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9 led to 1 because of 3

These are all questions you should be asking her.

Sometimes when dating someone for a long period of time when you have disagreements or get hurt, it hurts more because you have known that person longer.

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Tarrus Riley- Dream Woman

Companionship
Security
Family (I wont be having children otherwise)

I guess security and companionship can go hand in hand. I feel like no one else is going to have my back like my husband will. I want the kind of marriage like my sister has where if a spouse decides to make a life altering decision the other is there to support any way they can and understanding of when its the others time to shine. A partnership.

freecocoa: I need someone to help me lift heavy objects.

you forgot kill bugs

Currently: good

They have been married for over 30 years. They would fight and argue a lot then every 3 yrs or so they would get along for like a month. I guess after 30 yrs they decided to stop fighting so much and learned how to talk to each other.

queensmith: you know the biggest weapon anyone can have with their ex's is communicating, when you shut them out, it gives the illusion you are in a much better place and simply have no need for them anymore. that creates a terror of regret. At the same time when you do keep in touch, both of you are relaxed and sometimes even feel relief at the end of the relationship (if you are a vindictive being like yours truly you never want that, you want him to forever regret not being with you )

There are x's I simply cannot stand, and they always call, i speak to some past *ehem* I honestly think I only keep them around for potential *queensmith moments* or if mr boyfriend misbehaves.

If you are in a serious relationship I think you should avoid it, its pointless, unless you both have a business or some other form of shared interests that communicating will benefit its unnecessary, let everyone just move on with their lives.

Wow this really spoke to me. thanks!

If she is a lesbian because she is tired of dating guys then she is not really a lesbian.

I've had bfs who have gotten irritated before

"I don't want anyone looking at you"
"You need to go and change"
"Where are you going like that"
"Do you feel comfortable wearing that"

Its strange because typically I don't dress for anyone else but myself unless its a special occasion and 99% of my clothing I wear around my family including my grandmother. the bfs clearly were the ones with the issues.

As for what I want guys wearing. They can wear whatever they want as long as its based on where we are and the occasion. He is a man, he should know how to dress himself like one.

Love it! turns me on

If she is already pregnant, its too late for contraceptives.

There are multiple reasons why a woman would want to continue with her pregnancy. Its her decision.

I agree with the other posters. Any time you have se.x you putting yourself at risk for producing a child and precautions need to be taken if thats not what you want.

mostly for clothing purposes (no panty line)
sometimes for other reasons

multiple things, some physical some personality traits

it can get weird

Morayo747: I'm not friends with any of my SERIOUS exes only flings....I really don't see the need keeping in contact with people I shared unfulfilled dreams with. And in the spirit of fairness since I wouldn't like my wife talking to her Ex why should I do the same?

feel the same way

DigitalSignal: Why not? Yes.

I can't. Its not that I hate them I just don't see how it will do me any good.

binger: u don't want anyone using ur weakness against u.

what do u mean by that?

[quote author=miss-sweety86]more complicated than that but I can't tell more because my new year resolution was to stop sharing my issues online and seeking advice from strangers....[/quote]haha good resolution.

[quote author=miss-sweety86]Yes, I do talk with my latest ex.[/quote]Why? do u feel like they still want to get back together or are u guys just friends?

[quote author=Andy-baby]YES[/quote]why? is it weird?

back off a bit. Still treat her like your girl but relax,find other things to occupy your time.

Do any of you still talk with your exes?

I usually don't. I try to wean them off slowly but my last one keeps calling. Like last night he called 4 times, I picked up on the last call and was talking about how I don't call to check up on him anymore.

He talks to me as if we are still together. Says he misses me, brings up certain memories. The only thing that has changed is that he doesn't call me pet names anymore. Its not that I don't care about him but certain factors led me to end things. I'm trying to move on but these calls multiple times a week [regardless if I answer or not] are preventing that from happening.

sexybash: do you know that faithfulness is the thing of the mind? if my husband have decided to be a faithful man i dont see which woman will make him think other wise and if he has decided to do other wise then let him face the music ,i reapeat acting jealous does not potray love, most women are jealous out of selfishness let something happensa to the man they will be the first to abandon him.

You title the post Women vs. Jealously but in it you criticize women for having any type of negative reaction to their spouses infidelities.

"why is it that most ladies get worked up and angry when they find out that their husband and boyfreind is cheating on them with another
woman? though is not right but i feel as a woman you should be pre occupied with making your home"

Its normal for a woman to be angry to find out their husband is cheating on them and its her right. Also as you say if a women is supposed to be preoccupied with "making their home" isn't their husband a part of that home? Why wouldn't any married couple strive to have a healthy environment inside the home?

If that's the way you want your relationships and marriage to go, thats fine. However, a majority of women would like a partner who is faithful to them.

You said "with the kind of money he has he can get a loving wife his heart desire, but he choose to stay with my aunty" obviously the woman he desired is his wife (your aunt). All that really matters is how he (the husband) perceives the marriage.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ng71D8e4tDQ

Eyes better not wander - Nicole Wray

for a virgin you seem really interested in sex and joysticks and vaginas.

This is my current situation. He calls often, wants me to call him, it might stir up past feelings for a day or two but they are memories, that's it. If I'm interested I will come back on my own volition and certainly not happening while they are thousands of miles away. No amount of calls, gifts can change my heart.