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Romance / Re: The Things That Turn Girls On by KateSpade(f): 5:22pm On May 02, 2013 |
this is the first list of yours that I agree with [at least in my case of what i like] 1 Like |
Music/Radio / Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by KateSpade(f): 11:42pm On Apr 27, 2013 |
Romance / Re: 6 Types Of People You Should Never Date by KateSpade(f): 2:39am On Apr 24, 2013 |
its strange when one person can possess all of those traits |
Romance / Re: Why Are Some Christian Guys So Afraid To Approach A Woman? by KateSpade(f): 2:37am On Apr 24, 2013 |
Varies. I haven't had that experience at church, quite the opposite. Some people go to church on the hunt. Most of the very devout shy Christian men I know I've met in other places like work, or through mutual friends. They will learn eventually how to go after things they want in life. |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 3:55am On Apr 22, 2013 |
alutacontinua: thanks! that apology ain't happening tho. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Guys Ask Girls If The Are Virgins? by KateSpade(f): 4:45pm On Apr 21, 2013 |
after a certain age, guys stop asking. they just assume you aren't. |
Romance / Re: First Date Kiss by KateSpade(f): 2:37am On Apr 21, 2013 |
Typically don't. It can be very awkward if the guy tries but doesn't realize throughout the whole date that you aren't into him. I don't pity kiss or kiss just to be nice. There are signs men should look out for. |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 4:08pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
Sijo01: He has a lot of redeeming qualities but he doesn't trust me and he is insecure. I know a lot of it stems from his past relationships [he has been cheated on in the past]. I didn't notice it much before the distance because he didn't bring it up too much and I have a tendency of thinking people are joking when they say things I think are absurd. Also, it became a topic in every conversation we had while he was gone. (Questioning me about my whereabouts, who I spend my time with, clothing, saying ppl are putting thoughts in my head). If he felt like he couldn't trust me, he shouldn't have agreed to be in the relationship. No need to waste your money calling me and my money calling you. He also believes my culture is an issue but he has been aware of that before we even started the relationship. And I did take his concerns to heart and changed a few things for the sake of the relationship but there's only so much a person can bend until they break. If that was such an issue then I shouldn't have been the first woman to meet your mother, and hang around with your brothers and sisters. He is incapable of making a decision of what he wants and I'm a lot more upfront and I need to be with someone who is decisive. I cannot see myself marrying someone who doesn't trust me and is indecisive, its just not going to happen. /end rant |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 3:23pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
alutacontinua: Why do you want to return his things? Are the things that expensive or you've never got him something before? That bit seems childish to me. Or are the things his own personal things? They are personal items. I do feel a bit guilty but that's not a reason to stay in a relationship. and yikes to the good-bye s*x. That's not happening. |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 3:18pm On Apr 19, 2013 |
nenergy: I didn't all of a sudden realize and distance wasn't the factor, mainly it was trust. The distance did allow me to overall reflect on the relationship though. |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 3:52am On Apr 19, 2013 |
Yield: When he comes to your city, meet him at a public place, like a park, and take his things along with you. Find a bench, sit him down and tell him it's best for the two of you to part. Give him your main reason/s for making your decision. Be respectful but firm when you speak. In giving him your reason/s, you would help him get some closure too. Since he's someone who doesn't want to let go, it's likely he wouldn't agree with your reasons, BUT HE DOESN'T NEED TO! It doesn't matter whether he agrees with you or not; or thinks you're making a huge mistake. You're making a decision for yourself and you need to be firm with it. Give him his things, tell him "good luck with everything" or whatever else you want your parting words to be and leave. Hope that works, lol. Good luck. thanks. |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 10:01pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
butta: op do u still have feelings for him yes, some. however, i still don't believe we are right for each other. |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 10:00pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
190: katie are u nigerian no |
Romance / Re: Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 9:50pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
Sijo01: You brokeup with him because of the distance or because you'v gotten a replacement Clearify! neither, I realized I don't want to marry him and it felt like we were heading in that direction |
Romance / Ex Wants Me To Break Up With Him Again by KateSpade(f): 8:03pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago while we were in a long distance relationship. Had to do it over the phone. He called me up yesterday talking about him coming back to my city in a few weeks and wanting to talk. He was saying things such as "When we speak in person, I will know how you really feel, I will be able to tell how whats in my heart, and I will if its over or not" and talking about how we are really good friends now since I broke his heart. As if he doesn't believe its over until I break up with him in person. At this point, I'm just ready to give him back his stuff he left at my place and wish him well on his life. My question is how can I do this correctly? |
Romance / Re: Why Is It Easier To "Speech" Voluptuous And Curvy Girls Than Other Girls? by KateSpade(f): 3:23pm On Apr 18, 2013 |
CAMEROONPRIDE: i think the assumption that women that are curvy have higher sex drives is silly, actually i think its more ignorant than silly. am i voluptuous? i would never call myself that. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Is It Easier To "Speech" Voluptuous And Curvy Girls Than Other Girls? by KateSpade(f): 5:10am On Apr 18, 2013 |
I don't believe its due to high sex drive, that sounds stupid. It could be because they are used to it and know how to handle themselves. For example, if you "blossomed" early like age 12/13 then youve had years of unwanted male attention and found ways to deal with it [good and bad]. 1 Like |
Music/Radio / Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by KateSpade(f): 5:05am On Apr 18, 2013 |
Romance / Re: How Many Relationships Have You Had? Why And How Did It End?? by KateSpade(f): 5:38pm On Apr 16, 2013 |
3 Ends because I end it due to their actions/words. |
Music/Radio / Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by KateSpade(f): 3:53pm On Apr 16, 2013 |
Drake - Girls Love Beyonce Kyan - Bad Science |
Romance / Re: White Guy Proves How Easy Black Women Are. Te He He by KateSpade(f): 3:13pm On Apr 10, 2013 |
u really think all those numbers given were correct. there's a reason i have my best friends number memorized. |
Family / Re: Im I Losing My Woman Sex Life? by KateSpade(f): 6:30pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
she said she is stressed, why not find ways to alleviate that first. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: His Ex Named Her Pet (dog) After Him by KateSpade(f): 1:36pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
i had an ex do this. it made me even more certain that the breakup was a good idea. |
Romance / Re: Would You Rather Have Your Girl Lie To You About Her Past Or Tell You The Truth by KateSpade(f): 1:34pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
im a fan of the truth. however one should be careful about who they are spilling their guts to. it doesnt even have to be secrets it can just be things about your personality or how you react to certain things [likes and dislikes] just because you tell the truth doesnt mean they will do the same or believe u when they do. everyone has their secrets or details they do not want to divulge, nothing is going to change that. 2 Likes |
Music/Radio / Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by KateSpade(f): 6:04pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
Put that woman first - Jaheim Treat her like a Lady - Joe Still Not a Player - Joe Where's the fun in forever - Miguel |
Romance / Re: Signs To Show You Love Your Partner Too Much by KateSpade(f): 6:03pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
1, 16 & 20. my downfall |
Romance / Re: Looking For Mr. Right While You're In School by KateSpade(f): 4:24pm On Apr 03, 2013 |
I saw this segment too I agree with her in the sense that you can make great relationships/friendships while in school but don't let that be the only priority. Just because you meet him in school doesnt mean you have to marry him or get engaged during that time as well. Hopefully if thats what people want they find a partner who feels the same. |
Music/Radio / Re: What Music Are You Listening To Right Now? by KateSpade(f): 2:39am On Mar 30, 2013 |
Previouscats - Musiq IFHY - Tyler, the Creator |
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