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If you have to beg someone to be with you (or be your friend), its never worth it.

The only thing you should beg for is forgiveness, your life and a job.

Of course male virgins exist, some people even die virgins in their old age. I don't think thats an issue, I think the issue is to why they are virgins. Not every virgin is pure and white as snow.

I love my dog. He is old now. I've had him since I was 7. As long as they are trained well Im fine. Not a big cat fan probably wont own any.

you need to sort out some issues. A few days is understandable, a few hours?! too short of time to be thinking of such things. occupy your time and you will see how you might become the one missing calls.

zoete: You should tell him straight that you are not intrested so he won't lose his time. But I think your friends are right go out with him you may like him you never know. Most great relationship starts like that. Because sometimes most of the guys that we are attracted to turn out to be the worst thing that can happen to a lady. My mom always told me let the guy love you and he will always respect and treat you like a queen

i agree. unless you seriously abhor the guy you should go out with them, maybe you will see him in a different light, however once you have made up your mind you TELL HIM. be blunt but not rude.

chichi254: Tnx 2 u all 4 ur wise responses. I also think that its not right but some peopl are convincin me that likeness/love can develop after d knot is tied.. Pls how true is that?

then let them go and marry that person. you have to figure out what you want.

Depends on who it is. Still be friendly. However, if it was me Id wait till we were in a group of people then bring it up [especially if they are a politician] because then they have no choice but to answer you. If they are honestly your friend you should be understanding, sometimes people are just busy or not in the mood to talk.

NessaFresh: Really? Have u ever met a naija guy who is good at it?

yes ma'am

someones been kissing the wrong guys

any update?

well id reached the worst of my weight gain which has thrown me into being more proactive
Said goodbye to fruit juice, now am trying to drink water and tea. Walking or running in my area for about 20 to 30 minutes, 4x a week and doing kickboxing twice a week. Want to work up to running an hour every day [which is where i used to be]. Have at least 20lbs to lose which can be possible by April if i stay disciplined.

Paper Loving - Christoper Martin
Valentine's Day - Outkast
Behold a Lady - Outkast
She Lives In My Lap - Outkast

Ho Hey - Lumineers


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zvCBSSwgtg4

career plans and goals
how they want to raise their children
willing to re-locate
prenuptial agreements [if any]
finances

I feel like if u are in any relationship for a long period of time u will know most of these [not by force].

Yield: To me, when a guy is nice, he is: respectful, friendly and considerate.

agreed

aybaybay: nope i use to have a huge butt but, lost the fat while trying to tone down. Now i regret it. ughh my body looks unproportioned. i want my donk back and hell no i aint doing no squats mehnn. lol

u shouldnt regret being tone. u have to just love what u got and be happy u are healthy

squats and lunges

Classicalman: Misogynist my ar.se. Women like u go on bu.tt naked on d streets and expect men not to rape u. Mshewww...

its men who have to learn not to molest. women who are completely clothed are molested as well, it must be the women's fault if she is physically harassed?

NessaFresh: So appearing semi-n"ude is a true representation of feminism?

women can dress however they want. not every women who wears little clothing is a feminist

[quote author=val_dubem]meaning?[/quote]Artists are meant to be free and this clearly notes for women specifically to cover up in ways now but also bash them when they are too conservative. I'm not saying the people are misogynists but the advisement is. Who knew a bit of side boob would cause such a ruckus at the biggest music award event of the year.

misogynistic advisement

dinner
random social event
concert

even if all my plans are cancelled it still will beat last yrs

women stare at good looking men too we are just better at hiding it

I hate it. I understand being quiet until you calm down but ignoring someone for days I can't stand it, seems childish.

Erykah Badu - Green Eyes

striktlymi: Good evening Kate,

It's good to know your stance on the matter. But suppose your husband does not earn enough and you have a job where you are paid that much (=N=1.5m) would you leave the job to be with him or would you rather ask him to quit his job and be with you instead?

depends. Which one of are careers is in more demand? How much savings do we currently have, can we live off a lower income for a period of months? Are children involved? Has he made sacrifices for me due to my career before? There's no simple answer.

As far as me asking my husband to quit his job to be with me is irrelevant, if im married he is with me.

I tried to think of some of my favs that weren't already listed.

Erykah Badu - Green Eyes
702- Get it Together
the whole Amy Winehouse Back to Black album
Anthony Hamilton - I'm a mess
Boyz II Men - Please Don't Go
Changing Faces - G.H.E.T.T.O.U.T.
Chico DeBarge - Iggin' Me
Avant - Separated
Isley Brothers - Footsteps in the Dark
Isley Brothers - Contagious
Anthony Hamilton - Lucille
Deniece Williams - Silly
Donell Jones- All Her Love
Dru Hill - We're Not Making Love No More
Donny Hathaway - Giving Up (my favorite)
Lauryn Hill - When It Hurts So Bad
Lauryn Hill - Ex Factor
Lauryn Hill - I Used to Love Him
Mariah Carey - Crybaby
Mary J Blige - Memories
Mary J Blige - Mary's Joint
No Doubt - Ex Girlfriend
Nsync - Gone
Pink - There U Go
SWV - fine time
Syleena Johnson - Guess What
Jonell - Round and Round
R. Kelly - When A Woman's Fed Up
Tank - Maybe I deserve
Toni Braxton - Just Be A Man About It
Toni Braxton - He Wasn't Man Enough
Usher - Truth Hurts
Wale - Breakup Song
Whitney Houston - Fine
Whitney Houston - It's Not Right But it's okay
Whitney Houston - Heartbreak Hotel
Whitney Houston - I Learned from the Best
Whitney Houston - Exhale (Shoop)
Mary J Blige - Not Gon Cry
Kelis - Caught out there


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3JFwd1bk4Q

striktlymi: Good afternoon guys,

I have witnessed a number of cases where some women leave a job they are happy with just because their husbands demand it. While some do this for religious reasons, others do it for love.

If the tables are turned and your wife happens to have a job where they pay her a net of =N=1.5million a month but the snag is she is required to work in a state different from where you work without the possibility of a transfer and she is unwilling to go to that state without you.

Would you resign your appointment to join her or would you ask her to look for another job in the state you are?

for a husband, yes. for a boyfriend, never.