₦airaland Forum

essenceplus:
This name always make me laugh. Goodness

Mariangeles:
Yum !

That combination can fill one up ehn....

essenceplus:
Babe is this home cooking or all this your delicacies is for a restaurant?

cococandy:
Made akara this morning after a long time. Yummy.
Eaten with soft king’s Hawaiian sweet rolls.

FloraEC:

cococandy:
Cravings. Yum

AHCB:
Iranu, abacha!.

smartmom:
Looks delish

eyinjuege:
Looks really good.

Well done everybody here, for filling our virtual tummies... This thread always makes me happy

Simplecity:
burrito dey Nigeria?

Funkyswagzz:
To be under a woman is like hell fire� I could remember how my mum treated my dad like shit just because his illness could not allow him to carry on as a lecturer.

The place I stay currently the family about me are always having issues just because the man is retired as a nepa officer and the wife keep on cursing him everyday for no good reason. She even threatened to bit him if he dear tries to touch him.

I can go on and on about how woman can be ruthless if they have the power and money over you. Just count urself dead if you find urself in such situation and not strong enough to survive

Shugah:
The first time I tried making pan cakes, i failed woefully.
Please what's your recipe? Someone else can help out with his/her recipe too.

Shugah:

Boiled corn and shawarma?

sunbestie:
Bring ur spoon.... I dey step a m down with palm wine

TaminaliaCatapa:
This has been worrisome abeg, I don’t like the idea of bringing any gf from Naija come marry, they mess up real bad.

The Naija girls wey dem born abroad sef, they ain’t any way different from foreigners wey go dey tell you to start sharing house chores 50:50 with dem. There is nothing bad if I do those chores in my own volition, but making it a duty for me is a no-no.

Reason why I cant marry white is obvious, the very immediate point I just made up there, some won’t even let you take your kids back to naija coz it’s shîthole

Please, if you are a
1. Naija married man in a foreign land
2. Didn’t marry here in naija but abroad

How did you get married and what type of woman is she.


Please we wanna learn

shoyemiayodeji:
Trust me, It's the best brand out there.. But the ones we have here in Nigeria are not as good as the ones abroad.

shoyemiayodeji:
I can see you are an Aunt Jemima fan

jasper83:
The way this generation handles the subject of marriage calls for great concern. I seldomly comment on nairaland but i had to pour my mind on this issue. I dont know how old you are but i would advise you to calm down for the sake of your overall happiness in old age. You are not smarter, more intelligent than women of old who applied wisdom in their home affairs of which you and I were products of such. Why do we love to chicken out of our problems rather than facing it squarely and win. So after toiling hard with your husband for years, the moment he cheats on you the best thing to do is to walk away? I'm not holding brief for my gender but I believe with this mentality of " he cheats, i cheat back or he cheats i'l walk away " makes the marital future of this generation so bleak.

There is an adage in Yoruba that says" this issue is your issue and you say I'm going to the farm I have no time for nonsense" my people say come back from that your farm in 100 years that your issue you avoided then, is waiting for you in the cooler. So why not address it and win. Don't allow anyone fool you to believe if you walk away there is one innocent gentle man who will not look over your shoulder, it's a rare gift to be contented with a single lady truth be told. As a middle age myself i have brought up this issue within my male folks and it will shock you the reason why some don't cheat.

1. A man that is broke need not cheat because he's setting himself up for embarrassment because it take few cash to indulge in adultery. Sometimes it even expensive depending on your status, she ain't your wife so sex is not FREE.

2. When the size of manhood is funny and its not working optimally .So why show your John Thomas to the world and become a laffing stock because if your carry 5 ladies they will all see your unclothedness , so it's safe to stick with one's wife because she can't be so daft to make my case a subject of ridicule among her friend.

3. Natural low libido.

4. Grace of God.

Two days or so the social media was agoged even up till now the divorce saga of Jeff Bezos the world wealthiest. As polished, exposed and socially upright in the eyes of the world he still engages in illicit affairs. Sister leave it or take it the two genders ain't wired the same way. The earlier you get this the better for you. Don't get me wrong, I'm not justifying cheating but this issue has refused to go way for ages so what's the matter, why kill yourself over it.

Today's women always threatening to walk away, no problem but today's guys too will be wiser by not marrying your gender legally in the long run, so many children will be raised singlehandedly by women while the males continue with there wayward lifestyles. So eventually that depression you ran way from will be staring you in the eyes while raising your kids yourself. You can't fight him since he's performing his fatherly role. As he grows old being a single cassanova he retires fully or partially womanising and woman who knows how to manage him sticks around obviously for companionship. You that left many years back, will be struggling with nature not disappoint yourself or your kids by not flirting around, why go through all that torture. Even when you decide to settle down what number are you going to be in that marriage. Please think, when the natural pressure is much you may discover you are sharing someone's husband with the rightful owner, and remember you were once a rightful owner.

My dear ladies please be calm and try to apply wisdom, it's key. There is a trend in town now of your fiance female bestie being the best man, I have two examples now of the husband sleeping with the besties after marriage. Anything that can expose your man to danger should be fought, guard your homes, don't claim to be socially correct so that society won't tag you an insecure woman. Make that marriage work, it's your home don't go for an invader, the battle must be won.

@Op please pray for husband and call up that shameless woman if need be, threaten her to reveal to her husband and colleagues the amorous affairs she is having with your man, and be ready to do it. She will fear you and adjust. God bless and protect your home.

Gracias.


Errm! All that just to make ur point? Abeg cheat if u want to, none of my business. I am glad u mentioned today's women because news flash oga, it's no longer u guys birthright to just Bleep up. We have learned the business well. I refuse to swallow a lot of shit in the name of keeping a home.
I will respect any person that knows they r nit cut out for marriage than the ones that smear d institution. Agree with me or not, this is my opinion