₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
kikiki do you also know that,our infamous onions peel water can also make your hair to grown like crazy?
even raw potato water mixed with garlic

realtalk19:
tanks ma , we seprated for 2yrs btw 2014-2016 after much begging nd assurance dat hes a changed person i forgave nd reconciled in 2016 after which i got pregnant wit my son. its xactly 1yr nd 6 months of reconciling and finally seprated wit peace of mind and sweet kids who kip me happy.

realtalk19:
modified.........

av eventually moved on wit my kids. long story.
i just settled down afta d whole drama. am starting
my life afresh as a single mum. God is my
strength.
tanks.
miss yu all

FloraEC:
Seriously I've searched the pack but didn't see anything like that. She takes it when her other Cereals has finished and I'm toooooo lazy to buy another one. Please somebody should snap and show me. Thanks

keeki:
amen.but some people advice that u start out in bits.by allowing the child taste some ingredients without some.to know what the child likes or dislike

keeki:
I was told not to add salt.I used sand from my backyard to fry it.I washed and dried mine to remove dirts u fry until they start making a pop pop sound like popcorn.and don't fry the groundnut too much to prevent it from getting burnt

Benignasweety:
2: Do dey use garri for tombrown never heard and didnt use.

queensnow:
U can get soybeans powder in stores like shoprite, some supermarket sells too then u make ur crayfish and gnut powder separately
How to prep (how I sabi am)
Soy beans
Yellow or white corn (optional)
Millet (optionla)
Guinea corn (optional)

Additional
G.nut (optional)
Crayfish (optional)
Plantain dried (optional)
Sweet potatoes dried (optional)

U can only choose soybeans + one grain i.e soybeans+corn or soybeans+millet whichever one u want. Gently select ur grains to pick dirt and stones, then fry the grains (soybeans+yellowcorn)one at a time slightly, fry crayfish, fry ur g.nut (without oil)
Put the soybeans in a separate pack this will enable the miller to help u separate the shaft b4 grinding it with the fried corn.

Note: some babies react to seafoods and groundnut so if u will be using crayfish and gnut u might want to blend it separately but if u want to use dried potatoes and plantain u can blend it with the grains.
I only gave my son soybeans powder as he refused crayfish and groundnut, I end up using it to make groundnut soup thats th advantage of grinding it separately

nwapastor:
Thank you to all the sabi mamas wey torchlight my matter.
One more thing though: anytime my girl is breastfeeding she normally put her hand on one breast (like playing with the nipples with her fingers) while her mouth is on the other breast. Please how weird is that. Did any other mama ever experienced that?

fruitfulhome:
Who can relate

zaynie:
Please, one mama promised me breast pump but without bottles. E daakun contact me .

Zino89:
Am 4 weeks pp I gave birth through cs Dh has been chasing me around the house ayam fearing pleas how soon can one have s**x after cs?

kelizosuy:
Hello house
People that got the slots should please pm me their numbers.. Mamas targatarga and sunny15 you are welcome.

In other news my incision site hurts...like it really hurts I can't stand very well because of the pains..is it like that because I don't understand again

maradelkitchen:
YES

maradelkitchen:
put some slice of onions in your LO socks while sleeping

Benignasweety:
How Apa afo dey do? Maybe it's language difference o. Any which way, it's herbal treatment.

Benignasweety:
Ume affor is a type of sickness some children experience. They grow very very lean and they cry consistently. Nothing they eat stays in their body and even when administering trado medicines, the child still needs blood capsules/sirops.
When you see the child's Tommy, it's like a snake is walking inside it, it comes out and goes in again.

greenpenwriter:
I spoke with my husband some hours ago and he started by saying it's not good for his brother to bring friends and all to the house. We had a break in converstation (phone call) and during the next conversation, he was indirectly blaming for giving his brother rules on not drinking and bringing friends home. I'm just so disappointed at him. I cried bitterly.

Meanwhile, I have repeatedly told my husband to call his brother to order on this issue in the time past. I guess he did not, because the guy intensified his misdeeds. I had to resort to telling my BIL calmly about what I expect from him. Things actually got worse. I had to tell him with all seriousness and firmness today, but he told me I cannot tell him not to bring friends into the house.

greenpenwriter:
Dear Mamas,

I am member of this thread, but had to use this moniker to conceal my identity. I have a serious issue and I need sincere advice.
Dear Mamas,

I am member of this thread, but had to use this moniker to conceal my identity. I have a serious issue and I need sincere advice. This is an epistle.

My brother-in-law has been staying with my husband (on and off) before we got married. Our marriage is 2 years old. He started living with us fully by time we were married.

My husband left for the U.S to acquire Masters / P.hd degrees in August 2016. Our plan is to join him (including my BIL) by December this year.

Ever since he left, my BIL has been putting on some attitude that I don't like. All these he did not do when my husband was around. He brings in all manner of friends to the house everyday till late in the night. Atimes, I walk to the sitting room at night and meet strangers lying on the couch. Some cook indomie in the kitchen when am off to work. Some even sleep over for days and he won't let me know. He brings them in immediately I retire to bed at night and sneak them out. I once confronted his friend I saw in the house around 11pm and he simply told me that the guy is sleeping (without informing me prior).

He will go out and come in with friends around 9-10pm and those ones will not leave until 11pm or more. Some days ago, some strange faces came in with him around 8pm and they simply walked to the bedroom area (in the dark as there was no power supply at that time. We only kept light in the sitting room).

He entertains his friends with all these gin (ogogoro) brands when am off at work. The only time I asked him about it was when I saw an empty bottle of gin under the couch (he forgot it there). I kept it and asked him about it when I got back from work. He "repectfully" told me that he used it to entertain his friend.

An issue cropped up 4 days ago, he left with the house with his friends around 9pm and around to 11pm, I heard him open the main door. Thus, I assumed he is back. I told my House Help to put all the bolts on the door and go to bed that I will re-check the doors before I sleep.

I was baffled when my husband's elder sis called me at work and asked why I locked my BIL outside yesterday. I argued with her that the statement is not true, until she told me that it was my BIL that said I locked him outside and he had to trek to a friend's house around 12pm. From BIL's explanation to her, he opened the door briefly to take phone charger "to 11pm" and he ran out immediately.

I was bitter and angry that why is this guy trying to give me a bad name? That I chased him out because my husband is not around? The question now is; Why can't he knock the door harder when he discovered all the bolts were locked from inside? Or call my phone lines? Or shout my name by my bedroom window (we stay on the ground floor)? Or know my window frame? Or wake my HH help up through her bedroom window? My BIL simply called his parents and siblings that I have locked him outside, and that I don't want him to stay in our house again.

For the very first time, I told my mum abt an issue in my home. She called my MIL to please put my BIL in check and that ordinarily an adult (my BIL) is not supposed to be staying with new/young couples in the first 2 years of marriage...and that she kept quiet because I said my BIL is a good guy. She also told my MIL to him to saying he'll still scatter my HH's head with wood one day. This is a girl that does not talk to him at all. I have also warned him about these in the time past, but he still persisted with the utterance. All these talks between my Mum and my MIL intensified the heat. My DH people blamed me for telling my mum about the "locking my BIL outside" incident.

When I got back from work that day, my BIL came to me and said it was not my fault that he was locked outside...that my househelp said I was the one that locked him outside and it got him angry. This was a girl that was fast asleep that period cos she'll be going to school  the following day.

AND TODAY, I told him that he must not bring friends to this house again and he must not bring ogogoro to this house again. He simply told me that I don't have the right to tell him that. I said it is my house and he said who told me that.  He said he has been bringing friends to his brother's housee before he got married and I can not stop him now. I said he should come to terms with the fac that his brother is now married. He insisted that I don't have right  to tell him not to bring people into the house or HIS ROOM. This conversation has caused serious issues and my DH's siblings has told him to leave our house.

I want you all to sincerely point out my faults cos they are all on my neck that I don't have a right to tell my BIL to stop bringing ogogoro (gin) and friends to the house again.

NOTE: My BIL is 26 and an unemployed graduate. I am also 3 years older than him.


Cc: All Mamas.

ochis24:
Oh tnks!... So is nt really a brand thing, so is jus people emphazing on d SMA( Asap weight gain).

Liftedhands:
We are fine sis, regards to yours too.

Liftedhands:
Ekene own na penalty by small doctor

He will just be be moving up and down nodding his head to the beat.

Liftedhands:
Wish I can help my son was and still is a picky eater. Sorry sis .

Naomi14:
If your baby wants to eat draw soup then give her. Just make it good for her. Not all babies fancy their kinda food.

My baby doesn't like cereals (Gerber, Nestle brand at all even Friso gold) only freshly made banana puree. I noticed she likes Olamide's song-Wo, whenever i play the video she eats, even the cereal and that's cos there is a distraction from the food. Maybe you should try it with a song she likes.

casler:
Mamas in the house,that did child churching.
Must one make rice.
What other foods can one make? Especially, the ones in season.
Presently, im very rich with lots of energy (opposite).
And still want to thank God.

casler:
Some babies,prefer local food. One of my kids,rejected all the conventional baby foods.Eating only jollof rice(no vegetables), pounded yam or fufu with draw soup only, no noodles,beans,banana and groundnut.I weaned with bananas at night.Just make sure the food is nutritionally dense and she will be fine especially at evening meals.take care.