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i geuss its ok to cheat on our husbands, jus tas long as our husbands come home to a home cooked meal everything nite

i think u dont like nigerian guys because u expect more from them, and they always fall short below ur expectations. and as for the car doing, they all do that soo dont count that against them. (but trust me i feel your pain)

chidebe, now that u are a born again, ur choices in women should change as well, i think the issue here is u are still drawn to the same ladies u dated when u werent a born again christian, so open ur eyes and pray to God to help u choose the right woman for u goodluck

doesnt efani have a girlfriend ?

blacknbold,


i completely disagree with u, i dont really believe he is still in love with his ex, i think he just finds her attractive thats all, take me for example after breaking up with my ex he still bothered me and bothered me because he was physically attracted, i mean we had nothing in common, and i barely even called him. so i believe MT is just going through a physical thing, its ok MT it happens to the best of us, i dont believe u love ur ex, ifnot u wouldnt even be asking for ur advice, u just find her more attractive than ur new one hence the hesitation. well pick ur ex and see what happens.

hey if u have ever heard a goat sing and enjoyed it, well then this album is definately for u.

MT

let me give u some advice, there is a reason y she hasnt married someone else yet, no matter how pretty or independent she may come off, dont u think other brothers would have noticed. i believe thta there is something other men in naija are noticing that u arent. Good looks, and good sex get old, as weird as that sounds, they do. take ur time and make the right decision. u have a hard one to make, do u really want a woman like this who can approach ur gf mother and lie about abortin a child to be the mother of ur children, would u want ur kids to exhibit this type of behavior. I would be highly ashamed if when i had children they acted like this. Try thinking of ur future, and remember someone cheated not once and not twice but a lot of times on halleberry, tyra and all the most beautiful women out there, so clearly good looks is not going to keep u faithful, or make u happy in the future,, when it will matter hte most.

so in other words u guys are advicin us young girls to date married men, becuse lord knows we want ugly fat guys who dont use deodorant but have lots of money, ok done

next when i get married i should make sure i cheat on my husband, dont breast feed my kids, eat only salad every evening just to keep the spice in my relationship, well since i visit the gym 4 times a day my figure im not worried about at all, but the cheating part i will try my best, it will be hard but we will see.

so lets recap, sleep with a married man, then sleep wiht my lawn boy so he teaches me new tricks and i teach my husband, dont breast feed my children, and get a breast enlargement as soon as i deliver my children, hmm men are in trouble o because i know friends of mine who cheat on their husbands and the husbands are too dumb to know, all htey know is that their wifes though non traditional is sexy and keep sthe spice in the relationship

yep i definately agree with the phrease, men havent changed but women are changing, were getting smarter

are there any nigerians living in miami, florida, if there are any i can be contacted via my profile, thnks

IS it just me, or are both bloggs and my space the most useless and time consuming nonsense that ever ended up on the internet. But yet people are highly excited to give u their websites to go and look at their hi5, facebook, myspace, or internet bloggs. I cant even remember to check my email talk less of looking at other peoples boring website of pictures upon pictures upon pictures. pah give me a break

dufferz

u sound like a looser, lame

ok i completely forgot that the word fool is an insult in nigeria, i didnt really mean to be vile guys im really sorry sorry sorry.

hey

there is nothing wrong with people having friends with benefits, the only problem is if u are her work friend with benefits she might have another hence riskin ur self to some funny problems such as sti or jealous racist white men, since there is no trust in the relationship u both can sleep with as many people as u want. hey enjoy urself so that when u are older and giving advice to someone else about fff u would have the experience that there is a big percentage that it wont work. just make sure u dont get feelings for her, men are a lot fragile than they come off, im not worried about her, u are nothing more than the black man who hopefully well endowed will giver her her groove back . u know jungle fever.

hiv spouses and their hiv coutner parts live together and have sex together, condmo is very protective always always laways useit, ther are many prostitutres who dotn ahve aids because they stared using condoms so pleasse dont stop

did it ever occur to u that may be she had a little too much to drink, and was atad bit tipsy

i dont know about the whole nigerian and carribean culture being similar, i think tha tis a whole of load crap. i have been to st maarten, lucia, antigua, dominica, coracoa, puertorico, adn i have met the people of those islands. and the guys have hit on me in ways that i didnt even know were appropriate. and i was alittle turned off because each time the guys tried to convince me that out cultures were similar when i know its not. i think naija men who date carribbean women, date thenm because of the whole white biracial issue. u know black men not being able to handle being black. see a lot of the guys i met in teh west indies were mostly either biracial or really lite, adn i dont fancy that so tha twas a might strike, now yes the guys are hot and the girl look nice and as for bodies, puhh lease on this planet i still say GHANIAN GIRLS have hte best bodies full stop no more arguments.

the cultures are different and i know guys that have dated carribbean girls and later on realized that it was a wrong idea. look to each his own do what ever u want, but i hva been to so many places, and the only thing abou thte carribbean tha tis similar to ngieria is the environment in some vilages and the fact that ther are still some dark skinned people there, the guys though sexy lack, ambitiion and i find rather boring. so regardless of who a man is attracted to or dates a dawg will be a dawg, whether he dates tyra or halle.

i think when nigeriamn boys say i love u, they actually mean i like u, kind of like the word flirt. nigerians use it to mean slut, why in reality the word flirt actually means a seductive woman who uses her sex appeal to exploit men. she doesnt have sex with them but toys with them. so the next time a nigerian boys says i love ya tots, he actually means ur kinda cute and would like to date ya.

well i disagree with most of u all, i have been in hte US for almost 11 years now, and i go home often, and i still feel that the US is better than nigeria, dont get me wrong, the food, parties and environemtn is ten times better in naija, but what type of future can one have in nigeria, where by u stya in school for 7 years for a 4 year course, or u are educated and cant even work, worse some idiot is just waiting to shoot u or throw juju on u because of jealousy, due ot the fact because they cant achieve what u have. look home is home i know that, that is why i go home to chill see family, but what will nigeria offer me, just to end up with soem fat ugly rich man, who thinks he is God's gift to women because i cant get paid properly as a professional. i respect my self too much for that nonsense, so i give america two thumbs up and nigeria only one thumb up. there has to be some mighty improvements before i even consider living permanently in naija.

see i know some people who live in hte US and hate it becuase they are not successfull or things are hard, but yet they keep bringing thier family to the US. go figure. look for any true bred nigerian overseas will never be home, but it beats the crap people have to deal wiht in nigeria anyday.

he is the perfect man (john legend)

ciaralover

clearly u must have a bolt loose in ur head, all u pedaphiles wha thte hell is wrong with u people, do u konw how old rihana is and frankly rihanna is no match to beyonce, rihanna migh tbe pretty, but her body is nothing compared to beyonce nad let us not even talk about voice, beyonce is a goddess when it comes to voice, i saw rihanna before she became really famouse and trust me, she has nothing on beyonce. so guys stop this bullshit by the way rihanna is a kid and it is very sssssssssiiiiiiiiiiicccccccccccccckkkkkkk the way u fools keep on and on about rihanna and beyonce and useless jay-z like he is even worth fighting for. u people think u are in nigeria where by a 30 year old man is married to a 12 year old, unlike those useless nigerians jayz is smarter than that, u guy smake me sick especially the females

hey are there any zouk lovers who leave in atlanta, ga, moved here a couple of months ago, im in school now so i am never around and when i do get back it gets pretty boring, with all the studying i do sometimes, so i googled in some clubs and found out that there is a zouk club in atlanta, but my friends and family are not too crazy about zouk like i am, so if any one is atl and loves zouk as much as i do, contact moi.

now bodxie

at 30 i dont think u should even be asking that question ok. u know very very well that u shouldnt keep them whether or not u have a gazillion chiquitos or not do ya hear me. so throw away that little black book or donate it to some of ur guy friends who are less shall i say lucky. since they arent married yet.