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Increase your warm water intake and exercise a lot. When next you wana do it, let her be on top for now

@ Op, you must come and tell us all the end of this story that is: the measurements you take after the all scenario, for us to learn from the script.

If it's real u are indeed a cheat before now, this one is just happening right in your house, is something you do before now.

The truth is: all men tend to cheat, the only reason why u won't is the respect you've for your wife and that is directly proportional to how good she is to you and your family. If truly she is as nice as you claimed she was, then I see no reason you will fall for the trap. Best friend of my girl back then in school as tried something similar, but I don't fall... Imaging sleeping together with a girl with just a pant and bra on same bed and nothing happened. Is cos of the respect I had for my girl that why I don't touch her. I told her after they both separated from school she was so surprised and later told me what her friend said that how she wish I was her boyfriend and my girlfriend his her own boyfriend girl, so it was deliberate, her decision of having an affairs with me. After refusing her offer, she herself stays kilometers from me but I know she will still be surprised that my girl didn't changed to her after the incident and is because I didn't tell her.

We men are not same I repeat, if you have self respect you won't fall for such trap I repeat...

Spontaneous007:
For three consecutive years I wrote waec and failed, neco failed, gce failed, nabteb failed...

I kan tire for life.
My dad told me my case wasnt normal that I should go for deliverance.
I went for deliverance, pastor told me that I should go and learn work. I learnt barbing but anytime I Barb customer hair my face use to swell up immediately due to the beating I'd receive after barbing the hair.

I stopped barbing and went to do normal hustle.
It was nothing to write home about. The betshop I worked was a dungeon for me. If I no short 5k today, I go break television or make me and customer fight. I was later sent off at the end of the month with 2500 after debt upon debt.

I was determined to go back to school so I registered for Waec again and jamb too.
Waec wrecked me, likewise did jamb jamb me.

After like two years Sha.. I thank God for life that i am now in unilag selling popcorn for students...

Congratulations bro, last last you made it to Unilag, anyway na way. Just form a popcorn Union so you can be PUG president in stead of SUG all na dream come through

Op, is so painful what happened, just take it cos you can't undo it. The mistake you made was not seeking advice before it got to this. When u sex a lady 5 to 6 times, just believe the 7th one is beckoning unwanted pregnancy cos you won't care to taste it row.
The mistake you did was sending her the money and not following her to the hospital when you knew the amount she demanded for initially was to high, you should know she wants to take the money to take care of herself not for the purpose you sent it for.
My advice: never hide this for your girl (the truth might make or mare you) and NEVER try consider marrying Lola, she will CHEAT again and again. Prepare you mind for break up cos girls like urs never cheat and feel robbed when you do same.
I learnt this from an uncle: Blessed are those who do not expect, because they will never be disappointed. Your girl MIGHT forgive you (some may give her reasons to forgive you, for telling her the truth), but it will take years and patient to build the trust you just destroyed.
Finally, thank God this happened now, cos you would've done this in your marriage and that might cost you your home. Learn from your mistake bro... The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom, this won't have happened if you fear Him.

teejoyz:
I was once a contract staff in fbn for 5yrs and I understand their policy.the problem with our people is that once they get the job,they will feel relaxed Thinking they ve arrived and started living fake life and hoping for a miraculous conversion.well during my first yr I started writing ICAN exams,though it was not easy to be reading and coping with the job pressure,even it got to a stage that my manager threatened to sack me due to his envy,even some of my co contract staff were fighting me due to their bad belle stuff too ,but with God on my side I remain focused.At last I became a chartered accountant and I got a better offer and left the bank this year

Just thank God yours workout. I know of people that were laid off in same bank who started with OND upgraded themselves to master level, graduated with good grade but were later affected cos a better offer wasn't coming forth before this happened.
Have this in mind, in respective of how nice your new offer may look, you're still a slave in as much you're under someone's payroll. So don't blame others when things seems good for u, they may be doing better than you. They're free now remember is Never to Late for those that were affected. In the school of life, they are ahead of you because they're facing reality now

bkool7:
How are you sure the man even alerted her?

Trust me, he did. For the three other's wife to accelerate to thin air, it was a well planned deal. If it were police officers, they would have done it more perfectly, cos they've been a well developed scammer from Eden.

GloShare:
They didn't.
This woman did not leave on time as instructed. The other men's wives left immediately.

Bro, u get brain. She is the indecision type, probably she may want to consult her spiritual Father before following a simple instruction. I only pity the kids.

Nigeria my country!

daddytime:
Hmmm

Very rigid situation.

There's nothing you can do to reignite the spark In some women when they have decided to turn off the switch trust me.

I'd advise you just cable your line and find a fuckmate around you for relief.

By the time she sees you no longer ask her for sex, her body go phone her.

Don't allow some kids here destroyed the home you've built for years, some are just tools of home destruction. You case is order way round for me, my wife is the one that ask more than I do these days though, I work in same city with her. Sex is all about mode and I don't have any side chick. Beside, you may be the one satisfying yourself by not allowing her to come whenever you guy have it. The are books that will teach you how to ignite your romance life.
Mind you, initially my wife don't like it before I bought books online to mode her, now me don't fancy it now. Sex drive is directly proportional to your challenges, take your time to find out her present challenges.
Don't try to go against your will, it hurts and destroys beyond repair if date those devils chicks out there.

Good day guys,

How can one know the date of birth DOB used as a direct entry DE student because is not showing on the admission letter like that if Jambite, mean those that stated from 100 level.

Thank you.

lefulefu:
wetin we no go hear for nl again.so masturbation dey attract spirit wives .is it dat the spirit wives love peeping at d person masturbating or wat? cc offpoint1 and dingbang

Guy! Listening to wise men advise. Masturbation can stop you from having babies, a friend is facing that now. So the earlier he stops the better for him

That is why I can never send my child to boarding school, most times it can lead to destruction of child destiny.

OP, I will blame this on you. You fell for outer look before you married her. That is why I never wooed a lady in church before I got married because I knew I was fake then mean spiritually though a quite type. Wide girls are more in churches if u no shine your eye u might be a victim.

The first thing I look before I got married was the circle of my wife mean people she calls friend I discovered she is not a friend type like me.

3 things might be the cause of her sudden change:

1. Her spiritual life is sharking, yours has long time ago because you should have seeing this coming if not.

2. Being influenced by friends, which you need to work on asap before it gets to late.

3. You don't appreciate her when she put on that ones you cherish now an outsider is cherishing her new look better...

Solution:

1. Pray, pray and pray.

2. Fill that vacuum. Be her closest friend, talk n joke like baby with her...

3. Appreciate her more... Even when her dressing isn't that OK not indecent dress o, mean when she dresses good but not 100% as u like her to look; this will give her confidence when she steps out and no one can influence her with their own dress

4. Lastly, be a man! Stand on your words you own her, mean all of her if you guys have married legally and always correct her in love though, you may apply force at times too but if is not working take it slowly.

I feel for you bro cos I'm just like you, we don't want to offend people and few can do same to us because we put people's convenience over ours meanwhile, bible says love your neighbour as yourself not more than yourself.

I got better after I married because my wife taught me a lot as she sees things before it happens so sensitive and psychologically oriented, I don't joke with her advice.

My advice, get prepared, that naughty guy called friend will come again uninformed trust me this time since you don't define the reason why u don't want him in your house and how you value privacy. Such guys don't send, he knows is just using you and he knows is for a while.

On that business, I will advice not to go for it or do your own findings, not from him cos I'm very sure is hiding the truth from you.

.[/quote]OP, trust me you need to check yourself, in marriage, women are more faithful and for them to brake this fact, the man must have missed some thing out. When a lady cheats, is very hard to turn back trust me, she is blind and deaf to reality of her loosing her home just on a good sex. Don't involve anybody, if you will let it be her family once your family knows, hmm... Not she will do that will clean that stigma.

To you the wife, you're a fool... for cheating on your husband. You've disrespect yourself. Mind you, everybody in your office knows how cheap you're I work in a bank and knows how guys talk on such issue. You better safe your marriage cos the guy can never marry you if ur husband divorces you and you'll not know the implication now until it happens and you'll surely regret this even if you quite but the early you do the better

I know of a friend too that have a odour cleaning dick in fact, he is a specialist in cleaning vaginal.
He can be of help.

Worry less bro, you're in already and the only thing you should think of is how to step out of this cos u've done a mistake in ur choice of course chosen earlier. Solutions:
1. You have identified ur weakness, work on it. In real world shy people hardly get the best placement, relate it to anything. Get me right is not a crime to be shy but not to something that we better you life.
2. Change they say is inevitable, change your circle meaning change your friends move with people to look up to not those you're better of academically. Stop being a local champ.
3. One can only succeed in Nigeria institutions if you play by the rules: attend class if u can't get note and better explanation from the regular guys or attend tutorials better than lectures some times.
4. Never compare yourself with others, manage your time. We all have 24hrs in a day, poor,rich etc.
5. God! You know why I made this last. He can't do all the above for you but can multiply your little effort.

Note: No excuse for failure because there are people we're better than yet they succeeded.

kennystones:
you can invest in sports, provide services that people dont have access to.

@Kennystones, How? elaborate this more

Hello house,

I am putting this up just to ask from great guys here with diversities of business ideas, the best business idea that can rake in reasonable amount every month and give room for expansion.

I will like to know the business one can start with a sum of N300,000. I have being searching searching seriously for a business or an idea that will give me financial freedom this year, that why i deprive myself of somethings to raise this little money.

I don't mind if it is an online business idea. Kindly note that, any idea is welcome as there is "sense" in "Nonsense"

Thank you.

God bless you bro, I'll archive this for it will be a part of story I will tell my grand children to let them know how life is.

Can anybody think a whole Dr could be begging for a waec making script just to put food on his table.

The best way to payback evil is to be kind as you did OP. I was once a Muslim and this Teblic set of Muslim are die hard once that hardly forgive if u fall to their trap.

Did you know the whole strike happens just for God to pay him back? His judgement may take years, but he pays the wicked ones their evil deed right from this world and in a hard-way.

Not what you guys are thinking, she is just protecting the rays of light so she can see the screen clearly. If you've once experienced such hit that like button.

kenlinzo:
Discovered that the guy that posted this so called topic for discussion is neither reading nor responding to any of these contributions. Why waste our precious time on somebody that is not even serious enough to respond to ppls contributions.

The guy might be an angel to one of us here, so let people give their ideas cos I myself is following like kilode... This 2018 enough of Saalarii man most get side income

LegitDiva:
Dont invest everything yet. if you are good in buying and selling then i just cleared my back to school kids and adult shoes.
you can get it at juicy wholesale price and retail, wi can offer you a deal with as low as 40k, just to test the waters and see how things go. i can assure you its very affordable and you will make good profit. reply this ONLY if you are interested pls.

im in the new year mood

my one cent

Your info bro. Hope the look here is same as the original one. I don't want to buy Phone and find FUFU in the pack

coputa:
Give your facts and figures to disprove my claims.Truth is bitter.

Good! Let me use mine as an example; whenever I go against her financial plans, ,most times i gat myself to blame. Mind you, my own woman will never do this instead she will force me to pay that 75% to the landlord instead of keeping it with her or myself.

I've come arose his in many books and it works for me as a person. When your woman knows your income, she peg her request on that and will truth you and feel free to share anything with you.

coputa:
If you want to succeed in life never tell your wife the truth about your finances,Don't take your pay slip home,burn it,don't give her your Atm pin.
Set out an average budget for the family upkeep avoid I better pass my neighbor lifestyles.
If she cannot cope,,then show her the way out.Many men had fallen into the clever schemes of women that led to their downfall and where not able to achieve any tangible thing in life..

Totally disagree with you. Only unwise man will follow this. Instead, the best way to safe depending on the kind of woman you call your wife is to let her know everything cos the manage money more than we do (only if you don't marry lied during courtship)

Who is to be blamed? Not our beloved country Nigeria, but the so called leaders that turn us all to prayer warriors when most things we prayed on are normal basic things of life.

I know there is someone somewhere watching this as well and will make them pay in hard way. The revolution is near...

Bro, my own advice is do the needful that is, all round test to be at rest. Bitter truth, "you need a deliverance asap-" either it turns out to be -ve because 85% of these babes are possessed, just one is enough to dry off sea of destiny not to talk of 180 destiny suckers you had played tenten with via SEX. Your destiny is more important bro, cos carrying an empty destiny around, is more or less a leaving dead.

Good luck and mind you is Never to Late "N2L" to open a new page of life by moving closer to God.

Address of the Shop please...