’t sell any of his properties for the sake of a child studying abroad. (Again, to be fair, he was right—he had already paid for my college tuition in Nigeria.) Around the same time, he married another wife.

On the other hand, my mom sold her only piece of land and some jewelry to give me half of my first semester's tuition. After involving family members, my dad reluctantly gave me ₦400,000, stating that was all he could afford. I thanked him for the support.

Fast Forward to Today:
I struggled and worked odd jobs to make ends meet, determined never to ask him for help again. Over time, I’ve become financially stable, secured a good job, and am now a permanent resident. I give my dad a monthly allowance and occasionally send more during festive seasons. My mom, on the other hand, gets spoiled with gifts, extra money, and I’ve even invited her to visit and spend time with me in the U.S.

Now, my dad is broke and has suggested I buy him a car and increase what I do for him, despite the fact that my parents are separated and he currently lives with his second wife. I’ve told myself I won’t go above and beyond for him, especially since he chose to prioritize his lifestyle and the new wife (who came with a stepson). I find it hard to reconcile his past decisions with his current expectations.

Am I in the wrong here?

Don't do more than you are already doing for him.

I'd advice you withdraw the cash and set it on fire rather than giving it to an irresponsible adult.

Don't reward bad behavior, please I'm begging you.

People will guilt trip you here but don't panic.

When you needed him most, he made the decision not to support you his child in his right senses, which simply means he doesn't love you. Now that he needs you, reciprocate the gesture.

Please rest.