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nothing probably. I get into little arguments with my close friends. Sometimes you just take it out on ppl closest to you.

I do find men with deeper voices more attractive. I also find six packs very attractive, however that doesn't mean that every man I date has/had those two qualities.

ha my ex believes thats what will happen.
I'm sure some feelings will but if the same problems are still there then that will come back as well.

u shouldn't "have" to.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_bdOTUocn5w
Freedom - Anthony Hamilton

shizzle11: Ouch!
So since what Ɣ☺ΰ need for †ђξ future isn't there now, what do Ɣ☺ΰ intend to do

plenty
Career wise, school, then a summer internship at a firm, I still have a few yrs left for my program.
Go to church and pray for peace
Love life wise, clearly I'll just be single for a while.

I'll see his family on Friday at my sisters swearing in ceremony so that might be uncomfortable but I will just have to get over it.

update: We spoke, he says he will be back in the spring. Me, not waiting to be naive once again have chosen to be single.

As far as the future goes, of course I would like to have him but I need someone with roots somewhere whether its here in the states or back in Nigeria so I can plan accordingly(right now he doesn't have any).

Sometimes we argue. If he is really upset he will be silent for a few days. But sometimes we just tell each other how we feel and laugh it off or discuss it rationally.

probably but I'll do that with anyone who is dumb enough to leave themselves signed on when Im bored. Snoop play a few tricks wait for something to happen

Baked apple pie
put too much flour

tasted bad

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]huh? [/quote]Muscular big arms

perhaps
but that doesn't mean you have to act on it or that the feeling will be long-lasting

Not in order

1. Looks(pleasing to the eye)
2. Physique(care about his health, not be afraid to lift weights or run)
4. Personality(funny, God fearing, family orientated, driven)
5. Intelligence
6. Eloquence

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]getting married is best thing u can ever achieve Lmao the same men u are talking of have tasted all shapes and sizes and they will continue to do so especially when they are married to women who think that marriage is all there is to a girl becoming a woman ur moral and dignity do not lie between ur legs my dear[/quote]I said I was being sarcastic

Yes.

Each person has their talents regardless of gender and should be given the opportunity to express and enhance it.

there are subtle ways to do this, such as if you two share a hobby you can suggest partaking in it together. But that can be done with friends as well.

I don't recommend asking a guy out boldly unless you know him and have an idea how he will receive it.

meh. sometimes its zero which is A-okay with me.

don't like to feel crowded.

look on yelp.com
Select nightlife then bars or dance
Houston, then comments people write depending on the type of music you want to listen/dance to.

honestly, to each their own.
If a man wants to marry a virgin woman, he is free to do so. But at the same time let's hope he does not think that is the only thing a woman can offer him.

You also have men who refuse to date virgins which is just as rubbish. If a man refuses to date a woman because she is waiting for marriage, love, whatever, then she shouldn't be dating him anyway.

Meegadough: *Yawns* where are you spewing this from?

its sarcasm

if you aren't a virgin, you are a loose woman. its a fact. no man wants to marry a trollop.

a woman's virginity is her special gift. it holds together all her morals and dignity.

social construct and conditioning

Sagamite: Why would a man pursue a woman that is hard too get?

If she does not want to be 'get', isn't it best to leave her alone?

Hard to get doesnt mean impossible, it just means not easy.

Theres a difference between hard to get and a woman who is simply toying with you. However, if a woman states seriously for you to leave her alone, do so. Nobody likes a stalker.

Sagamite: I am not starting an argument with you. I am scrutinizing your public opinion.

You feel a guy should spend his precious time pursuing you. I find that position wierd, so I want to know what you feel you have to offer that would be worth a guy like myself's time to pursue/chase you. That is all.

So what makes you worth being pursued.

I never specified myself. I said "If you are worth pursuing a man (or men) will come after you. People know the difference between playing hard to get and actually hard to get."

I don't think about what makes me worthy of men pursuing me, I think about my God, my family, my education, my health, my money. They must like some qualities I have because nobody can hang around another person if they don't.

As far as what I could have to offer "a guy like you" I don't know, I don't know you.