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Allen Stone- Celebrate Now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGsIEEXkbCM

Ne-Yo - Forever Now

Alright Ive been slacking

Definitely ate badly for a weekend. Workouts have been too few so I've been watching my diet more closely. Weight is steady, no gains, no losses.

kay9: ^^ Uhh, ok, so because you ''mean'' it when u ask bf for something, he should get it for you? And whats all that ish about your father feeding and clothing you? How does that concern your bf?

The OP decided to compare the two not I.
If I do ask my bf for something, he should get it for me, and if he asks me for something, I should get it for him as well, relationships are a partnership.

My father raised me, fed me, clothed me, spoiled me. I'm not a very demanding gf and I tend to give more than I receive in general whether its friend, family, bf so when I ask for something I mean it.

no relationships is 100% safe.

Lack of trust does create a bunch of issues. Especially if your significant other questions you constantly about it and doesnt trust you. I didn't know how little my ex trusted me until we were long distance.

gifts are gifts

now u know better for next time

Pusher Love Girl/Don't Hold the Wall - Justin Timberlake

I'll agree to go on a date with a guy if he seems nice
Date him if he is a good man
But I'll only marry someone who is good for me

This is the story of my dating life.

I date men, time passes, I realize I cannot marry them so I break up with them. For example, he and I might have issues with conflict resolution, or he might be too dramatic, he doesn't trust me or he has different views on marriage.
I cannot be in a prolonged relationship with a man I cannot see myself marrying (sometimes it takes some time to figure that out). It just hurts both of us in the long run.

either or
you dont have to be intimate with someone for it to be a relationship and not all relationships have to involve s.ex to be considered romantic.

when I'm not attracted to that person and don't see a future with them. However, typically I can't even be friends with them because some people find it difficult to turn off romantic feelings once they have begun.

That Girl - Justin Timberlake

wine and some time

jk

Time helps, also realizing while the breakup took place as well as hobbies and shifting your attention

[quote author=Mynd_44]Linkin park "Metora" Album on repeat[/quote]omg taking me back! I used to love running to this whole album. esp Breaking the Habit, Nobody's Listening and Somewhere I Belong

Streaming Justin Timberlakes 20/20 Experience

Ijeoma Okeke100: Its all going fine, but sometimes i just get those evil choclate , bacon and cheese cravings. Its soo hard but i have decided to stay away from grocery stores for now so that i dont get tempted. When i need something from the store i send my man. He understands that i need him to get through this and he knows what a danger i would if i were to go to the store myself. Lol he is the one who even voluntered to be my shopper so that i avoid seeing all those delicious evil foods at the stores. The house is completely clear of those foods as well as now we have decided to put fruit everywhere. So if a person feels like snacking, they take a fruit but if you want something else you go and buy it but do not bring it into the house. I realy appreciate the support am getting from him

Congrats on keeping up the hard work. I gave into temptation last night but I will try to make up for it this week. Thats good that your man helps you most of the guys I've dated try to fatten me up.

Stay Strong

I Could Be the One - Avicii vs. Nicky Romero
Believe - The Chemical Brothers

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bek1y2uiQGA

Ijeoma Okeke100: I also find that motivating as well. Hope you enjoyed sister girl.

Thanks! how is it going for you.

Yesterday I did nothing but today was some kickboxing and light lifting. I think I need to start running more often and making sure I drink enough water

This Place Hotel (Heartbreak Hotel) - Jackson 5

good

Dustin Tavella - Everybody Knows (Douchebag)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hAm4z8T-O30

Power Trip - J.Cole

today. jog/walked 3 miles with a local women's running group. lifted weights for a bit. it helps me to exercise with ppl.

Depends. I try not to wear anything more than 4 and there are time limits. Like I'm not going to wear 4 inch heels if Im going to be out for 10 hours.

Why do it? I like being taller. I always wanted to be 5ft10 but I stopped at 5'7. I like the way my legs look, makes the outfit at times look better, I like the sound they make.

kickboxing, weights, jogging

say no thank you.

if they ask if you are in a relationship then you can answer with yes. if they still persist ignore them

Really did not want to exercise yesterday but I did 20 minutes of kickboxing.
Today, ran outside, kickboxing and lifting. I really had to motivate myself to get out there. I plan on weighing myself every 2 weeks so by the end of next week I'll know how I did for a full month. Results are slow but they are there.

u thought wrong.

nothing you wrote states that you are in love with him just that you are physically attracted to him (which is fine). I read no words about his personality or his attitude that make you swoon just the way his muscle bulge out in his scrubs. you should know the difference between love and lust.

if you want to know this man then make a reason to talk to him. u want to forget him, you should probably introduce yourself sometimes meeting the fantasy helps end it.

update.

Been a slow week for me. Ran hills on Monday, did kickboxing and weightlifting yesterday. nothing today.

I wanted to at one point. I would given circumstances. Like other posters said, if its due to his personality or lack of searching for a job then no.

I find that I have a tendency to date men who have different career paths than me. Not only because I like the difference but also to avoid gossip or weird breakups. As if I'm already planning the breakup before the relationship begins and want it to end as peacefully for me as possible. Also I've had the instance of men either trying to compete with me all the time or claim that with me being a woman has gotten me to where I am.

Instead of having a mate that can help me grow in my same field and me help them as well I run away from it. Especially now that I am getting involved in politics and law, I know how often you see the same 100 people and they recognize and remember you. Am I the only person who thinks like this? How has your partner helped you with your career [if its the same field].