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Kirinwa: Men are meant to be the head of the house and leaders in their various homes.Now what happens when you marry a woman who wants to direct you about and shouts at you all the time.Will you marry such a woman?If you have already married her how are you managing her?What's your take on the issue?

Obviously no one wants to marry someone of either gender who will shout and direct them ALL THE TIME.
I wouldn't even date someone like that.

puppy2k: THIS IS THE BEST COMMENT I HAVE READ OVER THIS KIND OF EX gf/bf ISSUE FOR A LONG TIME...I AM STILL FRIENDS WITH AS MANY OF MY EX,s BREAKING UP WITH YOUR FORMER GIRLFRIEND DOESN'T NOW MEAN BOTH OF YOU ARE AT WAR NA...YOU CAN STILL BE FRIENDS ,FAMILY FRIENDS AT THAT AND NOTHING ELSE ..I DON'T SEE ANY POINT TRYING TO RAISE A GUN AT YOUR EX gf/bf JUST BECOS YOU WANT TO PROVE A POINT... THAT IS MEANINGLESS ...DUHHHH

I didn't say anything about being friends with my exes.

i say it. altho i may not be in love with any of my exes romantically i still love them as human beings.

some people don't know how they should be treated and look for love anywhere even if its fake even if its fleeting.

Yield: They're cuddly, also for memories.

agreed

i think they are cute

my bedroom, my rules

Ijeoma Okeke100: Babe the secret is not to get bored with your routine. If you drink 3l of water i hope you are not forcing it down yur throte. you must drink it slowly. Just 1 mouthful at a time and as for your veggies try the mcain, They are already choped all you do steam. They include carrots, broccoli, couliflower,greenbeans etc.you will loooove them. how much have u lost?

I'm not forcing water down, just make it a goal to get 3l. I've lost abt 3kg.

Ijeoma Okeke100: Well i have been sticking to a routine and i think it works for me. I do zumba dance for an hour in the morning, walk about 20 minutes to and from work and also do fast walking / slow jogging on the streets for an hour every evening once i have rested after work. I have all bran flakes with low fat milk for breakfast. Snack 3 times a day on 1 fruit per snack ( my favourite are pears). Lunch and dinner is mcain steamed veggies with fish fried with olive oil. I do not put any seasoning on the veggies as they turn to taste sweet once you get used to them and i prefer fish fingures as they are already prepaired ( i just fry and dont add anything also). i have so far i seem to be loosing 2kg a week and i always have 1 bad meal per week, where i will eat any junk i want without feeling guilty. the next day i ofcourse do 2 hour workouts instead of 1. I love drinking greentea during the day (only 1 cup though) i also drink 1 glass of hot water per day but always have a bottle of mild water on my desk. I think i love water most.With all this i find that i tone as i loose and my face glows and even looks younger. I think i am falling inlove with my new self. Ofcourse i have not reached my ideal weight but m enjoying the journey to my new self. The downside is that clothes look bigger now so i always have to be cutting and sowing to adjust coz i refuse to buy an new clothing before i reach my ideal weight. I hope this helps. Its not easy but whenever i turn i get down i jsut thank the lord for the health and the ability he has given me. I imagine myself at my ideal weight and i kinda like the attention i seem to be getting form friends and family whenever they see me they always ask me how i am doing it and they seem to admire my determination. I am a sucker for attention and if me doing my best to look my best then guese what i will do it.I also like the fact that now my man is able to lift me up because he was not able to do so first as i was heavy. I havent lost much but baby i am going strong.

well congrats, glad to know your hard work is paying off.

I've lost a bit as well. Trying to drink 3 liters of water daily. Just need to up the veggies. Have about 2 months before I want to reach my goal so I just hope I can stay with it.

Think of You - Usher

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtv3iZ_wRis

NeeFEmi: He's someone who has brought joy to my life.

He doesn't trust you, asks for your passwords so he can spy on u and insults you. This doesnt sound like joy.

if thats what you want, marry a woman who has no problem with it. However, as a human being, it good to have a spouse who is willing to help you especially if the outcome benefits them as well.

Currently, I'm a grad student getting my law degree and have had several great job opportunities during undergrad and one coming up this summer. Two of those jobs were working a political campaigns. One was for my sister, the other a women who ran for mayor. Now Ive gotten myself somewhat connected in local politics so much so that some candidates have asked for my help on their future or current campaigns. Politics is one of the fields I want to get into Im just not sure how soon. I know working on campaigns takes up most of my time because I want to give it my all and I like to win.
If I choose to do both I could be setting myself up for lower grades and definitely more stress. Granted, I also will have a summer job so my time then would be restrained to weekends and nights for politics.

Any suggestions for what to do or give up?

lion phil: she met the guy before she decidwd to go out with me. she claimed they were friends before they lost contact in 2004. About 2 yrs ago they met again then the guy started singing the' I Love U tori torun song' she then accepted to go out with him.

so she is dating both of you?

Justin Timberlake - Senorita

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJHYDkvRB2Y

[quote author=ekt_bear]why i am i listening to this song right now lol


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFXTc1vfkyY[/quote]omg throwback love it!

Olivia - Bizounce

purebarbie: helo if u ve ideas on hw to gain weight post it here

intake more calories
diets high in fat
You can still eat healthy fats like peanut butter, avocado, cheese
http://www.livestrong.com/article/559275-how-to-gain-weight-keep-it-on/

lion phil: i just finished talking to her. she told me she met the guy before me. i asked her ' if we both bring engagement rings now, who will u consider?' she told me she doesnt know. she said she is in love with both of us. should i just call it off?

I don't understand how she is in love with both of you if you and her just started dating. Nor do I understand how she is in love with the other guy whom she has never dated (or has she)?

I'm not going to say the decision for her is easy but I wouldn't go around telling a guy I'm dating I'm in love with another guy and continue dating one of them. She should be single while she makes her decision on who she loves more.

she must not be that serious about you. who starts a relationship with someone then tells them that they want to date other ppl? someone who doesn't want to be in a relationship with you.

if she doesn't want to give you a chance then she isn't worth it

P*ssy is Mine - Miguel

in my life I've found this to be true too

just kidding

bad women are everywhere, of every nationality, religion, race, age.