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powerful!

haha I plan on entering politics.

depends on the man. Ive dated guys from different cultures and a lot of them have this superiority complex. I believe its because nobody or not enough people have "checked" them. Got to start when they are young.

yes.

I probably have a different mindset than others given that my mother is 8 yrs older than my dad and my sister is 2 years older than her husband.

gboss4sure: I have been thinking about this lately and would try it when i get married, for now i no fit

why when you are married?

blah.

you must know a bunch of women who have shaved off their eyebrows.

it seems like he has already walked away.

its ok to be jealous of such things. If you have an issue with it, discuss it with your guy/girl.

I know I call some of my friends names [male and female] like sweetie and honey but I call them horrible names as well, all for no legitimate reason.

You won't know. You have to trust her. People lie. People lie and say they are virgins when they are not and virgins lie and say they aren't.

Ask your friend.

He doesn't want to be with you. At least not right now.

U are rude first of all for even saying to a woman u claim to love that you plan on getting another woman to marry if she doesnt agree. nobody likes ultimatums.

Smart women know what they want.
Timing also plays a role.

ocmorale: Thanks Katespade and acidosis for ur insightful comments. My phobia about ladies like this is that i think they possess "male minds". They may likely have power issues with their spouse. wht do u think?

As long as you are a human, you will have power issues.

HARDDON: Wot happens wen after all d talks, he can't really do much to improve? Let's Saч his jrod is of d banana size and d lady wud appreciate som cucumber-sized magnum?

You wud agree with ♏ԑ that d talk wud serve as to put him down right? And dere wud automatically be a strain on the r/ship?

In dis case, haw do Ʊ present it?

obviously,his size and your sex-life with this man is putting a major strain on the relationship. if you are thinking abt it this much and its changing your outlook on him you should leave.

i dont agree that the talk would be a put down. i said to mention things u do like so that it wouldnt be so.

ifihearam: Explain

It can be due to her history with females in the past and she might be judgmental of any other girl. Just like how some ppl act bitter with men, women can be the same way with other women. Or some females hate other women due to competition or they are worried their female friends are going to steal their man. Or she could've had female friends that she decided werent good friends and let them go and is left with the male ones. The woman could just like a lot of "male oriented" activities and due to that has more male friends than female. There are many different factors.

Obviously if you know your spouse you will know all of this before you make them a wife and you can make your decision from that. None of these mean that she will make a bad wife. Might have some issues to work out but having male friends does not equate to strong desire to be with them.

depends on the woman

HARDDON: Question is how does a lady go about presenting or raising dis kinda issue?

depends, you have to know your partner pretty well and how they take criticism of any kind. You also have to make sure that you arent pretending or faking that something is much better than it really is. There has to be something that he does that you like, make sure he knows it. you can also suggest things lightly.

if you are having sex with your fiance and are unable to talk to him about your sex life and the issues with it, you shouldn't be getting married in the first place

long fingernails

Cooking for me when he knows I didn't have time to.

Ijeoma Okeke100: Hey babe. Thank you very much for the tip. The only problem is that i am a bit broke and lemon has always tasted bitter to me so since i drink water the whole day and its what i use to cleanse bad taste in my mouth, i do not want to have that bitter look in my face everytime i drink the water but please remember that i am just assuming that the water will be bitter as i have not tasted it before. I will try go buy some lemons after work today and start using the tip. Thank you once again for the tip and please keep them coming

haha oh nooo well if its bitter for you, you dont have to try it. Drinking tea helps me too, it still has less sugar than juice.

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i need some good laughs for today

Ijeoma Okeke100: Hello my African Queens who want to look their best. Well thank you for the responce. My plan is to start small then go big. For now i am starting with just walking at a fast pace for an hour both morning and evening. Have Bran Flakes for breakfast, lunch is mixed veggies with just a pinch of seasoning.I try to include broccoli, carrots, green beans and couliflower in the veggies. Youb can get them all mixed and frozen from mcain veggies. I try fry them with olive oil have have just 1 or 2 fish fingures with that meal. breakfast is at 9:30am, lunch at 13:30 and i try drink lots of water during the day. Beacause i dont wana endup hating the water i just have a bottle next to me and be sipping as the day goes. I stay away from fruit and sugar and i saw somewhere on the net that fruits have sugar which can be rather bad for weighloss. i do not use salt but use small seasoning like aromat. I try not to have super as i just drink green tea in the evening. all this tastes bad besides the breakfast so i try tell myself that i am not eating but i am merely adding medicine into my system as the kind of foods and drinks ( green tea) i have chosen taste bad, do not make me full. So please my honies lets lie to our minds and just tell our selves that it is medicine we are taking and not food. So far i do not snak bec ause most snacks are bad ( read the lable you will see). So fr now please stay away from bread ( even if its low GI brown bread), pasta, rice, potatoes, fruit,snack. Remember to fast walk twice a say then we will pick the pace up as we go along. If there is anyone wanting to disagree with my 1st week plan please speak now and share your tips. Remember we are just sisters trying to help each other and no one is better than the other. Thanks yol and keepém rolling

I understand the water dilemma. Sometimes it helps me to put some lemon or lime with my water. I don't know how different this diet is from your regular eating habits but I wouldnt try to go so restrictive out of few of binging.

I guess I'll share my journey.

I lost about 30lbs 4 years ago. My family is typically big on fitness but as I grew older I became less active and gained weight in my mid to late teens. Lost 10lbs 2 years ago but gained that back plus some lbs. Where I live there is a weekly running/walking group so I figure I'll join them once a week. Also, I decided to train for a race in March which will force me to workout if I intend to finish. I just need to find my ipod since I usually get bored exercising in silence. As far as food goes, I will just have to increase my intake of water and make sure I eat at least 4 servings of vegetables a day. I am a dessert girl so I will just have to restrict myself a bit. Keeping a food diary of what I eat and when also would keep me on track so Ill have to get into that again.

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I enjoyed it. As I usually do Tarantino films.

I've been living in the South for too long cuz clearly all the times "nigger" was said did not affect me at all or did I notice they said it so many times. The movie is set during slavery of course they are going to use racial pejoratives.

Its very race to see a popular movie with an African-American lead saving his African-American wife, no matter the setting (slavery or not). Tarantino took a chance as he usual does.

Yea I realized there's nothing I can do. Never introduced her to my male friend, if I do it will be casual, nothing purposeful.

As far as deliverance goes, you are free to pray.

Sure, Ill join. Mostly I just want to lose the weight I've gained over the past 10 months (abt 10-15lbs). I had a job with ridiculous hours so I didnt have time to exercise or eat healthy. Wanting to lose about 20-30lbs max which has been my goal and I was so close to getting there before the lifestyle changed.