Romance › Re: All Her Friends Are Boys. Can Any Girl Explain This? by Kenfil(f): 9:04pm On Aug 30, 2017 |
Prec1ous: I still stand by my view.
A guy and a girl cannot be friends.
It is either they have a past romantic history, living in present romance or building the ground work for future romance.
Let us stop deceiving ourselves, the only relationship they can have and I will be half assured is if they are business partners.
All the girls I have dated, they all called me friends and I LOVE YOU entered into the equation from nowhere. Next, we were frolicking under the sheets, so called friend.
This is a secret, the easiest way for a guy to get a girl is to play the friendship card, along the line just change the game by adding romance, checkmate, she is yours.
If you as a girl cannot get female friends, then there is something wrong about you as a person and your attitude.
Guy also have problems and fights but the only time a guy calls a girl friend is when his game to see her pant is not in the advance stage.
Girls beware, you so-called male friends if given the chance will sleep with you without even thinking twice. Except you are transgender or have leprosy.
It is not ethical, someone will get confused along the way.
This is also a precursor to rape in some cases. The day they will gang rape you, your eyes go clear.
This is a guy's secret, we all want to sleep with that beautiful so-called friends of ours.
So girls, keep deceiving yourself.
If your best friend is a boy and he is not hitting on you then:
-You may not be as attractive as you think.
-You have a bad personality and we know guys are tolerant and pussy no dey bite.
-You are being preyed on the till you are vulnerable, he is watching till he can launch. When I don't know, a man can wait if he is certain to conquer.
- You are transgender or blocked.
You only trusted male friends are: Husband Father Brothers u Sons Just listen to urself... I prefer male friends and had lots of them before I got married.. All with zero attachments. Most of u will lose good women because u have been wired to think backwards smh |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Kenfil(f): 1:59pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Omalicha naija zobo to wash it down!!! Oya bring cups "peeples"
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Kenfil(f): 1:58pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Finally perfected my meatpie crust; am proud of myself 
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Kenfil(f): 1:56pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
Rice and stew mbosi uka 
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Kenfil(f): 11:45am On Jun 20, 2017 |
mauryn87: yummy indeed.. my kinda spaghetti.. just the way I like it.. you made it yourself? Thanks... yes, i made it myself  |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Kenfil(f): 2:22am On Jun 20, 2017 |
Chicken veg spaghetti stir fry!!! Yum
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Celebrities › Re: Sophia Momodu Hits The Club With Her Beautiful Looks (Photo+video) by Kenfil(f): 11:50am On Jun 15, 2017 |
Abeg, what does she do? As in career wise. Chai, being lazy and silly pays o so make i change my mind now lol |
Christianity Etc › Re: Couples Attending Different Churches: Word For You by Kenfil(f): 1:03pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
emmabest2000: I know one family their father a Catholic while their mother attends white chapel , they are still living together happily till date with many grandchildrens ... Thank you!!! My father is Anglican while my mum is pentecostal... they are still married. Marriage is what u make of it, if u attend d same church o and u don't work on it, e go hit rock bottom |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Shares Domestic Violence Photos, "Roseline Meurer Sleeps With Hubby" by Kenfil(f): 7:34pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
emperorchedda: If you had married that hustling young man with a bright future you may not have entered this mess
Every woman wants a ready made man that will shower you with gifts and cash, not knowing other girls will be attracted to him in other to enjoy the cash flow
No pity for you madam Yea right.. who told u that? Most of the women that hustle with u guys still get treated like shit... abeg marry who ticks all ur boxes whether rich or not |
Food › Re: Tin Milk In Nigeria Vs Tin Milk Abroad: Canada Based Nigerian Man Bemoan (photo) by Kenfil(f): 3:28pm On Feb 14, 2017 |
All this people complaining, oya drink it and tell us the taste... the one u get over here never taste like the ones we have in naija.. I will choose d original from naija over whatever I don't know they package and send here |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Gambian President-Elect, Adama Barrow Is Dead - Cbn-Tv.com by Kenfil(f): 5:29pm On Jan 04, 2017 |
This is true..it's on his Wikipedia page (assassinated on January 4, 2017).. God help that country |
Crime › Re: How I Was Set-up By My Neighbour by Kenfil(f): 9:52pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
zumarock9: Either aresst her Or u pack out. What did i say pack out. Those guys coming back is imminent. Boss run.
Gbam!!!! Was gonna tell him same.... leave immediately, lodge in a hotel and start lookingredients for another place to live ie if u value ur life
I dnt want to come bck here and read story were they die body |
Politics › Re: "Why Fatima Buhari Became 4th Wife" - The Capital by Kenfil(f): 3:10am On Nov 11, 2016 |
Eedrix: Four kids all sickle cell how possible is that??...i don't understand d crossing. That's exactly what I did once I read four SS kids...unless both couples are SS which I doubt judging by her looks. Ndi akuko ikoja |
Family › Re: Why An Igbo Man Who Marries An Igbo Woman Should Go To Jail By Cool Fm Freeze by Kenfil(f): 12:52pm On Oct 21, 2016 |
Onijagidijagan: i like ibo women but d accent and their love for money is my serious concern Do you want to know what I hate most? People that generalize.... Igbo bride price is high? Igbo girls like money? Nigerian women only love you for ur money? Gosh, am sick and tired of this...people like you should travel the world and experience other women before putting us down.... When will you people learn and stop being annoying?... Ogwu Ka oram n'onu |
Food › Re: Is Drinking Garri A Sign Of Poverty ? by Kenfil(f): 11:04pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Odiegwu... Drinking garri does not have anything to do with poverty... I drink garri to date and I won't stop .... With my groundnut and other stuffs.. Mm yummy... |
Food › Re: When You See A Man In The Market: by Kenfil(f): 7:16pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
Omonla77: Shopping of course! What else would come to my mind? ...research? and what am i doing in the market in the first place? Am i not a man?
Just yesterday, i was unable to pick my wife at home for shopping....i simply called her for the quantities of tomatoes etc. that she wants to buy and bought them on my way home after which i enjoyed a round bowl of amala and assorted fish and 'ponmo'. What is the big deal with that? Why are we making mountains out of mole hills?
Next please! Thanks for this! Our women like to make lives hard for themselves.. Tomorrow they will start complaining that hubby doesn't help out...abeg if a man that loves u want to help u out, let him help and life goes on...PS, am not talking bout the aka gum a.k.a stingy ones oo,. |
Education › Re: My Sister Result Brain And Beauty..pics by Kenfil(f): 7:00pm On Aug 08, 2016 |
Aah those days of unilot ( Loretto Special Science Adazi... Congrats to ur sis |
Family › Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Kenfil(f): 5:43am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Wow is all I can say right now... Op if am in ur shoes and I know very well that my hands are clean and did nothing bad to warrant all these, kia kia na divorce straight away o... How can u sleep with two eyes closed set? |
Family › Re: Only Ambiverts Will Understand These by Kenfil(f): 6:21pm On Jun 17, 2016 |
This is 100%... I always knew am between introvert and extrovert.. So it finally has a name  |
Family › Re: Roles In The 'nigerian' Family by Kenfil(f): 11:44am On May 13, 2016 |
Jamean: like child bearing
the roles issue ehn tire me. I feel it should just be plug and play.. with each one doing the one they are better at and be liberal too.
For instance, I grew up with my dad doing his laundry, he felt my mum had a handful already with ours, he even did a lot of the ironing too. He washed dishes when we children made it look like rocket science. He was the procurement officer majorly in the early years of their marriage even till date, he buys even soup ingredients on his way from work.
Even till I was in secondary school he would help us fetch water when it got so scarce, was our janitor and handy man. He thought us all of our assignments even though he cared less about your grade. Infact he always mixed up our classes, while my mum followed up with your seriousness at school and spiritual life
But then, he didn't know how to nurse children, combine our clothes (he actually bought canvass and baby gown for us one Christmas) or arrange the house, he only knew how to cook beans and make Coffee He thought us how to draw and farm, mum thought us how to sew.
But that didn't stop him from providing to the best of his ability. Of course mum had her specialty too, she brought to the table as well. The one you both can't do and is essential please outsource it, this thing should be less of gender. You can imagine that my little sister is responsible for maintaining our generator when I have a brother but she can't even sweep like him. Every one according to his ability.
I think couples should plan and not have unrealistic expectations. Growing up this way I will have resentments for a man who will leave you to die with everything and still bring to the table. Gbam!!! This is how it should be done... Though my parents weren't so lovey dovey but my dad didn't shy away from shopping and even cooking... Still provided and mum provided too... It didn't make him less of a man... Naija ppl should stop treating marriage like business |
Forum Games › Re: How Smart Are You ? Is This Murder Or Suicide ? by Kenfil(f): 6:58pm On Feb 25, 2016 |
viickerz: murder.. if it was suicide,the ciggerette wont be in her hands.. if a person wants to shoot their selves.. the ciggerette will fall of their hands after the shot..
the slippers will still be on her legs if she shot herself..
she is still holding the gun.. if someone shoots herself on the head and dies instsntly, the gun will fall off their hands the moment they lose conciousness.. the person in the picture is still clutching to the gun tightly.. wich doesnt make any sense..
conclusion: the murderer shot her.. put the gun in her hands and made it seem like suicide You watch too much crime movies lol... I analyzed it just d way u did ...too much crime movies no good oo lol |
Music/Radio › Re: A Finnish Singer That's In Love With Nigeria And Afro Beat. by Kenfil(f): 2:46am On Jan 30, 2016 |
omolola15: I know. That's why I won't be so furious with you. Hope you are good. Mehn it's been long ooooo. No worry I go Sama u message for fb.  Ore mi!!!! See that's y u r d best... How's the family? Mumsy, popsy and siblings? See u on fb.. |
Music/Radio › Re: A Finnish Singer That's In Love With Nigeria And Afro Beat. by Kenfil(f): 8:34pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
omolola15: Hey !!!!! Mama Ken you are here. And I've not seen you for once. Na me ooooo. Since you don run commot for Facebook na. How are you. I am fine dear... I still dey fb sha but u know how busy ur patient is.... |
Music/Radio › Re: A Finnish Singer That's In Love With Nigeria And Afro Beat. by Kenfil(f): 12:26pm On Jan 29, 2016 |
omolola15: happney65 I know you'll love this. Ore mi!!! Doc mi!!! Na u be this? |
Food › Re: Pounded Yam Preservation And Reheat Method by Kenfil(f): 11:59pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Wrap the pounded yam in a clear wrap( the one u cover ur food with before microwaving) and put it in d fridge.. When u r ready to eat, bring out from fridge, put on microwave safe plate, heat few mins, turn and repeat until u feel its hot... ... I always use spoon to just turn it before eating.... I hope this helps..... |
Celebrities › Re: AY Poses With A Pretty Lady In Bikini by Kenfil(f): 4:14pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
Is that not the girl in "she's got games"? Egwu dikwa |
Family › Re: Post Songs Play By Your Parents When Reminiscing About Growing Up As A Kid. by Kenfil(f): 4:49pm On Oct 15, 2015 |
Dad was all reggae....lucky dube, Bob Marley and other kinds.... Ub40, Brenda fassie, westlife etc... Mum was all foreign gospel... Don Moen, women of praise, and lots of them I can't remember.... It was and still a household that loves good music.... |
Family › Re: Tribute To My Lovely Parents! by Kenfil(f): 5:04am On Aug 04, 2015 |
I almost cried reading this... God will be ur strenght |
Politics › Re: Photos From Adanma Ohakim's Wedding Today In Abuja by Kenfil(f): 11:55pm On Jul 04, 2015 |
[quote author=MrCounselor post=35488895]the whole pix is confusing me, she looks cute and suddenly she looks old.. she looks dark/tan and suddenly she looks bleached/ghostly.
Congrats though.[/quo
Read it again, they said Adanma, her brother and his wife Oge.. So the lady in white is adanma and the light skinned one is her sis in law.. |
Family › Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Kenfil(f): 9:54pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
ferdimako: marriage na ur apex? Nope, it was not and still isn't. I have other stuffs going for me but I believe its one of those good stuffs that should happen in someone's life.. Get it? |
Family › Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Kenfil(f): 12:45pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
repogirl: Did I say they should sleep with them ? Wisdom ladies! Hang on to the ones with marriage potential and let other dingbats fall by the way side..... and dnt run after anyone, let them do the running after.....dnt run too far sha, so they will not loss while trying to find you.
Let me rephrase my earlier statement for some who might be slow to reason, except you have entered a serious relationship that seems to be going in the direction of the altar (confirm first o dnt assume), dnt keep all eggs in one dingbat's basket! Thank u for this statement... This is what my mum always said to me.. Do not put all ur eggs in one basket... Just keep all of em as platonic friends my dear, u will surely know d right and ready one and dats what I did till I married my husband. |
Culture › Re: Please Post Onitsha Names And Their Meanings! by Kenfil(f): 2:40am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Onowu is passing by... I greet u all umunne m |