₦airaland Forum

I am waiting for the day a woman will do this.

ActiveFarms:
Why are we so greedy that we sell our posterity into slavery. The moneys gotten from 20,000 acres from mechanized farming over 100 years is at least going to be 5,000 times the amount that would be paid for them. Why does Africa continually produce inept leaders without any futuristic ideologies or vision at all. Once they see a little piece, they loose control. This is an absolute wrong decision and a cover by Elon for a much bigger agenda

You are a fool!

Sonnobax15:
Good day Nairalanders.....Hope everyone of you here is fine and doing just great?

Well, there's a situation my siblings and I have found ourselves in presently.......It's been 19 years since we lost our mom and those years were really hectic years for us,due to the circumstances surrounding her death because she was murdered................But somehow, God came to our rescue and we've all grown now

Before my mom's death,she had a sister who was her only blood sister, tho they had other step siblings...... Honestly,as I kid,I remembered how many times my mom tried to resolve the dispute between she and her only blood sister but all were to no avail.....She(my aunt) was hell-bent on the fact that she'd rather die than to settle things up with my mom.......Even in her death bed,i remember how my elder sister went to inform my aunt about our mom's situation and everything that led to what happened to her,but she gave deaf ears and even chased my sister away.....

I was only a little boy then,but I remembered every single thing that transpired then ..

Now here's the problem.........My aunt has been on our necks, begging us to forgive her......There was a time we were invited to our maternal home for a family meeting,and my aunt happened to be around.....She knelt and was weeping and begging us to forgive her....... Personally, I'm a soft-hearted person and I've toured my heart to see if I could forgive her and I think I'm about to let bygones be bygones.......But my other siblings especially my elder sister has sworn never to forgive her . Tho I've tried to talk to my sister but she has vehemently refused never to forgive her .....My other uncles have summoned another meeting but my sister has vowed to ignore their calls.......

Should my sister be blamed for finding it hard to find a place in her heart to forgive my Aunt, considering the fact that she's a Christian?

Or make everybody just mind him business just like we've been doing over the years?

The matter just tire me I swear but it's all good tho..

It is people like you that reward bad characters.

I don't know her o, but your aunt should go to hell.

candygist:
Na online you dey. So you can fabricate whatever you like to make you feel good.

Na only you among all these your family members no get sand.

Tell us how your great great grand father also built hotels all over the country.

I'm reading...

Tell me more about your family and inheritance.

Baba Landlord!

House is not an achievement, get that into your skull!

sky is blue.

candygist:
Empty barrel, nobody asked you for your family details or history. Keep your life business to yourself when having a conversation on a public forum. Comparing and telling me things you don't know about Dangote.

If having a house is not a big deal, your parent wouldn't have bothered to own properties according to you.

If we find out now, e fit be one face me and slap wey you inherit from your grandpa dey make you do yanga.

House is not a luxury, it's a necessity.

My late grandma, mum and dad have 2 big houses, 2 mini houses and an undeveloped land between them.

If the statement above hurts you, then you are as wicked as APC and Tinubu!

lynx200:
This idea of making women out to be devils by men is annoying. Apart from physical and emotional attributes, men and women are almost the same.

There are nice women as there are nice men, and there are greedy women as there are greedy men. I have been in situations where I had to solicit some urgent funds from male and female friends. The results have been mixed.

There are female friends of mine who have helped me tremendously with finances. Even my ex girlfriend had done so, even after breaking up with her. So I don't understand this trend of trying to villify women through this prank.

The country is in bad straits financially and many people are struggling, so you should be grateful if you get someone to spare you money no matter how small.

You will be surprised you experience is one in a thousand.

Privilege blinds because it is duty of privilege to blind.

AwokenVawulence:
So I live in a flat apartment. One of my neighbour is a family of 9 the grandma , the parents and 6 children ( one is yet to be born).
I usually talk with them , we have a good relationship. They are currently struggling due to the economy right now so things are hard . I have a pet cat and I try to feed it everyday at least twice .
Yesterday I gave it a boiled egg in the evening and the neighbours mom saw me and said why would I be wasting food on a cat , that why would I give a cat egg. Omo I didn't know how to respond.
So I'm asking is it bad to be giving an animal food because I know sometimes the family don't eat and I help with the little I have ,but i like the cat and wouldn't want to let go of it

Were you the one that asked to have 6 children?

Please keep feeding your pet well but stop doing it openly, it may lead to envy from them.

candygist:
Your parent and not you.
And for your information, property pass property.

You're right, property pass property.

I'm still a young man, why would I emotionally and financially invest in a non-mobile asset?

Dangote doesn't have a house outside of Nigeria, he also rents in Abuja.

I honestly don't understand how people brag about houses, in my state we live in a new site and even the poorest have a house.

What's the big deal?

She needs to face the consequence.

Nigeria is lawless Nigeria is lawless but if them wan show you pepper, na then you go know say law dey for Nigeria.

idahme:
Men are not better and u beg men for a living

Don't mind them.

Why don't thy ask for something in return too?

idahme:
Why don't this talk apply to men? Upgrade your men circle? Because irrespective of whether he is worth 2k or less a man still gives regardless. This is not a circle thing it's a general problem of women in our society. A woman who does this even if she starts making 1million won't give but will continue begging as if she is physically challenged person.

They should act better, yes as you asserted those ladies should be dropped as friends.

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I really love this response! Men at all levels give. Why can women at all levels give, even if you do not have enough, give out of the little you have.


Nigerian women are naturally stingy, no matter the cycle. It is the default for them to take take take and not give.

It takes a self-conscious girl to work towards not being stingy and being a giver.

Many of them that we consider good girls are those that do not ask, but many of these not-askers are very stingy.

We know it's not a skit.

I'm sure they had the hot couple sex after the fight and he's trying to save her.

I'm sorry for this man

Power is power!

BareFacedLies:
Madam go and get yourself a boyfriend, someone who will be fuçking your brains out

Can they take care of the boyfriend?

Women that are very stingy even to themselves.

When you agreed to marry the man, you no tell us. Na now when everything don scatter you con dey give us super story.

These people are collecting some people's gratuity monthly, yet, they still won't let you enjoy the basics.

Johncuppa:
O yes! I'm stating the outliers.
On the other hand, what is the salary of a nurse? Tell me how much do nurses make?
I don't know many doctors, but the few nurses I see around me do not look like it, not even sure they make money than someone in an average multinational.
So please, let me know what makes nursing a high profession and left lecturing out.

I never said female medics are too big for a lecturer to date or marry. I don't even see the hype in female medics.

I have no opinion on weather their profession is a high class profession or not but lecturing is not a high class profession.

Johncuppa:
A skilled lecturer earns fat and big. They ones that know how things are do not make their money from just salary.
I know one, Gbenga Bello (you can try goggle the name), he makes his money from visitations to other universities, especially private schools, man is a world class researcher.

There are high professions, there are people who are high in their professions.
I heard of a teacher in a British school that earns 650k and a principal collecting 1.2m
It's not as if all medics make fat money like that too.

You are giving me the outliers. It is what everyone has been saying here to cover up.

Most lecturers do not visit, do not teach in british schools. How many british schools do we even have in Nigeria? Most lecturers do not have a p. Hd and are not professors. I dare say 70 % of lecturers' highest qualification is a masters.

Professors in nigeria don't earn upto 500k, so how much do you think a junior lecturer would be earning?

Johncuppa:
You bad bro. So lecturing is not a high level grade job?

How much is their salary?

livetalk:
Don't be surprised that about 80% of these 100.000 people hardship have thrown into jobless were shouting "Emilokan!" up and down during the 2023 election campaign. 😂 😂 😂 😂
Let them go and eat agbado naw!

Congratulations.

I love the tenacity.

Honestwithme:
You expected the guy earning 150k to wait till he get to 50 yrs of age when he will eventually earn a bigger salary. Even those who earn below 50k got marry to those who can manage with them and eventually built a family....If you dey wait for millions before taking some decision you just get stuck.

I am not saying people should not get married. But we need to understand the real value of N150k. A man, a woman and a kid would struggle on that.

candygist:
Will he use the same tiles in his new shop ?
Why you no go support the fellow ? You that don't have dreams of owning a property.

I know an unfortunate landlord will come and use this line.

My parents have enough properties that the last property I want is a house.

jamafa:
See person wey dey always condemn government. U think u can scape through without paying that money. U don't know the work of BVN.

Try it or tell anyone around you to try not to pay the loan, when d time is due.

I always condemn the government because they don't know what they are doing.

The money the are borrowing you is your money. Did any government have any personal money in Nigeria bank account? No! It's our collective money they are spending.

If market women did not pay back their tradermoni, then graduates should be smart enough to evade whatever measure they have in place to take their money back.

If you voluntarily pay the loan back, then be mumu!

E shock you abi?

Our target at APC is to make $500 = N1m by December 2024. We shall not rest until we achieve this objective.