Romance › Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by kelechiodo(m): 1:07pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Drsnives: Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors. I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties. Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price? Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing. I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed
I'll appreciate lalasticlala if this topic is moved to front page for wider audience. Thanks That's normal thing. Op by tradition, the late Dad did not marry the mother and wouldn't have collected the dowry if he is alive. The bride price is paid to the mother's family. Thats the tradition. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: EU To Fund Purchase Of Weapons For Ukraine by kelechiodo(m): 10:13am On Feb 28, 2022*. Modified: 10:29am On Feb 28, 2022 |
Good. Very good. When I tell people that the amount previously quoted is to inform the world the quantities and quantities of the weapons they are sending to Ukraine and not that Ukraine would pay for it, they started arguing. Well that is it. No matter whatever happens, Putin will be the ultimate loser in this war. I've racking my brain to understand his long term goal in this war. 1. He can't govern Ukraine. 2. It is almost impossible to demilitarize a European country in this century by Force. 3. Ukrainians are very stubborn and intensely patriotic. Anyone who is bored of reading history should atleast read Fredrick Forsythe novel "The Devil's Alternative". Putin made a foolish calculation. 4. Historical, Russia has never win a war without allied forces being her allies. Without UK and USA, Russia would have been a forgotten entity either in the first world war or second. 5. Russia is ecomonically too poor to face the world and rest of Europe can exist without it. 6. Putin is not strategical at all. Why lieing to the world that you're not invading, thereby making the entire world affirms that you knew that you have no cause to invade. |
Romance › Re: Funny Story by kelechiodo(m): 1:22pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
Real life story. It remainds me of a similar experience. It's story for another day. But your advice is in order. Let her just ghost him, if possible relocate. |
Sports › Re: Ukraine: Former World Boxing Champions, Klitschko Brothers, Take Up Arms. by kelechiodo(m): 8:06am On Feb 26, 2022 |
This remaind me of Dick Tiger that fought for Biafra. Chai, the valours of our heroes past shall never be in vain. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ukrainian President Said He Doesn't Trust Us Intelligence by kelechiodo(m): 4:15pm On Feb 23, 2022 |
kponkedenge: https://twitter.com/jimsciutto/status/1496435802913583112?t=r71PVQj_QSVGbDi8doP_0w&s=19[/quote]You get enough time to argue with people who always reject facts starring at them. That's how they elect unelectable people to govern them. Some of them still justify Hitler's invasion and decimation of Chez republic because Hitler needed a breathing space. Since the beginning of this decade, Putin has been chopping off parts of his neighbors all in the name of breathing space and if not confronted seriously will eventually try to annex all parts of Eastern Europe that refused to be his puppet. |
Politics › Re: Aminu Tambuwal At Oputa Panel In 1999 (Throwback Photos) by kelechiodo(m): 8:05am On Feb 23, 2022 |
Always defending the corrupt and mighty. |
Romance › Re: One Thing You Must Not Lose On Valentine's Day by kelechiodo(m): 7:53am On Feb 14, 2022 |
Who lose virginity on the Valentine day? |
Crime › Re: How I Nearly Get Scammed By Someone that asked me for Help. by kelechiodo(m): 1:30pm On Feb 10, 2022 |
Lesson learnt |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of The 5,000 Seater Nsukka Township Stadium As It Enters Final Stage by kelechiodo(m): 5:04am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Lg jobs now taken over by the state government. |
Crime › Re: Houses Belonging To IPOB/ESN Members Set Ablaze By Nigerian Soldiers (video) by kelechiodo(m): 6:33pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Not right at all |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Trial Adjourned Till January 19, 2022 by kelechiodo(m): 11:10am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Another lockdown. Na wahoo |
Business › Re: Nigeria’s Off-Grid Solar Market Is Among The Fastest Growing In Africa by kelechiodo(m): 11:56am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Solar energy has great potential for the future. |
Family › Re: Women Flirt With My Husband & He Says Its Not A Big Deal by kelechiodo(m): 10:37am On Jan 10, 2022 |
InspiredGene: Hello,
I will be brief and straight to the point. I got married last August 2021. You're brief indeed. Your hubby should stop encouraging the flirting and respect you. His being handsome is useless excuse and you are even using that to excuse his flirting. Girls these days are desperate, whether the man is handsome or not as long as they believe you can feed them. Your husband should know that his marriage, happiness and rest of mind is at stake if this behavior continue. |
Politics › Re: Gov Ugwuanyi Hosts Ex-Enugu Lands Commissioner, Nnam by kelechiodo(m): 5:36am On Jan 02, 2022 |
OgatheTop: It's OK
Oepheus my man.
Garba Shehu of Enugu State.
Ime aga dianyi?  is the op an Nsukka man. |
Family › Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by kelechiodo(m): 11:15am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Richy4: My bro.. I have applied Full stop on this thread.. I would have answered u.. but I was clearly upsetting someone ..
You even have time for the op. People full of suspicious tendencies, conspiracy theorists. You see I once took my pregnant wife to a general hospital and met my guy who is also from nearby village as mine. When he wanted to question (clamp) her, he asked me to leave them when he perceived some uneasiness in my wife's expression. The marriage was 6 months old then. Till today, I refused to ask the doc what they discussed. I don't want to put him in difficult position of loyalty to me and his professional ethics. I know without being told that any prodding from me will make him to behave like the priest, distancing himself from me. |
Family › Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by kelechiodo(m): 10:34am On Dec 03, 2021 |
injuredman: Lol! You are done defending the indefensible just to look like a good Catholic? Yes, if I am lying or trying to paint the Catholic priesthood bad, the curse is mine. Otherwise, it is yours. Let everyone say Amen! Stop quoting me. All your words are on you and yours solely. |
Family › Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by kelechiodo(m): 9:30am On Nov 30, 2021 |
injuredman: This blind defense of our priests, and generally "men of God" is why the church is messed up with priests acting with all immunity and impunity.
If you think that I just open this thread to rubbish an institution I grew up respecting so dearly, may my friend's pain and the disarray this priest brought to his marriage be your portion soonest.
AMEN! May this your vomit and curse be your portion solely. It shall be send back to you a thousand times. It's only a bitter heart and soul that resorts to curse rather than logical explanation. |
Family › Re: Should She Confess To God Alone? by kelechiodo(m): 5:43pm On Nov 29, 2021 |
injuredman: By the way, most priests in Nigeria are in romantic relationships with multiple girls and women. I am close enough to know, but we blindly assumed our friend is different. I know the above is where you are heading. No friend or friend's wife or priest is involved. This is a fabricated story. You just want to open a thread where Catholic priests would be castigated. Continue but know that you are too insignificant to hurt the church. Thanks |
Politics › Re: Maduka Has Another Chance In Four Years If Ruling Party Fails To Deliver by kelechiodo(m): 11:40am On Nov 07, 2021 |
The op is merciless. After deceiving the man, you now want to totally bankrupt him. Please have a little conscience. |
Politics › Re: Nigerians Cry Out Over High Cost Of Cooking Gas by kelechiodo(m): 5:21am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Really getting out of hand |
Politics › Re: PDP Convention: Iyorchia Ayu Emerges PDP National Chairman by kelechiodo(m): 5:12am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Hope for the best |
Car Talk › Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by kelechiodo(m): 4:43pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
GAZZUZZ: A leak, or water is entering the combustion chamber and exiting the exhaust. thanks so much. You are right because I noticed white smoke this morning. Please what's the solution. I need to advise my mechanic. I stay in Enugu. |
Car Talk › Re: Maintenance Tips On Cars. by kelechiodo(m): 4:31pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
@gazzuzz please I've 2000 Camry. The coolant in radiator reduces always but I can't detect any leak but my mechanic asked me to change to double cell. Is that a good advice. I refill the radiator after a short distance. What else may be causing the constant shortage. |
Car Talk › Re: Port Harcourt Mall Flood: Fixing A Car That Drove Through The Water by kelechiodo(m): 4:29pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
@Mrford please I've 2000 Camry. The coolant in radiator reduces always but I can't detect any leak but my mechanic asked me to change to double cell. Is that a good advice. I refill the radiator after a short distance. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Clinton Hinote: We Are Out Of Time, China Has Caught Up by kelechiodo(m): 5:03am On Sep 21, 2021 |
obonujoker: Another food for Anti Americans.... 
America keep deceiving China....  I am telling you. That's how they collapse USSR. Mind game is one of USA potent weapons. |
Family › Re: The Betrayals From Sisters. by kelechiodo(m): 5:12am On Aug 31, 2021 |
eyinjuege: A psychiatrist won't be able to help you. You need to see a neurologist instead. Don't go and waste money seeing a psychiatrist when a neurologist is the right person to see. And save money for a lot of brain scans and brain tests @adamgeneral12 please adhere to this advice and you will be well. You had an accident which affected your brain. That brain needs to be scanned (cost #45000) to determine if there is blockage somewhere. And if there is, should be operated on to remove and within one week you will be whole again. Please this is not prophet case, it's purely medical. If you're in southeast, I'll suggest Enugu where there specialized private hospital that is very good at that. Though there charge is on high side. Scan 45000, operation 400,000 to 800,000. But note also that after scanning, they might prescribed drugs rather than operation. I wish you the best. |
Politics › Re: Masquerades Enforce Sit-At-Home Order In Nsukka Despite Suspension by kelechiodo(m): 7:40pm On Aug 30, 2021 |
farm2008: Lie from pit of hell. Is a culture mainly Igboeze south. It nt for any sit at home enforcement. STOP THE SPREAD OF FALSE INFORMATION IT KILLS A NATION Don't mind the hopeless op. The seasonal oriokpa from Obukpa in igboeze south. That's how ignorant and mischievous bloggers set up innocent people to be slaughtered by security agents. |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo, Ugwuanyi, Anglican Primate Felicitate With Catholic Bishops by kelechiodo(m): 6:38am On Aug 23, 2021 |
Welcome my Lord Bishop |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Sudan To Hand Ex-President Omar Al-bashir To ICC by kelechiodo(m): 2:20pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Wake up call |
Politics › Re: Plateau Massacre: Buhari Orders Military To Kill Illegal Weapon Holders by kelechiodo(m): 1:30pm On Aug 10, 2021 |
Illegal killing |
Sports › Re: Arjen Robben Retires From Active Football. by kelechiodo(m): 9:07pm On Jul 15, 2021 |
Legend |
Travel › Re: See The Tallest Hotel In Port Harcourt: Pictures & Video by kelechiodo(m): 6:20pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
At this age.nawaoh |