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brother white lexi

i agree to some level taht naija babes arent romantic, see when i was in niger i though oh its s nigerian thing, bu ti came to the states i saw a lot of naija babes that werent romantic either. bu tu know what i realized, the guys were not trying at all, they never made effort so i guess the babes didnt bother with it.  now i know i am different, but see romance is not about how much money u have, it boils down to creativity, the more creative u are the easier romance is, so to all the ladies out there, it wouldnt hurt to try a little, and to the brothers, why the heck should they even bother if u guys cant differenciate between, carnations and tulips.  its a lost case whitelexi, from my experience it seems the only thing nigerian brothers know how to do is throw money at u, evey thing is about money, buy, buy, buy come on fellas, we need more than that.

whitelexii


take that back take that back take that back take that back, im sulking right now. u know for a fact naija babes are nto like that

eh ya i completely understhad what u are going through, either hte guys in nigeria dont meet the standards or the boys in the us are just not intriguing enough. everyone haas their many reasons for why they wanwt to date who they want to date or marry, but though i am young i would advise u to just look for the qualities that matter to u. try and find someone that grew up in the sam family background as ur self, and values, regardless of whether or not they came from nigeria or have grown up in the US. take care ok and Good luck.

so none of u bothered to ask this human being what the heck is going on, y is she being threatened, do they not approve of u

and if for some absurd reason u get caught, u didnt get this kind of advice from moi

hormone replace ment pills

they are the rave now in domestic violence homes, u pop two tablets of estrogen in his ewedu every day for a month, and i promise u he will become a bonafied sisieko.

err no money back guaranteed
sideeffects include, headaches, lower voice, swelling of breast, exccessive emotions and crying, increased cardiovascular disease, and thrombosis, which could cause a pulmonary embolis, but it takes awhile before that would happen so go have fun sweety and remember an estrogen loaded boyfriend, is a happy one.

oracle, i guess when u get married, ur wife should cheat on u

look humans are funny, there is nothing more invigorating than something new such as
err a married man
a younger girl
ur friends younger sis
ur older brother's friend
a young female student
and an older teacher

its taboo and people like hte thrill of it. girls who go for married men, apart from the money issue, they assume that the men will be sensitive and passionate to them as they are to their wives. and that is y girls dig that. i mean if u look at some of these chicks dating married men they dont look so hot the wives look a million times better, but clearly to a mans privates it doesnt matter, HE ALREADY HAS THE TROPHY AT HOME. so girls keep messing with married men, and single u will always remain, if i were in u girls' shoes i would even be scared to get married, because of the dirt i did in the past. so keep it uo ok chiquitos, i mean afterall wives need target practice.

well my older brother who i love to death told me this

there is no money for anyone who fails school.

right before handing me my school fees ( talk about motivation)

rottweirler

what the heck do u want her to do?

see tha tis what happens when u men run home to marry a girl and she fakes to u guys u guys wont even know then boom ur hooked and u cant do anythin all because u thought the city girls were soo bad just because what tehy did they did it out in the open. look what has happened ot him is bad judgemet, and the girl is a fool, fo rnot tellin ghim earlier before they got married,

i think he deserves it he probably screwed some chick over to marry this one and now look at what happened. men u guys never learn, any way tell him sorry sha

well since im in the US, when i divorce im taking everything and i mean everything, and if i decide not to divorce, maybe because of love or something, she will regret ever sleeping with him, o i would treat the babe wiht teh upmost respect, but that kid will grow up knowing wha tshe did, and that is disgrace enough, so would the whole world.

loretta biko first of all remove ur email because if ur friend comes on this website and sees it are tory will wowo.

secondly yeah ur friend is an idiot, but hey if she's having fun then that's are business.

thirdly pray for her becaues u cant stop her and advice her to leave the nonsense out of her house, its desecrating a sacred place.

fourth, is her husband cheating on her as well, because if he is then the problem is a lot worse than u thought.

last but not least, if all else fails tell her u heard tha ther new boy toy has chlamydia, u saw him coming out of an std clinic, that might freak her out enough to stop.

and if she still doesnt stop, go buy a nice out fit to wear to the divorce party, because does are always the best

hmmm, i'll marry the man i love that proposes to me. and from experience guys looks are not enough to keep me interested.

i believe God knew i was going to get in trouble so much that he gave me my own free psychiatrist

im a twin and my lil sis and bro are twins, double trouble baby

what did u see ur boyfriend opening a door for a lady, and then he lied and said that the door was spoilt, well guys do it to impress the ladies, if her dress is too tight or too big, on special occasions, and yes if the door is jammed

but its something everyman should do for a lady whether or not thy are interested in her, soemting a lot of men especially nigerian men dont do

hahahahahah in whose house, not my fathers'

eh ya dear im soo sorry but biko let me tell u something i finally realized

see when i came to the US, i noticed that the ages which men and women married here were quit close, as opposed to nigeria where a man is almost 20 years older. after thinking true nad true i realized that because of hte hardships in nigeria, young women will always marry older men, they are more stable financially and can support a family. what ur girlfriend is going through is absolutely normal, she loves u trust me, but she cnat wait forever, because o fhow unstable nigeria is u never know, imagine if two yeears from now u got a wonderful job, u folks might even pressur eu into taking a younger wife, not that she will be better or prettier but she will be YOUNGER, its a fact, in the olden days financial problems brought us to give away our young daughters to older richer men, and it is somehting that has passed down from generation to generation, and it sucks because once in a while a relationship like yours comes around and is destroyed because o fhard ship. she probably told u her love is 50/50 becaus she is tryign to let u down slowly,, it seems she has already made her decision, so please u might have to let her go, like i said woman's intuition tells me she still loves u but in life u want no regrets, and as a woman in nigeria, they regret alot. so take care ok goodluck and when u are successful marry a woman who deserves a man like u, not some silly young girl wh odoesnt even know how hard u worked and what u sacrificed to get there, see am 21 and im a second year med student and sometimes these older guys approach me in that manner, u know she's young im a successful man, y will she say no, but i do, because it is depressing to see what our culture is like. mind u i have friends who will jump on them in a herat beat, but everyones experiences are different, so take care, and i fu have to let her go do, when ur own time comes make the right one for u ok. peace bro

how about marry the woman that has the same values as u do, the same upbringing such as fear of God, humility, determination, hard work. eh. it might be hard to find a none nigerian who will fit that description but guess what there are also a million nigerian girls who dont fit it either and they might even be ur neighbors, marriage is a very very very serious matter, and i know that there are wonderful nigerian babes in london, so take ur time and make the right decision ok. and if u honestly feel that u cant make it in london, then go home and please plaease please marry a girl of your choice for the right reasons. Good luck bro

hey prettysly

im not married, im still in school, and since i was fifteen married men have been hitting on me both in nigeria, the US, and trust me the day my future husband cheats, when im done wiht the chick, i'll handle him (hey u might see me on tv wiht a huge diamond ring  ) depressing as that sounds.  but u know what it has nothing to do with their wife naggin, because trust me boyfriends and husbands nag too.  men cheat not all men but a lot of them, the only thing that marriage those is change the reasons for why they cheat.  both men and women are to blame for such nonsensities, if i was married i could easily cheat on my husband if i wanted too, but its a mistake that i choose not to make, and yes there are fools who constantly keep throwing themselves at other women's husbands and that is sooo sad, that is y u deal with the lady before u jump on the man.  and i find it hard to believe that women in nigeria cant tell a married man from a single guy,  men arent that slick, u have to be observant before some man's wife beats the living spirit out of ya.  so to the girl that started this forum keep it up, we need more girls like u and I, dont degrade urself because if ur beautiful and guys want u, chances are u will marry a handsome man, who girls will chase easily, and boy karma can be a bitch if u took ur privilege too far.

prettysly

are u married, because tha tis the dumbest thing i have ever heard and coming from a chick, that is quite lame, what the heck do u mean by stop nagging your husband. do sons go out and find new mothers because their mothers nag at them everyday no, even when they are marreid with children they still respect their mothers when they nag them about treating their wives properly. look here some men are fools, they just are, i personally know some guys who will die before they cheat and that is how they feel. so sweety before u start giving such excuses think hard oh because wiht that kind of attitude, all women will sit at home, let their husbands beat the living hell out of them, use hte money to buy benz instead of saving for their childrens funds, and when he goes out she will assume that he wont cheat because she didnt nag. i wont live in that kind of life, trust me cheating is more than nagging if not women would have figured out how to prevent those USELESS MEN from doing it a long time ago.

women should wear what ever they want, if u like act a fool, that is when u will get a huge slap on ur face, or worse some mace in ur eyes so BACK OFF

disney i completely agree with u on that, some nad i emphasizeon some nigerina men here are completely useles. i wish they would go back home and bring the better ones to the states. and as for lonely hahahahah for every nigerian guy that hits on me there are 4 non- ngierians guys that do, so trust me we have options, here in medical school all the ngierian girls are dating white guys and guess what they will marry them and will never loose sleep on whether or not they gave some useles man a chance.

wow u can sue some one in nigeria i didnt know that

u fools

if u guys actually look closely, she has a pretty face, nice breats and nice legs, yes her fashion sense may not be up to par and she has a bit of a tummy but she doesnt look as bad as u guys make her out to seem, she has very pretty lips, thats my opinion.

layi and goodguy

clearly u too guys arent getting these soo called skimpy dressed babes to even pay attentino to ur asses. look when u are young u have a beautiful body, flaunt it classily, yeah some people might wear skimpy outfits but that doesnt make them a slut no way, and im sure u two know that because u have tried talking to these babes and they dissed ur ass. clothes are clothes mon and to judge a chick by what she wears is a dangerous way to think especiially in a place like nigeria, where the devils are ht eones u see in church every sunday. and u have nooooooooooooooooooooo idea what the hell the girl does. so boys keep proving me right that naija men indeed are fool by making such foolish comments puhlease.

exu yes i agree im in medical school, they are cute and i emphasze on some, and they get soooooooooooo jealous, when u wear something hot and their guys are checking u out they get soo feisty for no freaking reason, like we want their men puuuhhhlease, but the once with big boobs always tend to have big guts to go with it, even the skinny ones, plus they dont age well at all. i will give htem credit that they dress very well though, regardless of how money hungry they are

haha diddy

i have been to puerto rico and i was nto even taht impressed by the girls or the guys, yes they have nice features but once u get over that they are not all that, the prettiest women i have seen are still black
plus its kind of hard to tell in south america they revolutionized plastic surgery, from boob, lip enhancement, cheek enhancement, butt enhance ment, liposuction and all that FFFFFFFFFFFRRRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAKKKKKKKKKKING MAKE UP. the only thing is that they are small and wear tight clothes. and the guys are just too damn forward, and not even cute like tyrese of john legend to pull off such aggressiveness